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pansophist:
Fragile or fickle?

Most are fickle or have fish brain. They are moved by glamour, have no independent mind, easily influenced, and live life only on the material plain.

Their mind is structured in receiving, and they find it difficult to have empathy for men.

Ego and entitlement get many so easily, and it's because she think she is beautiful, not because she was objectively declared as being beautiful.

She can be as rotten as a thousand year tree, and fat as well, but believes that with the right wig, makeup, high heels, lipstick, clothing and taking pics in the right angle, she is a high quality woman.

The idea or fact that value is base on character doesn't cross their mind. It's just plug-and-play, or by declaration. I am a high quality woman so therefore, I am, even if she can't afford transport.

They do not think in the long term, think indepthly, also lack the ability not to be selfish in thinking and justifications.

Thinking wholesomely is incompatible with their psyche. You can give a lady 5k naira, and dash her 100k naira same day, and many will ask for the 5k debt you owe. She can justify a ludicrous behaviour as far her selfishness is secured.

Loving and showing a man love for them is always by declaration, talking too much instead of by her actions. If you love me, keep yourself virtous for me.

Be my helper, don't see me as a cash cow, develop your character to be palatable. Just as I prove my love by taking care of you,

Make I stop here.

Of course most women are not like this, but a sizeable amount of women are exactly like this.

Because if you analyse women finish, you'll understand why they are called the weaker vessels and asked to submit to men.

I swear to God, this is so true. I have said this countless times, I even created a thread on this. It's all about them. Imagine this girl knowing she is "stubborn" and refusing to change because she's just being herself — a woman. Sharing useless and manipulative videos that supports her "belief." If I wanted to just manipulate, fúck, and pierce her heart, I'd just play along but that's not my goal on Earth.

Columbine:
But I solved all of them by carefully studying my body in relation to other healthy men.

Always open to learn new things

Any improvement?

Samantha125:
You can't be an author but want to remain anonymous.

The man in the picture I just posted doesn't seem to have blue eyes... So which blue eyes are you talking about and why do you keep bringing them up when I'm not talking about anyone's eyes.

May I know why you asked? I clearly told you I'd rather my identity remain a mystery for now. And yes, the blue eyes topic is a diversion... If you only know the contents of that book, then you'd understand.

Samantha125:
Why are you acting so clueless... Is this you?

I don't want anyone knowing what the author of that book looks like. Don't you get it?

Okay... YES, that's me... I've got blue eyes. Why do you ask?

Samantha125:
The blurred guy didn't seem to have blue eyes.

I'm not talking about the guy on your cover page.

Oh yes, him...that guy? He does... He normally got contacts on. Do you know him?

Samantha125:
Was it you in that blurred picture you showed me weeks ago?

I did post a blurred picture recently but that's not me — that guy is a soldier with blue eyes. Too dangerous.

Always keep this mind: not a lot of women would hold themselves accountable. I feel sorry for them, they even believe that a "real man" who loves them would quietly tolerate their weird or bad behaviors. It's okay to be a bag of assumptions. Why? "BECAUSE I'M A WOMAN!"

Yes, we all make mistakes but when as a man, if you keep noticing a certain pattern in a woman (which you do not like), instead of wasting her time, let her go. I'm saying this as the author of one of the most dangerous books on Earth. I have this powerful book and understand how to use it, but believe me, I have no intentions of hurting any woman with those laws.

Yes, I might be using them unintentionally but it's mostly when I'm texting... I use it to make chatting more fun for both men and women — it's not manipulation but simply me being me.

Anyways, please do not allow a woman to manipulate you into doing something that would end up hurting the both of y'all. Be logical.

The pictures are below but read this first...

So, I broke up with this girl almost a month ago and she has been sending me loads of messages apologizing...and almost 60 calls... unfortunately, I decided that it was best I ignore her because of the love I have for her . I found out the relationship was beginning to smell like toxicity and the bad guy in me wanted the dramas to continue... but I refused!

The truth is, as a good bad guy, I broke a law inside The Bad Guy's 29 Laws by making the relationship official and long distance dating. It wasn't long before I figured out that my instincts were never wrong — she just can't stop making up assumptions in her head and trying to emotionally blackmail me. I also found out she was likely to become disrespectful and more

Even though she said she was a virgin, never demanding, and kinda "respectful," I ended it after too many dramas. I know I could just pretend and roll on, I decided to be plain to her but she's trying to get me to say something so we can exchange words like women . But fear a man who doesn't fear women , I have tactically ignored her baits.

Women... No, just not women... People love being delusional. Imagine living in your little bubble and lying endlessly to yourself and refusing to change. She has rejected change, sending videos of others on social media to prove that she's just being a "woman," and trying to explain to me how I'm supposed to act as a man.

Anyway, I have written enough already... So, why do women love lying to themselves ? I was willing to keep her as a friend until she began to throw insults and giving me disrespectful vibes... I agreed to her green lights, now look at her claims ...

SuperOnyi:




It's a challenge... I'm good.

Day 1

I just finished the Wim Hof breathing method — I feel good. This ex girl of mine is trying to push negativity to me but I'm too disciplined for that.

I went to fetch water on a hill—that's very difficult to climb—to get the water. My fasting is over, I just drank water and about to eat. I also did 20 pushups and squats before going to take my bath.

By the way, am I really heartless for rejecting this girl? Women thinks it's okay to say No to men but would hate any man that does the same. I'm a man on a mission, I don't have all the time in the world... Regardless of how obedient a woman would claim to be, if I sense that something's wrong somewhere, I wouldn't be taking any chances.

Anyway, fúck this! Day 1

As a man, the worst mistake you would ever make is demanding for love. You should rather be respected or even feared. The world does not care about you, this is why I laugh at fools who has the privilege of a good mother but messing around. Those pathetic losers would end up begging for love until the day they die.

Don't focus too much on what the world should give to you but rather the impact you would create within this fleeting moments of life. Life is just too short to focus on begging for love and happiness from a world where past wars and suffering shaped the easy life of this generation.

I have learned to accept sadness as my default state, and acknowledged that I am more at peace knowing that I'm building a legacy of positive impact. All of the money, women, and parties wouldn't go down 6 feet with me but the memories in my head — I'm doing more living than existing....

This is the life of SuperOñyi—a child of an African woman, his experiences has taught him to see sadness as the true friend of man.

TonyBankz:
what are you training yourself for...
You're just training for your death cus we all gon die
if you like don't eat for 1 year

It doesn't matter, things like that freaks out people like you — not me. Death is a natural part of life, it's nothing to be scared of or feel worried about. Death ain't shít...

adeoyekay:
just determine to stop

This challenge was created to prove to anyone who's suffering from a dangerous addiction that they can take control and stop it.

adeoyekay:
just determine to stop

It's a challenge... I'm good.

Chazzyboy:
One month? 😃😃😃😃

Yessir... after that one month, I will increase it to 60 days... I wanna show you how powerful my technique is. I'm a broke and jobless guy, 20k is like 100M to me but I'm willing to prove that my technique works even if I have to borrow the money.

iamnotillicit:
You didnt eat for a month?


Guy no dey lie jareh...


🙅

You want me to tell you I was fasting explicitly?

The battle begins tomorrow! 20,000 Naira if I fail! No worries, I don't lie or cheat. I will post pictures everyday.



Picture credit: Ilegeñdd

20,000 Naira to a Random Nairalander if my Technique Fails


If you know the thread below or the book The Bad Guy's 29 Laws (check my profile), then you must know that I'm one of the most insane hustlers on Nairaland.

https://www.nairaland.com/8039275/no-shaving-taking-photo-everyday

The same challenge in the thread above is still going on and I have done a lot more crazy challenges but a video I found on one of ilegeñdd's threads has reignited my challenge showoffs.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFj6TOYpQG8

Since that challenge above, I have:
1. Stayed over a month without food and I'm currently on it again.
2. Trained my brain to do difficult things.
3. Trained my brain to reach the highest level of confidence without feeling arrogant.
4. Trained my brain to reveal the most dangerous book on Earth.

and lots more...


Here's my new challenges:
Fast everyday 12 AM to 12PM until I grow back my company.

Use a technique inspired by the book in my profile to stay away from porn and masturbation for 30 days.

If I fail, I'm giving away 20,000 Naira.

Practice the above breathing technique everyday

Exercise daily and push myself beyond human limit.


The purpose of this thread is to prove to you that our greatest asset is our brain and that we can achieve anything we push our mind into.

iLegendd:
After you've done this simple, but EFFECTIVE exercise, come back here and tell us how your head and body is reacting and how you feel.

Jesus Christ! This is unbelievably powerful! I decided to try it out because I remember promising to do (when I first came across this thread) this once I'm chanced. Saving this in my diary. Thank you.

GeneralPula:
All is fair in love & war..

Nigeria soldiers really tried for defending Nigeria against the enemy. In war, the only way forward is to kill the enemy..

Yeah... I mean, ain't you the same moniker with YouTube videos showing a comment of yours where you called for the annihilation of the Igbo people?

Ringstonermasks:
everybody's child can not be like d gals in ur family.

They don't know...

DemonSlayer:
You raise a strong point about planning for future generations, but I don’t see this being effective in our time. More importantly, I doubt the real impact it would have—if English and Pidgin haven’t united us, what makes us think a new language will?

History has shown that attempts to create a synthetic language to unitify people don’t easily succeed. Esperanto was designed for this very purpose, yet it never gained traction due to several factors. While we may see English as the language of colonizers, if we look at it purely from an economic standpoint, our ability to speak English connects us to the world far more than countries with only indigenous languages. Yes, English is a product of colonialism, but it also gives us access to global opportunities. Let’s not be too quick to throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Yes, we are saying the same thing. Regardless of what we think about colonialism, it's best we begin to see the light. It would do us more good if we stop thinking like victims and start taking advantage of the little weapons on our sleeves. And I bet that's exactly what the boss is talking about, too... Man, I have loads of things to say...

If the British didn't do it, some other power hungry motherfúckers would have — I refuse to see myself as a victim. Colonialism destroyed a lot—both good and bad—but it also allowed our knowledge to grow. Sadly, we aren't making good use of this knowledge. I bet if our ancestors knew about all of these technologies and how big our world is, they would have put together this local and "imported" knowledge just like the Chinese did. Colonialism is a huge part of the human race, our ancestors have all "colonized" others one way or the other.

I still believe in the kind of revolution boss ilegendd has in mind, the world is going conservative and we should do the same... It would be a long-term plan, but it would certainly work. We just need a strong propaganda, America's music and movies has impacted the world greater than their wars did.

It would be slow but with a committed leadership, it would be achieved. This is why I keep saying democracy needs to go, we need a good dictatorship. Unfortunately, I don't know any Nigerian politician fit for this mission...

iLegendd:
Gradual decolonisation and total independence.

If you remove Google, English, iPhone, Google Map, YouTube, American medicine, Tiktok, American movies, American technology, American cars, Western food, American Internet, American Dollar, ATM machine, etc. China will survive.

But remove those same things from Nigeria and see how me and you will become depressed instantly and life will become boring.

This English I'm using to reply you, remove it or its piding variations and watch how this communication will stop, but two Chinese people who have their different dialects will still continue to chat because of a unifier called Mandarin.

I know you'll say, "If we're both Igbos, Yorubas or Hausas, we'll still continue." That is true, but is that unification? No — it's ethnic and tribal.

The moment these two things are always interfering, we'll forever stay stagnant.

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Facts, boss.

DemonSlayer:
Waste of energy and impractical! Common new-old national anthem I have not learned, is it a whole new language that I'll learn? Do you know there are more English speakers in China than in England?

English language wouldn't be discouraged, this plan wouldn't even be that effective in our generation but in the next generations to come. This is why I have always hammered on that fact that our educational system is archaic. We can do better, it's depressing coming across ignorant opinions of how Africans can't do shít for themselves but we have great thinkers here — even here on Nairaland.

Just because I was taught French as a "subject" back in high school, I still recognize a couple of French words till today. It was just 2 to 3 years in high school! Imagine if it was from elementary school! That's how powerful education can be.

If I was the government, I would be using schools, movies, music, and all of these tools needed to enforce propaganda to do something like this. This is how Liberal Americans are spreading all of these beliefs like LGTV or whatever they call it.

I can't really agree or disagree because we have to fix some issues first. I believe as humans, regardless of our similarities, we would always look for difference. But I digress... The main reason I do not agree or disagree is I have always wanted this union to be dismembered or at least reorganized in a way that each people are autonomous to an extent.

We don't have to stick to democracy, we can always come up with a system that would accommodate this idea, just like your idea (which i wouldn't lie, I do imagine at times) of creating a single official language. This is why we have a brain!

It's best we first have a union like the European Union (or UK) where we can all be autonomous but at the same time, need each other as allies. Then after that, we can then create that language...

They like to feel good about themselves.

Bendeco02:
It has alot to do with self esteem oga

If you have the money to be paying hook-up steady, why not date a girl then?

If you said local ashawo it would have been better.

If you Bleep hook-up babe three times a week, do you know howmuch you will spend? Even normal girl friend won't consume that amount in a week.

You also risk infections

It's better you say it depends on the individual involved because I'm 100% sure my silence alone would leave any woman on Earth wanting to hear my voice—yeah, stupid digression... Anyways, I'm a typical introvert but IF I was one of those who frequently visit the local brothels, it certainly wouldn't be because of "low self esteem."

I literally ended a relationship because I needed space, I found out that I was unintentionally using the laws in the book below and I had to exit. I know a friend that sleeps with different women in a week and pays, just because he didn't want any connection.

I'm staying away from sex and my self-discipline is iron stone but that doesn't mean I have low self esteem. My first sex after all of this would be with an "ashawo" or whatever... it has nothing to do with self esteem. I just don't want the noise that comes with keeping women, they get too addicted. Lol. I have to keep a long distance from my female friends too because I'm addictive.

I know what I'm saying...

Dzzzz:
..Low self esteem my ass..Someone carry him mama mate and you say he has low self esteem!..

Oracle411:
Lies. Its easy to do and go without any emotions and attachment.
As a matter of fact, which women doesn't Bleep for money at one point or the other

Valid! It has nothing to do with self esteem. I know highly confident dudes who hook up with girls and pay — simply because they don't want any connection at all. And yes, they don't pay up to that 50k.

I used to find going to brothel weird but not anymore... I can talk to any woman on Earth, it's just that I naturally have the ability to get a woman obsessed and I do so unintentionally. I just got out of one relationship and I had to, I don't wanna destroy anyone's life to prove a stupid point. Right now, I have made up my mind to go visit a brothel in the future (if I'm alive), do what I want, and go.

By the way, I have total self control but I have found out that it has made me lose interest in sex. If I can get it back by visiting a brothel, no problem...

Drella:
Because of 5k recharge card

When you understand that people like us are genuinely interested in becoming that change and that we are born writers, then you will learn to shut up and stop projecting your reality on others. The fact that you can't transform your thoughts into words effortlessly within a short period of time doesn't mean others can't. Even if it's because of any prize, just shut up and mind your business.