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iLegendd:
What do you think are the 5 greatest distractions for Nigerian youths

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5 greatest distractions or hindrance why Nigeria is still backward?

SuperOnyi:




Another interesting and powerful book you should reach out for, too... It's simple, provocative, and filled with brutal facts.

I saw a thread on the frontpage about a man from Poland who threw a 'goodbye' party after he was diagnosed with terminal cancer. The comments section was filled with people who thought death was the worst thing that could happen to a man.

Don't get me wrong, as someone who's had to deal with depression and anxiety most of his life, I still find it hard to stomach the fact that I could lose my loved ones. However, I have learned to accept death as a natural part of life.

Wait... I'm not a motivational speaker but here's what I found unfortunate: a lot of us are stuck in a particular embarrassing state because we feel and believe we could make a difference tomorrow. It could be a bad habit, addiction, etc. We tell ourselves that it's okay to drown in indiscipline, I can always fix things up. There's enough time. Sadly, this is what we keep telling ourselves until we wake up one day with nothing but mountains of regrets.

The more you keep feeding your mind with that nonsense, the more you lose that zeal needed to make yourself the change you need. Listen, you would end up searching tirelessly for what is within you. To appreciate life, you must learn to accept mortality — not as a curse, but as a blessing. To achieve self-discipline, you have to start seeing today as your last day on earth—I mean literally. As you do so, ask yourself if that bad habit, addiction (or whatever your struggles are) is what you want to spend the rest of life in.

Mortality gives us purpose. It enables us to get our priorities straight or spend the rest of few years we have left in regrets. What's that thing you find difficult to do in your life? Go ahead and do it right now. Let death be a reminder to live a better life, to transform your dreams into reality, and become that version you always admire.

There's no time for excuses, today could be your last. But I can assure you that there will be enough time when you decide to confront that thing you have been stuck in. By facing that problem, you create time because you give more meaning to your life. So, look... the time is now, it is time to face that difficult thing and do it. Stay consistent, stay obsessed until your brain begins to enjoy the process. When it does, you'd begin to feel that dopamine — the same feeling you get when you cum or play video game. Satisfying, right?

I have noticed that whenever I'm uninspired to do something, my brain does everything to ensure that I never do it. I had to start choosing to stay uncomfortable so i can embrace discipline. This habit gave me natural boost compared to others.

Stop saying "there's enough time to go back to my goals" or you might end up saying the same thing 30 years later. Yes, time waits for no man, but he who transforms his into meaningful moments, will have the last laugh. Now, get up! Don't be a lazy ekuke, stop waiting for the right time and go create the right moment.

Let me stop here.

OAkanni001:
Hey, sent you an email. Reply

tensazangetsu20:
Haters. Go and get visa to Chile and come repeat am if e easy

Freshtruth:
The pikin be like which kind public disgrace be this

shogotermies:
You’re very dull.

A generation of dullards are rising and you seem to be the flag bearer.

Akpaamunsi:

iLegendd:
Women are dangerous, but we just need to find a way to cohabit with them. If you try to be peaceful, they'll bring violence, so it's better you're the violent one.

I just don't like prison that's why I controlled myself. The type of beans I like, they don't serve it in jail. My violent childhood character almost resurfaced, but I managed to control it because of the consequences.

I'm really proud of myself for such restraint.

iLegendd:
A lot! Abuse, name-calling and violence got involved. Threat to stab me was involved if I dare slap her and I did give her too dirty slaps. She ran to the kitchen to get a knife, but...

It can't be fixed. Maybe, after 2-5 years of not seeing each other, we can laugh about it.

I just deleted the full page I wrote to narrate everything with the lessons I learned, but I feel I should keep this part private or not share it now.

The two phones she uses were two of my spare phones. She formated them and gave them back to me. I don't ask for them, but I collected them. She has gone to work without a phone. I know her pastor sugar daddy will quickly get her an iPhone.

Maybe, when the spirit leads me, I'll retype everything that happened.

Summary: Women are like stomachs. No matter how you feed it, few hours later, it'll tell you I'm hungry. If you ask: But I just gave you food a few hours ago. The stomach will tell you that is in the past and whoever will give it food "now" is her Messiah.

Also, a woman wants you to believe her lies and not investigate and failure to do that, she'll call you insecure. If you believe her, she'll gist her female friend of how you're a mugu and whatever she tells you, you believe.

My finding is, women are selfish and they love toxicity and in the end, claim victims. Years later, after dating nice guys, they'll miss those toxicities and go back to cheat.

So, for men, never fall in love, but you can enjoy the p*ssy if it gives you the best feeling compared to other girls, but don't love o. I won't warn you twice.

Even if she pushes you to reciprocate the love she has for you, don't or just fake it till the day it ends.

Women don't love — they sick only comfort and safety in a man. You too, as a man shouldn't love. Just enjoy the sex and also allow other men to enjoy.

Even if you're the richest, the greatest alpha male, the tallest or finest, a woman will still cheat whenever she wants and if you catch her, she'll cry and ask for forgiveness or get violent for not trusting her.

Just know that a woman is always using you even if she's the one spending. You can't use them — they're too wise to be used. They're born that way. Even after using you, she'll still make it look as of you used her and world will blame you for everything.


Everyone is blaming 2face for leaving Ani. Yul Edochie's wife left him, but who are they blaming? Yul. Mohbad's wife probably cheated on him but majority are not blaming the wife for his death, but chose a man, Naira Marley. Nedu's wife got impregnated by another man. Who do they mock for being a weak man? Nedu.

The list is endless. Women will use you, but you'll still take the blame, so whatever you do for a woman, don't do it out of love, but because you're capable of losing such without feeling regrets. That is how I have been since I was 18 till this day and it's the best decision ever.

My only regret is how I taught her sex secrets that if you sleep with her, you'll become addicted and want more.

Anyway, I'll still share the main gist if I have time.

SultanOfAbia:
The funniest thing is this mugu thought he was playing game calling himself a Master
The see finish that you will experience will be stronger than 12 Russian ballistic missiles..

Samantha125:
He looks nothing like the guy on the cover page, that's Jeremy Meeks.