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SuperOnyi:



What do we do? They keep terminating our accounts, my account got terminated this morning.

cheehummer:
Congratulations

SuperOnyi:



Day 5 and Day 6

A 'mama' gave me a portion of some balm and told me to lick it and apply it on the part I was feeling pains. I did so already. She said it was okay even if I was fasting... Yeah, I have been having this sweet but somehow painful sensation when I'm almost done urinating and my stomach and waist hurt so much. I'll be fine — this is military living.

SuperOnyi:




Some of the challenges has been stopped indefinitely due to health issues. We will only continue the masturbation and porn Challenge.

Sapiens3:
Sorry bro. Speedy recovery

Seunomobo:
What about the Nigeria Men that are beasts in both Nigeria and Africa....?
What goes around comes around, if a man is good to a woman, she will never turn on him when given the opportunity.....
I'll do same to my husband when I move abroad......I don' dey plan am since.

KennethIbe59:
Boss the is sold for $13. Please can you send it to me
i4greatness1@gmail.com

Thanks

SuperOnyi:



Day 5

https://www.nairaland.com/8375148/painful-reason-keep-pushing-it#134633450

SuperOnyi:
Day 5

Columbine:
Yeah! Slow and steady. Been pushing it.

SuperOnyi:



Day 4


https://www.nairaland.com/8374008/women-hero-villain-not-using

I kept pushing it in despite the pain and now it kind of hurts...

Tell me what is life without the mixture of these interconnected experiences? People ask me how I'm doing, and I reply with "I'm good...just in my default state of emotion — sadness." And they wonder why any person would choose sadness over happiness.

Just like the lizard who falls from an iroko tree and pats himself on the back, I have fallen countless times and despite dealing with depression and anxiety, I got back on my feet. I have learned to accept sadness, anger, depression, and anxiety as companions so when happiness, joy, and good times come — I'll cherish them wholeheartedly.

A lot of us wanna be successful or achieve something great but lack the temerity to withstand pain. Without pain, would our early ancestors have made it out of those fights with wild animals? Pain was like the body's alarm, alerting them that they were in danger and they either had to fight or flight. Most times, they had no choice but to fight and win.

We must learn to accept pain with joy, and make something great out of it — not sitting down and crying about it for eternity like Africans crying about colonization. That pain is alerting us, we can either use to face the pain and absorb it or flight only when necessary.

The problem is: even though life is literally an unserious project that transformed into a success, the seriousness we have had to deal with has made us forget that life is so unserious — I mean, nobody makes it out of life alive. This is a reminder to myself to accept the pain and while it's good to stay disciplined, don't be too hard on yourself (this is not an excuse to be lazy). Life's a movie, there would be moments you'd appreciate and love so much and moments you'd want forget and avoid but that mixture is what makes being alive INTERESTING.

So, accept each moment, every pain, depression, anxiety, OCD, and etc, imagine you never knew they even existed. My abs hurts so much right now but I accept that as part of life, I feel anxious but I accept that as part of life. Why? Because I know these are fleeting moments, even if they stay in my head forever, it doesn't matter — that is life. For example, I just realized my hair itches whenever it starts raining, I never cared about this until today — it's crazy! It was clear to me that life needs permission from you to screw you up until you accept mediocrity.

Do not allow your emotions ruin everything you have been working for. You'll hear voices like "Man, fúck this thing. I'm tired." and "Why all of this suffering?" — it's okay. Don't stay down for too long. I have very few things that motivate me to make more money and almost all of them are about others (momma, family, helping etc). But listen, sometimes motivation would not get you there, and that is why I preach about discipline. With discipline, you can stay focus; and believe me, STAYING FOCUSED is a dangerous SUPERPOWER that not a lot of people have.

One of the main reasons Nigeria and Africa is still stuck in this position is due to lack of focus. With focus, you can graduate to obsession. This is what you need. You have to be obsessed about what you need, if you have never been called crazy or weird, then you're not there yet. Motivation would fade away, your discipline could be get shaken, but with obsession, even the devil would call you "crazy" and carefully step out of your way.

At that stage, you no longer care about the pain, depression, anxiety, and etc, you have accepted them as companions. You don't even care if you die in the process, you enjoy every step (even if you don't want to) — yes, you're literally a soldier obsessed with wars at that stage.

Listen, life is not meant to be easy or hard. No one has the original rules that was set up by the creator of this universe. Enjoy the process, find out what works, and intensify. Life's too short and that's the beauty.

Kelechi009:
Noted.

Gerrard59:


I have the facial looks of a typical Igbo businessman. That is what I realised recently, especially looking at the pictures closely. Thankfully, I am tall enough and no potbelly.

GloriousGbola:
You can tell by Gerrard59's takes that he is at the minimum not conventionally attractive to women

BrosG007:
Anybody wey buy this your book na idiot.

"because I need you in Sambisa Forest for a special mission. No time for sick leave, na frontline duty straight!"

How does this make sense to you?

Samantha125:
Okay.

Yaiba:
Fvcking STVPID idiot bastard
Rotten devil bastard idiot

From the most putrid STVPID shit eating idiot family

Rotten bastard animal

Samantha125:
Are you from Northern Nigeria?

SuperOnyi:




Day 4

SuperOnyi:



Day 3

https://www.nairaland.com/8372159/men-women-read-before-it#up

Verbtips:
cool,u suppose use cutlass to remove the palm nut

AfeezShomorin:
I believe you

Maj196:
That's what she says... lol

Everydaylove:
Welldone