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funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

boy ,you are 25 years. I'm way older than you. That girl is not a wife material. I can boldly say that. A girl boldly telling you to rebuke your mum in her presence is a red line... By the way I don't tolerate a girl with anger( one without control) . Sorry, I remember when I was looking for a girl to settle down.. Because of their character, I was dumping and changing them until I found a suitable one.. Though no human is perfect but at least I have peace. Please I wasnt sleeping with them and dumping. Remember my target was a good wife. So my brother, the earlier you throw that girl out better for you

buygala:
She is lucky she was not sacked...




Requesting Salary on Facebook because na Zuckerberg employ her


I wonder how a lawyer can be so daft...

During this Covid depression that people are even grateful to still have a job, this one is embarrassing herself and her employer/Government over three months Salary...This is the worst time to be insistent about salary because everyone knows everyone else including the Government is affected by the Covid induced lack of funds flow..

you need sense... That government of IMO is stupid. I believe the governor still collect his salary even in this COVID-19

Ishilove:
Na wa. It's like dem use woman do this man. The agents of his downfall are women.

you got it...

Idiots everywhere...

vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear

this your advice weigh like six months old baby

phrancys001:
Chai! Internet no get secret o!

thats right.

Beedude:
Ofcourse i do. I was only catching cruise. Case has been adjourned, he just need a surety with 500k leverage incase he jump bail.
But i still feel the woman might still be at the receiving end if care isn't taken. If the court wont separate them, then the woman should just leave.

okay

friday2011:
No mind @areafada2,

Probably he didnt know how deep the shit is.

yeah...he roped himself

Beedude:
Will the 500k be given to the wife? If NO, then the woman has been defrauded. She was beaten, and police were enriched.
She need to charge both her husband and NPF

do you even understand the law?

AreaFada2:
It depends on the jurisdiction. You will still need the lady to corroborate the story. What if she says it wasn't her hubby who beat her up and the man also withdraws the statement online? In some jurisdictions, a spouse cannot be compelled to be a witness in a case against their spouse, unless they have brought the case against own spouse.

like I said earlier ...he can't withdraw that statement.. Something that was on facebook and he also claimed to be responsible... See the case is water tight. He is in for a big trouble

adetayoonas:
The man didn't do the right thing but nobody is asking what did this woman do.

Oboy at this stage nobody go ask ooooooooo... The guy don buy market

AreaFada2:
It's the tariff legally attached to the crime. It allows bail, as the sentence is likely to be little if found guilty.

Domestic battery is only just being taken a bit seriously now. Since many legislators are likely women batterers like the senator that beat up a sex shopkeeper, our laws are way behind. Just 20 years ago many would have said "good job, show her you are the man". Judges' hands are tied.

The inlaws will soon pressure the lady to try kill the case "because of the children".

the in laws cannt do anything. Neither can the woman do anything... The evidence is in the public and the case Don become government own... Do you know what it means for government to buy case

domino4211:
If I was him,I'll pay the 500k and still beat her again.
That way the judge will realize that granting me bail was a mistake..

he does not even have the resources for bail... His total bail is #1.5million...because two sureties are to pay #500000 each.

Anneka101:
I have nothing to say but the photos of those ladies up there are slay mamas. Period!

HarunaWest(m): 8:56pm
Those chicks look like Comptroller Food...I knew that transfer was just a farce.

Cocolatti:
Bottom Power!!!

yes ooooooooo

OdefaGirl:
So quick .... those beauties are not in vain..... whatever is your interpretation is completely your opinion .
I even posted of transfer.... funny

HarunaWest(m): 8:56pm
Those chicks look like Comptroller Food...I knew that transfer was just a farce.

Hoodbilonia:
Dey have sexed diff ogas at the top

yeah

Evablizin:
I have nothing to say.... But i wish them well.

HarunaWest(m): 8:56pm
Those chicks look like Comptroller Food...I knew that transfer was just a farce.

deepwater:
lol
Nigeria police spreading them apart for the camera

wont they be cramped like sardines inside the cells thereafter?

exactly what I thought... Even bringing them to the station, they were cramped like sardines

NekkyCee:
Odiegwu really.

may be the guy rod is very big that is why she screamed


And now his ghost will always appear with a condom on

NekkyCee:
Odiegwu really.

may be the guy rod big well well that is why she screamed...


And now his ghost will always appear with a condom on

GEEBITE:
He is actually right. It is who pays the piper

okay ,thanks

hammerP:
Marriage is for children.

That is correct.

i know that P in your monikar means penis.. So in essence hammerPenis

tot:
The person you quoted is correct, it is PAYS.

He who pays the piper calls the tune:

PROVERB
the person who provides the money for something has the right to determine how it's spent.

okay.thanks

Cantonese:
He who pays the piper dictates the tune...as they say.

After people here will say Wike is wicked. Imagine sending that one to Borno with this lockdown.

Who is more wicked between Wike and the immigration?

He who "plays"

frozen70:
The essence of getting married at around thirties, is for you to be strong to shoulder the family responsibilities

As humans gets to forties, their body systems starts dwindling and they may no longer be stronger then

Some sicknesses starts coming up

You an still get there if you start now but don't fill up the house with children, just two or three children so that you can still carry on


Children these days consumes parents energy because they are hyperactive

good advice

aremuforlife:
The child was not kidnap and the mother confess she willing give the child to the couples in exchange of the cash gift. Will it be better if she poison or dump the child in a sewage. She don't want it and someone that needs it and want to take care of it has collected the child. The police should do the needful.
Something like this needs to be legalized in Nigeria, else our girls will be dumping them in the pit or sewage or been killed by quack doctors out of fear.

and then giving the useless girls a free leverage to be promiscuous right with the foolish boys going on a banging spree .

Guy don't worry.. I have been looking for who to curse. I never knew you will give me a customer... I will reach the stupid boy soon.

TheChameleon:
Your bro has been pussynotized.

For him to want to buy a 7th hand Molue as his first car.


https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/strchw.gif

Apologies to the handicapped... is he a cripple?

Thunder fire all those lying hypocrites pretending it is okay to go for a pre-menopausal woman.

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You see why females should be wary of besties

Okay.. It will be your turn soon

Enoch07:
I believe the woman 100%

her words should be investigated