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u r his rebound! it doesn't mean he doesnt like u but he is still hung up on his ex ur best option is to specificially tell him u dnt want him contactn his ex n if he still does his 1st choice wld b crystal clear

he owes me o afterall i hv done for him anyway i hv a creator if he messes up

a girl shouldn't wait forever there shld b a timeframe 4 exit

whats all d debate for? tell ur cousin let her decide what she wants to do with the info

thx oyinda

we girls like to hv fun wit our guys dnt take it so serious! she probably knew u were in a good mood n cld get away wit the request ur response was neither wrong nor right. I hv guys carry my bag doesnt mak me think less of them or disrespect them a "real" man cld care less.

@ poster Iice is right. You are right in your thinking but you shouldn't have said it to the guy jst yet and that way. Guys get incredibly pressurised n stressd at a certain age they all know what they hv 2 achieve n gradutn sets the stop watch. As his gf all u cn do is support him n nurture him to achieve his goals but good to hv an exit strategy if he isnt makn a real effort his part
btw success takes time some guys dnt mak it until their 50s! but they r nt usually lazy bums

instinct is a strong force if u truly believe he has changed then u jst hv 2 let d past b d past cos we all make mistakes. Try n make ur relationship more excitn for the both of u n pay attention in the future

we all kno wats gonna happen my advise to u is jst dnt open the door wen she cums knockn. She is a girl on a mission, she has a plan,
p.s. i am in a similar situation so i'm spkn 4rm experience

never!

if it makes u feel better call him but u mite nt hear wat u want to one thing bout guys is if they miss u they will call, sometimes u jst hv 2 accept the reality of things n move on. Pele

You are on a date with a person for the first time, in considering going on a second date with the person what will make you think twice or even say bye?
I know some peeps can be very particular bout this for example my bro has a thing bout a girl's shoes if she goes on a date in funny looking shoes she gets no call back
so my nairalanders what's yours?

yeah u r right i suppose marriage is more like russian roulette

@ soja i dnt like or appreciate ur aggressive tone it is quite intimid8n i decide if n wen i want to post my subject matter nt u! u dnt like go eat dust!

@ justwise its easy to say that now but when things fall apart peeps will be sayn why didnt people around her advise or say something. I dnt mean to b skeptical but i kno how some nij men r ruthless heard a story about a woman that did a similar thing for a guy then after about 2 or 3 kids he now startd complainin 2 d world that he cnt stand her n she has body odour. Cn u imagine? evn if true look how ungrateful n callous a guy cn b he didnt kno that wen he was beggn her to bring him to europe. The stories r plenty i personally think citizenship status declarations r on a need to kno basis

i wasnt lookn for attention folks i jst changd my mind about postn d subject i guess i got shy if u all promise 2 b nice i will repost the body of the text

kpolli:
how do u know he is fake?

i dnt kno if it is fake

justwise:
Why do u think its a big mistake? @OP

i tink its a mistake cos the guy has ntn 2 lose n d whole process cost the girl lots of money, time n energy (she had to travel to nij a couple of times to prove to the british the union was genuine also they had a quickie weddn in nij). So far the guy has investd ntn in d union but he will soon b getn british citizenship

@ netotse b serious! send me ur ID let me evaluate,

@ eldee lets chat on IM hope u hv a webcam? send me ur ID

it happens u will drift bak soon enuf

eldee:
I'm in my 20s

You're Yoruba, how would you like to have some Ishan in you??

oh pls u r movin 2 fast,
where in UK do u stay? obviously nt 10 downin street my cousin lives at no. 13

wetn b ur own mitchelin? na ur bf? abeg o "sho ur igba o"

@ Eldee how old r u?

@ poster congratulation u want chicken 2?

eldee:
Where do u stay in the UK??

london next 19 questions

i dnt mind bein chased o i am currently compilin rebounds (newly made single chick)

i'm from ijebu but a global citizen i am currently shuttling between UK, Ireland n Belgium

but i'm nt in nij and anywhere i go i am always cuter than the average (omo i b correct fine girl) my word against urs

Romance Section Needs Spicing Up! jst returned to NL after a long hiatus n man r d topics nt stimulatn! pls guys give me correct romance gist.

Let me start: so i kno someone that is a british citizen n brought over her man from nij i thought that was a big mistake so my question when is it a good time to reveal your citizenship status? i.e. to ensure u dnt get fake professions of luv.
Pls do nt restrict the topic of discussion of this thread. Any juicy gossip will do