Reading this sh1t is so annoying. One thing I can't stand is desperate stupid women.

This guy is treating you this way and will continue to treat you this way because you allow it. He knows that you will always come back like the puppy you are. He doesn't love you nor respect you.

Stop settling!
Being cheated on is not normal!
Sharing your partner sexually with the community is not normal!
Crying more than you smile is not normal!
Stop suffering and settling!
Stop being desperate!

If you had a daughter and she was in your situation what would you have told her?

However if you enjoy being treated like sh1t and can't survive without him then that's your own palava. Just make sure you use a condom because aids is real

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

I perfectly understand your plight because i was once in your shoes. I'm still with my boyfriend now because i love him and I know he loves me too but was promiscuous because of the kind of friends he kept. Find out why he's cheating and talk to him about it. If he loves you, he'd change. Be the girl he fell in love with. If you realise you're just being used as Much as it'd hurt, let him go. you deserve to be happy. Being with friend and family will guarantee your happiness. Good luck dear.

cheerycoco:
Its not about a pastor,or babalawo,he is not using any charm on me,i am just stocked

Ur stupidity will kill uden.if after all d advices.very stupid lady inde

cheerycoco:
LOL,how i'm i sure u won't be worst than him latter,he was a perfect gentleman,he swept me off my feet,and he still does,and he apologise whenever he is caught

OMG...all i want is for you to be loyale...and i'd give u all my heart ma'am.

Young Lady, check the number of years you'be tangled with him,still no rest assured, don't you know that love is reciprocal, so stop wasting your time professing non existing love.

Wise up sister

Temps fugit ,Non regemus.

Good luck

Jewelnutch:
Go to your pastor or babalawo to cut the spider webs covering your face off. The Charm he used on you is pretty strong.

very gidi gon!

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

Haha. Babe u r nt even married to the guy and u r calling all his side chicks,u r better than that. Little advice for u, get out of d relationship b4 sth bad gets to u, it might b difficult and painful but just makeup ur mind and leave. Dont luk bck, dere r beta guys 4 u. U r even lucky if u avnt even contacted stds or worse (i wnt say).

I understand how u feel girl..
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Dollar is now #305

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

...a goat is in love with a wolf, hmmmm...my dear, become a sheep and be in love with a shepherd! How? You must first stop being a goat! Accept Christ and become a sheep with Christ as a shepherd, you are bonded to him because of a soul tie between you two and that can be broken by separation and prayers...Christ will given you a man like him, a shepherd who is faithful to his sheep!

Dey give am well na, I saw your profile, Akwa ibom babe Chai.. or better still I,m available, That's my Advice.

youmour:
You never ready,when you ready I go know.

And what abt u?birds of thesame feather.

Dear op

Just walk away from that tin u called relationship.

Provided that charm doesn't restrict you from typing on NL to express how u are feeling then stop giving yourself unnecessary stress. Its obvious u ar alone in the relationship. So walk away. Garther your self together and walk away (forget about him)

Have a good evening!

Decker:
(stands up from office desk) Listen and listen good. It's not normal for your boyfriend to cheat on you and it's not right for him to keep side chicks(emphasizes on succeeding words) while still dating you. That's not how a relationship is supposed to be.( puts hand in pocket)

What is your problem if I may ask?(gives her a Pascal Amanfo kinda look) How can you be with someone who( raises voice like a pastor) doesn't value you or treat you with respect, and worst of all, keeps side chicks that(frowns at her knowledge of this) you have knowledge of and who ridicule you, and you still claim you love him and can't do with him? Are you listening to yourself? (points to his skull and ear to depict passing his questions across)

It's your type that marry men who will physically abuse them and they will still be in the relationship. (squeezes a paper and targets the dustbin; its a perfect 3points)

Snap out of all this nonsense you think you are feeling.(says it directly to her face) Get the hell out of that thing you call a relationship, because you are only being used. Your so called boyfriend doesn't care about you, he doesn't love you(she begins to soliloquize) and he doesn't respect you.

There are other men out there. He isn't the only cure to your loneliness.(goes back to his seat) Leave that asshole and find someone who would love you and treat you like you mean something to him.(drops his pen and arranges what has already been arranged before, as she takes her leave)

Permit the modification

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

babe, ist advice: u better grow some balls(or its équivalent in Ur case) and get out of that relationship. How long do You plan on hanging on to someone that obviously doesn't love and respect you? From what You said above , u dont seem to realise that u have become the side chick...lol. Run babe. Run!!!

My dear, the only problem you have identified here is YOU.
You may want to step aside from whatever the situation between the two of you now and ask yourself 'what do I want from life?'
What do I want from my relationships?
You can not be whole and live free of abuse if you only draw your essence from some one else.
If you hang unto him as you currently proclaim he will throw you under a moving train, it is only a matter of time.
Wake up from this illusion and ask yourself if what can live with you currently got.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

Just don't lie to us, you can't leave him for the following reasons
1. You don't work and you survive solely on his money.
2. You fear if you leave him you might not have another man because of your ugliness.
3. You don't have packaging as a woman.
Or
You aren't good on bed and so he looked for another beautiful girl.



My advice, just leave leave him and find another thing that can keep you busy. You're not even afraid he can pass disease to you.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

I don't think if your seriously fade up as your trying to tell! He is cheating on you and you know because he knows your fool and Nut and you can do nothing but to cry before him!

You just don know how important you are and you don know your value..you have just give some one keys of your happines! You have let cheater being in charge of your happiness...!

Uknow when you will be serious fade up? is the time you will decide to go for blood test....!

You just don know the meaning of fade up thats why you still on his chest and neck...

Insanity is all about doing the same thing day to day ..year to year and expecting different result!

Subom1:
Reading this sh1t is so annoying. One thing I can't stand is desperate stupid women.

This guy is treating you this way and will continue to treat you this way because you allow it. He knows that you will always come back like the puppy you are. He doesn't love you nor respect you.

Stop settling!
Being cheated on is not normal!
Sharing your partner sexually with the community is not normal!
Crying more than you smile is not normal!
Stop suffering and settling!
Stop being desperate!

If you had a daughter and she was in your situation what would you have told her?

However if you enjoy being treated like sh1t and can't survive without him then that's your own palava. Just make sure you use a condom because aids is real

I think this woman is insane and she don know...

They will ban me if I say what's on my mind...

Anyways, pls leave him to fallow for a while...it's not so bad. Then you can jump into the relationship wagon later.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

whatever gives you pain today, will make you strong tomorrow!
dump his ass and forget about the pain,it's only temporal. time heals every wound

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

Give me a try

I'll keep this short & to the point...
GET OUT.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

Try everything to build your confidence, master a skill, eat healthy,exercise etc. The truth is you are suffering from inferiority complex.

Babe, enjoy his cash while it lasts because I knw that's why u r still with him.
Pele.
D player don use money confuse u finish.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

I know how you feel, i've been in such relationship... People won't understand till they've had same feeling/experience.. Mine was like I could not live without him, if he is not with me then I'm breathless, could not stay a minute without thinking of him (it was like an addiction). My guy and I dated for 4 years and he flirts around, If I complain, he will apologize and cut all ties with them but after few weeks, he still goes back.. Something happened and I broke up with him, told him that I ain't going back to him this time around.. And guess what he told me? He said, even though he comes back to me in the next 10 years, I will still accept him back cos he knows I love him so much.. I smiled to myself and deep down, I knew what he said was true... So, I decided to change that belief. I started relating more to people both male and female, reduced the way I communicated/communicate with him

Seriously, just take a break... Don't call him, don't text him...if he sends a message and you don't want to reply, no problem but don't ignore him totally.. Don't be so eager to pick his calls or reply his messages, don't use sweet words on him, reply him in cold manner whenever you are chatting with him.

I did that and trust me, with time, you will find out that you can actually stay a day without talking or chatting with him.

cheerycoco:
My dear,it is easier said than done,i ave walked away several but i still find myself back there.i think i'm addicted.

Addicted to what if I may ask?

Babe ur bf is simply "YUCK"

D guy no lyk u at all,jst stay away frm him

cheerycoco:
Its not about a pastor,or babalawo,he is not using any charm on me,i am just stocked

If those ones can't work, seek medical help.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

Bae, repeat after me "I AM A BIG OLODO", say it seven times and bath unclad in a market for 7 days, that's the only way to get rid of this stupidity.

Thank me later.

Kingeli read up

Jewelnutch:
Go to your pastor or babalawo to cut the spider webs covering your face off. The Charm he used on you is pretty strong.

Majority of the advice here what you to look out the for man that will truly love u a word is enough for the wise .