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Vivly: Slim or fat girls
tall or short girls
busty or assy girls
sensible or shapely girls
which do you prefer.
Una no dey tire for this kind questions?

everyday, we keep on getting complaints about several ladies that are looking for whom to marry...don't u know that severall of this factors contribute to the reason why their market is not selling?? Threads like this will educate most of u, so u can apply caution...and leave rightly so stp complaining and learn...

homesteady: I prefer make up girls! They look very hot and sexy

that's ur choice though...can u also marry a girl that makes up too much?? Aside from keeping her as a girl friend??

sexkillz: [color=#000030]My girlfriend. [/color]

lol, what happened to your girl friend?

Xactly bro...but most times I keep wondering, why majority of ladies take making up so seriously....is not as if am against their making up...bt most of em now do it to the xtent that it now makes em to look dirty and un attractive to a third party...

I adore natural girls a lot, but many times I see several ladies that make up beyond human perception..

most times it makes them get scary...but they don't jst care, i have this believe that majority of men also like natural girls or light make up girls...so my fellow guys...what your take on this: natural or make up girls, which do you prefer and what's your reason??

ms_pee: Chocolates? Poems? Flowers? For a naija girl this season?
My brother, Christmas money is the ish now.
Na flower and chocolates she go chop?

lol...can't stop laffing oo! Help me ask am ooh! Bros as far as say na naija girl...em get only one password...stop xhibiting all those love acts...e no de work again...em don upgrade but we don get the cheat; em UPGRADED VERSION: dash em plenty money....buy em the latest bb phones...buy am clothes and every other thing money can buy...u fit buy am car join sef...na wetin naija gals de like...na only oyibo gal u fit do chocolate and flower for....em CHEAT: give her the impression that u have gat the money in plenty....u know they too like to fall for wetin em sight de c, no give am moni oo...cos if she get d message she go begin build hope...then use thhat opportunity and strike....depending on what u want ooh....for me, em no deserve love oo! After u don strike...na she go de pursue u sef even when its obvious to her that u aint actually what u claimed to be...she no go let u be....even mechanics ey use this cheats and e de work wella...#myopinion...goodluck

jimi phunmmy: which is better: to marry early and stick to one di*k,or to be going about taking diffrent di*k and spreading incurable diseases?

and who told you that marriage is all about the di*k?? Even @ that...@ this present world, the married couples even see cheating as a norm now...so early marriage is not a guarantee in this century that a wife won't cheat and it still boils down to the issue @ hand...cos any lady that takes her time before indulging into marriage will have no reason to cheat, go to universities or ask those that have had the opportunity to do their service, they will tell u stories of this married women and if u take ur time to check on em you will understand that its mostly cos they dnt enjoy their marriage and theirfore sort refuge outside....so which is better?? Taking ur time to understand marriage before indulging into it?? Or rushing into it and nursing regrets later on?

nekede11: Correct man,don't mind dis op,if i shuld ask him a questn,wil he like his sista 2 marry wen she s depreciating @28-30,d gud tym 4 a lady 2 get marriad if husband comes is b/wn (18-25),b/c @ dis age bracket,there full beauty s unveil,and their body are still n compact shape, frm 26-30 na survival of d fittest,depreciating stage,but stil manageable,ladies wake up o,if u like make u deprive urself d chance of getting married early,u can marry early and stil build ur career,all depend b/w u and ur partner.if d opportunity comes early accept it o,nt wen u clock 30, u wil come here dey ask "WHY MARRIAGEABLE MEN ARE SCARSE"finally @op,if underage are scarce 4 ur area,make u go frnd overage na (sugar mummy)hahahahaha

bro am not against any person marrying when she's sure that she can cope with the challenges of marriage, have u bothered to find out why there are so many issues in maRriages this days? And have you also tried to have a flash back of how marriage used to be during the times of our parents? U would agree with me that the difference is clear, but this days young gals who are yet to secure their future will like to marry mayb cos her friend got married or some other irrelevant issues...don't quote me wrong pls...am not stopping any young girl from getting married @ any age of her choice but this is jst an avenue to let em know that there is more to marriage than their thoughts for those that are un aware of that fact!

bukatyne: Are the girls through with school?
How old are their husbands?

that's the point...I was in a clinic recently and I saw two young girls...very young girls pregnant and I learnt they where married...so it really got me wondering cos I was very certain that is either they are yet to enter the university or they jst finished secondary school..so why the rush?? @ least waiting till u are done with school is a very wise one..so that tomorrw should incase smtin happen, u never can tEll, @ Least u will be able to stand and survive than to marry @ a tender age and become a liability to ur man...for me, I don't think there's any sense in it..

Dolly-Parton:
Psychologically only?
What about financially?
A 19year old is still a teenager, who should still be pampered by her dad.
I can't imagine leaving my father's house at 19 for another man's house. With nothing to my name except my SSCE certificate. At least get a first degree or if u are learning a trade, obtain ur freedom.

I agree with you...for you as a lady to gain and maintain respect where your husband is, you must have something to show for it, times are gone when the beauty of a woman served as a major measure for men to regard ladies...this days due to the economy and d way things are, the lady must have other good additives...like being a graduate...good character and a good sense of understanding and maturity and mayb also have smtin she will be doing and not to get married and become a budden to your man...if your gat all these qualities, it will boost ya respect from ur man...

Dolly-Parton:
Who are those parents marrying off 19year olds?

And who are the men marrying them.

that's another big question that reqUires an answer...xpecially from the parents, what are their motives in marrying out their daugters early into marriage, is it for money? Fame? Or even protection?

ireneidiva: Lack of dreams.

that's xactly what I think my self...cos days are gone when ladies where outlooked in our society...now some virtous ladies with dreams in our society are doing far better than what most men can't even do..

PaulSeun89: To be secured

lol...it seems true some how but which security pass d one wey em parents go give em...@ their tender age, will you give out your daughter in marriage @ such age??

pc guru: Free Will

. Bros the maatter tire me oo...while the advanced and the more matured ladies are just there...

What's all this? girls of 19 years are getting married.. I wonder if y'all think marriage is a child's play, what's the rush all about??

Dear its a pity...bUt their are some basic facts women should get to understand, naturally men are polygamous but if a man picks u out of the whole, then u are awesome...in as much as the fact that he's married, believe me he's not happy him self to have cheated on his wife so saying you don't love him is jst what ur thoughts are generating..you just need to forgive him entirely and forget whatsoever thing. That he has done to you...still respect him, spend more time with him and maybe also read books that can encourage ur mindset...all d best

Bro we gats be realistic here...even if ur guy marries his current girl friend..one fact is sure, his happiness will never be complete...there's no need to please d current girl jst cos u are into her @ d moment...7 yrs is not 7 days...and I believe that if u can stay as good friends for that long then u will definitely fit into marriage(my thoughts though) my advice is that you tell ur guy to follow his h@, let him follow whoever that makes him happy...all the best to him!

Am not an anambra fellow but I have closely followed their election processes, starting from the whole debates to their other campaigns and I must say it has been a very awesome and educating experience so far...let me use this medium to congratulate anambrarians here as they make their choice of a governaship candidate for their state today...and in another hand I would like to make a little contribution on this issue for the wellness of Nigeria and the citizens of anambra, @ this point and stage of our life I believe so much that we have outgrown making decisions based on sentiments, if we should take a vivid look @ the score cards of our past leaders whom we elected based on sentiments of political parties and ethnic selections, u will agree with me that there has been little or no achievements from their parts...so I urge u all not to sale ur mandates, it is your power for tomorrow...vote the most credible candidate for the betterment of your state and Nigeria @ large....long live anambra state....and long live the federal republic of Nigeria!!! Once again...congrats to u all and vote wisely!

WLLNP..happy birthday bro!

didicold: D op isn't lying, tho he might be exaggeratin, its for d few fish-brained ppl dat do dat whether male or female.u already know he/she is irresponsible when they agreed to come,so whats wit ur weeping and wailing, na ur leg she take waka come? A male friend of mine on a social network site once told me how a girl travelled all d way from d southwest to abakaliki to come and spend a week @ his place and cooked wit her money so she could play house.toor,dat was her prerogative, but i later realized he was just laying d groundwork to ask me to travel dere too, i been dey mad? I am sure both parties enjoy d trip so y come online and complain.

@ didi, ur male friend used code 224 on u and u where lucky u didn't fall for that you for hear am...its not as if am bothered..after all I have had several of them locate my bearing but I have conscience and most times, it hunts me so on such occasions..I just can't help but wonder what really motivates them., cos in the actual sense its risky..even with all this gang raping and killings of gals that have gone on such adventures it seems not to be passing the message accross..bt all the same..its all good and thankgod for my dido too!..

didicold: D op isn't lying, tho he might be exaggeratin, its for d few fish-brained ppl dat do dat whether male or female.u already know he/she is irresponsible when they agreed to come,so whats wit ur weeping and wailing, na ur leg she take waka come? A male friend of mine on a social network site once told me how a girl travelled all d way from d southwest to abakaliki to come and spend a week @ his place and cooked wit her money so she could play house.toor,dat was her prerogative, but i later realized he was just laying d groundwork to ask me to travel dere too, i been dey mad? I am sure both parties enjoy d trip so y come online and complain.

@ didi, ur male friend used code 224 on u and u where lucky u didn't fall for that you for hear am...its not as if am bothered..after all I have had several of them locate my bearing but I have conscience and most times, it hunts me so on such occasions..I just can't help but wonder what really motivates them., cos in the actual sense its risky..even with all this gang raping and killings of gals that have gone on such adventures it seems not to be passing the message accross..bt all the same..its all good and thankgod for my dido too!..

These are core facts, whether u believe it or not, 95 percent of this write up is very correct...nice one OP

Dear its a pity, but this my own opinion: I think u shouldn't even be thinking of what pple will think about ur family, are their thoughts far much better than ur life and that of ur sisters? And even the life of ur dad? If she could sleep with your family doctor, then she can also plot with him to kill of you so u better act fast and get ppls thoughts off the matter, advice: go to ur extended family or even ur fathers kinsmen and inform em of what you saw..I believe they will raise a better opinion on how to handle the issue..if u leave it there...it will continue eating you up and that will do you no good...lastly prayers like som1 suggested is also a good option bt prayers without work is nothing...I wish you all the best of luck!

bestcindy: Mtcheew

lol..I was xpecting this a long time ago....its a bitter truth, whether u like it or not just accept the fact!

definitely I know she must have exploited several means to make the sister in law see reasons with her but to no avail...and one fact she should know is that no matter what ever she does or intends to do, she should keep that away from the hubby cos it will definitely cause her more harm. My advice: she should meet mayb a family pastor and relate this truth to him, mayb he could talk better of to the gal in the language she will understand and secondly mayb she should just put up an act, claim that since she doesn't wanna see reasons with you, that is better she just leav with tears in her eyes let her pretend to leav she will definitely react to those actions and again the two of them need cerious deliverance prayers cos lesbianism is spiritually inclined that's what many pppl fail to understand...u can't fight it physically alone cos with time, the urge will still come back bt with prayers, u are a sure winner...goodluck!

ochongonoko: Says who?. I know many of my friends that have travelled long distance to go 'straf' chicks. You really don't know what a guy is capable of when it comes to ladies especially if the chick is someone he wants to 'bed'

@OP, the motivations are numerous.

-money
-sex
-love
-curiosity etc

bro I agree that most times the guys might travell just to have sex and still hastely come back to their destinations bt this girls can spend as much as a week and even more, it jst bvaffles me....I agree with the motives you listed though bt again I still wonder if those motives are worth it!

Its indeed lovely xpecially in environments that understand, practice and uphold love to a very high esteem without any sentiments, in my Nigeria, its risky...cos once you start that...the ladies here are something else..they will only turn you to a habitual personnal cook..while they still go out to fetch some other guys that doesn't cook and tag those ones the real men...all things being equall...am only saying its minimal here cos of the xperience and outcomes seen from our ladies here...#myopinionthough

addictiv: Its said guys reason 4D, ladies reason 1D....guy man no fit pack bag with extra boxer's enta bus go find woman wey e neva sabi before.
..even if he does he must surely have back up...remember in uni during Valentine some girls traveled to see guys who they met online and some of dis guys did not show up leaving this girls stranded. ....most of them went home with totally different guys who they never knew from adam. Imagine if these guys were ritualists, serial killers or human traffickers...people just put thier lives in danger unnecessarily.

Btw....first commentor

lol...bro I feel u die...em 1D brain no be small oo!

striker9: Curiosity,met a lady online 2yrs ago.We had convo for a week and she was ready to come visiting,didn't allow her though,was actually playing around.But ladies get mind ooooooo,traveling long distance just to meet someone you met online.

bro ehh...I de tell u, this creatures get mind die...I have reasoned this with my hommies, though every one enjoys the adventure but on a second thought I don't think any reasonable guy would have that courage to visit a girl he has not met before to a very far distance..I keep wondering what really motivates em..they dnt even think of the negative effect that might come out of it..not even as if their is any future in majority of such dates

Pls oo! Dnt get me wrong here, I actually enjoy the adventure of having em visit me but @ the same time it gets me wondering, what really motivates you ladies to locate a man u have never met before no matter the distance without considering what the outcome might be??
Pls let's share our experience here...and ladies let us into the motives if you have any!

Life goes on bro, if she really means it..no matter how much you love her, I wouldn't advice you go back to plead with her cos this creatures are some how, once they shut their minds...its final and giving em a second chance to pity you will only hurt you the more. So focus on ur life and make out smthing good out of it also draw closer to ur creature and he will take you closer to your better half..WLLNP, happy birthday bro..njoy!