Escabado:
was dating a single mother , she was cool during our dating time . But the issue was that she comes with lots of responsibility and her child feeding money and all that . Now I advice this lady to go get a job or open a business to enable her provide for her self and her child , she picked offence and got angry .did I do wrong by advicing her to get a job ? Now she told me her mother is taking her for constant prayer program for her to pray so that God will give her a caring man that will marry her and I ask her at this point in her life is it a man she needs or a job or a business that can sustain her and her child.

Instead of getting a job or opening up a business , she is busy going from one prayer to the other praying to get caring man. What sort of Lazy mopic mentality does our Nigerian girls really have

Who else have noticed Nigerian girls see it as an insult if you tell them to go get a job or business that can better there life.

Anyway I broke up with her because she wasn't making plans that can better her life financially . I know finally she may end up been a street olosho. Is man a bank ?

So why did you start up a relationship with her when you very well know you aint equal to the task? Single mothers are for mature caring men and not d opposite so find a lady who suits you next time.

Nazgul:

They don't depend on men to take care of them. They already have their responsibilities sorted out with their jobs.

And you should know that asking for money isn't the issue here, the problem is the reason why you're asking. Imagine asking your guy for money to buy cream, soap, data, feeding sanitary pads...etc. Any working class girl can easily sort that out.

So next time you quote me, try to understand where I'm coming from.

When d op goes I'm sure she'll survive. Do mature ladies ask men for money for sanitary pads and soap? Nawa

Babafash:
Most 9ja girls believe that once u are dating them u become their responsibility that's y i used to tell my guys that if they have a babe that doesn't bill them unnecessarily they should marry her immediately. Girls are many but wife material scarce

So girls who dont demand are wife materials? Lolz wetin person no go read for nl

Nazgul:
Next time you decide to ask a girl out, confirm that she's actually doing something, that way she'll be too busy to dump her responsibilities on you.

myopic reasoning. So working girls dont ask men for money? Lmfao

Escabado:
was dating a single mother , she was cool during our dating time . But the issue was that she comes with lots of responsibility and her child feeding money and all that . Now I advice this lady to go get a job or open a business to enable her provide for her self and her child , she picked offence and got angry .did I do wrong by advicing her to get a job ? Now she told me her mother is taking her for constant prayer program for her to pray so that God will give her a caring man that will marry her and I ask her at this point in her life is it a man she needs or a job or a business that can sustain her and her child.

Instead of getting a job or opening up a business , she is busy going from one prayer to the other praying to get caring man. What sort of Lazy mopic mentality does our Nigerian girls really have

Who else have noticed Nigerian girls see it as an insult if you tell them to go get a job or business that can better there life.

Anyway I broke up with her because she wasn't making plans that can better her life financially . I know finally she may end up been a street olosho. Is man a bank ?

You right but to break up because of such? Did you try assisting her get a job? Like connect her to one? Or lovingly give an idea to a business for sustenance? Telling someone to go get a job without even giving them pointers can b painful

Its a different ballgame if she's simply lazy and dependent though

Imagine! Illiterates no know say perfume dey flammable or what? Nonsense

dosage150:


I so much doubted it
But I never knew this guy I trusted so much would like to scam me

That's how life is bro. Tell him to gerrout.

Nihilist000:
My friends seem to think I broke her heart or hurt her emotions by adding the other girl in on our video call.

And did you define this relationship? Simply tell her you don't have her at heart so she can give her time to someone else

jimter44:
I do not support wife battering, but why must you get pregnant for a man who has not paid your bride price?

Question for d gods bro. Do u know how many of our mothers got pregnant first before marrying? Men of old were very responsible and good at covering perceived societal shame unlike now

Mikecold:
lol, you guys are so emotional

This lady here had an accident which amputated her leg

she wasn't supposed to open leg for any unserious man knowing the burden a child could do to her situation


The issue is the union she rushed into to produce a child without taking the advice of those who truly have been assisting her up to her educational level

Like u can advise a person in love until e clear for dem eye

What will b d color of 9ja must go bag like this?? Buhhhhaaaahhaaaa


Ghana wanna revenge jarey.

iaamxavier:
You should modify your post OP, You've repeated a paragraph almost 5 times.
With this airport, I see anambra's IGR double within 2 years from now, south east economy is about to turn around for good, given the heavy purchasing prowess of our billionaires and people as a whole

My problem is since asaba airport and Enugu airport are closer to all this communities listed, why then wasn't it strategically located somewhere closer to purchasing power?

I think we've hyped this airport enough, let obiano complete this project and then we can laud it as we like.

Anambra amaka!

So u want them to destroy people's homes because of airport huh? D location is perfect

boborneyor:


NNPC , FFS , FRSC , NPS , Customs , and this NDLEA are all through with recruitment without me being successful in any of them , it's only Nscdc that remains and my hope on that is not upto 30% again .......Man is tired

I dont even bother anymore

Chisaedhor:


Its not easy bro. 3 months for what na

Dont you want the pucci to go back to normal? Gotta heal

Powersurge:


Do says sweet cunt! . Apologies ma'am!

Na you sabi. When u ready to settle down, thats when ur karma will come.

Powersurge:


I wasn't taking it as nothing. I am not just easily moved these days. On the contrary, I want to blv there could be real ones out there.
I just take exception to the fact that we mutually agreed either overtly or covertly to have sex and started threatening afterwards. Besides, I have learnt by experience that only about 1% are truly whom they claimed they are.

Mutually? Someone visited ur house and you pressured them into having intercourse and u call it mutual? Abegi

Korllami007:


The father of the kid(s) can come back and claim his child(ren) and the kid(s) may not regard their mother's new husband as their father because they may stil love their father or they don't love their mother's new husband. The new husband will just be paying bills and school fees for nothing and the kid(s) may go back to their father in the future despite the fact the new husband has spent time and money on them.


The perfect example of a loser is man that marries a single mother.

Go back how? Is that how life is? Go back to which ex? You'll have to know her story first, any single mom who still in talking term with her baby dassy should b avoided. There are some who have erased d fool from their existence so its unlikely for d fool to show up claiming nonsense.

Darzillionaire:


Life is full of choice. The decision you make today, can either make you or mar you.

There is nothing wrong in dating single mothers.

The main question is, what is your aim of dating a single mother?

Some men date single mothers for petty.
Some date them for their money.
Some use them as a play ground in order to get their right or true love.

But let me give you a shocker, when you sit down and discover yourself to check what you want in love, you will surely find it in the life of any single mother out there.

Most people say that its risky to date a single mother and go into marriage with her because there is every tendency that she will later divorce you.

It is not true when you start that relationship with a clear conscience knowing fully well what you want.

Some single mothers happens to give you the peace, love, joy, happiness and a better home you desire more than that young lady you think will do.

Some of them are single not because they possess bad character or maybe they were rude to their ex, its because they might happen to be passing through a lot of things deeply in their mind of which their partner happens to be the cause to their nightmare.

A friend got married to a single mother. She was transparent enough to explain every single thing that transpired between her and the ex.
The new guy laid all of them to back and started a new life with her from being friends, down to relationship and finally to marriage.

Today, they are happily married with kids and doing well in life.

One of the problems men have is inability to be patient enough on a lady before making love or asking her to make love with him. It is not nice to meet someone whom you want to start something serious with and you barely know her, next, you start asking for sex.

It will be nice, if men should give those single ladies in their lives time to truly understand their personality before diving into relationship.

Try to make her your friend for like a month or more. Get to understand her. Find out her past and allow her to know your own. This will help you to build a formidable bond with her and nothing will ever separate both of you.

PS: Single mothers are humans. Most of them did not ask to be single again. It is the circumstances of life that landed them in their current status.

Quite d mature post.

CountVersailles:

Yes, my brother told me. I already told him to explain to her that I'm now the one paying, but she doesn't believe him.

Baba free the lady jarey. That's her own business.

cassidy1996:
good one from efcc


staying low-key pays, dem nor go hear

How? So if i pose in front of my bf car or borrowed car na so dem go come arrest me? I see nothing excessively flashy in d picture sef

Yes why not? His plus mine will b sufficient until God blesses and Enlarges our coast.

HEAVEN4444:
Its the truth you are saying. but me i am tired of losing money o jare. I QUIT

You are a bad punter or u simply follow bad punters.

MrColdsweat:
if a man's work is too easy, why are millions of women praying to God to give them husbands?

Pls dont work or contribute o, infact dont marry sef. No b by force. U men should free me.

Molastheboss:
Hello guys I’m thinking about travelling to New Zealand for job or stay in Nigeria I’m a plumber and have been to Dubai before which I work as a plumber I came back home because the bad weather in Dubai I can’t withstand it now I’m thinking of giving it a shot again so I decide to go to New Zealand please is it advisable to go and how’s life in New Zealand

Australia is your best shot. Dont know how flexible nZ visa is

Their services is needed badly in d north.

Ekeeyhandsome:
SweetCunt97 post=101434413]Nothing in particular really. I assume yours to be Thanks in ibo ryt

Nope.. meanwhile Dm your number let's chat via video

Roger that

MrColdsweat:

What are your responsibilities? Compare it to his responsibilities.

Anybody with so many responsibilities is a slave.

Lolz. Guy he's not fvcking complaining. What d fvck do u men do? Only to go out and work and drop money, finish! Still you'll complain about it like an idiot. Go take care of a baby for one week, i bet you, na u go happy to just dey drop money. Mtcheeew.

Vecto:


Guy! No do dey do your fellow hustler like this. We are all in the same game. You sharing it with me neither changes the outcome of the matches nor your winnings. So make i mail you?

Be careful. Na longthroat dey make goat enter trap.

waploger:


make i drop my aza? anything will be much appreciated. please?

What stops u from predicting and winning?

Telstar:
I gave someone games today, if everything works out fine, from May 10, I will give you lots of games you can pick from and win cool cash.

Drop am naw

HEAVEN4444:
Truly here is my gambling story.I started actively like 6 months ago. between then and now i have gained about 350,000 thousand naira. however i have noticed that i am on a losing streak, like just yesterday i lost 12000 to real madrid. and its funny this topic came up today and i am the first person to post because i believe the LORD is warning me to quit. however after that real madrid loss i already vowed to leave it alone permanently because like i said i had already won about 500 thousand in the past 6 months but the losing streak i am on has dwindled it to 350 thousand profit over the gambling houses. so i think i want to leave on top meaning i won and they lost. i took 350, thousand from them. and so i have quit permanently

although i am tempted to do a last bet on the champions league finals i want to put something on manchester city

Na people wey dey lose and without principle and self control dey write epistle about gambling. Gambling aint for kids. See men winning millions every weekend naw, u think their wives will give them sermon about quiting? Best is to have a staking plan

dragunov:


So what happens to your own money o.

Use it to support him as well, not every lil thing i go collect from hubby naw its also my home my family and my responsibility.