Only on page 5 and you are already admitting you playing and i was just getting warmed up

Stillfire:

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Buhahaha. Was it a thread on you preferring white men? Lol. Please say Yes, cos I know He's always extra petty about such issues.

At the end of it all I blame African American women for overhyping the black man and being the mouthpiece for black women worldwide. Growing up and till now I never saw black men on any damn pedestal. I could date any race I wanted. Dating pattern was/is not exclusive to black men. What a boring life to live to be exclusive to black men. Ewwwww! African American women's eyes are beginning to clear now. A lot of them are on mass exodus from black men and the black community in total, lmao.

Yes lol let me quote One of his many response to me :

shymexx: 
Yeah, you did struck a nerve - I can't stand women who put black men down and put other races of man on a high pedestal, just to make themselves happy... We've got too much to deal with as a group - from our economics to education and social lifestyle... We have it worst out there and when our own women who were naturally created to support us start destroying us as well, then it becomes problematic, to be honest....

There are millions of highly educated black men born and raised in West, so saying you're too "westernised" is just utter tosh... Perhaps, you need to stop messing around with "freshies" and start dealing with black men on your wavelength... I, for one, can't deal with fresh black women - however you'll never see me use them as a pretext to judge all black women... I only deal with black women with a similar background as myself...

Anyway, do whatever makes you happy...


^^^ Shymm3xx is such a hypocrite

Btw where are you meeting these black women? I have never asked for money or anything materialistic from any man and have even spent on my man.

Change your circles and class and out with the hoodrats

Honestly i don't get why people are having their pants twisted. People are entitled to their opinions and preferences so if he likes white women and think they are better than black women then so be it, it's his life and choice at the end of the day . However i have noticed that a lot of black men always want to put black women down. Only race in the world who puts their women down and mocks them. Even black girls who date white men don't go around bashing black men. Black women have suffered lol!

But i can't help but laugh at this. Shymexx where you not the same guy who had a hissy fit on my thread and i was not even rude about it

Honestly you find good and bad people in every race. There are some wonderful white women out there and wish you all the best with that.

Ya"ll always argue and debate about the most unneccessary ish jeez

I vote Iamkingzlee

Cc: Nljega

skalett:
subom1 good morning,

I apologize for spamming your mentions but please I just want to ask you for a favor, don't say no abeg

Just follow this link https://www.nairaland.com/3265483/mr-nairaland-contest-2016-semi-final#48138568 and type:

'I vote Iamkingzlee

Cc: Nljega'

That's all, thanks in advance

Okay no problem.

shuggah:

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u re condemning thia while u didn't hear a word said in the video, or even care to ask, stop thinking with ur John Thomas ND stop cumming off d video or d tiny boobs, d girl called up to 3names of guys that she has slept with and one of them is a labourer, d oda is a driver and d third is jobless plus Mr Portugal and these wer d men d brothers couldn't recollect hence d beating ND mind u d father was nt in d scene because she was referring to them as brothers and finally the video waa recorded as an evidence against the men who hav been sleeping with the girl because the brothers would like to see them In jail and u would hav heard when they were mentioning SARS. for the family to beat d gurl like that then it must have gotten out of hand, for a young girl like that to be sleeping with older men that's worse, I bet more headlines will arise from this story.

I dunno who is dumber. You or all those moronic baffons who liked and agreed with this Hogwash.

Firstly for the girl to be sleeping with older men at such a young age who is to blame? Those older men who have more sense and should have known better or this young minor. Girls of her age are extremely naive amd gullible. I wont even be surprised that she has beem sexually absed at a young age.

How the fk is recording and beating a naked young girl evidence So people can no longer be civilised and 'report' to the police and let the police investigate?

There are way too many daft mother.fuckers in Nigeria sorry to say.

This video is fkin disgusting

I still will never understand why people still go to south africa. If you are not happy go back home. That money could have done something for you here in nigeria. Its better to "suffer in naija" then to suffer in south africa. I could never stay in a foreign country where I am hated and am treated like trash.

However I am also aware of all the bad eggs in the country that have put nigerians in a bad light. Something needs to be done about these people giving us a bad name all over the world.

Nigerians are too damn judgemental and hypocritical as well. I don't see why people need to insult someone for choosing what they want to wear on their wedding day. Its her body not yours and Its not like ridiculously indecent that her nipples are showing. I bet you if this was beyonce or a westernised person you would all be commenting on how beautiful she looks.

I vote Refiner. CC NLjega

Girls are not smilling. In his next life he should learn to keep his d in the pants

On a serious note Rip to the dead. Now because of jealousy both their kids have lost their parents.

I vote for :
1. Refiner
2. Ivyy

CC: NLjega

son4century:
OK, this is what u shd do


Tell her u also have something in mind to tell her but not yet time


Then, on the wedding eve, tell her to walk away (if possible fly away sef) or surprise her with a bride mama has brought from the village to fill her spot the next day

you have been watching way too many Nollywood movies

Firstly in this day and age one does not need to be ignorant.

When you get into a relationship its best that you both go for an HIV test and Sti test to ensure that both are free from any sexual transmitted diseases and use a condom at all times.

You ad your partner can decide how often you can do test whether it be twice a year etc.


I also believe that once a couple feels that they want to get serious then they can do other tests such as fertilityand genotype that way you will know earlier than latter when feelings have become stronger making it more complicated.

This will save a lot of people stories that touch.
In this day and age you can't tell who is HIV positive by appearances and there are some people who are out there sorey to infect as many people as possible.

Your girlfriend was extremely selfish and should have told you at least before the relationship started getting serious.

https://www.nairaland.com/2536855/needed-share-she-stopped-loving#37113759

There he confesses to his cheating. These are the same guys who will shout these hoes ain't loyal

cococandy:


@bold, maybe that is why she left you. What woman in her right mind will accept this kind of trash talking?

This nigga was receiving countless messages from females day in and day out and could not understand why his gf was jealous. To make it worse he cheated on her with his ex and the ex messaged her to inform her about it. He is a good for nothing trifeling player and that's why she left him.

[b]Suddenly it became an obsession and then anger tantrums started flowing everywhere. One time I got back with an ex chic and we "got like that" a couple of times when I was in another town. She found out about my girl and texts her. My girlfriend snapped and called her out and it became dirty. Well came back to explain to my girl and she slapped and kicked me and threw projectiles at me. Interestingly I never did a thing I stood there and watched her as I felt it was penance for my sins. I professed love to her and wanted the relationship more.

So I returned to my domicile and we continued talking but then I observed things changed, she was not my ever sweet baby again and she did become someone else. Someone I did not like, I gave back the vibes that she gave.

Our relationship became ruins afterwards. Communication was missing. We were closer on bbm and Facebook than in person.

So this morning she calls me and says she wants out of the relationship and deletes me off every social media platform she had me on. She cited infidelity and lack of trust as the problem and she was pretty violent about it.

Thing is I love her to death

And Yerr I cheated and I admit I did, I genuinely absolutely love this woman and don't know where to start from.[/b]

I read this from your other thread
So you were a flirtatious flirt and you cheated on her. This is why she left you. She was planning to leave you ever since she found out and when she found someone better she left you to "suffer"

I knew there was more to this story. Its called karma. Serves you right. Next time keep the d in the pants then maybe your girlfriend would not leave you

These days women are learning from men.

I always stated that the difference between men and women is that men do not put all their eggs in one basket.

Now women are are also heeding to this as well.

No offence op you sound a bit arrogant with the I'm a dr with a successful business eish. You sound full of yourself.

A woman even if she wants to break up with you, if she loves and respects you she would not have done it the way your ex gf did unless you did something really bad to her that she wants to pay back with revenge.

How long did you date? You say she is in her early thirties? Some guys will date a girl for 10 years then get surprised when she finds another man

Ugandans are the most useless men ever. How can they just sit there and watch the guy beating his family with a cutlass. They are only good at taking photos. Smdfh

The woman were both breadwinners and the men both could not keep their D in their pants.

This is why women should learn that a cheat is always a cheat and they should preferably date accordingly to their level to avoid stories that touch

freecocoa:
My friend calm down, what brought me into the conversation? Why make it about me being okay with talking to all sorts of men in marriage?

You implied that the women having his number is as good as him cheating, on the grounds that he gave them the number. I was merely saying anyone in the listed groups could have his number as people will always be in a person's life, any of such person's of the opposite sex can ask him out, excepting maybe blood relatives.

Instead of you to reply like a rational person, you are hinting at the possibility of me being in support of women talking to all sorts of men after marriage.

How did he allow it to happen? Is he inside the minds of the women asking him out? How can he stop them from asking him out? Do you even need to be friendly with someone before they can ask you out? Don't you even know that some people are daring and persistent?

I don't even know what you are going on about, you are suggesting you didn't say women shouldn't have his contact and you are also saying a married person shouldn't entertain(who knows what you mean) other people, try and make you point clearer.

i am very calm thank you.
I really do not have time nor energy to respond to your long epistles and going back and fourth on this issue. I stand by what i say and you do too so lets just agree to disagree.

freecocoa:
I don't understand, no woman should have his number because he is married? He doesn't have colleagues? Former school mates? Business associates? Acquaintances?

Did i say anything about no woman should have his contacts? who even said they were colleagues or former school mates? Anyways who they are is besides the point. For a woman to be comfortable enough to ask a man out says a lot. He obviously allowed that to happen with his approach with these ladies. Maybe you are the type to have conversations as a married woman to all sorts of men and it may be okay for you as well as okay for your spouse but its not okay for me and many other woman. I dont believe a married man or woman should be entertaining other men or women

freecocoa:
I don't understand, you saw messages of women asking him out, does that make him guilty or was he encouraging them or what?


And since when can't people talk to their partners about these kinds of things?

The question is how did all those women get his number? Clearly he gave it to them. It doesnt matter who asked who out but her husband should never have taken it that far or make such ladies comfortable enough to be aaking him out. The fact that he even gave his number out is already a big no no for me.


My advise is to confront him. Tell him the truth and hear what he says. Infidelity is a deal breaker for me but to each their own.

I really dont understand why some men get married in the first place if they still want to be playing around. Disgusting

lepasharon:
Edo airways

praxisnetworks:

see the nonsense you tried to hide in ur sermon making alcoholic sense! so different laws for human beings based on gender...ain't deceived by ur pretentious sermon.

^^^Pu$$ya$$Nigga

praxisnetworks:
These are nonsense theories meant to emasculate men!.... A lady should be cultured enouff not to bring out the animal in her man, while the man should also nurture his woman..... datsall

What nonsense theories. He is right you know. What makes a human different between an animal is self control. If you cant control your anger than you are no better than an animal. If we all could not control ourselves just imagine where the world will be now. A real man is not a man who goes around beating women. Truth is if you were fighting another man like mike tyson as angry as you are you would not even try cos you know you would get beaten. So why then is it okay to beat a woman when you would not dare beat a fellow man. It means you are a coward. I just feel like there are better ways to resolve disagreements and conflicts then injuring someone.

Who actually reports all this crap stories. Nigerian journalism has a long way to go. Honestly it all boils down to he said she said. I could also post a picture of a "damaged fridge"" or break my desk and say i was thrown on it. This proves nothing at all.

If he is telling the truth then this should be a lesson to men with the type of ladies you date. If you date hoodrats then expect hoodrat behaviour. I saw on the other thread about ladies spitting and pulling mens shirt. Who does that? so look inwards and stop dating hodrats then complaining about the sh1t afterwards

If the girl is telling the truth then he needs to be prosecuted. It's about time that domestic abuse is taken seriously in Naija. Not everything must be giddy giddy aba. All it takes is 1 bad hit and if she dies then you are fked for live. I think there should be some anger management courses introduced in Naija cos there is a serious problem

Also all these ladies that want to run after 'celebs' or whatever they call themselves. If he hits you once and you stay then dont come crying after the 100th time. Nonsense!

Some of these comments are damn annoying. I really feel sorry for some women that are married to devils.

There is nothing worse than a self centred and selfish man.This is why its extremely important to pay close attention when dating because if he is selfish during the relationship he will definitely be selfish during marriage.

Why do men forget so easily? what about all those women who helped and stayed with their man and when they made it they "forgot" about what they did for them when they had nothing?

Its not a women thing because men do the same thing. Its normal and it happens.

Just because someone helped you in the past does not mean you should force yourself to remain in such a relationship when you are not happy esp wrt infidelity etc

After personal experience too i believe one should date someone on the same level as them to avoid all these stories that touch

delishpot:
Police should investigate. Looks like he suffered trauma to his head. Abi dem don kill am during heated argument and dump his body in that we'll claiming he killed himself?

On the other hand, Soup don don for women bashers

This is what i have been trying to understand. Were they with him when he "committed suicide"? how do they know that it was suicide and not murder? Was there a note left behind indicating that he would jump into a well.Some of these stories are simply tales by moonlight. Smdh

MrsChima I see you are still slaying these bishes