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Haynnie:
You didn’t see the part that she cheated on him?

Una dey reply this mad human being called woman

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xavuv:
I dont know sha. Me and my wife blow eachother very well,strong ones o, at any part of the body EXCEPT the face. I give her blow she gives me back.

We do rough play alot almost on daily basis sha. We play rough even in front of our kids,even our kids nodey look our side again when we start our rough play.

We chase ourselves around in our house and sometimes in our compound(we dont have neighnours ,and its fenced). It has always been like that since our school days sha.

My wife has never slaped my face sha oo,doing rough play or not. I hope she will never do that. This is what is obtained in my family.

Your wife slapping your face is what is obtained in yours. I guess that should not be a big deal.

Is this your first slap from her? If yes,then pls let it slide.

Has she always been aggressive?, If yes, that too can be managed.

Is she the dominant type? If yes,then there is a litttle bit of issue here.

Talk to her firmly, let her know that she should not repeat it again.

She has always been aggressive but not to the point of slapping me and I've never thought she could slap me until she did

PeacenLove2:
You be man my brother. It's not okay to be physically aggressive and her reaction is condemnable. But let's get to root cause.

First, as a man when you tell another soul that your wife slap you, you have turned yourself into 'mumu of life' and you will find yourself defending yourself for the rest of your life by proving to everyone who cares to see that you are an alpha man. Dem go turn you to craze man, maybe even destroy your marriage. Dem go quickly help you spread am and add x10 everything they tell that story.

You know your wife better than us. Is she an aggressive person by nature? What are you missing? Are you pushing her to the wall that hitting you is her last resort? Issues like this always boils down to troubled communication. No price is too heavy to pay for peace in your home. Have a sit down with your wife and make her understand that REGARDLESS of what either of you may have done or said, physical aggression is off the table. Erase this one from your memory like it never happened but let her know it's a boundary that must never be crossed ever again or she would be deemed to have signed your divorce papers automatically. Ball in her court.

And please don't take open communication for granted. Don't be reporting each other to third parties cos frankly people don't really care. Mostly they just pass judgement based on their own experience too. There will be bias. And sometimes they want to welcome you into their chaotic circle esp if their marriage is troubled too. Be very careful. Let God be your third party. I want to believe you and wifey are two reasonable adults. God help you.

Good luck, OP. And please stop bringing your marital issues to Nairaland. Frustrated people haven na as e be.

Thanks so much....I really appreciate this

madridguy:
Laughing at people saying the OP has done well for walking away OP what stops you from giving her friendly slap too? You think she will stop? You think she will not carry turning stick next time and break your head?

Hmmmm

ctleurocollege:
You're the man bro, your self restraint shows you're a man of steel. I throwey salute Boss man

Thanks bro

Gettreadyy:
OP take this advice, I will do the same to make it very clear to her in a calm manner that if she tries it again somebody will die. Tell the mother or father they will seriously warn their daughter. I applaud you for not retaliating instantly.

Okay

limsycutey:
Please explain the bolded before we go on.

When I asked her for the spare key, she asked me with frown face "why do you want the key?" I replied why are u asking me? She said she has the right to ask and I told her what right, she just grabbed my shirt and d rest is slap

kolafolabi:
Best thing to do is to walk away. Trust me, when you get back, she would look sobber and apologize.

If she can apologize I will appreciate.

eazzzy1:
Good for you for not reacting violently. Now warn her sternly never to repeat what she did to you ever again, also report her to her folks and let them know the next time it happens you would retaliate.

If you do not do this, your wife will hit you whenever you have a misunderstanding, we make acceptable what ever we condone. i must commend you again for not reacting violently, you are a better guy than most of us. If you do not handle it now she will soon start slapping you in presence of visitors and outsiders.

The day one of my ex slapped me, i held her hands and gave her two slaps. It never happened again after that day.

Ok

I did not react at all. I felt if I gave her one slap something else could happen

For the first time ever in my life, my wife slapped me twice. You want to know my reaction?

Honestly I was surprised to see my wife slapped me. I thought within myself what could have warranted it.

On Saturday, we went for a party which I was reluctant to attend but I did because I wanted to please my wife. I did all I could to make her happy and to make her feel good but as much as I did, she flared up when I left to ease myself.

She complained that I went with a girl which was not so. To cut the story short I left the party without my wife and we kept distance for some days. Every instructions I gave to my wife since then she would just do it reluctantly and when I needed to get to her office after work so that we could go home together, I would just see that she was not there. when I got back home I decided to get spare key so as to return home from work without waiting for her, I asked her for the spare and she started raising voice on me. I reacted as a man and all of a sudden I got the first slap followed by the second one. Though I didn't react because I don't know what to do.

My question is what will be your reaction if you happen to be in my shoes?

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Congratulations to them

Might likely be that they have visited the family to make peace between the husband and the wife

Good for him. He will never try it again in him remaining life

This is good news

Well-done madam saje

Is it affecting you? If no, then leave it like that

Omg

Ok

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