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clevvermind:
20yrs old girl is not too big to be punished and beaten black and blue. i can deal with anybody. i understand you sha.

. Sori to say but u dont sound like som1 wit enof moral stand to correct ur sista, first u are also a p.orn watcher, secondly u r talkin of beatin her blue black, u tink beatin a full grown woman is d way to correct her? If u get arrested for doin dat, wat legal reason would u giv for brutalising her. In more developed countries u wuld so rot in jail (u can ask Chris Brown). Now, having said d above, i wuld like u to stop ur acts of immorality first b4 trying to correct ur sista. Then both of u can pray to God to help bring u out of the habit of watching or practising indecency. U can talk to her about it too, advise her and pray for and wit her. Never resort to brutality, u could end up making a worse person out of her

nickibarb:
yeah i know i was wrong to have taken my husband's wallet, but i got desperate cos i was at a loss at what to do, my husband was not budging, my MIL wasn't taking my calls, i was trying not to involve my parents cos I know my husband doesn't like my mum and I was really running late. exam was at 7am the next day and it was almost evening and I hadn't left my city. I finally got the the exam city at 1am and was taken straight to the hospital. I was able to do the exam after pleading with the doctors to discharge me from the emergency room that morning. luckily i passed. Thank God

. In addition to all d problems u stated above , he doesnt still like ur mum!? I think ur husband has a problem (sori to say), i also tink ur parents shuld also put more effort in protecting u b4 ur hubby (& his mum) kills u, com on, wat if d glass had gone deeper, wat if it hit ur spinal cord? If u get get paralysed (God forbid) he ll just go take another wife. But all in all, i believe no human being is beyond redemption, just cast ur burden upon d Lord, He is d wisest, He ll show u d way

Beautiful exposures! Lovely ..lovely

mentorandfriend:
I make a clear distinction between a relationship and a friendship. I have female friends, and I expect them to reciprocate back the investment I make in them with my time, money, contacts and larger social circles, my wisdom, etc in the same way; though may not be in the same measure. That is the benefit of friendship. I spend for you, you spend for me. I am not friends with people who do not understand this law of reciprocal giving. I also do not expect sex from people I call my friends.

As for a relationship, that person has a higher status to my female friends. She is the one I have intention of marrying. I have taken her by the hand and set her aside from others. Because I respect her, I will not want to demand for sex from her because she is going to be my wife and I want her to honour me when I marry her.

The problem with guys these days is that they confuse friendship with a relationship.

another wise one

Freemanan:
It depends on the girl you have. A guy can gain lots apart from sex. For a girl that is jovial and cheerful, she makes a Good friend and she gives you happiness. It might mean little to "sexaholic" but it's a big thing to have. Also some girls are catalyst to their men, they give connections which the guy cannot dream of on his own, they stand as motivation to the guy.
Now, for a guy that knows what he wants in a relationship, he can never miss sex if not given. The urge might come in sometimes due to our nature but it won't be a factor.

#strictly for the matured minds#

. U are truelly a 'mature mind'. Dats y its not gud to run after outward qualities, som guys are huge, handsome rich, but d way d reason eh? U will be amazed! Funi thin is, its even d guys dat dont take sex as a do or die affair, dat most (reasonable) grls are most attracted to. Most important thin about dating is to date som1 dat wants d same thins u want & thinks d way u tink, dat way there wont be trouble along d way

ELGREF:
you made a good point here, I spent 3 years in my first relationship without sex, I love her because of her beauty,actually we both fail along the line, I didn't regret abt it, this is my second years on another relationship without sex, I love this one because she has done so well for her self, very intelligence, beauty, all these gave me happiness mothan 5 minute enjoyement call sex

. I like d fact dat u can kip a celibate relatnshp, not many can. If u dont mind my asking, please where do u draw d line?

bruno419:
assuming u are attracted to a lady cox she have brains......u started dating her blablabla...eventually she starts being too demanding nd shez equally a virgin..what do u stand to gain

. If she demands wat u cant afford to give, tell her u cant afford it, shikena.., den go bak to being attracted to her brain alone

OP d topic shulda been '40 old photos showing how thins hav changed in the SOUTH WESTERN states, and few Northern states in Nigeria'

john4aguero:
This is not about Nigeria but Legos.

. My thoughts exactly

Its interesting how no one has commented on d pics showing bald headed men, havin a 'makeover' and den lookin cute afterwards. Abi dat one no follow for fraud ni?

Seun & d MODs, how can u pple permit such inciteful thread? Wat does d poster hope to achieve? Anoda war here now? We need to look & move forward, & stop digging up thins dat can bring about renewed enemnity. God (or Allah) is neither Nigerian nor biafran. Ur ethnicity ends d day u breath ur last. After wich u ll be faced with judgement, heaven or hell. Shikena!

Er0ticAngela:
Ibo people be discriminating themselves since the days of Adam and Eve, yet they are agitating for social and poltical relevance in other peoples region

. You do yorubas discriminate against Ijebu pple? Y is it dt Hausas & Fulanis often hav disagreements? My dear, we are all sides of d same coin

Its obvious Yul was just playing wit his head. But i guess he didnt realise how far desperate stalkers can go to take their revenge. Dats y its good to stay away from all unhealthy associations, play or no play.

seedorfg:
chinedu and wife be like' David and Goliath

. This is getting stale. Pls get a life, dey hav got theirs , do you?

Hot dude! See wetiin only Dami de enjoy

chefdoeuvre:
fair face black legs... but dts none of my biz... cute fam

does dat face look fair to u? Bad belle

wristwatch:
Today's love game is changing wheels as the hunter is becoming the hunted.

I have heard situation of when a lady takes bold step in asking a guy out but this perfectly works in the western world unlike in Africa where such ladies will be regarded cheap and desperate for husband.

So as a result, Ladies in our world gives stylish green signals in order to make guys toast them which are;

Smile

A radiant face is pleasing to watch and send positive signal of your approval for discussion. Some ladies smile can make a hungry and angry man happy. This is exactly what give guys the encouragement to strike a conversation.


Hard to Get Mechanism

This method is common among ladies. Just like Banky's W song on "Will you be my Lover, Yes or No? ". They will neither say Yes nor No. They are nice today and cruel tomorrow. They do this in order for guys not to take them for granted neither put them off.

Initiate a conversation

A bold lady initiate a conversation discussing issues vital in a guy's life. They do this in order for the guy to pick interest in them.

Stalk on you

In classrooms, Offices, churches and other places, such set of ladies stylishly stalk on the guy with the hope he will notice them. Hitherto, the way ladies stylishly stalk guys is so professional that it become irresistible to overcome their advances.

They stylishly open their laps and cleavage

Over exposing laps and boobs will term a lady prostitute. Because ladies understand this mentality in guys, they stylishly open their laps and cleavage when they sit beside their crush by wearing short skirt and a bit open blouse.

Frequent calls


They call frequently to check on him even when they is nothing to discussed on. She finds it amazing and happy just to hear his voice

Spray their body with perfume several times

A soothing deodorant send a provoking neurone in your brain when perceive. Therefore, since ladies are known for carrying kits of manicure, perfumes, etc. They quickly make up and apply perfume just to attract her crush despite d fact that she applied it few minutes ago.

They pay for your his T fare

In a public transport, they pay for your his T fare in order to gain your attention.


Feel free to add yours.

. This 'greenlight' topic on NL is becoming stale

fsk1:
annoiced?How can we be sure that u re nt dame patience jonathan?

buhahahahhahahahahaha. U just made me laugh out loud now.

himkers:
One down, remaining MTN and Titus Sardine

and peak milk. Imagine a tin of peak milk = 920 naira

mcdokwe:
I have been in Nigeria for quite a while and it beats me how a people can be so insensitive, attention seeking and never know when to give up.

I have always tried to stay away from political discus especially when it is difficult to be objective or expect that the other party tries to be, no matter how little.

Oby Ezekwesili is one woman who has had her chance to build Nigeria, how much she was able to impact on the polity is a topic for another day.

She obviously, like most of us, wanted to hold on and remain in the political space and especially considering the fact that her party was still in power. But Uncle Joe wouldn't have any of that and that explains her fighting from the other side (very understandable)

She had done her best in trying to ridicule the Presidency especially using her bring back our girls campaign. Not my business.

She had openly identified with the opposition. Understandable

But she doesn't have the right to choose whom our heroes are.

Our lives are not lived on the TV and might not worth anything to her other than a veiled advocacy which of course would be belated. So we choose our hero who made sure nothing happened to us.

After the conduct of the Presidential Elections, a lot of us, Corp Members, Market women, Christians living in the north (even where they are majority) slept with our eyes open, looked back with every step thrown, left our known residents, closed down our businesses, avoided a lot of places, vowed not to be part of of the elections anymore due to the obvious danger should GEJ do what Oby and those she worked for do just to win an election.

Our lives were in danger, our investments stood the risk of being torched by irate un enlightened followers who do not understand. How a democracy works.

But this man decided not to let all these happen, he didn't use the tools at his disposal to ensure he remains there and when he lost, he didn't cry on national TV wiping up sentiments and threatening to bring down the heavens, he didn't wait for people to act first and cause mayhem which off course would have been replied, he acted first.

He conceded defeat and on time, no protests that would have led to the loss of lives, all the fears were allayed and the known violence that would have followed if the result turned the other way averted.

So GEJ is my hero, and that of a thousand folks whose being and well-being were threatened.
He doesn't have to be yours given that you were made irrelevant in his government, he doesn't have to be yours since your loyalty unquestionably lies the other way, he just doesn't have to be your hero but don't tell us whom our hero should be.

#GEJMyHero
#GEJdnewface of democratic Nigeria

. Don't mind dat Oby, she is a witch, enemy of progress. Even key APC pple re advocating for togetherness & peace, & she's busy trying to stire up trouble. God is bigger than her & her wickedness

kilokeys:
actually.. i love my space if the chick is dumb.
but according to d op.. she is smart. so being sapiosexual. i wouldnt mind her around.
i go give her work eehn... i have lots and lots of novels i don't have time to read.

she would gladly read them to me.. my heads on her laps, she rubbing my scalp and reading me a 500 page David Baldacci. chai.. sweetest thing

. Lmao

Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

this seems like obsession, but who knows culd still be true love

Ishilove:
http://www.ladunliadinews.com/2015/04/nobody-should-celebrate-buhari-etcetera.html

Very true

MrPatoh:
Source: http://www.elombah.com/index.php/articles-mainmenu/31324-i-will-not-congratulate-general-buhari

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CaptPlanet:
http://www.thetrentonline.com/just-apc-women-leader-caught-thumb-printed-ballot-papers-lagos-photos/



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ha! Association of Past Criminals! Ur plans hv failed!

postmann:
My little knowledge of medicine didnt associate prostrate cancer to male promiscuity. But one of the curses of cervical cancer for women is multiple sex partners. So you failed miserably on that point. You come across like a woman ready to fight a man with the mind set you display and you think you are built like him. hmmm! I pity you. i dont know your age but i pray the rabelious tendencies i perceive in you is dropped soon before it takes you to the island of despair.

If you have ever loved a man and went into a sexual relationship with him, the very first day you caved in and allowed him to have sex with you, after the act did you start watching his feelings closely, fearing, wondering if his feelings towards you would change? since you already gave him your most precious of virtue? I BET YOU DID!!!! I never, and will never support a cheating man/husband, but foolish is the woman who thinks it is okay for her to cheat because her man/husband did. She is completely without virtue.
Sex for male and female is this: its like going to a toilet to pee. you empty you stuff in the bowl and walk away. The vaginal is just like the bowl. I pray you become wise in time or you reap the shame and misery that awaits rebelous women.

. And where in my post did I say it was 'OKAY' for a woman to cheat because her husband cheated? Secondly, u r right u know next to nothing in medicine, d issue of d relationship b/w prostate cancer & sex is still under research. Whilst som studies hav deciphered no relationship b/w d two, som hav . Its still under research like cancer is. But will u say because u cant get prostate cancer from sex u go ahead in promiscuity? Hv u forgotten d likes of HIV, and other STDs? I don't know y u are finding it difficult to get my point, I don't know ur level of reasoning & IQ, but am going to explain one more time to giv d benefit of d doubts, som1 said men are naturally wired to desire multi sexual partners , so I was tryin to explain dat both men & women hav dat innate desire for other sexual partners but women having d ability to supress theirs doesn't mean dey don't hav it. So men shuld stay faithful to their partners & not giv d excuse of havin 'multisexual wiring' to cheat, unless of course dey don't mind their wives doing d same to dem. Am not going to talk on dis issue again, read my previous comments on dis issue to understand me clearly & don't misquote me.

postmann:
some of your point made sense, but trying to equate a cheating husband to a cheating wife turned your comment on its head. It is a TABOO for a wife to cheat. Ask your heavenly FATHER, ask the babalawo from in your village. At no time did GOD permit women to have more than one husband at a time. Rather HE says such practice is disgusting to HIM. A woman's sexual organ was made in such a way that sexx is an invation of her innermost body. Except she knows no shame or is possessed, she cant seek revenge on her cheating husband by humbling herself spreading her legs for another man. She'd be a fool, the double loser and a public toilet. Sex is humbling for the female no matter what the devil-inspired 21st century culture tells you. Even your children cant get over the shame.
While we hope that men change and be faithful to their wifes, a woman who really understand SHAME cannot seek revenge by becoming a detestable adultress. Cervical cancer is a curse on loosed women.

. See d way he is making it sound soo DISGUSTING wen a woman does it but somwhat palatable & forgivable wen a man does. Sweetheart, d same way it sounds disgusting to males wen a woman cheats, its same way it sounds nauseating to women wen men cheat. If a woman stands a risk of cervical cancer wen she is promiscuous, a man stands d risk of prostate cancer wen he does, if a woman stands d risk of syphilis wen she is promiscuous, a man stands d risk of gonorrheoa. 'All is fair in d game of love & basketball'. Promiscuity is shameful for both sexes be u man or woman. No gender does it & it seems more palatable! Stay Away away from cheating ! Stay away from promiscuity, be faithful to your spouse, whether u r a man or woman. Simple!

shitshappen:
I am a Christian, I believe in the bible as the word of God. And Jesus as the son of God.

I know the problem with our society was the day we accepted the white man's way of life, don't get me wrong. It is not in the blood of an African man to be with one woman. Centuries of practicing polygamy is now having a toll on us. We want to be faithful, we want to show you we love you, and the kids we had together with you.
But sometimes we also want to be with the other woman, they complement you. You are not perfect and we know that , that other woman sometimes make your own imperfections easy to bear.
Ask me one thing I want to change about christianity, it is that dictate of one man one woman. Now you know why I said I'm a Christian who believe in bible,who believe in christ Jesus.
I might be wrong, I might be right. I just know that men are not hot-wired to be with one woman, check the Patriarchs

I don't tink ANYBODY is 'wired' to stick to one person. Even an honest married woman will admit dat once in while u see a hot dude, if u don't control urself u start to desire him (u r human). In d olden days only men where allowed such freedom to explore their sexuality because women were being supressed then. So don't tell me because our forefathers married plenty wives and our 'foremothers' married only one man, dat it means dat its only men dat are wired to desire multiple partners no! Human needs are insartible be u male or female. Its only d fear of God dat keeps us in check. So my dear, if u r redy to stick to ur wife, she sticks to u, if u want to stray pls allow her do d same cos wat is good 4d goose is good for d gander. We women too are wired to love 'fruit salad' (who no like better thing), but its just dat desire to be morally upright & not break d rule of God dat mkes us behave ourselves. So don't gimme dat crap about only men being d ones wired to desire 'oda good pleasures'

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allycat:
Two possible complications of the fibroids in vaginal delivery , one is that they may block the birth canal and delay labour, by the time the patient is rushed to hospital for an emergency CS , the baby may not survive and being an unplanned surgery with no prior preparation the chances of major complications is higher. The chances of such a woman loosing her womb are also high. The other is that after delivery the uterus may not be able to contract around the fibroid and such women bleed profusely and may even die. The list goes on. If your sister does go ahead and has any complications please do not blame the unfortunate doctor that she runs to at the last minute for the outcome. I may sound harsh but it's really annoying when patients go against their doctors advice and at the end of the day the same group of doctors get blamed when anything goes wrong!

. I like ur explanations, quite enlightening. But are u vexing 4d patient ? She is telling u she doesn't hav money, do u want her to steal? Of course she loves her life & would like to follow d Dr's advise, but who will finance it? Dats her predicament now. Or will u? To d 0p; I pray God provides u wit d means to do d right thin, to save life of both mother & baby

Zikkie:
Good day nairalanders,
I'm writing on behalf of my sister who happens to be pregnant and due for delivery in less than two weeks.
She has fibroid growing alongside her baby. Her first child was birthed via caesarian but as it is now, she doesn't have the financial capacity to go for a caesarian and insists she would try out the vaginal.
Apart from my parents and my younger sister, she happens to be all alone in this race as her husband had been violent and now has lost his job.
We wouldn't want to take a risk, but the teaching hospital where she is located is on strike which leaves her with the alternative of using a private hospital.

Your advice would be highly appreciated please. Thank you.

wat did her gyneacologist say? She shuld tke her Dr's advise not mindiing d expenses. Life first

Sophyrocks:
The guy sef doesnt know what he wants. He asked for a child before marriage, a marriage he isnt sure about. This is why ladies should learn to scrutinize some ridiculous demands from men. If your man is proving to be f00lish, you should be wise. If you had gone ahead to get pregnant this guy would left you as a single mother. One thing about men is that you've got to teach them how you should be treated. They take you however you decide to take yourself. Bending too much to accoomodate values that do not match yours will leave you with regrets. You should not date or marry men who dnt share the same morals as you do. This lady should be happy that it didnt work out because a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage o. Let her move on with her life. she will meet a better man with a matching moral value with her.

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