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D fact dt I do not ve tym for tv doesn't bother me bfre now coz just a click on LIB gives me most current and trending info...now google haS taken dt frm me, feel so baaaadddd....bur lindodo, I knw u won't down for long, stand up and win ds battle...coz I knw, ds will be over soonnnnn....luv u to pieces...no homo

take lobes of garlic just before ur period starts and during. it will eventually stop d pains. u cud also do menstrual execises like lie flat on d floor and life ur entire body up to rest on ur shoulders. hands akimbo. act like u r riding a bicycle upstairs, do dt 4 like 5 times daily during ur period,
u'll be highly relieved
dont go for drugs, coz if u take drugs today, u will tomoro also

10x Nlanders

quite a range of options, doh de seem 2 be common

guys, what do you expect from your girls?

Sisi_Kill:
You live in Kogi State. . . Has he forgotten that?

If you lived down the street from him now, i'll totally understand why he'll expect you to come visit every time one of the flies in his house lays egg.

actually, he lives in lag, but his folks remain here

dear nairalanders, i need your honest opinion on this.
i have been dating a guy for abt 6 months now. it was a previous meeting that plummeted into a relationship. though we are based at different locations, he in lagos and me in kogi state (for now),we got on well in d beginning but somewhere along the line we started having issues as i felt i was treated as unimportant. he would avoid seeing me for the most flimsy reasons, backed up with good excuses and started acting distant. initially, i felt i was d one been overbearing on him and i decided to lose my grip on him. but only to find out that it was a deliberate action by him on the ground that for a period of abt 6months of dating, i had never visited his home, attended family parties, visited his sick mum, seen his sister's new baby and the like, and as a result of that, his family members who had previously heard abt me but not seen me was always accusing him of me, as i had no interest in his family affairs.
on this issue of visit to his family, i felt, u dont just visit people without an invitation, and i had looked for the slightest hint to visit his family home with him but have got none.
my problem is, i think he ought to be ma defender even b4 his family members and not take their accusations strongly against me, or he would have even invited me to his family home knowin fully well, about their accusations
i dont feel so gud about it coz ,it has caused us a great strain in our relationship and i am on the verge of backing out.
Did i forget this, i like him though, but these issues just keep creeping in, and im so so so so confused rite now

i thnk, if a guy really luvs a woman, he shldnt just let her go without a fight, he shld do everythng possible 2 win back her heart, she may have a rethink; but wen go like; 'because i really luv u and wudnt want to hurt u again, so i think i should just move on with ma life', it gives the impression in d heart f d woman dt she was neva really luved in d 1st place and u knw wat, Nathin cud be more painful
So even if u think u shld let her go which seems beta 4 both parties, do so after some resistance hmmn

@Ama: marriage is not done our of self pityor because the guy is desperate. if u think d guy is not your ideal kind of man? y waste further time with him. just tell him you r not just ready yet.besides, can u cope with his temper? if yes, and dt is ur problem u can reconsider otherwise, dere wud be no point.
wats ur heart saying? listen nd follow it

girls want to see wat stuff ur r made of. ur style, carriage, analytical skills, personality etc. u dnt just stop coz a girl gave u a 'No'. girls luv been chased, pampered, cared for, and luved.
show her ur stuff, she's scared 2 give in to you coz d last person who had her heart didnt treat it nicely, she's scared of her future with u. it has got nathin 2 do with sex coz she even has 2 be close 4 u 2 talk abt sex, it may take a little yle, but prove urself 2 her, kip trying, u'll find ur match someday

give him sometym as he requested. i thnk he wants 2 reason with his head and not his heart, he's on d verge of makin a decision and u knw , decision making is one of d most difficult things 2 do, use d break 2 determine if u really want him.
i once had a girlfriend who was having attractions/ feelings for a friend of hers who returned same. She thot she was carried away by her emotions and demanded a break f 2weeks from d guy to clear her head. no text msgs, no calls, no visits, nothing, end of story-'de got married last month',

show her more love and pamper her unending,
we like the attention but let her knw ur discomfort abt her attitude,
she'll be soothed soon,

thanks all ya, makin up ma mind already, made it pretty easier

i met ma boyfried early dis year in the most unlikely of circumstances. he's pretty nice and cute. i grew to like him and subsequently fell in love with him utterly to ma surprise. we both live in distant towns.as time went on, though he is based in Lagos, he visits town often but most times leaves without seeing me with good excuses to back up his actions which gets me really pissed off and make me feel like a bug 2 him- a feeling i detest. whenever i make a complaint, he apologises with so much vigour but in no time he goes back doing same thing. d few times we spend together is spent apologising 4 mistakes and stuff like that. we r better friends on d fone than in reality.
d last time he came around, he got around doing stuff nd hanging out with friends, finally saw me 4 abt 10mins, i was angry, now he is not picking ma calls, ignoring me and d like.maybe it's time to lay this relationship off.
i feel a guy who is not eager to be with u at all time, maybe doesnt really like you and it seems 2 me that im trying too hard or am i simply jealous?
i cant understand because im tired of d stories and want to tell him off,
wat is ur honest opinion?

hi dearie,
so pathetic a story.anoda reminder that most times the men bears enjoys fun; plays d game while d women bear the pain. wat's happened has happened. u cant change d past but wat u do today will effect ur future either way. dont be a loser both ways. rise up to the occassion,see through ur tears and keep d baby, he may be God's consolation for ur future.
it's a matter of time, d pain will fade away.
we are stronger than they think
it is well, luv u Bleep

try it and sign ur death certificate, nor think am at all oooo

it's just 4 d fun of it,

Hey, Mez,
i've been in ur shoes b4, it hurts 2 knw dt d person u really care abt doesn't give a damn about you, and dere seem 2 be nothin u can do abt it, u kmw wat? delete his number and dont write it down anywhere, try 2 kill him in ur thots, though it may be difficult,
yeah, u'll get over it over tym,
u'll find one who wud appreciate ur worth and u still care abt, i did

e, ya, can u imagine?
i thnk he shld apply reason 2 opinion b4 making any decision, questions like ds shld not elude him, e.g, who's ds man of God?
Has he been tested and proven as such?
what were d reasons for his proclamation?
then see ur Pastor or seek d face of God Personally on d issue of conviction,
watever anybody says 4 now is their opinion.it/s wat u say dt matters,
handle ds issue with caution coz a decision 2 be made cud make or mar u,

i think dere's more to it than meets d surface, if she's a workaholic and u met her dt way, den u shldn't complain now coz dtz how she has alwaz been, u say she doesn't visit u often, how often do u visit her? maybe u guyz shld hold d marriage stuff 4 now and solidify your relationship first,