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This is just nasty

He beats you smdh I give up

peedeeasobie:
when on earth did this wickedness start? Look at the ungodly analysis people are giving!
If its ur brother that spent all his money training a lady in school, will you advice the lady to leave him after four years because he doesn't have enough money to marry her now?

If he was kind enough to train her in school, why would he choose to dump her after such investment?


I pity men who want to marry ungrateful and wicked women!

It seems the lady in question is only with the man because he "trained" her at school. If she does not love him then she should be honest with the both of them and save them from unnecessary drama in the future. I would not want someone to marry me sorely on the basis that I helped them at school etc. I mean not all relationships work unfortunately and staying with someone sorely because of that or out of pity is a no no.

If she can't wait another 4 years then she must simply let him know simple.

thinkingbee:
Am a victim of physical abuse, I now want him to pay for all his actions. What organization will fight my cause? Am so hurt I can't put down in words, I want him to feel the pain of oppression.

Firstly I think you just need to take a second and chill a bit before you do something you regret.

Secondly do you have kids? Are you still living with him? I think the most important thing is to find a way to leave him if possible so that the physical abuse stops. If he threatens your life in any way or hurts you again then you should get a restraining order or file a case against him.


which country are you in? If you are outside Nigeria it would be much easier for you to take legal action for abuse than if you are in Nigeria.

Don't do anything that you may regret. The most important thing is for you to find a place away from the abuse and get better. If you have a job great if not try and find one so that you will be able to take care of yourself.

I know it's easier said than done but you can forgive him and move on with your life. You need to ask yourself will 'revenge' make you feel better at the end of the day?

onila:
she told us the story
I didn't need to be in the club

yeah am sure she did

Onila I think it's about time you write a fiction book and not all this rubbish fake stories. So you were at the club too with your aunt and you now can read her mind.

Your stories are becoming boring now. They used to be kinda entertaining before, I guess you are losing your touch

4 years engagement I really don't blame you for not putting all your eggs in one basket just know where to draw the line and have boundaries but it appears he has none but expects you too.

Reminds me of a lady who was engaged for 10years and she was dumped and a month later the same guy got married to another girl. Trust your gut if you feel something is not right. He may just very well be keeping you as an option too.

abejide1000:
You can't expect us to pay for Brazilian hair, hand bags, Mr Biggs, Transportation fare, shaving stick for p***y and lots more. Ashawo will not collect iPhone 6, that's enough, we're not CBN

Lol reminds me of a story I read on front page the other day about a prostitute who used to cut mens dicks for rituals before they came. Just be careful it does not happen to you

gogoqueen:
I am American and am dating a Nigerian man, love him! He is hard working, caring,intelligent and knows how to pick his women(lol). Only one thing, he's sooo far away, United Arab Emirates . I hate that it will be 3 months till I see him. I also hate to say this and I really don't feel like this about him but in the back of my mind I wonder is this real? I have been scammed by a Nigerian man (boy) before. Fell for his lies... I should have known were lies. This guy is totally opposite but its just that one Nigerian kind of placed a label on Nigerian men for me.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

You met him online too.... my advice will be to run as fast as you can. You can't seriously be that desperate

teewai3:
you really like this girll and she is not d usual type you normally attracted to...i think u ar not sure of wat u really want

I think you are right.

What 'type' of girls are you usually attracted to? One thing you must realise is there is no such thing as a perfect partner. You can't have everything, however you should not force yourself to feel something that you are not feeling. If you cannot get over her not being the type of girl you want then it's best you leave sooner than later.

KenyanLady:
a typical retarded african.

And you are not an African?

baroncy:
Before

she was obese before.

This advert is a scam. They are not the same person if you pay closer attention to her facial features nose etc. Besides the after is actually a model but I can't remember her name

My goodness. I could not even watch the whole video. Her voice was giving me a headache. How can she behave like that shouting in public am so embarrassed for her. Unfortunately because of women like her, her kwasiabilities will be generalised as typical behaviour.

babyfaceafrica:
if its really like dat,then what the hell are feminist making noise about?!!!

Even though it's like that does not make it right. That's what feminist are making noise about

pyyxxaro:



Take her to synagogue immediately , so that TB Joshua can cast out that messsing demon from her

She needs a detox to start of with yo clear all the junk in her system. Is your girlfriend fat?

If she is she needs to change her diet and watch her weight. It's really unacceptable and disgusting to behave like this

Some things in life are just like that. Just like when women cheat or have multiple partners are seen far worse than when a man does it.

Some things benefit men more and others benefit women more. It's life

GuyFawkes:
Billionaire my foot
Since when did every random Russian become a billionaire?

So you can believe mikel obi's Russian girlfriend is a billionaire but not this girls bf lol

I wish I never opened this thread. Am sick to my stomach!

Too many insecure psssy a.s.s niggas on this thread. Please grow some balls all because her father bought her a car. Y'all are making a mountain out of a molehill

You married a Bleep.tard am sorry to say. Your husband never ever loved you, he was just tolerating you. He is also a coward. If he was tired of the marriage the decent thing was to talk to you and at least tell you about his plans to marry or perhaps a divorce if need be.

You also played your part firstly by going for such a marriage in the first place and by your actions as well but that still is no excuse for infidelity. He knew you were insecure but instead of actually talking to you and having a one- to one conversation with you about your concerns all he did was fight you and warn you.

My advise. Focus on your kids. Get a job and forgive them. It won't be easy but eventually the pain will go away 1 day.

I don't think it's a good idea to live in same house cos you will continue to feel hate and resentment when they are together.

What happened to banana bender? You roaches chased her away

2legit2qwt:
that just killed me with laughter

What kinda man you been hangin with? The ones with a pussssy hanging in their azz literally?

yeah that pic cracked me up too. But you know you are an exception . Nytie