₦airaland Forum

dadaic:
You are a fawol oo.. Indicted myself? You are just not it at all. While someone was dating, not while they were married.. If I was dating and I cheated on her, that was my past. And it wasn't something I hid from her, I told her. And that was when we were dating before marriage. Don't be ridiculous. Do not commit adultery. Simple. Which one is i was indicted inside? Na my story? Abi No be another man story? Mschew..

. Y are u being abusive? Can't u maturely state ur points? From ur comments wat u r saying in ernest is dat ur grlfrend is free to cheat on u so long as u r not married? Ok fine..I wish u wat u wish urself

cycline404:
Yes, if my mother lead the team they will tag her the baddest of all time..
Someone like you will call her jobless!!
Its a pity how everything in the country is being compromised!!
The same Nollywood that raise a banner for #Bringbackourgirls
They are jumping around the president all in the name of $$$$$
Has the girls been brought back? Has anything changed?
Wise up Mr...

. So because d grls havnt been brought back they shuldnt campaign 4 him? Are d grls in d president's room? Y don't u go bring dem back if u know where dey are. @least they are even alive, in Obj's tenure woman & children were killed in Odi village in Bayelsa, hav they been brought back? Durin Gowon 's tenure over a million children starved to death, hav they been brought bck? I could go on & on..., u r afraid ur mother will be called jobless if she leads d tem of d women fighting against injustice to women? Yet u want u r urging another woman & women of nollywood to do d same....how convenient..

dadaic:
Easy for you to say. Some ladies find it easy in their blood to do these things knowing the type of man they married. If your husband has anger issues and you do such thing on a regular basis, then be wary of what would happen. A former colleague had the same ish some years back. On his desk, he had his beautiful wife and three lovely kids pic. He would stare at them and smile and his day was always perfect. Everyone wished to be him, he was just awesome. After 14 yrs of marriage, he got a beautiful job at a multinational company and was sent abroad. He was asked to get a DNA test for his family, lo and behold, the beautiful family was not what we all thought. The three kids were all from different men and he didn't have one of his in the three kids he had fathered for that long. If na you, wetin you go do? Be there saying one will walk away. Easy for you to say oo...

I have met a pastor who cried on the street one day and I was shocked. I asked him why he was crying, I wanted to help him even if it was financially. He cried and with tears in his eyes, and with a groaning voice, he said ''he just beat his wife''. I was like you don't hit a woman, have you apologized, and have you spoken to her. He said while crying ''NO''.. I just kept trying to calm him down, and when he was calm, he told me what had happened. He got home and saw his wife having sex with her ex bf. He got upset and beat her, in the process of beating her, she said ''I WILL NEVER STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM''... And he wanted to know the reason why she did it, even when they both have 2 kids, and she said ''while we were dating, you cheated on me, and I am paying you back''...

You don't know women oo.. They are dangerous people. It is just sad that there are so many men out there who think their wives are perfect. And the worse part of it is the guys who sleep with these married women think they are on top of their game. You will be judged by God and only God.

. U indicted urself by d second story. I totally condemn fornication & adultery, but I ll hav u know dat 95 per cent of women who cheat do it as a form of payback. I know there are irresponsible woman who can cheat for no just cause, but I tell u dat if there are 100 adulterous women, 95 of dem hav had their husbands cheat on them. (Am not justifying their acts, but dis is just d fact). #IfUDontEnjoyBeingCheatedOn,ThenDontCheat#

cycline404:
The issue of rape is getting higher day by day!
Issue of Husband abusing wife getting more higher!
Issue of guys abusing girlfriend getting higher

And we have the first lady of a country, who cannot lead a march, awareness!!! Use her power of woman to fight against all this and make it reduce

Rather she is encouraging the youth to stone people to death......

Honestly i don't know what this country is going nor turning into!!!`

. Now its d fault of d firstlady dat men are now turning into beasticious lunatics? ..common sense really not common @all

cozy7:
So interesting when pple who deserves sth gets it. Na MAMA PEACE remain.........come Saturday!

. Could dis be Illiteracy , blindness or ignorance

braine:
Anyone telling "secrets" a lady or man that is in a serious relationship should know that the partner knows about the "secrets" too. Thats how it works.

lol, its true o

Scatterboss:
I watched the video and the woman never said something of such. Smh

. Honestly,even b4 I saw dis Nairaland thread I read wat she said & found it very ofensive to d Edo pple. She said every area has its own problems & dat d problem peculiar to Edo was child traficking...etc. Etc. How can she be such a hippocrite? Wen her pple are marryin grls @ 13, 11 & 9yrs. Culd she pls remove d plank in her eyes frst?

mekula:
Madam, God recognizes your marriage once dowry has been paid and cultural rites fulfilled. Otherwise, all of us in Nigeria would be bastards since our fore fathers did not have any white wedding. This is purely the white man's tradition we are copying with all its practices...kissing the bride, throwing of flowers, wedding ring, e.t.c.

. Ur fore fathers didn't know Christ, u do. Ur forefathers killed twins out of ignorance, do u want to do same just cos dey did? Cos dey mite be forgiven since dey didn't know wat dey were doing was wrong, but I cnt say d same 4u. All d same God knows best he is d judge of man

QuiverBox:
Church wedding does not mean he will spend money.

The Church elders did not say he must do church wedding with receptions.

Church wedding simply means - officially ordaining / recognizing your union in church.

He should simply pick a date , invite family and friend and be joined in holy matrimony.

It must not be on Saturday morning oh. It can be anytime approved by the church.

Celebration can come when he has money.

EXACTLY. Wat will it take one to get blessed by a man of God infront of family? Wedding isn't only recognised wen there is heavy spending. D couple shuld do a quiet white wedding , & get God involved in their union. It says what God has joined together let no man put assunder, not what d elders hav joined together, or what d court hs joined together. Before, I don't tink hving concubines was a sin, but wen Christ came he renewd everything. & instituted d 'one man one wife' rule, so anybody goin contrary to dis is a fornicator/adulterer. & since Christ is d author/founder of modern Christian marriage, how can u say u r married wen u havnt involved Him oficially? The Church isn't just a house, it is a house of God , God's dwelling place. So please to every couple & intending couple, it won't take u much to just go infront of God & exchange vows. If u don't hv money, den postpone d reception for later, or make it low key

PreshyG:
D tin is, he mustn't do an elaborate wedding, like me; i will even prefer a private church wedding. Just d priest,d two parents, sponsor and few witnesse. Cos i would not want to stay away from communion because of white wedding. Afta going through intro. And trad.marriage.

. Thank u. My view exactly

SmartFaces:
She she had been in this relationship for one year, he proposed, everything followed to their traditional marriage last months. But his church says they can't live together until the white wedding is done. He is not buoyant or ready for a white wedding now but has carried out all rights both legal and traditional as they both agreed. what should they do?
The question now is, at what point is marriage recognized and honoured?
Is it at the point of...
(A) agreement between both spouse?
(B) Introduction (both families meeting and knowing each other)?
(C) Traditional Marriage?
(D) Court Marriage? Or the mighty
(E) White Wedding?




For me i think these churches complicates issues.
please i need sincere judgments and opinion, no insults or name calling.
We are all here to learn.

. I love dis question, infact av been pondering dis issue for years now. But I tink dat; before GOD, marriage is recognised after white wedding. & note dat dis white wedding mustnt be flambouyant/ expensive. U can even schedule an early morning wedding if u aint dat high on cash. Once there is a priest/pstor/man of God to join u two together, give u blessings, wit a few witnesses around, I tink u r good to go

buygala:
Marriage isn't something that one does out of pity or a blind sense of obligation.... Better break hearts now than murder each other in the future

Much as the guy's act appears abhorrent on the face of it, one has to have access to the full story before one can actually apportion blame correctly....


The fact that peeps have been dating since the time of John the Baptist doesn't place any compulsory obligation on them to tie the knot with each other... 'Walking Away' has always and will never cease to be an option in courtship.

. Pls try & be reasonable! Y break up wit d girl a day b4 his wedding. Or did he just meet d bride to be yesterday? Nobody is compellin him to marry d gf of so many yrs.., but y not tell d grl on time of his plans. After now guys will say grls don't like to look @poor blokes, see she loved him wen he had nothing , now dat he has made it he has picked a new babe, witout even lettin her know on time. Girls dis is a lesson, don't 'manage' any poor bloke, if he aint gud enof pls throw him out d window & look for a better person, cos some of dem end up not appreciating ur sticking wit dem thru trying times. To d gf of 11yrs, I advise her to put her trust in God, God is d giver of all good gifts, & He will bless her wit a better man

sosanova:
She thinking chai what has thief-nubu done to infect my husband (Amaechi) with Amala n Ewedu mentality

. Hahahahahaha

kglamour:
http://www.punchng.com/news/i-rejected-jonathans-offer-of-interim-vp-tinubu/

bla bla bla....next!

bogolobango:
3rd pic see my clueless senseless presido na nose he wan kiss

. All join

not4sure:
AIT Received N10 Billion For Damaging Documentaries On Opposition Leaders Yemi Osinbajo Is Its Next Target

African Independent Television (AIT) owners received N10 billion to produce and air negative documentaries on leaders of the All Progressives Congress (APC), a SaharaReporters investigation shows.

Raymond Dokpesi
SaharaReporters learnt that the Minister for Petroleum Affairs, Diezani Allison-Madueke is bankrolling the documentary while the scripts and voice overs are being prepared and cut with the help of the Nigeria Television Authority and some Nollywood production companies and working for President Jonathan's re-election.

As a result of the massive deal, AIT, which was in poor financial shape that its principal owner, Raymond Dokpesi, had decided to sell it to the banks to which the station owed several billions of Naira, is now back in good standing. It has also become considerably bolder because of the backing of Mrs. Allison-Madueke and other powerful government officials behind the deal.

Our investigation reveals that AIT receives N5 million each time an episode of any of the documentaries is aired on their channels in different Nigerian markets.

Apart from the cost of producing and airing the documentaries, SaharaReporters found that a team of high-priced lawyers has also been mobilized with about N3 billion to handle any legal threats that may arise from the documentaries. Just last week, APC chieftain Bola Tinubu sued AIT over the documentary on him.

SaharaReporters learned that the next in the series will focus on the Vice Presidential candidate of the APC, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo.

Our source, who didn't want to reveal the content, said the objective of that show will be to “destroy” Prof. Osinbajo's position as a strong moral leader in the Christian community.

"The idea is to make the Christians who have left Jonathan because of Osinbajo's entry into the Presidential race to have a rethink," our source stated.

“The PDP is still failing the basic mathematics,” a political analyst told SaharaReporters. “They can squander all of the money in the Central Bank trying to damage the reputation of everyone in the opposition, but how does that provide a cover for the ineptitude and corruption of the Goodluck Jonathan government? Does that explain why Nigeria is far worse than they found it? That is the question Nigerians will be answering when they go to the polls in three weeks.”

http://saharareporters.com/2015/03/09/ait-received-n10-billion-damaging-documentaries-opposition-leaders-yemi-osinbajo-its-next

. If u believe & quote SALIAR reporters, u will believe & quote anything

egift:
More on the hashtag: https://twitter.com/hashtag/BabaWhileYouWereGone

https://cdn07.dailyindependentnig.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Seyi-Shay-with-President-Jonathan.jpg

#BabaWhileYouWereGone: Jonathan had Fifty Shades of Shay and his standing JohnBull was very difficult holding down.

. Well @least his is still capable of standing.., unlike ..

Johnpaul2k2:
[size=16pt]is there anything bad about it?
did OBJ built his own during his useless tenure?
Buhari didn't construct any, so no one knows him. rather was busy chasing the IGBOS
what is Shakari, Abacha, abubakar, and other corrupted criminals, which one can they boost of?
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https://www.vanguardngr.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/Jonathan-and-wife.jpg

Less i forget
22 states Stands For GEJ and must give at least 1 million Votes
plus Rivers, Imo, Edo, Kano, lagos and more much
I wonder how haters will win

join the winning team


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. 10 gboza 4u!!

missade:
I'm not sure that's the reason for your enlarged hips. That is pelvic exercise that's recommended for tightening the vaginal muscles or walls Or maybe I didn't get your description.

Anyways, I can almost bet that it's your diet or lack of proper exercise that's the cause of it. But to be sure, if this is real and not cooked up, visit the hospital for proper diagnosis.

yea I doubt if its dat 'exercise' dats causing her 'abnormality'. Nonetheless she still needs to stop d 'self servicing' for moral & even psycho social reasons

bamite:
disillusioned so called docs or med students always looking for the slightest opportunity to show themselves, I'm probably goin to feel stupid coming here to solve plenty mathematics over a simple question asked by someone who isn't into dsame field as i am just because I'm an engineer, u guyz need to grow up.

. Are u minding those ones?

mentorandfriend:
Hahahaha. This man, you just dey intimidate innocent nairalanders with your knowledge of anatomy. Aside you and I, I bet no one else knows what you're talking about. It makes sense to me, but I doubt if it will make sense to the lady in distress who opened this thread.

. Na only two of u undastand am abi? Cos u guys are d only learned ones here? If I hear! Besides dat guy just copied & pasted a secction of his Anatomy/physiology note, just to create d impression dat he knows to much. Wat he just typed doesn't really make sense in d sense dat it has nothin 2do wit d topic under discussion

BlackPeni5:
Yes..90% but there are 10% of men who are losers and lack confidence. They are faithful simply because they don't have what it takes to woo the hot gals. You seem to fall into this category.

Don't feel bad...every disappointment is a blessing.

. Am truly sorry 4u & sorry 4d woman u ll end up with. Your comment even wreaks of low self esteem. U need to sleep around to validate urself. Not all are psycologically sound in dis world, really.

Jackeeh:
hmmmmmmm reading through comments uploaded before mine I can't help but wonder: everyone now feel cheating is cool. Men are polygamous in nature, condoms might be used for other reasons( like fetching water), quit snooping around,we are mortals, it must have been used by his friend, don't get him angry when confronting him etc. Why can't men and women strive to be faithful to their partners and quit justifying their evil acts? Being faithful is not impossible. it may be difficult but its attainable. And should you slip and cheat, please don't be smart about it. being defensive and cooking up reasons for cheating ain't cool. when you cheat on your partner, you destroy him or her. if you are caught and instead of being sorry, u feel on top of the world, you reduce your partner to nothing. cheating isn't cool in anyway. be with a partner who makes ur heart beat fast each time u set eyes on him or her. don't settle for less, or money, sex, good looks etc

. Thank you veery much! I am so apalled by d comments am seeing on dis thread. So many pple trying to justify cheating. Even Op herself; 'he wuld hav thrown d condoms away'. Meaning she's ok wit d cheating so long as he disposes d condoms. Smh. Guys let me tell u somthin , cheating is very deadly. It kills d love d woman has 4u instantly! Even if she still stays wit u, inside she feels torn apart. They say a woman is a mirror, she reflects wateva u bring to her. If u bring her love she relects love, if u bring her hurt she inflicts d hurt on (directly or indirectly. The mirror becomes a weapon wen broken. How will u even feel comfortable living wit a woman u know no longer loves u wit her whole heart? Its even risky. U tear love, trust, frenship, peace, apart wen u cheat

Meringe:
Condom might be used for so many reasons. So you don't just conclude.

Moreover, he's a man. Though I don't support cheating but sincerely I think a man is polygamous in nature, but what matter is that the man in question respects you as a woman.



For your own good, stop sniffing around. If you leave him, how sure are you that your next man wouldn't be worst.

You can confront him in a matured way but have it at the back of your mind that many men cheat even though their wife might be more beautiful than their cheating partner.

Though it takes courage for a man to remain faithful.

useless comment. Wonder where d 'likes' are coming from & why. So in dis era, in dis day & age of so much exposure, not to talk of so many deadly veneral diseases u want women to open their arms to promiscuous men, u are actually encouraging men to keep being dogs, dat there's nothing wrong wit it. Wat a useless post! How will u feel if its ur woman sleeping around? Nonsense

[quote author=iwaeda post=31084088][/quote]. Insult is different from violence. GEJ is being insulted on daily bases, yet he hasn't threatened fire & brimstone . GMB , it seems violence/threats are part of your person

Pls OP do urself & ur marriage som gud & tell ur hubby. Cos any guy bold enof to touch a married woman, let alone a friend's wife is bold enof to blackmail u tomoro & even tell ur hubby u were throwing urself @him. & by den wen u try to explain, nobody will believe u, cos dey ll be like, y didn't u say anythin wen it first happened

menix:
Wonderful!!!!
Is he sex starved to ve had a hard on..
Pls post wat u were puttin on cous am sure u were addressed d way u were dressed.

Y tell ur husband? Its now left to u to avoid him lik plague.
'Tomorrow is pregnant', don't spoil dat relationship btw them cous of somthing u can deal wiv...

. Please shut up! Home wrecker! Pls Op tell ur hubby ASAP

pacesetter939:
This is the kind of woman that deserves a national honour, not the likes of Nyeson Wike under whose tenure as supervisory Minister of Education, the Universities were shut down for more than 6months and the Polytechnics for over 12months and yet the clueless GEJ had the temerity to award him a national honour. I'm just pissed with GEJ now.

and yes, for every topic d name GEJ just has to come in. Smh. Uncle J na so pple like u so? U too much. God strengthen u

kahal29:
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. Buhahahahaha, ...loving dis Fayose

joywendy:
What exactly is funny about the ladies?

After everything they MIGHT end up unemployed....

USELESS PROGRAM

. #Jealousy thins#. So obvious dis one has not even been 2d university, talk more of serving. Wat sort of angry pessimist are u? Bad belle..

aryzgreat:
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U are ibo But not igbo. No igbo calls him or herself ibo. We know How to catch impostors.

Dirty yoloba girl. Carry ur tribalistic smelling body elsewhere

Anofia

. Now dis isn't good. By calling her 'dirty yoloba', u r also being tribalistic. Though I totally condemn d show of immaturity in her comments. But u r also commiting same crime kind of