₦airaland Forum

sapiosexual1:
Like seriously, the comments of some of us here exposes why the church continues to slide down into the depths of materialism, that is why pastors have turned the pulpit to their own fashion run way, show casing their latest acquisitions while many of their members languish in poverty.
I believe in being simple, even the Bible preaches moderation. Sadly many of us equate societal status and respect with dressing and ability to impress from the wardrobe.

Can the Ambassador of any Country dress like that for an official meeting?

Avalon316:
The guy should move on. I hope she has other options. These babes do shakara to remain single and frustrated.

My advise to the you girls out there .... ensure that you are in a serious relationship before the age of 24 or you risk being unmarried.

Look around you and study the lives of these old babes wey dey pray Upandan for marriage

RUBBISH!

seunaj:
These ppl are not only living in the 10th century, they are also insane and hypocrites. Emir in Katsina can kidnap and marry a 14 year old gal but a grown up adult like Rahama cannot hug a man in a video. It is obvious that Islam has lost Rahama already, she should be wise enough to understand that she cannot achieve her goals nor display her talent in Islam. Aisha Buhari is the next (I am sure she's tired of Islam already), we are inviting her to the religion that preaches truth and love, where u can shake as many men as possible once u are doing it with a free mind and a pure heart. I strongly warn Christian ladies having any form of relationship(s) with muslim men in the name of money, not to be so gullible to exchange their freedom for material stipends that may not last a lifetime.
Islam is cursed. Women are depleted, deluded, cheated upon and regarded as intimacy gadgets to the husband who will still go ahead and bring another wife to come and be a rival to these faithful, innocent women.
Women are still not to be heard in this 21th century where a female is the paramount ruler in developed countries such as Germany, UK, to mention a few. I was shocked wen I read recently that in a sharia court, 2female witnesses are equivalent to a male witness and a woman must present @least 2 male witnesses before she can report a rape case in court.
If u are a woman and u are practising Islam, I wonder if Ure brainwashed or u just accept some sort of incompleteness and inferiority.

You spoke my mind.

annunaki2:
Tithes is scriptural but it's not applicable to Christians and the type of tithes(monetary tithe from income) preached in churches today is certainly not scriptural.

It is 100% scriptural.
What stops you from doing both. Paying tithe and giving to the poor.
Really dont understand the arguments people make about tithing.

You can do both. Pay your tithe and still help the poor.

freeze001:
This is how they incite gullible followers into heinous acts of violence. Most aren't even informed enough to form an opinion or be bothered but these useless radicals, so called religious leaders will just fill their heads with evil halftruths n program them for mayhem.

He should rather be arrested!

I heard that's what they use their mosque for,to incite their followers into violence.

Hello Nairalanders from the other(sideeeee) room!

Happy weekend!

ObaKlaz:
Idiots! The man has simply said "My wife belongs to my HOME" in essence, which isn't false!

ZOMBIE OH ZOMBIE!

Shame.

What about Bee farming?

FreshBoss007:
and what would happen after that?

Epp me ask am!

More info pls.

Refreshing!

I thought "they" said there are no good marriageable girls in Nigeria anymore?

Congratulations to you Benita.

Dyt:
Finally
Fate has brought us back after how many years

Come
Come
Come to me

Funny you!

@ Op don't mind all these people telling u there are no good girls back home to marry.

My huby came back from Germany and married me, were there no ladies for him to marry in Europe?

Come to Lagos,every Saturday is One wedding ceremony to another,( my saturdays are never dull)the people marrying are they Americans?No
Na naija guy marrying a naija bae o.

Just be wise sha, and be sure what you want in a wife.Ask the Lord to guide u.

Marriage for me is all about friendship.

Fadamant:
Thanks very much@chuskbogus2001. The op, has an issue and is seeking for advice. Instead of providing advice the alphas and omegas in relationship matters on nairaland are calling the op names for discovering and feeling bad about the lie his wife told him.

Lies on any grounds in marriage are bound to erode trust between couples and eventually destroy any marriage's foundation.

@Op, please forgive your wife. Calm yourself down and have a tete-a-tete with your wife, stating how you feel about it. You cannot throw away a marriage that has been going on fine before the issue of age came up because of age. Moreso, marriage is more than age. So forgive her and shelve the idea of divorce.

There is no issue in this matter.

lonelydora:
Virgin with that hip? Virgins are usually timid, no curves, and no full bobby. Forget it.

Do u even know the meaning of the word "Voluptuous"?

Peter Obi for PRESIDENT!

DeSepiero:
Don't worry, you'll be fine
There are principles of making and keeping wealth.
If you follow them, you'll most probably be wealthy.
By the way, countless people are not Christians, and obviously don't give offerings in churches but are still wealthy.

They and their wealth never end well.
And it vanity really, to be somewhat wealthy and not have God.

I will take the two, any time any day just like SOLOMON: God and wealth.

DeSepiero:
Don't worry, you'll be fine
There are principles of making and keeping wealth.
If you follow them, you'll most probably be wealthy.
By the way, countless people are not Christians, and obviously don't give offerings in churches but are still wealthy.

They and their wealth never end well.
And it vanity really, to be somewhat wealthy and not have God.

I will take the two, any time any day: God and wealth.

pr0blem:
Hi Berlynn,

"For Christ also suffered for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body, but made alive in the spirit, in which He also went and preached to the spirits in prison, who disobeyed long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah, while the ark was being built. In the ark a few people, only eight souls, were saved through water." - 1 Pet 3:18-20.

Not like I know stuff or anything, Just sharing. No soul goes to waste with God. NONE! is condemned. He either saves ALL or saves NONE. But since he said he will save ALL, then He meant it. I haven't died sha, so I can not tell yet LOL. Except to answer you using same scriptures from which you asked your questions.

About Hell, "And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death." - Rev 20:14. Hell apparently isn't eternal, it has an end.

Upon reading scriptures thoroughly, Everything about God is ONE, hence God's judgement isn't apart from His Love, neither is his wrath apart from His righteousness. Only wicked people that do not understand these workings separate them and threaten a people with the fear of wrath and Hell.

Some people propose it is the ones who do not believe that will use their freewill to go to Hell. That God is loving but he will allow them the choice they make/made. But that sounds quite ridiculous if you asked me. Here's why: "the Living One. I was dead, and behold, now I am alive forever and ever! And I hold the keys of Death and of Hell" - Rev 1:18. This same one that holds the keys of death and hell is said to have this mission - "For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved" - John 3:17. How will the one said to save rather than condemn, whom also has seized the keys of death and hell, fail at his mission because of an irresponsive attitude towards Love? Was he not the same one that asked us to "love our enemies and pray for them?" - Matt 5:44 Ridiculous? I think the same. If he can't keep his own laws, why should we? are we more righteous or merciful?

"The Lord's portion is His people" - Deut 32:9
"The earth is the LORD's, and everything in it. The world and all its people belong to him." - Psm 24:1
"Then the end will come, when He hands over the kingdom to God the Father... And when all things have been subjected to Him, then the Son Himself will be made subject to Him who put all things under Him, so that God may be all in all." - 1 Cor 15:25, 29

Consider these things, then will you begin to know your God

Everybody have been saved LEGALLY, BUT EACH AND EVERY SOUL NEEDS TO ACCEPT THAT SALVATION VITALLY.

Now if any SOUL rejcts the Salavation wrought in Christ, and eventually dies, that SOUL will go to hell, not as a result of their SINS cos their SINS has been taken care of, but as a result of NOT ACCEPTING SALAVATION IN CHRIST.

God gave up His, sent Him to hell that we should not end up in hell, but if one refuses the offer God has proposed in Christ, then hell shall be their eternity.

God is too good, and SALAVATION in Christ is the antantidote for the Sinner Man.

No other way.

Jesuobu:
My dear no one knows and you shouldn't give a chance to beg for forgiveness when you have the chance of doing the will of God on earth and inherit eternal life.

But mind you, the fear of hell should not make you serve God but you should serve Him in spirit and in truth and when you do this, there is no chance of going to hell

Did I hear u say "No one knows" Stop deceiving yourself, the scripture is explicit on this subject. Sinners will go to hell,and hell its self will be thrown into the lake of fire, with all its occupants.
God is not unjust to leave us without answers to the life after.Rightous souls go to heaven, sinners end up in the hell first, then lake of fire after their judgment.
He that has an ear let him hear what the Spirit is saying.

No it is not the will of God.Scriptural ref: "For they that dwell in Zion shall not say I am sick".Divine health and healing has been made available in Christ.

Uchenna42:
Nothing! Absolutely nothing is worth celebrating...

Am celebrating our POSSIBILITIES!

Basildvalour:
London Bridge is falling down...my dear lady!

If you aremale, the falling of yourwifey bridge no be here, and if you are a female show us yourown bridge make we see if it has gone south or its still at the North pole.

brostheo:
My grand dad told my dad,my dad told me now I'm telling my son the world is coming to an end.Bro when exactly is Jesus coming since you know the signs

The exact time and hour is not revealed. He cometh like a theif in the night, your part is to be ready always. As for the signs, they are there already:Homosexuality, Immorality, Pestilence, economic meltdown, increase in knowledge -technology, science and the Love of Many shall wax cold, unrest in the middle east- the church at the moment is waiting for the anti christ to be revealed, but before then, we will keep doing what we wereborn to do- Preach the gospel, tell the untold about Christ and His kingdom.
He that has an ear let him hear.
Jesus is coming!

[quote author=deolu2000 post=49353585]Thank God for the blood of Jesus Christ. He shed it once and for all for the attonent of our sins.[/quote, Am eternally grateful for what He did, i don't need to be sacrificing any animals up and down. Thank you Lord Jesus

No it is not okay, she should discover herself, to avoid stories that touch the heart

femlex:
I have married for six years now, and just early this week myself and my wife were thinking about our first two years of marriage, hardly will a weekend pass without us having a quarrel, mostly she complains I do not assist her in the house especially in the weekends when I felt too that I should be resting.

Today we hardly quarrel, and she does almost all house chores.

In marriage, you have the forming, storming, norming, performing stage like in a team. At the first to third year, you are majorly part of the storming process and this is likely the things you come across.

Sending her back to Nigeria is not an option at all, how many will you send home?

For you to maintain your cool, it shows a lot of maturity and love from your side, but you self get fault for this matter. The way you are mentioning FIFA in your message shows you give the lady less attention than she expect. This could be part of what is burning her.

Be the man that you are, brace yourself, this will not be last.

Get inside, talk to her, make love to her, and manage this, and next that may be next week until you reach the norming stage.
God bless you.

Precisely! For her to hide the remote in her panties, is an indication of attention.
@Op, its time you sit her down and talk, real talk, no FIFA no games.