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Dorcas23:
There is this guy I just recently started talking to. He's very good looking and intelligent and dresses well. He is my type and we have so many interests in common. I'm already falling in love with him but I haven't told him. I'm still trying to take it slow. I have not had sex with him yet but I want to. He told me he is in love with me and I was so excited to hear it but I hid my excitement because I'm still confused about his intentions.

The problem is that whenever I try to become vulnerable with him like texting him early in the morning to ask how his night was, he will ignore my texts for days and then call me out of the blue as if nothing happened. But other times he will call me multiple times and talk on the phone like we were dating.

Yesterday after ignoring my texts for over 24hrs he called me and said I should come over to his place. I've never been to his place before. I was already on my way when he called me to tell me that a lady visited him and she is spending the night at his place. He apologized and told me not to be offended. I acted all cool and told him some other time. He hasn't texted or called me since. I'm confused. I know we aren't dating but why would he even tell me this?

to be sincere I pity you... Really pity you... The writing is on the wall like that of Nebuchadnezzar... No need for interpretation... To burst your bubble... That guy has plenty girls at his disposal. He picks any and fvck and discharge same is coming for you... Ubunja said it all... Girls always going for the bad guys... The first time I tried understanding girls was when I was in secondary school... I very tough task for me then because of the funny behaviour I noticed then. But here I am with Ubunja's Miseducation that demystify all shades... Nonsense everywhere

Agbegbaorogboye:
If someone turns to cannibalism due to rice scarcity then such needs to face the law.
Subterfuge is not an economic idea too bro. It's all about the simple law of demand and suply

go and study extreme human nature

Zzor:
yet it's you guys that scout around looking for what and who to knack,dont deceive yourself

no be if you open am na guys go nack am... If you don't will they nack it... This is why I get angry with girls... You always abscond from taking responsibility...

Igbochief001:
I'm not saying he is not a prof ...but he has no PhD ...

for your information you can't be a professor and not be a PhD holder... It is not independent of the other...

athaboi:
Na f**ck dey hungry you

hmmmmmmm....Okokobiokor

Igbochief001:
I don't know the school u went too but that's not how it's done

I stated a fact I said it's not correct it's your job to prove its not correct ....say thank u sir for teaching u this

you are the one that may not have been to school... From time immemorial that man has been bearing that title "Professor " before he went into politics. He is a lawyer (SAN). And no one on record has ever disputed his professorship.. Now you come around to say he is not a professor but a ceremonial professor... I ask you to prove..

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

whenever I hear statement like this I always wonder how confused girls can be... Truly some of you are not logical... As guy I can never date a lady can't marry that on its own removes 50% to 60% of the confusion I would have had... Im angry by what you just put up there.. Let me tell you the good news.. That guy you are sexually attracted to will Fvck you and disappear...

Agbegbaorogboye:
Humanity is not an economic concept except you want to embrace communism. The man is darn right!!

i have made it clear.. It will come to dog eat dog.. I will mark this discussion... I hope if you find someone or some people turn to cannibalism, no one should shout

Igbochief001:
oga osibanjo has no PhD ..prove me wrong get 50k

you are the one to prove that he doesn't have? You made the allegation. You turn around to tell me to prove.. Is that intelligence?

Igbochief001:
are u asking me ?
osibanjo is a professor without PhD ...that's political professorship ....that's how corrupt he is

i laugh... And you have your facts right

Igbochief001:
osibanjo has no PhD

what is PhD? What is Professor?

dmz1:
Stop blaming farmers.Do you know what they pass through before producing these foods? you stay in your office and have a minimum wage and agitate for more by embarking on strike, but who pays farmers any salary at the end of the month? most Nigerian farmers use crude, inefficient farming methods. The weather is unpredictable, costly farming inputs, sometimes there is a glut leading to price crash. do you know the loss farmers made as a result of the dry spelll this August as many of them lost their crops? You expect food prices to remain the same while every other items price keep rising.

if you continue this way... It will come to dog eat dog... A sane society means one should be considerate in whatever you do

Felyyaks:
That's her past though

past does not work here on earth that why you need to be careful... This is why I always warn young girls.... Like the saying goes..... Internet never forget

Flier:
Foreign rice is now 27.000.Nigerians are very greedy people you can’t ban foreign product to allow them to gain market,they would increase the price and make life unbearable for their own people
Buhari need to open the border,these farmers are too greedy

i was telling someone that Nigerians are wicked.. I pointed out that banning foreign rice gives the local farmers leverage to make profit because of the vast market but not the exploitation that they are melting on the citizens.. He simply said the prices will fall... Closure of border is over a year now yet the price hasn't fall.

Arrewa:
Daily trust with their fake news again!

Please stop peddling fake news!

Rice is very affordable in Kano a friend bought bags of rice just yesterday each for N9300 for his wife tuwon shinkafa Bussiness which he used to buy not less than 10 bags for her every two weeks. How can rice become unaffordable just overnight?

This is kind of news that hit the front page within a blink of an eye.

The prize is high but still very affordable to people of Kano state!

you are very funny and delusion.. You are showing pictures. How does that translates to market price.. Those who are buying it(involved) are complaining you are blinded by your "zombiesm" in countering their statement... Nonsense everywhere

crossfm:
Sai baba.we are in this together,nobody must escape. I repeat,nobody must escape.

We die here.

35824L:
Some are more wicked and selfish than others. Especially those from the south east.

just take a look at yourself.

seunmsg:
Post the full interview and stop trying to bamboozle us with sensational headline.

You cannot bring a headline from an interview granted during the military era without posting the full details. We need to understand the context in which he made the statement.

shaaaraaapp... I condemn any nonsense from my area and region.. There shouldn't be sentiment about it... I'm from the south south... When Akpabio had a fleece with his subordinate in NDDC I was here to lambaste the foolish He-goat.. Also with James Ibori who is a known thief.. Now forgetting Adams Oshiomole whose lies is high up in heaven.. How can you tell us someone is a thief and a cultist, the useless he-goat decided to sell him to us... Is that not a big shame on his status as a father and an elder? Nonsense everywhere

Obalatule:
He didn't believe in one Nigeria until he started benefiting from one Nigeria

yes ooooooooo.. Na so we see am

mu2sa2:
OP, please quote the full excerpts of the interview for the reader to know the context in which Tinubu made the alleged statement.
One may also ask: Was he misquoted? Did he refute the report after publication?
May God continue to bless our dear native land of Nigeria and decimate her detractors.

keep quiet

He will believe now since he is benefiting just like Obasanjo who said he will die for Nigeria.. Constant allocation to him..

You can hardly find selfless leaders in Nigeria

Yus2020:
I told Nigerians they shouldn't expect anything good from Apc and Buhari government how on earth loans will be taken without the knowledge of the Rep.
Apc next level of looting,insecurity and poor economy upon the loans

no mind the rubber stamp house of representathieves

Biglittlelois:
Having discussions doesn't mean there won't be disagreement on certain things, it's obvious you want a "yes sir" kind of wife, and you will never get one 100%, this is where compromise and tolerance comes in play,

Have more kids with your present wife, try and sweet talk her to listen to you and do what you want, if you actually did this, she wouldn't be adamant to do what she wants.

let me ask a question. Must you sweet talk a wife or a woman before she does the right thing... This is where I'm different oooooo... You don't need to praise me or sweet talk as people will say before I do the necessary... To me I always feel it is for my own good and it is has really helped me in life

mariahAngel:
Not all mothers know what is best for their children and that is the truth.
You don't have it all figured out just because you pushed a baby out of your vagina. Experienced people are there to guide you if you're willing.

God bless you for this comment

SmartProf:
Very commendable donation. Innoson didn't mind that this same police were used by a certain bank to harass him based on a court case he had...on another note, if you take a look at some operational police vehicles in Nigeria, its so bad that you'll feel it is awaiting a towing van to pull it out of the road. Its our prayer that the police gets to use these vehicles for the original purpose for which it was meant for...Weldone Innoson.

a good citizen of Nigeria is covering up the naked yansh of FG .

Chibae4real:
NA WA OOOOOO

pocohantas

Mintyguy:
With this your article,my fear just heightened for a friend who went there early this year

Nigerians are very impatient when they want to do certain things.. I don't pity those that have gone there..

Lovelyn451:
Jesus!! Serial killer ke...but yorubas are seriously encouraging these evils, this one will be hoping that one day a politician will notice him and he'll start getting contracts like...assassination contract...choi! Na to japaa from that state o

politicians patronise them in that community... They do oil bunkering as well

vikithor:
Are talking of saving life cos you don't know who owns and controls life and death,hell and heaven? Get back to Sunday school,get more Word of God and understanding who the father his son,and eternal holy spirit is and the power the have.
Closing the church is satanic ploy to limit people access to the power of God,using covid 19 was a way of weakening believers' faith,CAN agreeing to shutting down Bethels I.e house of God,meant to be salvation center for all nation was antichristical.
My point on this is,if CAN felt it was good to comply with shut down order,why do they worry when another order is coming from same government,so I queried ,if its cos their church money will be scrutinized?
To me,it's a greater evil to shut or agreeing to down churches than demanding financial record compliance,to me,they CAN must obey,so we know what has been driving motives in following or serving their calling into ministry

you are ignorant... That is it. The same attitude a foolish pastor took to meet a lion in Ibadan zoo and he dearly paid for his stupidity that is exactly what you are exhibiting... Google the pastor in USA that spoke against closing churches and disobeyed... He is six feet below the earth surface... A very simple warning that Jesus Christ gave " thy shall not put thy lord to test". Funny enough He even told the devil this during His temptations.