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story in summary
Boy cheats once,
Words goes round, girlfriend hears,
Boy attempts to cheat again, failed attempt
Words goes round again,
girlfriend hears but boy is upset becos ,
d mission ws impossible.

what should he do?

Dude, its obvious that you cant keep ur d, k in one place, ur story is boring and very lame but i must confess Nkechi already knows the kind of person u r. i dont think u hav resolved in your spirit to keep her as a girlfriend becos u have, u wont b hanging out wit some other girl hoping 2 take her home. u r very immature and i suggest u allow d poor girl live her life and move on to meet someone better.

roses and flowers cant help u,

@ poster, me nkor?

Debosky, i totally agreed with you.
@ poster, must ur husband 2 b here dis story sef? not necessary.

i hav dated a girl wen i ws in skool, had crazy sex wit her, months after we broke up. had a birthday like a year after, she came 4 it, met a friend of mine, i actually introduced them. they got married sometime dis year, i still go 2 visit dem cos he and i turned out to b doing some business together. i never mentioned that i hav slept wit his wife and i know she wont becos it ws in d past.

so let it go. dis i aint an issue.

Junior hw r d twins?

i dont mean 2 b rude, your story isnt a problem, its ur fear that the issue. as long as Jide isnt running his mouth, den i dont see u or dammy saying it out like ur doing now. if u guys had sex, in d past, if ur husband holds on to it then he is being very cheeky.

Dammy knew abt it, and allowed u 2 date him. my dear, move on.

marry ur husband and be happy, Jide wont achieve anything by telling anyone that he had u both.

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i dont think u shuld marry her. its 2 early 2 start tolerating things which will obviously be a major problem in ur relationship

i will suggest 2 u, ur friend frm university. reason simply is, choosing a bride's maid is a thing of d present. if ur child hood friend doesnt still share ur life wit u den i guess she should understand.

2nd october

As a frequent member of both nairaland.com and nairalist.com; i came across the thread with the topic "Do U Have The Balls, " immediately i opened it, i realised that the girl, whose picture ws displayed there is a very very good friend of mine. and the number attached to it isnt hers. i even called her 2 confirm and she disclosed to me that never did such a thing. i called the number to check and no one picked, it turns out that someone is using her picture to carry this silly act.
Please nairalanders, ignore that message, and Seun Please delete that message also on nairalist.

Thank You

@ poster, u need counseling and trust me , nairaland is the worst place to get it. text / call me 07081168733 so i can help u.

PS: u may wish to ignore

so Seun do u suggest the advert is for real or not?

all i think is, wen a guy reacts like dat den he probably has alot on his mind he needs 2 confess. there is more 2 dis story dan just d slap and d silence.

to be very honest, Ur post doesnt make sense one bit.

wat r u saying, even 12- 13 year old kids now have girlfriends and boyfriends. they know who r friend is and when d agreement extends to dating

This is more like a cry for help, the rat at which our banks are going, i dont think anyone is safe. they want to make money at all cost, blowing up there interest rate, never giving out loans, always demanding for collateral, yet they claim they are here to improve the economy, what non-sense.

Over the weekend i got a text from my bank (name withheld because i dont want my thread to be deleted) saying i should increase my minimum balance in my saving account from N1,000 (pauper's wealth) to N10,000 before the 30th of March. i said to myself, this is crazy, with the whole economic meltdown, they actually expect me to tie up my 10k with them, so if there crumble tomoro they would hav parted with my small change. NO

if i have decided to close that account, there are other banks who understand the meaning of banking and banking services.

KAI , NAIRALANDERS,

see as una finish the poor girl wey think say she go gather small supporters. i laugh!

i read her story but quite frankly every other person has said it all. wat i want to highlight is this,
its not everyone that comes to nairaland that has a degree or can express themselves in good spoken or written english. pls u guys shuld reduce this attitude of insulting people. if Seun ever reads this, i think he shuld begin to address this issue of fellow nairalanders throwing insults at people for starting up threads regardless of how dumb,irrelevant and senseless the contents of their threads may be.

Also from my experience, any girl in this country or anyother place can be fooled by a guy. some girls intentionally allow themselves to be fooled. no b u holy pass, so if she admits that she dated a married guy, please let d girl be.

My very humble contribution

honestly, if he doesnt like to be pitied then do not pity him or try to give consolation when he isnt asking 4 it. his mum is dying and there is nothing he can do, dats d reason why he is moody,regardless of ur efforts the facts still remains d woman is going 2 die.

so maintain d relationship d way it is, ask of her whenever u guys talk. make out time to go see her wit him or on ur own (if thats possible).
make alot of sexual advances towards him, give him that gift man can never refuse (BJ), dont think im vulgar, truth is all of that would distract him cos honestly thats what he needs. Distraction!

my very humble contribution

I listened to the show, good move Tosyn

Say d truth, U r responsible?

you need help!

very tru my sister, when dey come wit that intro "we need to talk" just know that u have done something wrong.

eyonigger:
Why Those He Treat Me This Way Those means plural, how many guys are treating u the wrong way then nlanders can best reply.

mr man- have studied the girl's message very well and she clearly did not make a plural statement so check your system.

jamace:
With all those ugly incidents, what further evidence do you need to know that it is over? The hand writing is very clear. If you force yourself on him to marry you, you will live in hell in his house. Just kiss him and say good bye.

My oga- u hit d nail rit on d head.

shillla:
my boyfriend is killing me, please people help me all i want is a good advice ,we had fight everyday on thing that are common but in portant to the relationship he never say things n do it.> like telling me he will cal he never n when i call and get angry he try to tell me his sorry.and the worst  is that when i cal him sometimes he try to pass my cal to his friend keep saying he loves me am confussed should i go on with the marriage

@ poster: u most definitely do not know who you are gettin involved wit and speaking frm experience, he has someone esle, u are just d girl on d side so wise up and dont dull urself.

@ OLAADEGBU : i have watched carefully as you have taken time to speak ill abt Catholics, What exactly is your problem? Did a catholic priest rape u as a child?

for the first time in a very long time i have read through every body responce to this thread!

i dont think that is entirely true!

u already know the answer, why bother 2 ask d question?