₦airaland Forum

Nicepoker:
Analyse the opposite pls.

A beg face front joor

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

Oga stop talking nonsense here, what do you mean you are having feelings for her. Bia nwoke ! You want to Bleep that small girl whom normally you supposed to be her father.

Key in yourself with self control and leave that innocent girl alone. Don't destroy your home because of your selfish desire.

Can you sex your younger sister ? If no , don't try go close to that girl if not thunder will kill you join.

Feeling kill you there.

I will slap that devil comot from eye now.

Nonexisting:
More.

Igbos have many rich cultures

Nicepoker:
You will come up with a thread on how you are planning to get those items back. (Premium tears) Las Las.

Why u de drink medicine 4 person headache?

What of if the opposite of your thought happened?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
For your mind

Nor worry

Na 500 hundred naira boxers and singlets she go give you in return.....that na if she go even buy you anything

How de tin take concern you? Amebo!!!

hotwax:
She really deserves more.

Guy you did well. You've made us proud

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

That's pregnancy brouhaha. After birth she'll get back to her sense. Just exercise more patience with her.
Oga after eating take your plate to the kitchen. Your wife is not your waitress.

Davash222:
Ask 99.7536% of Nigeria single mothers about the father of their child/ren, this is always their response.

Does it mean they are foolish or blind to open legs for irresponsible men?

When dating a single mom, always remember, her child comes first before you. Also remember, the father of the child has 100% access to her kpekus.

Godspeed to all prospective Single mothers' attendees.

Some men can be responsible while dating but can be irresponsible when issue of i am pregnant comes up.
However, a man can do anything to get woman most especially when the woman is
feeling stubborn to get and at last littered her for exhibiting pride in the first place.

For have access to the kpeku is rare to see a woman does that the a man she has seen as irresponsible.

Fahdiga:
We all know reverse is the case here. No sensible man can live with this horrible woman

Mr chief judge

chatinent:
I have a feeling Tonto would be a nice lady falling into the wrong hands.

You're right

Bola146:
Oponu who is she deceiving you better learn from this.

Learn from who ? From the man of self low esteem personality?

The adoption of *Sharia Law* in some states of the federation, contrary to the provisions of sections 10(which prohibits the adoption of any religion as a State religion) and section 38(which guarantees the freedom of thought,conscience and religion) of the 1999 constitution, has put a question mark on the supreme status of the 1999 constitution.

WHY IS THE LAW COURT SILENT ABOUT THIS

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

i hope you're Joking?

042rebel:
ESN had the support of most southeasterners until they started attacking and killing policemen.
Kanu should realize that almost all the policemen killed or injured by his boys so far are Igbos.
ESN/IPOB are fast loosing credibility and if they don't retrace their steps, it won't be long before the masses turn against them.

say no to weed

BlackfireX:
I urge the chief of staff to arrest that KANU, and jailed him , he is a terrorist




We the youths are solidly behind our Darling president

which youths? Oboy speak for yourself. U no de shame to support clubless and mediocrity?

Petyprince:
I'm out i don't chest beat. Neither i mine gullible to follow a foolish ideal. War will bring pain to Igbo people. Cause I don't understand, you want to fight war! With no army of your own! Or ESN is now an army? No experience, no plan, no strategy, you lack weapons too, you're not organised. What u want to do is suicide Oga. U can't fight war against a Government that has been existing for over 60 years. With nothing, IPOB has nothing compared to Nigerian Army

you're not a Historian. However you don't a point

istina:
In the it's the innocents that would suffer most
Those who orchestrated it are somewhere safe outside the country with their family.
The gullible ones will never use their brains.

there's no freedom gotten in a platter of gold without blood that will have values. human must be a victim of Circumstances whether home or Abroad , it doesn't matter where it happen. It will look Cowardice for you to trace your stand with the above mentality about freedom. The IPOB is asking for freedom not war. Must Nigeria Govt send soldier to orlu before there will be peace? What happen to roundtable meeting ?freedom is not a bed of roses.

I if hear say Arsenal go win de match. dey go lose or draw. No waste Ur money bet arsenal win. BP IS REAL!!

Btruth:
.......and why will I be doing that? When i don't need it.

guy you must be agent of STI. Unless u don marry

Exodora:
Is not possible

just speak for yourself. it is possible

Story for the gods

Bored

Btruth:
Why are they hiring it behind their back like a contrabands?

when last did you buy Condom in front of your mum?

Exodora:
Some guys are dirty when it comes to changing boxers but you will handly see any girl that wears pant more than a day.

what about wearing bra for one week?

Queenlovely:
why do we make a mountain out of a mole hill

kini big deal.

this is a generation of amebo and rumor mongers.

I think this generation has too much time in their hands. technology has made the world easy. if you were to go up a hill to fetch firewood, water etc walk long distance you will have zero time for reacting to every stupid thing.

That is why I moved out of an estate at Abuja, the housewives of the big men were idle gossip, what do they do?


Please stop this rubbish lifestyle. you hate it when others gossip behind your back, so why do it to others

later you come to Facebook and complain about your invisible enemies

for your mind . You never hear, give and it shall be giving onto you; You've given boxer and you shall received Pants . Tell us what you bought for him and i shall tell you what you received from him

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

if u kill yourself,U've proven the guy right but if u stay Alive he will live his life in judgement and fear. Call and ask him why he Raped u. Quickly rush to the Hospital for medical checks. Life has no Duplicates and remember u can't give or create life! So give yourself a chance of Survival it's just an Ugly exprience but it a stage to maturity. So Accept not defeat nd move on!

Thinkfree:
2:2

Liverpool wins . 3:1

Liverpool 3 man u 1

We4all:
Your brain needs reset to default settings cos it's still on factory settings.

you see, you're still thinking the same way. Pls consult T B JOSHUA for your deliverance.

We4all:
She said "no man gave me #1". In other words, she is trying to say, not one man but many contributed to building her mansion.

your head needs deliverance Bcoz your using your ass to think

Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.


She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.

Coconut head

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me. Divorce

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

Divorce if your not happy in the marriage