₦airaland Forum

jmichael259:
Take caution. THE BANK PEOPLE TOLD HIM. What the statement only does is state the account name and number you made a transaction to or from. A debit alert was received yes but in this kinda case it's the recipient's statement that is needed but the dumbass didn't go for that. From your words you could have been more primitive if you were in his shoes.
WHEN THE BANK DEBITS YOU AND DOESN'T REFLECT TO THE POS DO YOU EXPECT THEM TO PAY YOU?

Godwin616:
Notwithstanding, She went too far. Ordinary changing your sim card for a moment will suffice. How can you be wishing yourself dead. For wetin nah!

dragunov:
Ahe needed not to have gone yo that extent. All she needed to do is to simply get a new line and stop using the old one. I be like say the girl de watch too much movies.

ezechi24:
this old meat 19years?

hermesprogidy:
All what you mentioned is within her power to change. Even if her uncle forgives her, she may probably keep fucking around and getting knocked up. She simply changed behavior and became a Christian. Answer this, was it her uncle's forgiveness or lack of that made her a born again?

divineuk:
She went too far... it’s shouldn’t be death.

Moralgladiator:
Most Nigerian mothers are. Do you believe that most Nigerian mothers use their daughters to rob their husbands? Thereby teaching them early the love of money which they end up bringing through prostitution.

pocohantas:
I never knew I would see you make a sensible comment in my lifetime.

Blackdeewhy:
Now she will loose this JOB, loose her FRIENDS, and at last she will loose the so CALLED mother when she (mother) realized the daughter has nothing.
Let me keep quiet before I break this TABLE.

Mstick:
Irresponsible mother, for the lady to go this far only god knows the immense pressure they've put her on.

That's how they push their kids into illegal activities just to satisfy their monetary lust.

DanseMacabre:
Very sharp girl.

But she should have faked her kidnap instead and used the ransom to be catering for her leeching relatives.

SweetCunt97:
Yawns. What I'm interested is giving us light here in Benin. Since one week now we never see light

jmichael259:
U have no idea what a bank statement is nor how it works

jmichael259:
U r so illiterate! So how did it get reversed? If money enter account it can only be frozen not reversed. Everything u do with ur account will immediately show on ur statement. it only confirms that you have sent it. It is the recipient bank statement that can confirm if it arrived. INTERSWITCH DEY HANG AND BOUNCE TRANSFER ANYHOW!

GET SENSE!!!

jmichael259:
If she received the money how did the bank reverse it?
A bank transfer reverse is like bounced check it did not pay the recipient.

afribabe:
How is she a Jezebel for money she didn't receive or didn't you read the part where OP said his money was reversed?? Na wa o

jmichael259:
U send SMS, ur phone tell u sent, network charge u 4naira but after 3days the message bounce back delivery failed. You come dey blame d recipient for wetim Im Neva see. U head get nyash?

queenitee:
Now go back and read where he said the bank made a reversal. You obviously didn't finish the write up.

queenitee:
But you conveniently jumped the part where the bank reversed the money?

hermesprogidy:
What makes you presume I am an atheist? I asked you a practical question and you are reading Bible verses. And what is this nonsense about Isaac Newton and the gravitational pull of the moon? You still haven't made any point by this analogy. Every celestial body has some form of gravitational pull on each other, depending on proximity. That is why we talk about things like escape velocity etc. None of the scientists who made breakthroughs in astronomy or astrophysics travelled to space to know what they postulated. It is called observation, experimentation I.e SCIENCE. Now answer the simple question, what effect will the uncle's lack of forgiveness have on her? Will it stop her from economic progress? Will she have bad luck for the rest of her life? What exactly? If your best reply is Bible verses, then don't bother replying.

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Tallesty1:
Bank didn't fvck you up, your hot temper did.


What you do when you send money to people and they say they haven't received it yet is to send evidence of payment not ghost them. Haba, we're you on your period?

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

You are right bro, I had plenty gra gra back in Naija and I think she has psychologically programmed herself before arrival to come take her pound of flesh here. There is complete breakdown of communication with her family as they are on her side, always encouraging her to call the police on me. All they say is ''No gree for am o, he think say na Naija he dey. Show am well well, you have rights there and the govt. would support you''

hermesprogidy:
Pfft. Jog on with your Bible stuff. We are obviously on a parallel here, good luck with your beliefs. Good luck with mine. Btw despite your explanation, I still don't see any correlation between Isaac newton and the topic. Have a great life.

GodPunishBiafra:
Not good.
Seun lalasticlala, mydd44

Ezennwa:
hmm!

Nobody is above mistake, mistakes are meant to be corrected.

dominique:
She was returned to the parents that forced her into marriage in the first place?

Joemetry:
Busy body court, Mohammed married a 6 year old.
Yerima a 13 year old.
The judge of that court is obviously not a Muslim.

Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

Fortunatesoul:
Omo the aunty been they watch live porn,nah that kind thing me dey like,e dey sweet die,abeg free the aunty jare
20 year old girl is old enough to be bleeped either in the presence of any one
And she is old enough to voice him aunty
This one no be news

toffyz:
Her aunt said to her boss " you will get to know one day why men visits her"

From that statement, It's possible the victim is suffering from nymphomania.

A 20year old girl with a 2yr old child...speaks a lot about the victim.

I think the aunt has known who she is, that's why she's taking advantage of her and commercializing her unusual condition