₦airaland Forum

freecocoa:
Help me ask them o. Plate kwa? Nigerian women are really in trouble.

seriously

cold:
If he says never mind,he'll do it. It's different. If he doesn't,one should have the decency to clean up after herself. This is a no brainer really. It's akin to a girl sleeping over at her partner's,gets up in the morning and leaves without straightening the sheets. Or maybe it's just me.

and straightening d sheet means what,a good fiancée bah

emperorchedda:
tell them jhor.

Meanwhile some person are claiming civilization.. how pathetic and shallow minded some girls are.

Imbecillic slowpoke

I'm telling u

Truman155:
all the best for them

no,some women are,nt all women

emperorchedda:
Even in the western world you don't leave your dishes for another person to do for you.

How idiotic of that girl

seriously,dat shows dirtiness

Vivly:
Because of plate.

I dey tell u,some things re better done,and look other side

Adaeze003:
One of the mere men woulda just washed the plate.

Kini big deal...

abi,shouting all becos of plate washing,why can't he do it and do as if nothing happen

missKiffy:
Am a lady and would never support such, it's wrong for her not to wash the plate and to think the elder brother is even insisting his younger brother to wash it and not the girl is absurd

yeah,so so bad

RedBenson:
A neighbourhood brother was seriously angry with his younger bro this morning when he realised that the plates his fiancee ate with when she visited last night was not washed by his younger brother.

The guy may have purposely refused to wash the plates because he believes it's an insult for a lady (be it his senior or junior) to have eaten from a plate and lacked the basic womanly manners to leave it unwashed.

Since the dude who's a student and well over 25yrs realised that a lady, who should be respecting men would rather try to bring him down to that extent and had thus refused to wash the plates.

This issue actually caused an uproar between the two brothers up to the point the elder brother was telling the younger one "finish your school asap and leave my house...nonsense".

Well, the elder brother later went and washed the plates furiously angry without his sibling. The fact that he even supported the lady on such act is what surprised everyone.

The question is, what RIGHT does a lady (be it a wife or fiancee) have to keep the plates she ate with for her brother in-law to come wash for her? Who should rather do that to who? Smh @women of nowadays. No iota of manners in them again.

hmmm,bt why would he treat his brother like trash all becos of a woman

Adaeze003:
Lol. No let them go n get wives from outside. Maybe then they'll realize the grass ain't greener on the other side.

they can even shoot u or make cops arrest u if u cheat on them,claiming emotional abusive

Adaeze003:
Uhm... what's that saying again? "You are what you attract"?

So first off Mr, do you have any dignity at all? This one you're already claiming girls should have "more" respect for their body which is something a loose(whorish) man will say.

Secondly, what is wrong with a man cooking and doing chores in his home? I'm sure you expect that once a girl lands, you should do nothing. Now, isn't that what a lazy man will do?

So, how will a lazy and loose man attract a girl with dignity?

Like your brother advised, leave the country and find a perfect or how did you put it again "nearest best available spinster"...

even those akata women he mention re more worst than nigerian women,u must do all the house chores for them as a man to show u love them and caring

sinizia:
There are good ladies, there are bad ladies..
There are good men, there are bad men..
There are irresponsible women, there are responsible women..
There are irresponsible men, likewise responsible men..

The bad news is, they don't come cheap, or easily. They're like diamond in the rough, they are no awashed every where. Good soup, as Nigerians will say, na money kill am. In this case, what you need is time, patience, God and determination to find the good women.

Bad things are more than good things, so you don't expect to find good women anyhow. Also, all those things you listed, they can be found in men. We have murders, ritualists, rápists, paédophiles, drug peddlers, thieves, cheats which fall under men. Our leaders that have ruined this country are 90% men. Most wars in the world are carried out by men. So nobody holy pass. Take your time, being a man, the biological clock favours you.

The problem is, sometimes we find the right woman, but we belittle her or for whatever reason, ignore her.

thank u

WebSurfer:
i am not talking of wanting to do dishes or other types of chores on personal agreement, of course we do not have to ask, we we supposed to tell a girl whom woke up together on thesame bed to make the bed in the morning, are we supposed to cook or prepare meals, do required kitchen and house cleaning on our own? these things they will watch you do them and feel very comfortable without even trying to ask for assistance not knowing we are just hipping these thoughts in our head, amongst others, these days, Ladies would feel it is love to even help them with laundry, sometimes i begin to ask myself where they grew up from.

a nigerian man thinking,sorry o

jashar:
Then what?

Please, tell me the things females should do in the house.

All of those things you think should be done are based on personal and most times cultural perspectives.

You and your babe decides who does what in YOUR home.

Namaste.

thank u

WebSurfer:
How can an ugly guy like me try to roll with an ugly girl, biko that does not sound nice at all, i need a beautiful wife

lol,u re vry funny dude,nobody is ever ugly,remember,God created us in his own image

whocares1:
Download the latest version of brain

abi,vry vry shallow question

njuwo:
You are welcome but don't forget to keep it up o.

lol,okay o

JeffreyJamez:
Nne the hustle is real o

lol

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

bt dats wrong now

Tinubu:
If na you be the babe, shey you go follow am go the 'small ashaawo joint'?
Don't encourage what you might find hard doing

lol,abi

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

its nt the right thing to do,u done right already

gede7744:
u are not yet married to ur gf and she is already domineering and controlling, wonder what she will do if u eventually marry her.

seriously

Timileyin:
Got to settle some really big fight few days back when preparing to go to a cousin's wedding. I left home with my sister, with the intention of picking my Girl friend alone with way, When we saw her, she demanded my sister, move to the back so as she could occupy her so called space. Which ended been a big fight and they caused a really big scene. Who do i support?

dat ur girlfrnd na olosho o,fighting ur own blood sister for front seat,if u marry her,she won't respect any of u guys in ur family

davidylan:
1. No guy is worth fighting and debasing yourself for. Next time keep your dignity, dont wait until he drives you out and humiliates you.

2. He never respected you in the first place; no man who TRULY LOVES you will be comfortable with another woman in his house when he has a girlfriend. It is not an excuse to say "she is just a friend".

3. What response are you expecting here? When a man tells you "it is over", it truly is unless he wants to keep you as his doormat and sex machine.

gbam

merits:
this is trust,she knows that the guy can't fail her and she show her talent.i trust 9ja babes.they can never try this.

wats dis

JeffreyJamez:
*enters with 50litre keg *

Abeg where una see fuel take power this thread

lol,ehn,nija don turn into another thing

italkpass:
"The lady that loves me" Do you love her too? Sounds like you don't love her that much, If you love her enough to marry her, then you'll understand that your happiness is all that matters not what an Imam or pastor tells your mother.

yeah,love covers everything,and I believe in power of prayer to change everything right from wrong

neutrotoba:
I believe happiness supercedes all other factors

If yhu wanna be happy, marry the one yhu love.

If ur mother wants ur happiness, she'd allow you to follow ur heart!!

I also believe prayers can change unfavorable conditions to favorable.

thank you,I love dis,though I'm forced to comment

MallamMusa:
I love meat in my bones and nobody can stop me. i don't know why these women are hating because i love fat girls abi una think say i go come knocking for una door? if you weigh less than 130 kilos, forget mallam musa. If i drop my cash money, i need the value of my money in my bed and not some bony lepa.

lol,loving dis thread

njuwo:
You are the first Nigerian understanding girl i have come across here on nairaland. I clap for you!

tanx o

njuwo:
You will still understand and stay till money comes back?

yes o

njuwo:
Hmm! You are right, no job, no romance, job before romance, no wonder the book of Job came before Romans in the bible. How about if there was money while the love started, but it got finished?.

I will still understand now