₦airaland Forum

AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

i see you fraudulently removed the part where u fvked her...


carry your cross o jare

Godmother:
How is having a birthday on a yatch a worldly life? I believe people should read their Bibles regularly so they get to know the real definition of sin. The mentality that a pastor has to be in extreme poverty to be seen as holy is so sad. God is the God of abundance, yet we His children can't show a little wealth? Can the son of a king eat from the floor?

Thank God most of the Nigerians we have now weren't born during king Solomon's era or they'd have sentenced him to hell and back again for his obvious wealth.

Live and let live. And if someone's act is not causing anyone pain, then let's let them be.

Actually, the Bible tells us to do thing moderately. Would you see a sam adeyemi, paul adefarasin or adeboye celebrate in this manner? Or you don't realise they have richer 'proteges' than coza?

Should you not wonder y 6 Nigerian pastors are among the 10 richest when Nigerians and church members are not helped in anywway?

I wa born a baptist. I now attend one of the popular pentecostal churches and I can asure u that the church of today has lost a lot of its focus.

How I wish they all can learn frm the compassion Jesus had when he aw his congregation hungry.

Dubemkelly:
If the first class ish is a curse that u are about to be evicted after u had such grade, why don't u ask to come take the first class back? You paid ur rent then and now with ur success, u can't pay up. There's more to this, don't be lazy, work urself up to ur greatness, u subject urself to a mere beggar cos u got a perfect 5.0 CGPA

You spoke well. The boy is disappointing.

And I don't even understand why he is living alone at this stage.

What's the point of having a perfect gpa yet not know how to 'survive' without resorting to being 'helped'?

sukkot:
dayum nigga you gay

I.diot. U can't see the sarcasm in that can u?

what stupid culture is this baby shower and naked baby bump nonsense? why not also show the naked pe.nis that did the job?

when i was growing up...it was only baby naming ceremony we knew...which kain nonsesne be this these days? see what them kim k haff caused?

lmao...

a 2 bed apartment in dolphin goes for btw 1-1.2 million...

if that is a ghetto....

what do you call isolo, mushin, ajegunle?


Grotto?

I saw it happen around 4am. Didn't even knw d car was terry G's. Guess he was dragging the road with the Danfo Guy

ApexTitan:
Are you sure that's her?

its her...shez my friend...google the speakers for the conference...she is the CEO of AIM higher consulting

Elijahrona2:
Her face no fine

How can you say Peace Hyde isn't fine? You on cheap drugs?

HungerBAD:
So i clicked on the link of the story.

Although the story appeared in the Punch Newspaper, it does not come with a Writers name, and that itself is suspicious. Another Brown Envelope quietly slipped into an Editorial member's hand(probably a PDP apologist) and that is why i am not buying this story.

Let us know who wrote this article, or this is just another alarmist article by those in the organized committee to jeopardize the good work and good name of President Buhari.

Verdict? Fake News.

this is no fake news and i am sure even you knw that.



You can check my previous posts prior to the election. i was one of the most hardest supporters of president buhari and i used my sphere of influence to campaign hard for him.

However, this govt has lost track and seem clueless as to the economic challenges before it.


The minister of finance is totally confused as to what to do...there is no blueprint to tackle the problem....no economic gameplan...all they shout is anti corruption on the pages on the pages on newspaper. Sad!

What about Redmi 2. Goes for 25k

simplycarro:

He can't even win in his primary constituency-TwitterNG

So how did he become senator if he didn't win his constituency?



I will vote him a million times and yes I voted and supported APC @ d last election


We need to start thinking of what's best for Nigeria and not for any party.



I jst wish I can be a part of his team. He makes a lot of common sense!

This is abrivadoni on IG and she didnt wear this to church...the OP is high on cheap weed!

how does this reduce the price of a dollar?

She never said the person she loves is dating someone else! Op...na evening school you go?

See as dis woman resemble Vic O

lol

una sure say na crime dem want am for abi someborry wan 'chop' am?

Thats was how Jonathan's python of corruption was squeezing life out of Nigeria before God delivered us...

Na wa

morganacanta:
I pity this girl when the backlash will set in.

Beef!

RichYoungNigger:
Thunder fire your mouth there.
What will you tell me ??
Stop invading people's private life.

He left him because he had no money, how do you think your words can convince her ??

Use your brain, son

U shd use ur brain instead. The guy brought his 'private' life for us to help him. Dumbhhead. And yea I can make her realise it's not about the job but the person. And mind ur language. U re uncouth!

hurting:
Good day all! I never thought I will never create a topic like this because I believed I had a perfect love life. I have to create this moniker just for this topic that has and still eating me deep. I will try to make it as brief as possible.

I have been a relationship for 7yrs with the lady that I love beyond measures. I do anything possible within my reach to satisfy n make her happy. She has also been wonderful and almost perfect (nobody is). We started dating from uni days and where d pride n envy of many even after school.

After my service, I started looking for job but as things get murky in d labour market, I started a little ICT troubleshooting hustle, just to keep body n soul together before d job comes. Now this lady has been supportive all d way, after her service she moved to where am based, we managed what we have. She got a job while I was still doing what I do, I could provide for d daily running around like food, clothing, small bills, etc. I could pay my rent sometimes but atimes my siblings support me. When biz haven't been good.

Now this my lady resigned from where she was working because her female boss wasn't treating them well, tru one of my friends I secured a better paying n welfare job in a construction firm for her. We have been doing fine all this while but when I proposed to her she said we should wait till I get a better paying job. I make an average of 35-40k at d end of month but because I spend on what we need in d house I usually don't have it in bulk at d end of d month. She earns around 80k plus a car. Her new boss gives car loan to all his staff down to d secretary. She is an engineer there. She have been having this fear of lack because of what she faced as a child, so whenever d issue of marriage comes up she says I shld wait till I get a job n when ever her friends or mine wedd she cries n complain that I dnt want to marry her. I have promised her that we can make it with our present earnings n with time I will get that job. I knw I live far better than some married men in terms of finances.

This year I made up my mind to ask her for hand in marriage on vals day, but last week she gave me d shocker of my life, but telling me she had moved on because of my employment status. I have begged like I ave never begged anyone before, telling her that am very sure d job will come before d babies start coming. She told me she has found someone else and that she has made up her mind.

She still loves me, but the job issue I her phobia, dont get me wrong she is very decent n has been faithful all our yrs together. Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.

Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit.
Pls help a brother.

pls help me push this to FP I need all d advice I could get before its too late for me.

P.S. Sorry for any grammatical blunder n punctuation errors.

If this story is real, dm me and let me speak wiv her

arresa:
Of what relevance was the worthless twitter constituency senator's age when he was the DG of NTA and ran NTA to the ground while his own silverbird grew with malla and cinemas?

Below are pictures from bayelsa in today's premium times news. Bayelsa stinks.

Spend more time worrying about your dying and stinking constituency instead of camping out on twitter spewing rubbish.

he speaks the truth....


and when he was dg nta...NTA did very well...it got modernised.

@ OP....

you are a poor advertiser for basketmouth...even a fool can see this was not a 'story' but an advert

sorry gal...you refused to see future's 'future'

ladyF:

see your mouth...why u comot my bbm na?

flavour jst dey chop this babe anyhow...choi!

AngryNigerian:
Did you just wake up? Which art, Nice? Even without D'Banj, Don Baba will still rule!

Naaa...u re d Onw who jst woke up...or maybe u were a kid wen 9ice was reigning...


Aside dbanj...which super name has don j raise dat can compare to say nice or olamide?

Don Jazzy def lost some of his credibility with the olamide saga..his tweet to olamide was also lame...dt takes some points off him and shows that behind the camera...he isn't a matured guy.


For me I ll choose ID cabasa. This guy is genuinely huumble...used to attend church with him @ global impact. he is now a pastor.

He is responsible for for bringing out 9ice in his prime and later olamide. All of don jazzy's arts aside dbanj don't compare to any of Cabasa's acts

the governor go dey 'tour-ism' her punany be that...choi!