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Events / Re: Today Is My Birthday. by Subom1(f): 4:53am On Mar 27, 2015 |
Happy belated bday sweetheart 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Need Help, Is My Hubby Having An Affair?! by Subom1(f): 6:14pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
sinizia:this lady does not want help. Am no longer going to waste my time. She says they need each other. She better not come crying later how she contracted Hiv or any other sob story cos frankly I will tell her it's her own darn fault. |
Romance / Re: I Need Help, Is My Hubby Having An Affair?! by Subom1(f): 6:12am On Mar 22, 2015 |
IdiAmin1:yeah. Such men make me sick. Ì honestly have a low tolerance for such bs. This is why i strongly believe that women should start to focus on their education and getting a job and not sorely depending on men for everything. If she had her own money she would have been able to take care of herself and kids and I don't think the man would be treating her as badly. Some men do what they do unashamed because they know that the woman will go nowhere because he is the one providing her with her daily bread. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Need Help, Is My Hubby Having An Affair?! by Subom1(f): 5:53am On Mar 22, 2015 |
IdiAmin1:Separation will even be better for him because he will use it as an opportunity to bring women home. This man does not care at all. If your wife/ gf caught you cheating. Would you not be ashamed or embarrassed? Would you not beg for forgiveness but rather this man told her to go home? What kind of man does that? He does not love her nor gives a damn. When his wife was pregnant he did not care enough to buy some baby stuff. He rather spent that money on women. Imo a temporary separation will not work but just give him even more freedom. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Need Help, Is My Hubby Having An Affair?! by Subom1(f): 5:49am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Wifey do you have a job? Are you educated? If you are please try and get a job first so that you can start taking care of yourself and your kids. I personally would not stand for such arrant nonsense. I mean he was not even ashamed or embarrassed when you caught him cheating but instead told you to leave. I don't think the man loves you. You cannot change a man, a man will change only when he wants to change. He is not even providing for you and the kids as well but spending any money he gets on women. Is that the type of life you want to live for the rest of your life? I think confide in a close family member you trust such as (sister or brother) who could offer you some kind of support and advice. Even though I don't believe in divorce this is a valid reason for such. Also these things will affect your kids at a later stage. Even though they are young they know when their mom is unhappy and sad. you can either wallow in your sadness and feel sorry for yourself or you can do something about your situation. Everyone deserves to be happy. Don't be miserable for someone who does not give a damn about you. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: White Woman Exposes The Sickness Of Desperate Black Males That Date Them by Subom1(f): 8:59pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Fulaman198:if only black men could be like you 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: White Woman Exposes The Sickness Of Desperate Black Males That Date Them by Subom1(f): 8:29pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Lol this white girl went in. She was really honest and real and I liked that about her. She spoke a lot of truth as well as those points on the screen were so on point. SirShymexx, Coogar, 50Caliber what do you have to say about this 5 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Nnaji Vs Nadia Buari: Who Is Prettier? by Subom1(f): 8:46pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
I feel like Gen is overrated. Even Omotola is better looking than her (my opinion). People are too colour struck. Based on features and bod I'd say Nadia is prettier |
Family / Re: Higher Education And The Female Child by Subom1(f): 8:32pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
tpiah01:What is it with you two? |
Family / Re: Higher Education And The Female Child by Subom1(f): 7:34pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
SirShymexx:I had to scroll up twice to make sure that I was not seeing things. Am shocked, was not expecting this from you. Nice quote |
Romance / Re: Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude, Unreliable&Promiscuous? by Subom1(f): 1:44pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
tosyne2much:I don't blame you. Your age doesn’t lie. Neither does that face. P.S there is a (f) next to my name for a reason not a (m) just to be clear on your 'comprehension skills' 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude, Unreliable&Promiscuous? by Subom1(f): 1:40pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
kandiikane:Am telling u, I was shocked cos I never expected it from her |
Romance / Re: Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude, Unreliable&Promiscuous? by Subom1(f): 11:51am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Creamish:My dear unfortunately we have a lot of people who think 'backwards'. Even a comment I read just now says it's not applicable to Nigerian men but only Nigerian women . Not only was this statement a gross generalisation but a sexist comment too. So its okay for men to have tattoos and not women? How does a tattoo make one rude, unreliable and aggressive? So do ladies and men who drink a lot, go to parties and clubs every weekend, smoke weed etc, those who are having sex and even cheating? I am yet to see such a topic, but a person who has a tattoo you will base all this generalisations on. I just can't stand shallow minded people with primitive thinking. We are in 2015 for goodness sakes. Tattoos are not for everybody and there is nothing wrong with that, but basing a whole female Nigerian population because of the ashawos you hang out with (u are who u attract, but that's another conversation all together) is totally Bs. This is just another female bashing thread and as usual women are 1st to bash her fellow women. Btw I don't have a tattoo(before you ppl come to crucify me), I just have a low tolerance for BS. I know some peeps who do have though (some successful and intelligent women such as a lawyer even a Dr) and they are nothing like you described. It's like saying all Nigerian men are players, all Nigerians are 419. All Nigerian girls are materialistic etc. The thing about stereotyping is it's usually just throwing rocks into a crowd hoping to hit somebody who deserves it 11 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: This Time, Who Is More Handsome Jim iyke Or Majid Michel by Subom1(f): 8:44am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Even though I generally prefer dark skinned men. Majid is better looking than Jim. No doubt. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Subom1(f): 8:29pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Some men just don't get it when you tell them that you are not interested. You can say it straight to their face but you get those who think you are just playing hard too get and will continue to harass you. Love is not by force. If a lady is interested in you, even if she takes her time trust me you will know. 3 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: Which Colour Can You See On This Dress? by Subom1(f): 5:50pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
This was all over instagram. I see the dress as blue and black and am yet to see the white and Gold part Modified: I can now see the white and Gold |
Family / Re: Man Caught, Beaten To Pulp For Peeping At Neighbour's Wife by Subom1(f): 5:10pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
sweettease: 5 Likes |
Culture / Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Subom1(f): 5:06pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
You people are still on this ish 1 Like |
Culture / Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Subom1(f): 3:33pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
CFCfan:I feel same way as you but am also not going to castigate those who chose to marry within their tribe. Too each their own 6 Likes |
Culture / Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Subom1(f): 3:24pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
It's normal for someone to marry from their own tribe/culture. Everyone is entitled to marry who he/she wants and I believe that if a man wants to marry you, he will irrespective of where you are from. It's not only Igbos who tend to marry their own. Same can be said about other tribes and nationalities. I know a lot of Yoruba folks who will not marry anyone non-yoruba. If I want to marry a fellow Ekiti man because he is the same tribe as me then no one should have a problem with my decision. It's the ladies fault dating a guy for 6years with no intention to marry you. Trust me when a man wants to marry you, he will irrespective of where you come from. I really don't see the big deal in people marrying their own if they choose too. It really is not the end of the world 18 Likes |
Family / Re: .... And Your Mother In Law Does This To Your Baby by Subom1(f): 6:29pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
crackhaus: 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Chris Attoh Weds Damilola Adegbite (pictures) by Subom1(f): 10:43pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
macanu:Who cares? She's living her life while all of u come here bit*hing. Karen Igho married oyibo. Ice prince is dating a french/Ghanaian. Free yourselves , the world is large and has varying,interesting options. Enuff with the pity parties. Is damilola the only woman on earth? You don’t own her, nobody owns you. Sometimes you just fall in love with the person for the person instead of their nationality. Instead of wishing them hml, some dimwits are asking about divorce. Stop whining, abeg. It really is not the end of the world. |
Romance / Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Subom1(f): 11:20pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
Nneka123:Is this your Forum? And to think you are male |
Romance / Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Subom1(f): 11:16pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
It seems perhaps you don't know your boyfriend that well. 6 months is not a lot of time but there was something you saw in him that made you go for him. Think you should just tell him how you feel so that you can be at ease. You guys should try and get a better understanding of one another so that every out of the norm utterance will not be taken serious if that's the case. But honestly that is a really weird thing to say. Sometimes 'jokes' must be clearly thought about |
Romance / Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Subom1(f): 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
blackpanther25:You are a fktard |
Family / Re: For Men Only: Who Actually Are You Working For? by Subom1(f): 3:11pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Seun:Thank God there are still sensible men like you around. I am working for myself, future kids and family and I would hope my better half will be doing the same. How can a man not include his spouse in the equation. That means that he has no regards for her whatsoever. I hope that his wife has a job and if not it better be a wake up call for her cos he is busy planning for himself and kids and not her and one day she may just find herself replaced. 2 Likes |
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