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If this is about hitting a lady because she tries to come out tough well havent you heard instead of hitting her just walk away? seems you dont understand ladies of nowadays married or single they act like they only know how to talk and whatever it is you say is BLshit well that still doesnt give you a reason to hit them though

Back in days when i was in secondary school the teachers tell you if you hit a girl you'll be punished severely to the point you would wish you never came to school or raised your hand on her but if a girl hits you report her and seriously nothing is done than telling her to say sorry in some cases. So you see its not today its just something you get to live with.

If she hit you, you're insulting yourself
If you hit her, you're insulting yourself and also will have yourself to blame,so why not avoid the whole hit thing?

Theres a million ways to make a lady feel sorry for what ever it is she's done than hitting her (which dont even make them feel sorry anymore)

Good enough bro,
    Loving this girl aint just the issue but are you ready to prove it over and over to her?, i also would like to know how you broke up with her, did she see you with someone else or did you just tell her it was over.

If you really love this girl like you claim then go get her no matter the cost, i'll advice you talk to her one on one and see how she reacts and answer your questions.

A girl might be mad but not really over you and it's sometimes hard to differenciate the cause of attitudes (when mad and when over you) except you're a genius or just happen to know the girl so well.

Apologise to her if you are ready to have her back but be aware she aint gon trust you like that, dout she'll even trust you like before unless you earn it.
Send friends to her have her understand you're a changed man but first you'll have to know if trully you want this girl for the right reasons.

Bottom line:
Conclude on what it is you want,send her a gift through someone close to her with some sweet words attached on how much you miss her and how you're ready to trade anything to have a feel of her lips again.

Get to meet her maybe you have a friend take her somewhere and you appear there too more like a surprise to her but a planned work between you and her friend.

Be manly about this and be ready to take whatever comes along but theres no hundred percent guarantee that you'll get this girl back and pray another dude aint there yet.
Treat her like in a new way change something about you maybe the way you talk around her or the way you see things or the way you criticise things and have her believe youre a changed man.

If the first date can end with a kiss or hug or peck dude you have your way again and be a better man aight dude change makes the world go round.
Talk to her

Well i know a player falls in love too.
And if you fall in love theres a chance of being heart-broken when the partner leaves.
And being caught in their games like having someone walk in on them well if you're a player it takes a lot more to answer that name and being careful and covering your tracks in one quality.
So a player should never get caught
havent you heard catch me if you can?

What exactly would i be looking for having my eyes open??
There was this day i had to kiss in public mehn o mehn after the lips touched  i didnt see anyone nor hear sounds nothing at all so you see its not only the eyes but the whole of you you just teleport to some imaginary island where everything is real and possible.
Come to think of it,would you even remember opening your eyes when you are having a wonderful kiss you cant trade for any thing?

No be my fault and no be your fault just the way it is.

Seperated? NO, dont think i'll want to
Children? Ahh dont even go there

Mehn mehn mehn
Another bro in tangled emotions

I really dunno what to type nor advice cos i'm having a shady picture of this.

If the problem is you being intimidated by other dudes(better looking or richer) then you have to step up your game, i tell you not-so-handsome men end up with beauties and damsels.

Break-up and make-up then break-up again then make-up is crazy!
Understand yourself and what it is you want.

But truth be told bro you berra prepare your heart for the worse cos a girl in Uni would have a whole lot of advances and ''if you never give am belle or marry am you have a higher rate of losing her even if she's a pastor's daughter''.

Get a girl by the side too someone to occupy your thoughts and share your heart,so if this relationship goes the other way you'll have something to fall back on. Try not to be so commited to the relationship whatever she decides should be fine with you.

Visit her once in a while and have her come over too but seriously you have a lot of decision-making issues to treat.

I'll also like to know do you wanna marry this girl? i mean why not let her be and find someone around you who can come over for a dinner or somfin sometime?

Just so you know break-up aint easy if you still have feelings but it takes strength to overcome.DECIDE IF YOU WANNA LEAVE----LEAVE!!!EVEN IF HER MUM COMES OVER TO TALK TO YOU OK??just decide on what you want and stand by it.

ok

Seriously i dont understand what this thread is all about someone care to clear things up?

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Oh my good Lord!! you made me laugh so hard
Ahhh i can but only imagine what the scenario was lyk eya
Thats Naija for you jare.
Money talks
Just curious :
How old were you then cos you claim 108 in your profile

I just dont gerrit mehn?

I thought you came on here searching praises,glory and stuff? but here you are wanting us to advice you on how to go about you being in love and cant forgive yourself

Need i ask you what it is you want? dont think asking you how old you are is necessary but you make me think i need to know to be able to know how matured your thinking is.

Dude you aint sure of what you want and you have alot of thinking to do.

Do you love this chic?
What is it you want? To get back with this chic?
What is it you would want us to advice you about?

Even when you know something is not right you make a thousand reasons to make it seem right.

Not getting married is one hell of a road most peeps (male or female) dont find interesting at the later stage of life.

And talking bout the reasons women need men dontchu think men can as well count the reasons they need women?

Seriously for a man you get to live a better life without restrictions (when not married) but no matter the advantages of being single,how would you feel when you grow up and your mum tells you she's not in contact with your dad because it was a one night thing and she didnt see the need of getting married? same way will it seem when you tell your kids the same story.

1minute with married couples in love you'll be jealous and wish you were that lucky, married couples in love rules anytime of the day.

If we are to face reality:
Now seriously women what do you think mehn needs you for?? i mean are you so important/indispensable?

Dontchu think it'll be a lot more better if we dont get reminded about Adultery and other financial stories??
IMO married mehn still get admirers more than married women.
what exactly is our african women becoming this days? are we to blame civilization? i just dont gerrit

If you were brought up by your mum alone would you be as satisfied as you would be when its by both parents living together? ofcourse you need a man and dont act like you're complete without HIM

And can you remind me of those who end up satisfied? ? ?
You either into booty call or a lesbo
Single women ko Unpriviledged women ni
The bible says everything God created was perfect so why try changing things from the way they ought to be?
Which means you're mum was stupid marrying your dad innit? not directed to anyone please and no insults intended am sorry for the way it might appear to you

Sorry what did you say? ? ?

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Where una de see all this babes from? ? ? ?

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I dont pick calls in the early hours of the day like 12:00--7:00am except i'm expecting it,
but hidden number oh or unsaved number so far na call no be flassh ama pick-up what pisses me off is peeps that just keep flashing
Dont mind sharing this:
Today one of dem shorties we de form am God-fearing and Dont like SXE flashed me 9times i almost receive sack letter  and my ringtone I GOT MONEY lil wayne and T pain is so loud

That can be so so annoying, i later called the babe but she just de waiste ma money she no gree talk

Why kill yourself before the court day??
Is she complaining? if he's richer would that make her love him more over you? i mean you aint begging to feed right? then you wont find it too difficult to buy her things sometime!
What if the dude is stingy towards her
All i'll tell you bout the dude is watch your back cos he might be rough if na person like me better for you because i no go fight you but peeps see things differently and he might be the type that get all physical and stuff cos a girl

All you gats do is get into her brains that she cant even write a note without seeing you or hearing your voice take her out for dinner occassionally, invite her home,call her and have her call you too, buy her things and SEND HER SWEET MESSAGES AN ANGEL FROM HEAVEN CANT RESIST!! and when you're there with her i mean maybe after the first kiss if it happens then step back abit she'll wanna know why, thats when you tell her you aint comfortable bout the other dude but until she complains enjoy yourself my bro

Zik, you dont have to relate that to my family i take that personal and as an insult!

BB,we all have habits and we all have things we must have done with some new peeps we just met that we aint proud of.

Asking for recharge card aint so bad i mean make una no de look am like one New thing.
Who go say babe never ask am for recharge card?
That doesnt give the bro reasons to use and dump haba!!

I ignore when the person aint worth it
i once needed to recharge by 11pm but couldnt go out not because i couldnt afford the highest sum of it but because my gate was locked i called someone to get me a recharge card and not less than 10mins i received it though i paidback with another card the next morning, that doesnt give the person the guts to run their mouth i mean common if you were the girl would you find it fun? havent you had issues you aint proud of?

What am saying is, dude knew what he wanted from her all along before the recharge card incidentand using that as an excuse is childish no body go sue me or crucify me if i de shag babes for the fun of it no be say because babe ask me for transport fare once

Hmmn, trying to make excuses why you used and dumped her innit?
Dude, babes requesting for recharge cards aint something new, i mean it has happened to all men,There are peeps who even pay their girls allowance so common
You want her to call you like everyday but you dont wanna recharge her phone. Not good enough for you bro
Girl ask you for N100 recharge card you de make thread for Nairaland you berra go hide your face for somewhere.
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No be new thing my guy, thats why most men wait till they have enough money in their account before going insearch of Miss right, and every dude now wants to get richer to be noticed by them fine looking shorties but seriously there are some few though that'll take you for what you are and those are referred to as wife materials!!.


You can only get the opportunity for a second date if you impressed her in the first date not necessary what you say to her but the little trips; the limo cruise, first class restaurants and mind blowing gifts!

No be new thing jare
Just do ya thing the way it comes because for every dude no matter his financial ability and economic class there's always an interested lady willing but waiting to be approached.
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