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Abeg Free the guy járè!

Are we cursed?
Are these the best we can offer?
Okoroahausa an APC man.....the son of an Hausa woman.
Kalu an A P C man, what did he achieve during his time as Governor of Abia State.
Mama Peace...what a rubbish!!!!
Ekweremadu and Peter Obi.can be seen to be manageable.

Sick associations selecting sick minded polithieves

I smell corruption and abuse of privileges million miles away.
The Chinese government are not telling us the real truth and what they stand to gain in return.

Nigerians!.....I shake my head...we have more cow.ards than bold and rugged Citizens.

My candid advice, go wt a lawyer as ur friend and make sure d phone of d lawyer is on recording mode as you enter the office.
If you need RRS(RUTHLESS, RUGGED & SEASONED) Lawyers we can offer you.

Confirm!

wadetaw202:
Is the wife's dad still alive or dead?

Dead

eyinjuege:
Sadly, no matter how much they discussed during courtship it can never be as detailed.
People also have the freedom to change their minds, and go against whatever discussion they had during courtship. Some even blatantly lie during courtship just to get what they want.
That's why i dont bother with asking if couples didn't discuss a particular matter during courtship, because it can never be as detailed, and things/ circumstances may change.
Love may be blind, but marriage is an eye opener.

Way forward?
Where are the elders in their families? Let the man involve his people to go and pay a visit to the wife and her family. Let everyone know if there still is a marriage. I really don't expect the man to change his church, neither do i expect the woman to do so, especially if both believe doing so will lead to the damnation of their souls.
If they're still interested in the marriage, either one should relocate to where the other is, as it's obvious the distance has helped to destroy their relationship (whoever relocates depends on the nature of job e.g working from home, the pay involved, the possibility of a transfer etc).
If they cannot relocate and live together as a family, and the marriage is not salvageable, let them get a divorce then. They can arrange custody, maybe with the child being with the mother and spending holidays with the father( since they're in different states). The man however has a responsibilty to his child to provide for him/her.
It is the child's right. So that matter of not spending a farthing should never arise. Even if it's to send tins of baby food and cartons of diapers monthly, it's still something.

Good one there...

But, how do you explain a situation where the mother of the wife is clamouring for separation, urging the couple to go to Catholic father and dissolve the marriage, since according to her, it is easy for camel to pass the eye of a needle but they will never change their denomination? S

Pidgin2:
I think the lady just wanted a child from him.

Please, explain further...

Joavid:
Aporoko! how u take know the full gist

B.rat. ....you don't want to mess around with me...you better read my past posts and getthefuckoutofhere.

PaperLace:
What did they discuss during courtship?

How did they get married in the first place?


This is exactly why I asked the question. The change is too drastic, though the early years of marriage could be tough coupled with the fact that they live apart _ something about this one doesn't add up.

Well, like eyinjuege said, people change their minds and marriage is a whole new ball game. I strongly believe there should be a reason for that change of mind _something the couple are privy to, not OP (a third party).

Haha, if you talk about living apart, I laugh... a family friend just told us a couple living together in their own apartment with the mother of girl after she has delivered have dispersed because according to the husband, the mother of the wife is dictating what will happen and this guy has to out a stop to it by telling the wife that her mother must leave because he didn't marry her(wife's mother).
What happened next will shock you.... both the wife, the mother and the baby had to abandon the man and moved out of her matrimonial home.

So, my dear, living apart or staying together, whatever that will happen will happen,it all depends on the level of maturity of both parties and their corresponding parents.

We have a case at hand, a marriage of less than 18mths that is collaps ing, all in the name of the wife insistence of going against the husband's directive not to take the child for Baptism till she grows up to know the significance and the import.
She still insisted that even if she gets another baby, she will repeat thesame thing again and again.

What broke the camel's back, was on on d second visit of husband to see his wife and baby after delivery. It was a Sunday morning, husband told the wife that they are going to his church today because d husband is Pentecostal while d wife is Catholic. The response of the wife was rather shocking, she said she's not taking baby to d husband's church. And when d husband hinted d mother of her daughter's response she instantly supported her daughter.
Saying if he wants them to discuss and analyze it that they are ready. A lot of dust was raised dat day. But, the husband said he still kept his cool.

Also, to make the matter worse, the wife has directed the husband who doesn't live in the same state with here not to communicate with her on the phone, except thru text messages. This angered the man to the point of affirming that he will see if the tail is wagging d head or the head is wagging d tail. Right then, he has refused to communicate with her via text messages and whenever he calls she will not pick his calls.

Up till now, the wife stays in her family house with the child and she is staunchly supported by the mother in all her actions.
We happened to discover that they have not live in their own home together due to individual job location of the couple.

We also realized that, d husband has stopped communicating with her for over 4mth now. A close confidant of the husband hinted her that her husband silence cannot be quantified and he has refused to discuss about her with anybody.
Probably, waiting for the time to strike, either remarry and leave her with d baby, but will not divorce her thereby making her live a single mother life all through her life.
While he remarry, because the Bible didn't ask Christians not to have more than one wife.
He knows dat when the child grows up, she must surely look for him. He has refused to send a farthing for the child's welfare since the wife has used d baby as a weapon by baring him from hearing d cry or muttered sounds of his own flesh and blood, not even a single picture to see her development. For, over 6mths plus he has not seen his baby and he doesn't want to show any form of weakness, but deep inside him he dieing slowly for the wife's action.

At first, we blamed d husband for giving d wife dat freedom during their courtship that she can go to her church if she wants, but on Sundays, she must follow him to his own church.
Are we going to say, the was being too liberal , who believes on freedom of expression and not using coarsion or naive about women?

And the wife and d her mother, what do you think?

After some contacts with the wife, through her cousin, we noticed she has refused picking our calls, but we intend to make physical soon.

Any elderly advice will be appreciated here.

PLEASE ONLY ELDERLY AND MARRIED!

Teenagers and unmarried go suck your thumb!

Thanks.

majekdom2:
your keyword doesn't make any difference. I have had encounters with more wicked women than men... How about that? Don't use your experience and standards to generalise... scum is no respecter of gender, wickedness is no peculiar to any gender!

I guess you r d only one making sense here.

Misguided Nigerian youths, this is one of the things you craig for without minding what social-economic developmental talents and skills they got to offer for the real development of this contraption called Nigeria.

No wonder, most of you massively voted in a nonentity called BUHARI.

louisntonim:
can you do better than EFE***ask for God mercies...don't judge,,if not,you will face GOD

I am not in that class of those of you to that adores these types of Nigerian celebrities that can't be taken so serious when the real issues of moving this contraption called Nigeria forward either by their cerebral wealth or leadership skills.

Personally, I still don't have any iota of issues with EFE. I am just trying to redirect the minds of misguided Nigerians youths who are more carried away by the beautiful shape you possess or how well you can display your unclothedness in thr public domain or what type of shoe or handbag you are caring that can't put food on the table for the person gloating over it.

Just being real and objective. No offence.

louisntonim:
can you do better than EFE***ask for God mercies...don't judge,,if not,you will face GOD

I am not in that class of those of you to that adores these types of Nigerian celebrities that can't be taken so serious when the real issues of moving this contraption called Nigeria forward either by their cerebral wealth or leadership skills.

You can call him anything, I don't give a bleep, but what matters to me is can he engaged me in developmental,socio-political, technological, engineering, civil liberties and current world issues while seeking for solutions to the Legions of Nigerian woes?

Food for thought Mr. Minister?

Now, I know who are eating our #1bn Refreshments money.
By their size you shall know them.
Polithieves!

translux:
A won YauYau proffessor

Ogá Vice-Chancelor, I did not add dat "keep'".
It was a typo error.

Ayblaize:
See them... ITKs.. .Ya even correcting someone on what you ain't sure of.. I tire for all these ITK people.. .and dem no sabi shingbayin
it is WAKE

Oga lecturer, I did not add that "keep".
It was a typo error.

old age is disturbing this man.

ENGLISH 101:
OP/Moderator: It is not Wake Keeping
It is Wake keep.

I am surprised....what do you expect from a group of pple with no sound knowledge of issues or having any cerebral quotient to start talking like sane minds.
Rather than convert the lower money to coins, 50kobo, N1 notes shld be printed while #1000 notes shld be withdrawn from circulation and discontinued the usage.

That's what your Mosque & Hospital President has caused.

Abegggggg is Wife's wife a weight lifter?

Wan na based on logistics!

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Lawal or Oke....Rubb*sh!!!! They can't try dis rubber*sh in China. Nonsense....arrant nonsense. Unfortunately, d government of d day is busy foot-dragging on what to do. That is why d West and even smaller African countries takes us as trash.

Omó! The Bendel insurance of the defendant is working very fine.

yourexcellency:
Will you still obey him if he asks you to forget this agitation that Joe Igbokwe described as HOPELESS and SENSELESS?

What a HOPELESS & SENSELESS question is this?

habgito:
CEO of Made Men Music, Ubi Franklin slams Nigerian Police for releasing Chinese employee of Lifemate Furniture who attempted to kill him after about 5 hours in custody.

Part 5, Chapter 29 of the Criminal Code Act talks on Assaults:

351.         Any person who unlawfully assaults another is guilty of a misdemeanour, and is liable, if no greater punishment is provided, to imprisonment for one year.

352.         Any person who assaults another with intent to have carnal knowledge of him or her against the order of nature is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for fourteen years.

353.         Any person who unlawfully and indecently assaults any male person is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for three years. The offender cannot be arrested without warrant.

354.         Any person who unlawfully assaults and uses actual violence to a peace officer or any other person, while acting in the execution of his duty in or concerning the preservation of a vessel in distress, or of any vessel or goods wrecked, or stranded or lying under water, is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for seven years.

355.         Any person who unlawfully assaults another and thereby does him harm is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for three years.

356.         Any person who-

 (1)           assaults another with intent to commit a felony, or with intent to resist or prevent the lawful arrest or detention of himself or of any other person; or

 (2)           assault, resists, or wilfully obstructs a police officer while acting in the execution of his duty, or any person acting in aid of a police officer while so acting; or

 (3)           unlawfully assaults, resists, or obstructs, any person engaged in the lawful execution of any process against any property, or in making a lawful distress, while so engaged; or

 (4)           assaults, resists, or obstructs any person engaged in such lawful execution of process, or in making a lawful distress, with intent to rescue any property lawfully taken under such process or distress; or

 (5)           assaults any person on account of any act done by him in the execution of any duty imposed on him by law; or

 (6)        assaults any person in pursuance of any unlawful conspiracy respecting any manufacture, trade, business, or  occupation, or respecting any person or persons concerned or employed in any manufacture, trade, business, or occupation, or the wages of any such person or persons;

                is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for three years.

My advice to you is:
1. Sue the police for misapplication of justice and for being compromised .
2. Sue the Chinese man for assault.
3. Demand for financial damages (#500million) to treat the trauma and shock you expeienced

You will win this case, it is a clear and simple case.
If you want a RUTHLESS, RADICAL & SEASONED (RRS) Lawyer, let me know.

For the mean time have this nos:
Police PROs:

1. LAGOS STATE:
ASP JOSEPH OFFOR
08036634061
obatajoeoffor@yahoo.com,


2. ZONE 2, LAGOS
ASP OLORUNFEMI SHEM
08133224435/ 08081776378
zonpol2lagos@yahoo.com
shemolorunfemi@yahoo.com
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

The second one covers other areas more than Lagos.

Let the truth be told, if the NASS likes it or not, after 90days the President fails to show up in Nigeria OSIBANJO must be sworn in because there is no provision for Coordinator of government in our Constitution.
PMB simply didn't hand over officially.