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Wetin he dey check? Na this kind thing go make men of God stop to dey attend reception.

Was that uttered in Nigeria, America or in Nepal?

That chat is for your casual male friend. The male friends I have (those we share common dreams, challenges and aspirations with). We chat to no end literarily.

Lala247:
There are some things that should be considered bright-red flags when dating. Early stages!

1. They Don’t Make You Feel Special
If you are going to be in a relationship with someone they should make you feel special. If you aren’t being made to feel that way then it is time to re-evaluate the situation. Why waste time on a relationship that doesn’t make you feel great.

2. They Can’t Stop Talking About Someone Else
If your significant other can’t stop talking about a co-worker, a “friend”, or goes on and on about someone else they may be guilty of an emotional affair. And what may start off as an emotional affair may not be too far from a physical affair.

3. They Are Dishonest
Watch for even small warning signs of dishonesty. Do they cheat on tests or lie to get out of situations. Often times these small acts of dishonesty will spill over into your relationship too. You may find all of sudden they start to lie about where they have been or who they have been with. Trust is a big issue in a relationship and once it is gone it is tough to get back.

4. They Are Clingy
A relationship works best when two people have their own hobbies and interest apart from the ones that they share as a couple. If your partner clings to you all the time it may be time to question why they have such a strong attachment. Do they really enjoy spending time with you or do they treat you like you are on probation having to check in all the time. No relationship should alter your lifestyle or take away what is important to you.

5. They Have Explosive Anger
Watch out for someone who gets angry over nothing. It can be very telling what kind of person they are if you see them deal with a stressful situation. Do they swear, throw things, hit or yell in relatively minor situation such as dealing with lost luggage or missing a flight. If so you should be asking yourself if you want to be spending any more time with a person with those types of coping skills.

6. They Constantly Tease
Teasing can be very dangerous. At times it can be innocent and fun but if taken too far teasing is like bullying. It can be demeaning towards the other person and devalue them. If you get angry in response you will likely be targeted as not having a sense of humor.

7. They Are Secretive
If your significant other is suddenly a lot more secretive it should be a warning sign that something is up. Taking phone calls in another room, changing the computer screen when you walk in are all clues that your partner is hiding something.

8. Abuse in Any Way
Of course this seems like an obvious one but a lot of times people believe that someone will change or it will be the last time. It won’t be and it isn’t worth trying.

9. They are Selfish
If they not offer to pay while on a date , signs of a gold-digger or gigolo

10. They are Lazy
This can mean there is no ambition, no future goals or career move. These are spoilt brats and can cause problems within the relationship. E.g buy me Brazilian hair .. But yet she doesn't work . Just end it .


And yours...

. Some points are usually experienced at the beginning of a relationship and not a red flag. For instance being secretive, and being clingy. Such can be overturned with time. Thus, I don't see them as red flags.

Guys its better to be feared than to be loved by a lady. Be her God is all i'm saying. Gbam.

My girl must make up, I can't stand a pale face.

larry2chat:
Confession14(f)
Ladycloud(f)
missstella(f)
prettythicksme(f)
Xsenga(f)




Where are thou

. Why you no write the plural of where are thou? This one na sign of woman wrapper.

I don't want back to back! Let Juventus triumph ultimately.

Hell no why do you see TGIF? While no one puts TGIM? Others points are valid though @ OP

GMB- General Muhammadu Buhari

Yekini really did well. I remember the goal he scored by chipping the ball over the goalkeeper and striking the ball hotly into the net. May his soul continue to rest in peace.

They should try that in other states and not Kaduna. They draw experience from the bomb blasts with reprisal attacks.

the widest market in Africa is Nigeria, so they should not compare us to other countries. Hence the price should be reviewed downwards by DSTV.

Failure is an orphan but success has all the relatives you can think of.

Orijin101:
[size=15pt] Datz what they call the resurrection selfie [/size]

. How e take be selfie? The word never old you want begin dey corrupt am.

He should pay them a visit if he really wants to marry her. He still has a chance of convincing her mum.

Ladies and this their 'we broke up on a mutual consent' agenda. She might have told him because a friend of his saw them, otherwise she would have kept quiet about it.

xynerise:
Sanitary pad is one of the greatest invention for women. Imagine the sight of blood coming out when a woman walks on the street.

. I saw a girl the other day, but I couldn't tell her that i observed fresh blood spot on her bumbum.

valentineebele:
nice tips..but i ain't into fighting..i prefer being reasonable... #there is power in d tongue

. Just pray say you no go jam unreasonable guys on the streets where there are no rules. Before you explain na Tawai, tawai, tawai!

OP thank God you were not killed. Please do not hold any grudge against that man that pushed you out of his house because even the Nigerian police sadly does that too.

Oga Olisa Metuh, you are all to blame with your hate campaign. Especially the A.I.T clip.

AhmedMustapha:
Killed by who?

. He died along with who? And where?

I'm beginning to agree with Amnesty International that about 2000 women and children are in the captivity of Boko Haram. What do you expect when dey controlled a territory almost the size of Belgium!

He went too far, no surprise he fit don try his luck before but she name a very high fee for him.

You are on point @ OP. I happen to be from two of the states mentioned and its not funny at all. The worst is Kogi state because Kaduna was able to produce one governor from the South before he was killed..

R.I.P. He said he wanted to be remembered for 'the rule of law'

Na that spare tire go happy pass. Lol

Wow! Thank God for his life o. Otherwise na another story that touch the heart e for be.

Huh? I thought PDP did more hate campaign than APC.

The truth is: ONLY THE DEAD HAVE SEEN THE END OF WAR!

While I was in the East I tried to look for those old thatched houses and the cultural dressing of the Igbos. To my dismay, I found non. *OP you try small*

I hope that guy who trekked from Lagos to Abuja is not sidelined..... He should head the first ministry of Trekking!!!