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babyosisi:
This is sad,I may not say anything to ease your pain but your story should be a lesson to other women
Ladies,please get an education and have a career you can fall back on and do not ,I repeat,do not depend on any man for your total sustenance.
This is a prime example of what can happen when one gets into marriage uneducated or under-educated and naive with time on your hands
You become too absolved in the marriage ,losing your sense of self and with little confidence
The man becomes the focus and the center of your life and any perception real or imagined that this man (who is now elevated to the status of a god) may be slipping off your hand is met with brutal force.

You tried to fight other women off him
You don't do that
Men who cheat enjoy that attention
You teach people to respect you by holding your own
Most men don't like weaklings and women who smother them
They prefer strong willed but loving women who they know can take charge of the family should he drop dead
You are too needy
Needy women scare people
There is no need calling fire and brimstone for this woman and your hubby,they are both grown and they have made their decisions
Leaving or staying is your choice but never leave without your kids if you ask me
Take your children and move on,if you have to fight for custody of your kids please do
If you leave your kids,they will become maids and boi boi to this new wife and second rated citizen in their father's house

Nice write up madame.

But I have seen illiterate women enjoy their marriages more than professors.

What makes a marriage goes beyond all these decorations. It take more than that. It takes the hearts and determination of both parties.

I don't usually comment or give advise on marital issues when I wasn't there when things started falling apart and the center couldn't hold anymore.

OP ndo ehn. Pele

CFCfan:
Ex-convicts can vote in some US states like California and 18 other states.

CFCfan:
Here in the US, two states-Vermont and Maine-allow prisoners to vote thru special absentee ballots. For the most part, voting rights is a state issue here.

And has Nigeria gotten to that stage? have we matured enough for that? Do we have the right things in place to ensure that these prisoners will not be used for something else? The fact only two states out of fifty states in a whole US of A can allow prisoners vote says a lot about how risky it is.

Please let's be real.

abeautifulchick:
On the contrary,it came up in 2003/2007,that was why he lost woefully.
Meanwhile,thought he said he will never contest for presidency again after loosing out the last time.The greatest problem a grown man can have is indecision.Such an indecisive man is not fit for that position.
Anyway lets agree to disagree but dig deep like i advised so we dont regret at a later time.

For her mind now, she don argue "intelligently"


Mademoiselle, I remember Jonathan insisting he won't contest in 2015. What level of indecision can you call that?

profstar:
I don't belong to any party too bro, but there is a saying that goes thus: "the devil you know is better (and safer) than the angel you don't know." Think on this

This thread is for people like you........

https://www.nairaland.com/1984252/annoying-things-gej-pej-apologists

edo3:
He is even contradicting himself here again,,,callin himself our servant,,and also a leader..servant my booth lace..Servant wey dey chop wetin some kings neva chop..

My dear!

nationwide1:
Only a sincere and honest man can speak like this. May God who gave Solomon the wisdom to rule also give our president the needed wisdom to govern Nigeria.

Oh shut the damn f**k up!

Aren't you nit wits tired of all these low IQed, sentimental nonsense?? WTF is wrong with the average Nigerian?

gunther6:
That doesn't sound right, Jonathan is desperate with all this kabukabu, retail rulings and injunctions he has been obtaining from corrupt judges. even ex-convicts cannot vote in America.... orisirisi obe la ma ri lojo iku erin

My dear!

Baddestguyp:
wat of boko haram prisoners, should they be allowed to vote for the politician sponsoring them

My dear!

I see.

Promise the prisoners freedom on the condition that they vote for Jonathan.

Bravo!

Papertrail11:
no offense but this kind of asset should not be owned by a person in a country for me this should strictly be a govetnment owned assest my worry is in the area of abuse exploitation and maybe economic sabotage.

Nigeria dosent have a fuctioning refinery yet dang wanna build his in 3years .Otonjo iwella what hav e you been doing with out subsidy money couldnt you guys have saved part of it to build something like dat of dangote you dont have sense mrs otondo iwella you are incompent you havent helped better the lives of ordinary Nigerians. no wondet they gave a medical doctor (dentist) world bank job over you fooooool.

My dear!

ChristyG:
now it is obvious u never followed d show on social,u are just hating.even with d ebola crises in sierraleone and liberia,i saw comments from people from dose countries and also cameroon too even from other countries not in wa,then ghana also had a rep in d finale,so dere was no way dey could ave voted for him for.u dont seem to understand d game,even with dose people from other wa countries will be counted as one since their country is NOT participating

Big lie. And you know it.

Cheers!

sophiangel:
It is obvious you are blinded by hate and so no point replying/arguing with you again!idris won,and tayo with all the hate he got for being himself,is doing good for himself already!his story reminds me of this quote'one with God is majority'keep hating with your imaginary friends and let his fanbase keep growing together with his pocket,it can only get better!#peace

Blinded by hate for my fellow countryman for no reason ba?

You guys should just get over yourselves and learn to accept defeat. Like I said, the problem is from Uti and Denrele. tell them to stop imposing their friends on us. They should allow people with more potentials to go.

Bliss4Lyfe:
Only in Nigeria do entertainers meddle in politics. Tell us why it must be Fashola and not Amaechi? Banky, u say Fashola becos he is yoruba.

Charity begins at home, become that change in Nigeria by looking beyond tribe urself.

nansense.

Kai. Na wa o you o.

We all know Fashola is in fact the face of APC.

ireneony:
these artist are all fake...
this was the same guy that campaign for jonathan on his last election

Yeah but that was before he knew GEJ's true colours. Now he doesn't hide the fact that he's no longer interested in GEJ. Unlike D'banj and co that are always scampering to aso rock to look for crumbs and lick asss under the guise of "GEJ is promoting entertainment in Nigeria".

Banky I feel your pain.

One of the few entertainers that is not interested in posing with GEJ and eating crumbs from his table. He seems to sincerely have Nigeria at heart.

mikeansy:
He is definitely carving a big niche

as the governor who used his people's money to engage in a wild goose chase

na only him be governor?

And what makes you think it was all used for the presidential/VP campaign? Have you forgotten he's also working on his own state politics?

All of you laughing about Ameachi not geting VP slot. Although I am disappointed he didn't get it, I can't remember seeing Ameachi showing much interest in it. He's not crying or fighting anybody to get the post for himself, so what's your own?

Amaechi from what I have seen has been more like a backbone to APC. Giving them his support because he seems to believe so much in APC. I believe he's more like investing in the future. Making his mark and carving a niche for himself.

PassingShot:
You're correct but I still believe that sticking in the SW is the best option.

SS/SE is locked down for PDP/GEJ. Even if the VP slot is given to them, APC is not guaranteed 30% of the votes. This is incontrovertible.
Add that to the NC and the chance that they can make an incursion into the SW who will not be too keen to vote Buhar/SS and you have them winning another landslide so to say.

As things are now, with vigorous campaign in the SS, 20% of the votes is enough once North and SW are in the kitty.

Yes even at that, that 30% votes from SS can go a long way for them clinching the crown.

The SW is already on lock down. as you can see, you hardly hear and see S Westerners demanding for these things. What they are concerned about is respect and recognition.

fanex:
In as much as i want GEJ to lose the election, i also NEED him to win to ensure the continuity of one Nigeria. Nigeria as we know it, is in a delicate balance. The power must remain with South-South for a little while longer for their satisfaction after which they will never taste it again for good reasons.

Thankfully, Buhari has again chosen a weak running mate and as such learnt nothing from his loss in the last election. i am absolutely chuffed for Nigeria. Assuming he had chosen a strong personality like fashola,amechi, okorocha(to split GEJ vote in the East) or oshomole the contest would have been indeed close and therefore prone to political and social unrest.

my proud people of Nigeria please expect a trouble free election as GEJ continues his reign. we dodged the bullet.

One Nigeria? Under GEJ?

My friend, are you typing from Australia?

nationwide1:
I knew it was a poorly cooked lie from day one. Southerners who believe a Fulani Muslim lady would marry a Christian and walks alive are those who have never been to Northern Nigeria. Buhari as a typical Fulani Muslim would have either killed her or have nothing to do with her forever. Moreover, every Northern Muslim sees a Southern Muslim as fake any day.

It happens. Especially their men.

Muslim Hausa men came to marry me while I was serving in Kaduna. Would have married one of them, I just wasn't sure if he would later force me to be a Muslim.

Ameachi will be better.

The South west is already on lock down. They are not really into this regionalism thing as long as you give them their respect.

sophiangel:
A lot of them supported Tayo,saw a lot of them on social media and it is evident in him getting Roa everytime he was up without macky2 and not just West africans but other non participating countries,you only felt nigerians voice more cos of our population and we know how to hype our own!
It is obvious you don't like him,so there is no point to this argument,tayo had supporters from allover africa despite his flaws..out of all 20something of them,only one person was going to win and idris was lucky and won it!!simple.Tayo is now making his own money regardless of not winning the star prize,and that is all that matters. Let's move on!

Which population? I hardly heard other voices compared to Kevin, Uti, and Karen's time.

Besides, you are lying. I understand BBA better than you do. Trust me.

So if ROA voted Tayo when he's not up with Macky2 but decided to pitch with Macky 2 when both were up, does it not simply, in plain language, tell you that they preferred Macky 2??

Of course I don't like him! So do many others. That's why you need to get into your heads that your fav housemate does not automatically reserve the rights to win just because he's your favourite.

halix239:
c even if tayo was a saint, they ll neva vote for him, why didn't they vote for melvin, regional voting ll always b there. so stop talking about character, gud or bad character , they ll neva vote for tayo. foul mouth ni, bad character ke.

his foul mouth caused it my asss

Answer this question;

How come other WA countries didn't vote Tayo since the show is all about regionalism?

I know only Ghana and Nigeria participated officially. But I never saw other West Africans supporting Tayo on BBA sites and social media. All the hype was from Nigerians. Hardly would you see a non-Nigerian or WA for that matter shouting Tayo's name.

How do you want to defend that?

shomutuski:
OLOSHI!!! And ur father they ouse they suffer.. Can't you reason @ all: the recurrent expenditure is more than the capital expenditure... Chai!!! Your region and generation will be doomed for another 4 years.. Prolly ur pops won't survive it sef. Werey.

Those Jonathan apologists don't reason at all. Don't you get it?

They just can't see anything wrong with whatever he does or says. They always look for some imaginary silver lining.

sophiangel:
Nigerians don't vote based on regions and besides since the show is now about regionalism then more ecowas countries should join,simple!

You don't get me. How come other WA countries didn't vote Tayo since the show is all about regionalism?

I know only Ghana and Nigeria participated officially. But I never saw other West Africans supporting Tayo on BBA sites and social media. All the hype was from Nigerians. Hardly would you see a non-Nigerian or WA for that matter shouting Tayo's name.

How do you want to defend that?

sophiangel:
Please regionalism has killed bba,and he lost cos of it nothing else!if idris was westafrican he would not have won,it was an ea or southern africa game to win and besides the last week before the finale he got 4votes against idri's 3 and everyone knows macky2 got the roa votes because he is a huge star in zambia and sms was free in there country so they concentrated on voting through Roa!
At the end of the day,no bi him wey dey ball with billionaires now and same mouth you said he used in killing his game,he also used in hyping 2baba and dbanj in the house and see him hanging with them..

Let's even forget ROA first.

What of WA Is it not regionalism you are talking about? Abi Nigeria is no longer in ECOWAS ni?

ChristyG:
abeg just tell us u dont like tayo jor,dillish and idris who won did not ave rest of africa votes either,is it ROA votes dat anybody from any country can use to votes even if ur country is participating in d show.i still stand by mp opinion,regionalism killed his game,nothing less.if butterphly or sipe were to be from east africa and were d only ones left,trust me,they would ave won to cos of d regional stuff.even d housemates knew he wasnt going to win cos he is from west africa..and we have had male reps from other countries who were nasty too(richard)so stop making it sound like tayo is d only bad one here abeg.ko lo joko jare

Lol!

Nigerians and SAs are such sore loosers in BBA.

When we don't win, we were robbed.

sandijey:
The regional voting started because of Nigeria. It was like all african countries were against Nigeria because we kept winning and so the best way they could kick us out was through regional voting. Most of the housemates are always scared of Nigeria. Anyway there is a petition going round for Nigeria to boycot big brother. People are signing it online. I signed it to. The big brother thing was never ok. Especially wiv unequal number of regions. How can southern Africa have 7 to eight countries. East africa have 4 then west Africa has 2. Out of all those countries only Nigeria and s.a ,angola can conveniently host their own big brother. The rest of those countries cannot. The worst is how this smaller countries insult Nigeria and even the housemates insult the country instead of insulting the Nigerian housemate. The show is causing more harm than good. I urge people to go sign the petition. They should not even do big brother Nigeria. Cus it will become yoruba against igbo.

Regional voting my asss. Why couldn't he get common ROA votes (which Melvin had) or any other African vote Only Nigeria and Mozambique voted him.

That nigga spoilt his game by insulting and running people down with his mouth, then turning around to act the victim by crying rivers of living waters.

Rubbish!

Tell Uti and Denrele to stop imposing their friends on us and allow people with real potentials to rep us. Then we will start winning again.

ChristyG:
dats a lie,if u watched d show on 197&198,and followed it on social media,u will know dat it was regionalism with d bba voters dat killed his game.pple voted according to their regions and unfortunately westafrica just as 2 countries which cant make u win while idris was d only east african left and dat gave him an easy ride to victory..is it d not d same bba voters who voted for richard who openly cheated on his wife with d other girls and fingered ofunneka live on tv and yet he won,d unequal regional numbers killed d show

Regional voting my asss. Why couldn't he get common ROA votes (which Melvin had) or any other African vote Only Nigeria and Mozambique voted him.

That nigga spoilt his game by insulting and running people down with his mouth, then turning around to act the victim by crying rivers of living waters.

Rubbish.

prettyboi1989:
Na by force to vote y are ppl worried about the pvc tingy, so far ur Govt can't give u electricity for at least 15hours daily and subsidised healthcare services I see no reason why people should clamour for voters registration issues.

What is this one saying?

Btruth:
I'm really getting impatience here. How come the VP is so difficult to select than the Presido himself? Will the VP more powerful than Buhari himself?

Think well man.

The President was voted in. That was as easy as organizing free and fair primary elections right?

Now the VP is not elected, he is chosen. naturally, each party stakeholder would have their choice. They also need to shop for the most sellable person. Hence the confusion.
You get?