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hurting:
Good day all! I never thought I will never create a topic like this because I believed I had a perfect love life. I have to create this moniker just for this topic that has and still eating me deep. I will try to make it as brief as possible.

I have been a relationship for 7yrs with the lady that I love beyond measures. I do anything possible within my reach to satisfy n make her happy. She has also been wonderful and almost perfect (nobody is). We started dating from uni days and where d pride n envy of many even after school.

After my service, I started looking for job but as things get murky in d labour market, I started a little ICT troubleshooting hustle, just to keep body n soul together before d job comes. Now this lady has been supportive all d way, after her service she moved to where am based, we managed what we have. She got a job while I was still doing what I do, I could provide for d daily running around like food, clothing, small bills, etc. I could pay my rent sometimes but atimes my siblings support me. When biz haven't been good.

Now this my lady resigned from where she was working because her female boss wasn't treating them well, tru one of my friends I secured a better paying n welfare job in a construction firm for her. We have been doing fine all this while but when I proposed to her she said we should wait till I get a better paying job. I make an average of 35-40k at d end of month but because I spend on what we need in d house I usually don't have it in bulk at d end of d month. She earns around 80k plus a car. Her new boss gives car loan to all his staff down to d secretary. She is an engineer there. She have been having this fear of lack because of what she faced as a child, so whenever d issue of marriage comes up she says I shld wait till I get a job n when ever her friends or mine wedd she cries n complain that I dnt want to marry her. I have promised her that we can make it with our present earnings n with time I will get that job. I knw I live far better than some married men in terms of finances.

This year I made up my mind to ask her for hand in marriage on vals day, but last week she gave me d shocker of my life, but telling me she had moved on because of my employment status. I have begged like I ave never begged anyone before, telling her that am very sure d job will come before d babies start coming. She told me she has found someone else and that she has made up her mind.

She still loves me, but the job issue I her phobia, dont get me wrong she is very decent n has been faithful all our yrs together. Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.

Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit.
Pls help a brother.

pls help me push this to FP I need all d advice I could get before its too late for me.

P.S. Sorry for any grammatical blunder n punctuation errors.

If this story is real, dm me and let me speak wiv her

arresa:
Of what relevance was the worthless twitter constituency senator's age when he was the DG of NTA and ran NTA to the ground while his own silverbird grew with malla and cinemas?

Below are pictures from bayelsa in today's premium times news. Bayelsa stinks.

Spend more time worrying about your dying and stinking constituency instead of camping out on twitter spewing rubbish.

he speaks the truth....


and when he was dg nta...NTA did very well...it got modernised.

@ OP....

you are a poor advertiser for basketmouth...even a fool can see this was not a 'story' but an advert

sorry gal...you refused to see future's 'future'

ladyF:

see your mouth...why u comot my bbm na?

flavour jst dey chop this babe anyhow...choi!

AngryNigerian:
Did you just wake up? Which art, Nice? Even without D'Banj, Don Baba will still rule!

Naaa...u re d Onw who jst woke up...or maybe u were a kid wen 9ice was reigning...


Aside dbanj...which super name has don j raise dat can compare to say nice or olamide?

Don Jazzy def lost some of his credibility with the olamide saga..his tweet to olamide was also lame...dt takes some points off him and shows that behind the camera...he isn't a matured guy.


For me I ll choose ID cabasa. This guy is genuinely huumble...used to attend church with him @ global impact. he is now a pastor.

He is responsible for for bringing out 9ice in his prime and later olamide. All of don jazzy's arts aside dbanj don't compare to any of Cabasa's acts

the governor go dey 'tour-ism' her punany be that...choi!

are the two of them dating?

mumu...go and tell your future prison mates the events surrounding the election....



we aint interested!!!

She don chop...wan move on...she for wait make the guy die first come will am properties na

#hoesaintloyal

i like the guy tho...very friendly when you meet him in person....

Ambode tinks using social media will influence people's opinion? He ain't done shit! Lightin up a bridge isn't an accomplishment!

[size=16pt]Aye Deee? the guy who reported Linda to google and took Linda Ikeji's Blog down last year cos he wanted her to 'recognize' or 'date him'? believe him at your own peril...that guy is a scammer![/size]

Meeloreh:
Someone shu still explain the fight and hint me on the baby they r involving

D baby between whiz and amber rose. U knw ammber was kanye's ex....u get the drift?

musicwriter:
There was actually a documentary about that, I think on Discovery channel or National geographic. Rats were frozen for 7 days and later brought back to life upon thawing. It's just the same way sperms are frozen for years until being implanted into a woman's womb, when there's need to birth a child.

The idea is to get the science advanced such that humans can decide to die temporarily. When the science is fully developed, people can pay and go on a sort of "death holiday" for complete peace of mind. Depending on your requested service package you could decide to die for 1 month, 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, and so on, as you wish.

It's certainly the kind of science I would like to volunteer for, if need be. I can't wait to die!

saints2:
Wow.. Thats deep...

Thanks for the update.

i dont even know who is 'wierder' of the two of you....

the guy who wants to die or you who tinks wanting to die is 'wow' deep...

what it basically means is that you are meant to be a songwriter and non a musician!

winkmart:
You are a graduate and you cant fully express yourself in pure english Even pidgin, you no sabi write.

No wonder u settled for a 20K job after spending more than 500K in school

lol. chill na

OP you get intention jo...no sweet talk us...


why didnt u buy for all the girls?


am sure the mom must have been told other things u be doing for that girl...na una dey dey ashewo section pass for NL...

How is this news?

Y not show us what olamide wore?

Or don jazzy?


When youths of the country spend time discussing what a singer wears to church...I shudder for their intellect...

bqlekan:
Is Wizkid too big to steal from blackface?

In the music industry, an overblowned artiste can steal from an unknown entity. Blackface might be right in this case. Maybe wizkid re-packaged his ideas...

U correct! Remember he also accused tuface of stealing african queen and it was discovered to be true. The guy even pointed to the song wiz stole d song from....

Fans shd use brains and check out his alegations...


Blackface may not have blown dt much but he was partly responsible for the music thhe likes oof whizkid are doin these days

@ OP...if u chop money d way GEJ did...wont u be fat?

If these are the tallest buildings Nigeria has to offer...its a shame!

Propaganda!

na wa o...this one pass me...the girl is possesssed!

That tyre dey 'enjoy' ooo

lol. even if it was true...with the kain big stick wey dem dey use beat the guy for that foto....even if na me, i go say na me kill Jesus

if u like...act say una dey bang...den act say you get belle...act say u con become him baby mama...when he break up with you move to anoda babe..na that time reality go hit you...

#LeaveCrashforLAWMA