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cgift:
I wont b surprisd if he will ask you to kneel down, hands up and close your eyes when you offend him

I'm telling u,they can also o

soulpatrol:
what a co-incidence. on the Oprah show today. there was the story of this woman who's husband was abusive to her for many years, and part of it was captured on camera. not only that, the man made his son video the abuse and even encouraged his kids to call the mother names! i was shocked to see something like that! i was so heartbroken for the woman. imagine the children you gave birth to calling you dirty names, encouraged by your husband, and you know that if you dare say anything back, he'll def beat the shit out of you. she eventually got out with the help of a friend, and the husband is going to be spending most of the rest of his life in jail now. you all know what would have happened to that woman had she not got out at the time she did. she's be dead, thats for sure, like many abused women. i dont know how many times it has to be drummed into our heads, ladies, that when you encounter an abusive partner, run for your life! it doesn't matter if you're married for 20 years already, no man has the right to lay a finger on any woman. it makes him less of a man. so my sister, pls respect yourself, value your life and do the right thing.

hmmm

ceecee0703:
see dear eeh, i was in a relationship wit a lady God knows dat i love dat gurl wit d whole of my hrt ,i dont ask her for sex or anything i helped her she gained admission do u knw wat she told me that am far off and some trash....we are not togeda again and how am i suppose to truely love a lady....i knw also dat it is like dat wit women too bt dat my side of d story

okay,she doesn't love u dear

if he hits you once and u accept his apologies,his definitely goin to hit you again, then comes anoda round of apologies, belive me its never goin to stop, u need to get as far away from him as possible before he uses to act rocky 7, good luck

yes,they never change

Seun:
Giving him a second chance is not an option. The reason behind the slap doesn't matter..

If previous girlfriends had not forgiven him, he would not have slapped you. Don't even think about it.
The more you forgive an abuser, the more he becomes emboldened. Do not even dream of forgiving him.

You don't have to insult him or provoke him further. Just cut him off completely. He will learn in a decade or two.

yes

viee:
give him a chance?
you can if you really love him
however do remember to go for karate lessons before you do

lol

DeGlory:
What will u do if a guy u seeing for just a Month beat you up and later says he is sorry and that it was the devil that got him mad?

I am in this situation right now! I got a slap last night from ma so called boyfriend over nothing.

Now he is begging his Ass . What do you think? Should I forgive him?

1 month relationship,shege

njuwo:
It is not only up you have to keep it o. You have to also keep it real, do you know that?

lol,okay

LifeIsGuhd:
Na you give me my pu.nani?? Or boobi??

lol,abi o

emperorchedda:
They see at as an avenue to lay their lazy assses on d couch while getting served by one slave they call husband

ol,vry funny ehn

Blayze007:
Age, social status, "All my friends are married except me" syndrome, Parents nagging etc..



BTW..some guyz dance more dan d babestho...almost as if they hit jackpot..

lol,abi

Krystalxxx:
Interesting. Lemme wait and see that sorta guy appear in real life

lol,abi o

Krystalxxx:
Play hard to get.........u r forming holy.
Don't play hard to get.......dey say, see dis fool
You're clean.......so you think u can win me by that?
You're not clean........see this dirty pig whom expects me to marry her, she doesn't even reach my standards.


Either way once he's determined you're effed up, you're effed up, not cuz u did anything , but cuz he has decided THIS GIRL IS EFFED UP.

SO, God help all the women.

amen dear

[quote author=manchester1 post=34104652][/quote]thank u

qokblizz:
No mata hw hard u're, U must laugh afta reading
dis.....CONFESSION OF A LADY
"I ate 3 plates of beans (which I know I
shouldn't).
When I got to my fiancee's place for dinner, he
seemed excited to see me and exclaimed
delightedly "Darling I have a surprise for you
tonight." He then blindfolded me and led me to
my chair at the dinning table. I took a seat and
just as he was about to
remove my blindfold, the telephone rang. He
made me promise not to touch the blindfold until he returned and went to answer the call. The beans I had consumed was still affecting me and the pressure was becoming unbearable, so while my fiancée was out of the room I seized the opportunity, shifted my weight to one leg and let one go. It was not only loud, but it smelled like a
fertilizer truck running over a skunk in front of a
garbage dump! I took my napkin from my lap and fanned the air around me vigorously. Then, shifting to the other leg, I ripped off three more.
The stink was worse than cooked cabbage. Keeping my ears carefully tuned to the
conversation in the other room,I went on
releasing atomic bombs like this for another few
minutes. The preasure was indescribable! Eventually the telephone farewells signalled the end of my freedom, so I quickly fanned the air a few more times with my napkin, placed it on my lap and folded my hands back on it feeling very relieved and pleased with myself.
My face must have been the picture of
innocence when my fiancée returned,
apologising for taking so long. He asked me if I
had peeped through the blindfold, and I assured
him I had not. At this point, he removed the
blindfold. To my utmost surprise, twelve dinner
guests including his Mum and Dad were seated around the table, with hand holding their
noses.....If you were in her shoes, what will you
do?

bt farting isn't a crime now

monkeyDsabo:
No offence, but a lot of Naija girls no deserve pity. you might be an exception o. coz i think it's only about 70% that aren't worth the hassle of keeping. dated this girl for 4 years, she was forming virgin, so i spent my little resources, and encourage her to keep her chastity. helped her poor ass to uni, even though i was an undergrad. heck, even got my mum to help her bloody ungrateful sister with payments of her first fees in unilag. only for the damned b*tch to end up f*cking a married man, and loosing her virginity to him. then got severely drilled by some y y idiots. anyways for all my money, time and effort. all i got was 1 loosy round a day before leaving naija.



actually might have to write the full story with a new tread, so people can learn

sorry dear,I just pity what some guys face in d hands of ladies,God knws I'm nt so wicked like dis,if I dnt love d guy,I would ve let him knw in d first place,no relationship than using him for survival,some ladies ehn

njuwo:
This one that you are laughing out loud and saying okay o. Are you not going to keep it up?

I ve been keeping it up before now,so why d change now

monkeyDsabo:
This one that you have taken it upon yourself to comment on half of the post of this thread. hope no be say, this matter at hand self touch you? coz e be like say you get some attitude wey dey between number 1 to 9.

nt me,I just pity some ladies bah

freenature:
[size=20pt]All of una wey dey kari ya JonTomos enta eny kyn paradise say e dey sweet you, chai i pity you cos na your destiny you just dey shia like say na biscuit in the name of revenge and fun[/size]

thank u for dis

chowlade:
I appreciate u making ur fellow guys happy but
you might need to grow up Slowpoke and retardo. Dont quote me back or else fire go fire u. Get some respect 4 yaself

Note: If that thread sud enter front page I'll delete my account off Nairaland.

hmmm

Genea:
even wen u don't play hard to get na d same tin,most guys just want to chop and clean mouth,trust me I kno wah am saying

yes dear,u re nt lying

adeh39:



* continues chewing the gum loudly*
Warn yourself ooo

lol,ehn dis girl,u re surely a trouble maker o

MsBliss:
Back page material

abi,yeye guys full here

toys2seven:
This Article is longer than my battery life. Would read when I see fuel.

lol,abi o

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]As for me when a girl forms "Hard to get" too much i'm definitely going to dump her after i'm done with her.

I have to repay for the stress she put me through.

Oga tosyne how fuel matter for your area na? [/color]

thank u,playing hard to get doesn't mean a guy will stick to u after sex,he may dump u and go around for d next victim

Orijin101:
10 She Is An Icon Of Sex

Some ladies don't really need to tell you they are hungry of sex, merely looking at them, you will see the real definition of sex in them. Who wan marry pvnna wey don wide pass Atlantic ocean?

11 She Asks For Something In Return After Sex

After some couples of lashing, then she come up with something like: Orijin, see i don't have recharge card on my phone again ooo, buy card for me na. . . Then i will gladly remove N750 from my pocket and give it to her coz that's the exact amount i do give oloshos after a long day ministration with them!

dis isn't correct,sorry,so u mean if a lady is hungry for sex,dat means she is an olosho or she is wide,sorry,I dnt agree with dat,and d recharge card thingy,I dnt agree with it,all dis doesn't mean she is a bad girl,next comment pls

Kingsleyinfo:
Just as I can also replace or add to her as I please

bt wait,does being submissive means a good wife,I think love matters most,cos there re some cases,the wife is over submissive,bt d husband ignore her and still cheat on her

Kingsleyinfo:
No it doesn't mean that, it simply means good hygienic habits.

Imagine I am on leave, I decide to pay my elder brother a visit

A week later his fiancee comes visiting, and has dinner with us, then leaves her dishes in the sink for me to wash.

I trust myself sha, I go just siddon dey watch TV till my brother go wash the plates by himself.

If he coughs, I will give him a piece of my mind and get a hotel to spend the night... What nonsense.

Women are not slaves, neither are younger brothers. If she could use it, she could at least clean her own and her fiancee's dish.

I personally don't allow girlfriends use my kitchen, but when you get upgraded to fiancee 1.0 walai you better act the part otherwise na to uninstall straight. I nor fit for 'had I known'

as far as guys u guys re nt married yet,she can do as she pleases

cold:
It's a reflection of oneself. I honestly can't stand untidy people (i'll refrain from using dirty). But like i said,maybe it's just me. Others might see it differently.

if she choose to do it,fine,if she didn't want to,d guy can do it,as both of them slept together on d bed,and nt as if d lady is living there

Lincoln275:
from my own point of view, its that girl responsibility to wash used plate for her bro-in-law nah. then d husband don chop efo if He is encouraging his fiancee not to wash plates for his brother

lol

freecocoa:
I'm trying to understand your angle o, are you saying, as a lady, it's paramount to do the dishes after eating when visiting a boyfriend? Does he get to do the dishes after eating at my place?

They both slept on the bed, anyone can do it.

abi o

Gaidenk:
If u wanna belittle him do it in your own fathers house,the west has totally destroyed everything we hold culture. A woman in our culture marries the family,if you like it,find a bitch nigg* who you can control

lol