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hermesprogidy:
What has Isaac Newton have to do with the conversation? How did Copernicus discover that the Earth revolves around the Sun and not vice verse like the Church believed? Answer, they used Science. Either way, it's irrelevant to this discussion. Let me ask you this, what is the consequence if her Uncle fails to forgive her and how can you prove it?

hermesprogidy:
Now you are making my point. I never wrote that she was not pained. Of course she is pained, if not why would she cry out? All I am saying is that her Uncle's forgiveness counts for nothing. Will she live with the consequences of what she has done until she dies? Probably. But she can also see her deeds as irreversible, forgive herself and move on with her life. How she handles this whole episode, depends on her and her willpower alone. In case you are missing the point, whether her uncle forgives her or not counts for nothing. I repeat it counts for nothing. In fact trying to force forgiveness from someone you have gravely wronged is plain selfishness. The only consequence of her uncle's lack of forgiveness is just personal pain and rejection, which she will have to live with. Forget the Karma nonsense.

Afamed:
REPORT OF MY INVESTIGATION INTO AN ALLEGATION OF CORRUPTION AND PUBLIC DECEIT IN THE CONDITIONAL CASH TRANSFER PROGRAM.

Earlier today, 13th April 2020, a respected member of this forum made a sensational allegation that the picture of his late Aunt from Anambra who died in December 2018 was being shared by Officials of the Conditional Cash Transfer as one of those who benefited from the disbursement of N20,000 CCT in Anambra state last week.

Considering the seriousness and sensitivity of the allegation, I launched an investigation into the matter. I promised that I will to get to the root of the matter and I have done so and I now report back to us.

First I requested the forumite to send me the picture he was referring to which he did.

Next, I went to the @HUPcct Twitter handle and confirmed that indeed that picture was there but contrary to the claim by the forumite that it was used for Anambra state, the picture was put as one of the beneficiaries from Aboh Mbaise in Imo state.

It is worthy of mention here that the same picture of the same woman has been used by certain blog sites alleging that the beneficiary (the same woman) said that after their pictures were taken with the N20,000, it was taken from them and they were given N2,000 instead.

Armed with those information and screenshots, I escalated the matter and forwarded all the materials gathered to the HUPcct through Mr Henry Ayade an official of the program. In fact he handles their official Twitter handle and uploaded the said picture(s) himself.

I had earlier explained to the forumite that the Twitter handle only uploads information sent by the state Coordinators of the program.

Mr Ayade promptly got back to me after confronting the Imo State Coordinator of the Program, Mr Joseph Odoemena with the sensational and serious allegation(s).
He said the Coordinator affirmed without prevarication that the picture was taken on Saturday at Aboh Mbaise, Imo state and that he personally forwarded it to the headquarters.

He further said he would send me the coordinator's number which he did. I called the Coordinator and presented the allegations.
He told me unequivocally that there was no mistake. That the picture in question was taken on Saturday at Aboh Mbaise, that the woman in the picture was from Aboh Mbaise and couldn't have been dead as she was one of those who received money on Saturday.

I also asked him about the allegations by some blogs (although not credible sites) that the same woman said the N20,000 was taken away from them after snapping pictures with it and they were given N2,000 instead. He said that was a wicked lie.

The Imo state Coordinator then offered to go to Aboh Mbaise to trace the woman in the picture and if and when he finds her, he will take pictures and even interview her on video. I agreed.

He went to Aboh Mbaise and indeed saw the same woman in the picture and actually did a video which he has sent to me. There is also an interview with the woman's son.

I want us to carefully watch the videos as attached and compare with the picture of the woman.

The videos are in Igbo. Therefore for the benefit of those who do not understand Igbo, I have transcribed the two videos below.

#VideoOne
WITH THE WOMAN.

Q. Where are you from?

Woman: I'm from Umuodaa in Ahiaato Aboh Mbaise.

Q: On this day, you are talking like someone who is alive. Is that correct?

Woman: Yes!! Yes!!!

Q: .. because they said you were dead .... but you are not dead. God will keep you alive in Jesus' name.

Woman: Amen!!

Q: When did you people receive that money?

Woman: It was on Saturday afternoon.

Q: How much were you given?

Woman: Twenty Thousand.

Q: Did anyone collect money from you after you were given the money?

Answer: No!!! No body!!
They gave me, I looked for a "cyclist" because I couldn't go to Afor Enyiogwugwu (market). I'm not strong. I returned to Umuwoko, Umuodaa in Ahiaato.

Q: God bless you.

Woman: Amen oo.

Q: Tell the entire world that you are alive.

Woman: The entire world, I'm alive oo. God (crying).

Q: Thank you.

#Video2
THE WOMAN'S SON:

"This is Mrs Cordelia Linus Ewurum from Umulogho, Umuodaa, Nguru, Aboh Mbaise LGA.

She's alive and healthy.

Last Saturday, she went to Choko, Umunze and collected her token, N20,000 as was given to others.

There was no problem and nobody objected that she is answering her own name or any other thing.

But all I know is she's alive and she collected the money on behalf of herself.

Thank you."

#Conclusion
From the foregoing and the videos and pictures, it is very clear, without any iota of doubt that the woman in the video is the same woman in the picture the forumite said was the picture of his late Aunt who died in December 2018.

She is from Aboh Mbaise in Imo state. She is alive and collected her N20,000 CCT money herself and the picture posted by the HUPcct and shared by many of us is correct and not a photoshop as alleged.

Also the allegation by some faceless blogs that she said they were given N2,000 after taking pictures with N20,000 is untrue and #FakeNews.

I will urge us all to always make effort to verify every information we receive and to be very sure of our facts before making any allegations.

I want to sincerely thank all of us and especially Mr Henry Ayade of HUPcct Abuja and Mr Joseph Odoemena, the Imo state Coordinator of HUPcct.

They are shining examples of what a public servant should be - diligent, upright, accountable, dedicated and swift in action.

Thank you all.

Dr Uche Diala

CalvinGaye:
Mtcheww! Already sick and tired of this kinda news.

Sit at home for 3months with the media feeding you with increasing statistics of humans dying like cockroaches everyday.

S**t is kinda depressing.

I tend to wonder what China was doing that led to the release of this powerful and devilish disease.

What kind of research coul lead to this?

What were they trying to create? A Humanoid?? or an Alien Chinese dinosaur

Now innocent humans are paying with their lives for something they completely know nothing about.

That Dirty country need to be heavily sanctioned for all these mess.


Damn!

hermesprogidy:
Pfft.. What exactly is the Uncle's forgiveness or absence of it affecting? From her account, she is living well and probably healthy. She is still young, and can birth other children. She just needs forgiveness for her piece of mind. You talk of IBB, is Maryam the first person to die of cancer? Or are other people who died of cancer paying for Karma?
What of all those Nazis that aided the death of millions of people, escaped to South America and died in old age? Where was Karma?
Stop acting like you know jack, Karma is just a psychic belief, that hasn't been proven.
The OP just needs to count her losses, forgive herself and move on.

hermesprogidy:
Crap.. A load of crap.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I empathise with you, you were busy pounding away for hours whilst destroying her va.gin.al walls in in the process thinking that were satisfying her but a 10min head session with the other man has shown her the light.

Improve your skills for the next girl.

J111333:
Hian, this is kinda getting to a different level lately.

Like play like play, the country will be divided.

misterjosh:
11 years to face trial... this country ehn na wa

Erhun10z:
11 years in prison while facing trial
What if he was found not guilty?
11 wasted already
Which kind justice system we get for this country ?

Makanakico:
Abacha never intended to use the stashed monies personally, he was advised to stash enormous cash in different central banks of the world to alleviate the effect of looming US sanctions; the US wanted to sanction Nigeria because Abacha wanted to form an alliance to form an African unified currency.
So Abacha should rather be praised because he meant well for Nigeria.
But baby-factory-land people will be here to spill non sense.

Argue with your phone.

James4bright:
Hahahaha. She knows she'd definitely get dissed, she just can't stand the pain of someone demeaning her to Genevieve.

Anyway I won see something.

Like for Burna boy and share for Davido.

Tyroonpascal:
Sorry for this but I believe their is a solution.. keep your hope alive ..u can call or chat me up 08094467959

West2019:
inbox me let me.take to privately may God. be wit.u

hermesprogidy:
Free from what exactly? She has asked for forgiveness and should move on. That her uncle forgives her or not is inconsequential. She is only guilt-tripping by seeking her uncle's forgiveness. She is her own problem. Seeking her Uncle's forgiveness is a bit selfish if you ask me. As a father, what she did is unforgivable but I do not agree that her life well being depends on her Uncle's forgiveness.

Sirjendon:
ur uncle is not ur problem, his curse did nothing harm to you, you are your problem since u have known it and it has been solve by not going back to ur old life. u re free, stop begging ur uncle it is God u need to beg since u have done that..... lobatan.

Millenniumlady:
Go let them know you're a change person so you can get you children back......Child support is not something to joke about you can build/buy a house from the cheque you'll be receiving from their dad's annually

Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.

Lionessza6:
Don't complicate your life,respect your wife & your marriage, and you shall have peace of mind. What she is suggesting does happen in some cultures, but the woman usually talks to the elders 1st,and they are the ones that will recommend her the right* sperm donor in the family. What she is doing is creepy,sneaky and suspicious. One is left to think she was lusting over you all this while,& your uncle was a deterrent . Maybe she wants a younger man to awaken her senses ,and her need for another child is just an excuse to lure you into her web of deceit. Becareful with such people.

MRAKBEE:
Their love for tight toto big past the passion of Christ..they can give up the whole wide world if u bless their lives with tight toto.. That's why some of them kill cos of 76 virigins in paradise.

They wan friction.. Fear hausa man, an average hausa man is a potential womb shifter.

Mariangeles:
Worst blow ever!

Your side of the story is even putting it mildly. Now imagine the guy comes to tell us his own side; how he felt when the woman he loves betrayed him with you

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Omar09:
Mr man, you lied. So women gets to push men to the limit and it's OK, but when that sane does react, it becomes degrading.


He does not need to apologize to his wife for any reason. Assuming he hit her for no reason, then he has to apologize for being a mad man. One thing I hate about most NL folks here is that they feel controlling anger is very easy. So as a woman she is excused when she says things to provoke her man, insensitive things at that because she's a woman but when the man reacts, he's called an animal? This is stupidity at it's level. You know, men are the sponsors of Gynocentrism and feminism.



OP didn't state whether or not she's not working. She could be working but op decided to finance his home as the man. But if @op didn't set up a business or a job for his wife, it's quite appalling.

emmaodet:
Bro sorry, there is little or nothing you can do about the situation.
Immediately a lady eyes opens to extravagant and luxurious things that are above your income, the option you have is either to bitterly cut the marriage off or you will have to go down the drain through regular nagging which will lead to high BP then to Cardiac arrest then to stroke then to grave.
I have seen this play out over and over and over and over in many marriages. Please don't let any fvcking woman pressure you to live above your income or lifestyle, it will always end in tears.
Can't she work? dem dey forbid am?
You are working for God sake.
I pity the men in this generation because the women on street right now are mostly damaged. i will urge all men to start learning how to do house chores and take care of babies/kids because from now on, marriages/relationship will keep going sour and more sour.
A neighbour of mine who isn't doing bad, working at Lafarge cement/Wapco in sagamu, driving a nice 2006 toyota camry and apartment averagely furnished was shocked when his wife whom he has 3 kids with abandoned him and the kids to follow her friend to Oman last year.
I was shocked that how will a woman have the heart to leave hubby with 3 BOYS to go to Oman, to do what? hustle? runs?
The calibers of women this generation is churning out are cold-hearted snakes, unremorseful and deadly.

LegitGirl:
You’re not a serious person. You’re not the talking type... what are you then, the beating type?

Nonsense and ingredients! Coward!

travelland:
Mr cautioner, hope you don't continue this way, if your wife can't tell you to go out and hustle I wonder who can encourage you in this life

StubbornGENIUS:
Thank Goodness the twins were released.But what if they were killed for just 50m which i know their parents can afford?

dominique:
Thank God the twins were found unharmed. Imagine your employees plotting to harm you and your family because they're broke. Poverty is bringing out the worst in a lot of people.

abobote:
How come ? when Buratai is still leading the war from front. It seems Chad are fighting the weaker side of Bokoharam, while Nigeria army are fighting the stronger side

cloud6999:
Must surely be a Bastard..


King has low sperm count

Twoclans:
Jide should please pack his bag and go to Lagos.This is not about pride it is about the figures .