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RomanceRe: Help! How Can I Be Happy Without My Boyfriend by Subom1(f): 6:12pm On Jan 14, 2016
Reading this sh1t is so annoying. One thing I can't stand is desperate stupid women.

This guy is treating you this way and will continue to treat you this way because you allow it. He knows that you will always come back like the puppy you are. He doesn't love you nor respect you.

Stop settling!
Being cheated on is not normal!
Sharing your partner sexually with the community is not normal!
Crying more than you smile is not normal!
Stop suffering and settling!
Stop being desperate!

If you had a daughter and she was in your situation what would you have told her?

However if you enjoy being treated like sh1t and can't survive without him then that's your own palava. Just make sure you use a condom because aids is real undecided
RomanceRe: Kenyan Girl Has This To Say About Nigerian Guys by Subom1(f): 4:24pm On Jan 05, 2016
Lolllllll, I can’t even get angry here. I like articles like this, because it reiterates what many naija women have been raising the alarm on over the years. Maybe the men will listen for once, after every woman begin to treat them like an abomination, lol. grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Aimakhu Steps Out In Style (photos) by Subom1(f): 4:22pm On Jan 05, 2016
What a mess cry
CelebritiesRe: Dele Momodu Puts Davido On Blasts. Post Photos Of A Distraught Davido At The Air by Subom1(f): 7:26am On Dec 31, 2015
I don't understand the insults on Dele Momodu. Are you telling me that if a baby in your family was kidnapped you would not do anything in your power to bring public notice? Heck I would involve CNN, BBC, every news and radio station and every means possible if some modafuvker decided to take my baby without my consent and attempted to leave the country with her. If you guys put yourself in his position most sane people would do the same thing. Would you just fold your arms and keep quiet and allow your baby to be taken. No mate.

Davido is a spoilt childish brat. What's even more disgusting is that his parents are also in cohorts with this plan. One must be very careful the kind of people they involve themselves with to avoid such stories that touch
Nairaland GeneralRe: VIDEO: Kenya National TV Mocks Nigeria Over "Ladder To Board Flight" by Subom1(f): 8:14pm On Dec 21, 2015
What a disgrace
CrimeRe: What A Woman Did To The Breast Of Her Househelp (Graphic Pic) by Subom1(f): 11:20pm On Nov 21, 2015
Am I the only one who thinks this pic is photto-shopped. Look at the outline of the hand.
RomanceRe: Pls Advice by Subom1(f): 6:53pm On Nov 16, 2015
So beauty now equates to wife material? Do your girlfriend a favour and leave her so she can be with someone who deserves her.

When you had nothing where were the beautiful working class ladies? I can bet they never looked past your trifling ass angry
CelebritiesRe: WATCH: 'Boko Haram and black West Africa Is Not A Priority’, Says CNN Analyst by Subom1(f): 6:48pm On Nov 16, 2015
This is not a surprise. It's a well known fact that the west don't care about black africans and blacks in general.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 5:17pm On Nov 15, 2015
[quote author=darkenedrebel post=40051763][/quote]Is that all I deserve? Just a cookie...

Gerroutahere menn tongue
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 3:39pm On Nov 15, 2015
swagloverss:
Almost 48 hours later, no concrete evidence apart from hearsays and doctored screenshots. I am disappointed.

I will be back by midnight to see if there's any new development. This weather is making my head freeze.

See you gossip-mongers later.
grin grin what an irony lipsrsealed
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 3:11pm On Nov 15, 2015
sweetcocoa:
As harsh as this appears, there's some truth in it and she already agreed she was obssessed with him but then, she may not have known for sure about his fruaudulent activities.
The truth hurts my dear. There is no way she would not have known. She herself said that the victims of the credit card scams alerted the banks and then they got refunded their money back and then she was left to pay for her debts. So are you telling me for 3 years you wont know about these scams? She knew from the very first transaction but didn't care. There were lots of signs that she purposefully ignored like she said he lied about many things like his age. If someone lies and changes stories about something as simple as his age what the hell else would he be lying about.

people should stop this victim nonsense and accept their part. Nobody can scam you if you do not allow them too and if you dont learn for almost 3 years then i dunno
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 2:54pm On Nov 15, 2015
BABE3:
meeting him is one chapter I wish to rewrite if given a chance.
I hate to sound all victimy and whining-y but before I met him on nl I was never really troublesome on here. It was after I met him that that pseudo-confidence came to start insulting people left and right on here. You know that yeye confidence you get when you get an older boyfriend. I'm really a quiet girl. Jeje-lomo. lol.

caracta, bless you. I was blind. I'd never support fraud. I never knew it was fraud. He has a sweet mouth. He had an explanation for everything and I was ready to believe everything he said. I wasn't experienced with how these things worked and I shielded our relationship from people around me.
It wasn't until the evidence became very clear and I started telling people about his ways that my eyes opened.

so sweetcocoa, most of my "smartness" then came from interacting with him. I hardly even had my own thoughts back then. I believed everything he said. That was why some people even thought we were the same people.

hate to sound victimy. I do take responsibility for my fòolishness. I've been repeating that but that doesn't take away from the fact that he's a fraudster.


I've never been to the Olympics in my life.

r231, I replied your mail.
You were young and naïve when you first registered on Nairaland
You were young and naïve when you started responding to an old man’s PM
You were young and naïve when you started flying intercontinental flights
You were young and naïve when you started sending nude pics and getting involved with all kinds of sexual activities
You were young and naïve for a continuous 3 year period sending money to a scammer
You were young and naïve when you saw him having over 100 credit cards
You were young and naïve when you found out he was a fraudster.
You were still young and naïve to the point that you grew more confident and started insulting people online “after you met him”
You were still young and naïve even after 8 months after the breakup

So what about all those other ‘ young and naïve girls who were not sending sex pictures, who were not getting involved with Sugar daddies, who were not flying intercontinental flights. You were young and naïve enough to the point of not letting your parents know about all of these shady transactions because I do not know what kind of parent would allow their 18 year old child to travel across the world to meet a man twice her age.

You mam are saying utter hogwash. Even a 6 year old child who steals cookies from a cookie jar knows what is right from wrong. When something is wrong you feel it in your gut. You chose to ignore all this and decided to ´be an adult´ and do adult things and now you are coming with the young and naïve bullsh1t.

Accept the part you played and learn from your mistakes.
I am not saying what Coogar did is right (assuming this is true) but stop playing the innocent victim card. If you saw cut up fingers in someone’s deep freezer at home and they told you they thought it was chicken feet. Is it the young and naïve card you will play? For how long is one young and naïve? Sometime common sense must surely kick in!!!

You were not young and naïve but a foolish desperate girl. You were simply obsessed with this man. You need help because this is not just a young and naïve thing. Old washed cargoes also get scammed too. The thing they have in common is them being desperate. I mean to be AS and still want to carry on with a relationship that would clearly lead to nowhere shows the depth of your desperateness. Why is it that (let’s assume you were young and naïve for 3 years) after your break up you did not come out immediately? Why 8 months later? We both know why…
There are two parts to a story and you played your part unfortunately as well so stop acting like you are an innocent fragile bird.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 2:52pm On Nov 15, 2015
BABE3:
I was 18/19 when we started.. I was 29/30... can't remember. he kept changing his age.
So he still lied about his age and all these signs you still ignored. How many more signs did you ignore?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 1:22pm On Nov 15, 2015
swagloverss:
2 eyes yet you cannot see. Coogar posted his whatsapp chat with BABE3 to me so I can verify his innocence.



[b]He wouldn't consent to such nonsense but I want to punish this heartbroken ex that would not leave Coogar alone. [/b]Jaybee3 also said I can go to jail for the pictures. I wanted to test his theory if the British authorities will act on the nude pictures of an American resident.
I seriously doubt that you are a woman. If you are then you are a witch. Why would you want to leak another woman's naked photos to the public. Are you sick in the head. Why are you getting involved with things that do not concern you. Seriously it's tacky. I don't understand why you have not been banned yet. So because you whor.ed yourself out for money now you want to ruin someone else's life.


Coogar this is seriously beyond low. Sirshymexx your friend though undecided
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 12:48pm On Nov 15, 2015
jaybee3:
He was borrowing money from some of them and threatening to expose them if they ever complain about it.

I haven't commentend on his sexual shenanigans since that simply isn't my business. I'm only angry that he keeps threatening to expose these girls...

That's my point
Okay he was borrowing money from some of them (I would have told him to go to the bank to borrow money angry grin) but yeah fine. How is he threatening them? Let me guess they all sent him nude photos undecided


With all the cases of stories that touch about nude photos going viral they still sent him nude pictures. I believe every action has a consequence. What if the relationship turned sour and he exposed the nude pictures? What if his phone got stolen and someone uploaded the nude pictures. You need to think clearly about all the consequences of your action. They could have said that they don't feel comfortable sending nude pics that if he wants to see them nude then he can see them nude live (face to face).

Maybe it's just the way I am. Just like I also don't feel sorry for ladies who get pregnant after continuously having unprotected sex. I mean if you are not ready for any of the possible consequences no matter how remote then don't do it.

My heart goess out to these women and I hope their pics don't leak but they kinda made their own bed too. If they never sent him nudes he would have nothing to use against them. That's the truth.

This is the desperate and foolishness I keep talking about.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 12:40pm On Nov 15, 2015
daretodiffer:
cheesy

I like you
tongue

Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 12:17pm On Nov 15, 2015
daretodiffer:
I agree but it can be a legal issue.

She has learnt her lesson now
I hope so. Some lessons are best learnt the hard way.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 12:16pm On Nov 15, 2015
lolaluv1:
Gullible people get scammed too....
Gullible people don't get scammed for 3 years. When something bad happens to you. Gullible or not, you learn from your mistake. If not then that's not my fault. If you go and buy a cellphone from a shop and they swap it for soap and you reach home and notice you were scammed. It happens. But if you keep going back to that same shop and keep buying phones and keep getting scammed then you are an olodo. I can't feel sorry for you. I just can't undecided
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 12:13pm On Nov 15, 2015
daretodiffer:
I disagree

I am the type of person that give any one my life, inconvenient myself for any one. I enjoy making stupid sacrifices for any one be it a tamily family, friend or strangers. I lent my lesson this year but still I find myself slipping some times. I have been giving out/lending money since I was in high school regardless of the gender. It could have been who she really is, you cannot fault that.
Lol you are funny. This has nothing to do with the type of person you are. I give to and borrow sometimes too. But if I keep borrowing someone who I know will never give me my money back yet I constantly keep doing it then cry later about the money. You are simply a fool and have yourself to blame. It's not about being caring. It's stupidity. If foolishness is your character then I don't feel sorry for you to be honest. Then you must be suffering from psychosis.

What am trying to say is you can't keep blaming people for your silly mistakes. If I want to be a mumu atm machine and give money continuously to the same person who never pays back then whose fault is it? Are you a victim or a fool?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 11:58am On Nov 15, 2015
jaybee3:
Post away

I'm giving you the permission

Why didn't i paint you bad in the eyes of at least 3 other women that wanted to find out about your antecedents on NL before agreeing to date you If i had any axe to grind with you?

This issue is now my business simply because you keep gagging these victims with your cheap demonic blackmail threats
who are the victims. I don't see any victims here jaybee am sorry to say. If you are foolish and desperate enough to be sending money to men continuously then your Mumuness is only your own fault. Most of these 'women' knew what's up. I have been 'classified countless times as a 'feminist' which I would say I am but if you continuously make stupid decisions because of being desperate then I can't help but say that's your own palava. I dont support stupidity. Only greedy and desperate people get 'scammed'. It ain't right what scammers do but these so called 'victims' who don't use their brains I can't feel sorry for especially when you know what's up.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 11:52am On Nov 15, 2015
swagloverss:
She was 20
She was 20
She wasn't 18. How many times do we have to correct this assertion. He was 25. He wasn't old enough to be her father unless a boy of 5 can give birth to a child.
18, 20, 45 I don't give a Bleep. You need to shut the Bleep up. I didn't ask for your opinion. Coogar is this you? If not tell this annoying heiffer to shut up. Man up and come and defend yourself if you must instead of this sh1t
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rebranded: Sex Olympics in London by Subom1(f): 11:37am On Nov 15, 2015
Mindfulness:
She is a wreck else she wouldn't get herself into such a relationship - no sane woman would. She was desperate and she still is. She has not learned her lesson yet and I am afraid she needs more pain to do so. She will again get what she is attracting.

She is not innocent in this scenario and she is digging herself a hole here with the help of her friends.
They have been ordering stuff online with fake credit cards and she is telling us that she discovered he was into fraud three years into the relationship? Like seriously? So the companies that blocked her accounts waited for three entire years before they sent her a letter? Come on!


If I were Babe3 and Coogar, I would shut my mouth and let the storm pass because it will but their comments make matters worse. They have not learned their lessons yet but they will. The only question that remains is how much more trouble they need to go through before they learn that we reap what we sow.

Instead of blaming each other, they should accept responsibility for the misery each of them created on their own and then figure out how to create happiness and peace instead of this.


One thing is sure, they were a perfect match and life gave them what they need to re-evaluate their ways.
One of them is mentally disturbed and the other has crowds of enemies cheering at his plight.

We truly reap what we sow.
I actually didn't want to comment on this bruhaha because honestly I think it's quite distasteful the way this all came out but I will say that I don't feel sorry for Babe3 so this pity party 'I was a naive silly 18 years old ish' does not fly with me.

If at 18 years old you are old enough to make a decision to date a man old enough to be your father then you made your decision. An 18 year old is not a baby especially in the Western World.

Maybe I would have understood if she said that she sent him money only once( even at that if someone says they want to pay less tax then you are an accomplice as you are helping him evade tax, which is an offence) but there is no way that she would not have known after even the first 'fake credit card transaction' what was going on as Mindfulness earlier stated.

She knew very well but since she was 'inlove' and they were still together that's why she was okay with the credit card scams after all she was benefiting from the items she was getting.


She still kept mum for '8' months after their breakup and I won't be surprised if she was still begging to get back together during that time but now that it's over you are ready to tell the whole world .


Honestly there is nothing in this world that Irritates me more than desperate women. I don't feel sorry for you one bit. If you are desperate and stupid and allow some person to continuously 'scam' you day in and day out for 3 years then that's your own palava.


I believe you are an accomplice to this as you did not do the right thing the first time you found out he was a fraud. I honestly believe that if you were still together you would not be exposing him right now.

You are not trying to save any future stupid desperate bimbos from getting scammed. You want revenge. I also don't feel sorry for stupid ladies who send their nude pics to boys. Every action has its consequence. Deal with this the right way. The police etc but know that you are not innocent in this and If I were a judge you would both be prosecuted. I don't know the other guys story(not like I really care anyways) but I am basing all this on what you have been saying.
FoodRe: Entertained With An Hyena In The Village- See Pictures by Subom1(f): 8:13pm On Nov 10, 2015
Fulaman198:
I guess to each their own cheesy I almost hurled. Not every Nigerian eats crap like that
Seriously that thing looks scary embarassed and smelly eww. I just don't understand how someone can just wake up and decide to eat this cry
FoodRe: Entertained With An Hyena In The Village- See Pictures by Subom1(f): 7:21pm On Nov 10, 2015
This is fking disgusting and primitive. How can some Nigerians eat this? undecided
RomanceRe: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Subom1(f): 7:38am On Oct 02, 2015
freecocoa:
So what you call 'manners' is cleaning up after you and bending knee to greet you? You are beyond mannerless for leaving your house dirty, what rubbish!
lol as in. Rubbish!!!
CelebritiesRe: Kylie Jenner Insults Tyga's Carrier Comparing Him To Drake....tyga Fires Back by Subom1(f): 10:14pm On Oct 01, 2015
ifyalways:
OP you can't be a successful blogger when u can't spell. It's " career" , not carrier.

Modify.
*dead*
CelebritiesRe: What Name Can You Give To This Lady? by Subom1(f): 10:10pm On Oct 01, 2015
Ratchet undecided
CelebritiesRe: Photos: Jim Iyke, His Babymama, And Baby On Vacation In Miami by Subom1(f): 10:07pm On Oct 01, 2015
Papers grin grin Naija guys bad o
RomanceRe: Lady Whose Husband Can't Sleep Unless He Sucks Pvssy Urgently Needs Your Advice by Subom1(f): 11:36am On Oct 01, 2015
Lol this woman should borrow me her husband for a month grin tongue
FoodRe: See What Was Killed In My Compound Yesterday Evening! by Subom1(f): 10:24am On Sep 28, 2015
Must Nigerians eat every thing they find. I thought people would have learnt their lesson after the whole Ebola bruhaha undecided
RomanceRe: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Subom1(f): 1:59am On Sep 28, 2015
sonofananimal:
whe know them pretend ALOT.
Whatever makes you sleep at night cheesy.

I have a feeling you will end up being those kinda guys(pic below)

Don't be a leech. Make your own money and be your own man grin grin. Don't be a psssyassniggaaa

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