₦airaland Forum

firstEVA:
under the law, it is called "breach of promise to marry". He has to pay damages, next time, he will learn to keep his promise.

MrsChima:
You do not want to date or marry Nigerian men!

They are horrible husbands, fathers, and providers. Get a Ghana man.

vecman22:
Hmmmm omo some boys they try oooo, 2yrs!!!!! And you even have the mouth to say his caring and so on.... my sister you are just wicked..

tivta:
. Useless excuse? But its justifyable for women to nag? Deny sex? Why the double standard? You really need to attend marriage counseling. As for taking time to get pregnant, its obvious he is not the one with the problem since he can impregnate another woman. Do you know if she is the one begging him to stay with her? If her hands her clean why didn't she divorce him? I don't support cheating but there is always a reason for everything good or bad we do in life. She should check her self.

blackpanther25:
Women are funny creatures. A woman is quick to reject a man that lives with his mom but will mess with a man that lives with his wife

These ho€s ain't loyal. That's why he never married the side chic but she is probably good in bed so he still keeps her around. As for Toke I do feel for her but it appears that this man was not ready for marriage and to be tied down. It seems like he got married just to make Toke happy. Women should not force men to be tied down because the end results will never be good.

tivta:
Women in nigeria of this generation just love to be right no matter how truly wrong they are, how can a married woman who is 30years old not have anything to show for her marriage except globe trotting? If she had a kid now I would call Maje a poligamous hegoat, but he has none[b][/b]. I still say just because a woman is working doesn't mean she can't raise a family, that's why I so much love Beyonce, despite her over working life style, she still has time to raise her daughter. She is not a super woman but a virtuous woman, I bet that all the so called women shouting Maje is this and that are all just kids from the early 90's, who are on their way to becoming lesbians. Family must always come first if not there is no way you would be alive. I still say it, Toke was just not ready for marriage, you can't eat your cake and have it. She should have just married her job just like Genevive. I really pity girls of this generation, always trying to eat their cake and have it yet don't have wisdom like Beyonce, what a pity.

pcguru1:
i tire o, how is having sex with another lady a mistake , besides how i wonder why he didn't marry this babe after dating for so long, long courtship have got to go

cap28:
By the way what sort of woman has a kid for a man who dumped her and married someone else, that girl's self esteem must be in the gutter. I don't know what she's going to tell that child when he or she grows up, or maybe she hasn't thought that far ahead .

nnwniger:
THESE GUYS THAT ARE TROWING STONES YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL[b]. THIS BROTHER MADE A MISTAKE[/b], PERIOD. THERE'RE CONTRIBUTORY MISTAKES ON BOTH SIDES, I CAN'T IMAGINE DATING SOMEONE FOR THAT LONG AND END UP MARRING SOMEONE ELSE, WHAT'S THE POINT.? DATING SUPPOSED TO BE A PRECURSOR FOR SOMETHING HIGHER. ONE CAN WRITE A 100 PAGES ABOUT NIGERIAN MARRIAGES, IT'S FUNNY. NIGER MARRIAGES ARE MOSTLY IN THE BEDROOM, EVERYONE GOES ABOUT HIS/HER BUSINESSES. IT'S ONLY WHEN THEY'RE DATING THAT MOST DO THINGS TOGETHER, VERY SAD. YOU CAN APPRECIATE BONDING WITH SOMEONE YOU DATED FOR THAT LONG, NOT JUSTIFYING ANYTHING HERE AND I WISH THEM WELL

baby124:
Where is the silver spoon. Over hype over name from 1960, where what they stole cannot pass 100,000 naira in today's money. Lagos big boy for wia. Do you know what it is to be a Lagos big boy? It's not by pocket money from your father at 45

jaybee3:
You are very stûpid for blaming the poor girl

You really should try to engage your brain sometimes ya know. Toke or whatever her name is certainly wasn't all that busy 8 years ago when the dude started dating the other girl as reported.


Rubbish!

Praisles:
When we tell them, Life is more than been seen everywhere,they refuse to listen. If she has actually stayed at home, she would have atleast notice the movement of her husby.She goes to events in n out of the country, posting'' i miss you'' everywhere, social network doesn't play the wife's roles dear, So Sorry.. Ori omo apomo waye fun e

hensben:
baby mama be like...

Fulaman198:
There is nothing tribalistic about my comments. It's like calling a Turkish man an Arab. That's wrong. They are two very different distinct groups of people or like calling a Mexican a Brazilian. That's how different things are. I respect and love Hausa people personally. Nothing beats their Kalangu music.

Fulaman198:
What's up with the Hausa/Fulani, they are not the same ethnic group. Are you sure you are a Pullo? No Pullo would ever put Hausa next to Fulani.

MrsChima:
No! I can't cheat on Chima! I was talking to some friends and some of us have home based Naija men and Abroad based Naija men....with different experiences. I have dated both and noticed differences because to me Naija men are Naija men regardless of their home location but I was mistaken.

I was told by a Nigerian American that there are differences in thinking and attitudes. The culture is slightly different as well. I was curious to see opinions and see if others think there are any differences.

What do you think as an Abroadbaser?

kalindaminda:
Nairaland houses a "special" breed of "man". Special, like rétarded.

kalindaminda:
On this website, boys are just waiting feverishly for the slightest chance to bash women. You shouldn't be surprised.

Meanwhile, they have the nastiest, stinking balls.

Gaidenk:
If I talk now e go be like sey. She should go out abi? Like I told u before,you either an e-feminist only blurting out your inner wishes or you just a really stuck up b****. Either ways,please find some white dude and marry,you no t fit for a real Nigerian man.

Sparkle777:
Frankly,am shocked and a bit appalled by how palm oil is being prcessed. Will never look at palm oil the same again.
Horrid.

JiggamanGh:
Don't get married if you are havent finish sampling women. I believe once you get married u should leave all other women behind.

Is okay to have a side chick when you are in relationship but when you get married all side chicks should be left back. Don't crucify me ladies

Fulaman198:
Why do they look less beautiful than women in Nigeria sef. All I see are a bunch of muscular women wearing weave that are pretending to be westerners

Jman06:
Why would I wanna whine about Yoruba Lmao

Honestly, I don't give a f*ck about whom any body chooses to marry or date. But Nl Yoruba guys were going overboard with the whole thing when they claim that Igbo ladies prefer them to Igbo guys. Then I had to correct the erroneous statement. If that's what you call whining, then you may need to check your dictionary properly.

We all know that most Igbo guys don't marry outside igboland, and on daily basis many Igbo guys get married to Igbo girls, yet some fo0lish Yoruba guys want to claim that they are preferred by Igbo chicks.

Let me state that before joining Nl, I never hated Yoruba people. In fact I had many of them as friends. But after reading so many posts from Yoruba guys who take pleasure from insulting igbos, I was tempted to hate anything Yoruba. That temptation is what I am seriously fighting to overcome now.

Jman06:
I just listed the kind of Igbo ladies that "can't resist". Let me restate it again that NO thoroughbred Igbo lady would want to have anything with Yoruba guys. It is only the aristos and outcasts who can't find Igbo guys to marry them that would marry Yoruba. Is that so difficult to understand

You are quick to notice how proud I am about my tribe's hatred for Yoruba, but always look the other way your Yoruba brothers insult and attack igbos on social media especially nairaland. How hypocritical you are!

mentorandfriend:
Sorry, I'm done with you.

mentorandfriend:
Demented swine! You cant tell when someone is just being humorous. E-diot!