tayuboy:

how do i tell a young and beautiful married woman that i'm in love with her? and moreso, how do i invite her to my house? please let me hear your comment, thanks. t-boy.

Young Man,Go and Marry to your own wife and Leave another Man wife alone,how would you feel when someone Follow your wife all along,In the Name of Love?
Dont let the Glory of God depart from you,Or you wait for the Law of Kamal.

How Old are you? what part of Nigeria Are you from?

Hi Guys Have you ever been embarrassed by a screamer? when you wanted to go down with her? Tell us ur experience

Ladies - give up your undies ?

OK,  your getting steamy with a guy ,  clothes are comming off ,  your excited as all hell ,  the guy tells you he wants your undies when you part ,

Your Reaction ?

why do women run when they find out you have children

Why do women want guys 'over 6 foot' when listing desired qualities?

You need deliverance,Una Go Kill each One day,Abeg is deliverance or Seprate.

MyPeace:

unless u got d qualities, anytin less than that, forget your PH.d in woman issues.

what are the qualities you want from a Man? Name 5 i will give you 15 qualities.

My Dear brother,That woman is Not your special Kind of Lady,I Think you have been Training her for your Brother,Dont Kill your brother because of a woman,please I beg you,Na Your Blood.

I Think you need Undetrstanding,I Know How you feel,But beautiful woman are trouble to man.

so Leave the Girl for your younger brother and Find another,Plus also learn to Play your Game very well,I will send You some Tip and How to Handle a woman with care.

MyPeace:

winning a woman's heart is not a SCIENCE, but an ART.

what works for you and for one woman may not work for another woman.

So any guy should just do his thing in his own way, according to the occassion and circumstance of the moment!!!!!!!!!!!!

Enough of all these Science on winning a woman's heart. I can't really say what works for me, but i only know WHAT (the qualities) i NEED in a man.

so if you don't have those qualities, no matter the DEGREE youn hold in WOMANOLOGY, you are on your own!!!!!!!!!

Hmmmmmm Mypeace,Peace be with you.winning a woman heart is Art and science,what work for me,works for 99% of men.
The same can easily works On you,becuse I Have what It Takes to Melt away your Heart.

freelance:

Nice tips sweet love. I sure learnt something new from it. But how do you win a lost love heart's to you?

@frelance Thank you,Winning a Lost Love heart to you is Total repentance and Ready to change and act as a True man,I will send you topic and what to do!
Just forward me your email and You will be Glad!

My Challenge To You

I want to challenge you right now to become a part of this select group called “REAL MEN”.

I challenge you to take control of your life… and become the man that Mother Nature meant you to be.

I challenge you to FIGHT BACK against your programmed failure with women…

Think back right now to the last woman that you REALLY liked.

How did things turn out?

Did they end up the way YOU wanted them too?

Now… think about the woman you REALLY liked before that…

How did that one go?

Did you have the loving, passionate relationship you were looking for… or did it somehow get messed it up?

How about with the woman before that?

I don’t know about you… but the early part of my life was a long string of failures with women.

If the same has been true for you… and you haven’t had the amount of success with women in your life that you have wanted or feel you deserve, it’s not your fault.

Somewhere along the line, the society we live in didn’t give you the opportunity to become a REAL MAN… and the skill of attracting women that comes along with it.

And now, I would like to give you that opportunity.

I would like to give you the opportunity to become the man that ALL women want and that all “wannabes” envy… and do it in a very short time.

The power is inside of you, and I’d like to show you how to get it out.

Do you realize that the average human life span only consists of about 28,000 days?

I don’t need to tell you that this is not a terribly long time.

But I will tell you that every day you go through your life without living it as a REAL MAN is a day you are cheating yourself out of your own existence.

It’s time for you to step up to the plate, and take control of your life right now…

If you’ve had a string of failures with women in your life like me… then right now you are LOSING the race.

You’re only so far from having your genes WEEDED OUT.

If you’re a weak person, and you’re not ready to step up to the challenge of becoming a real man, and really living your life… then you don’t really deserve to pass them along.

But I know from the fact that you are reading this right now that you are NOT WEAK… and that you are serious about your success with women.

So let me ask you this…

Are you going to stay a SLAVE to the wussy “boy” inside of you, or are you going t0 “man up” and make this happen for yourself?

The failures you have had in the past with women WERE NOT your fault… but the future failures you will have as a result of never really reaching Manhood WILL BE.

20 years from now when you are looking back at your life, will you be able to live with that?

How will you feel knowing you COULD have had success with women… but you threw it all away?

I’m here to tell you that you have a choice as to whether you will ever really become a man… and really experience success with women… or not.

For your own sake… and the sake of the future women in your life… I hope you make the right decision.


I challenge you to make this happen for yourself.

I KNOW you can do it.

And so do you.

I’ll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
Sweetlove.

Most Guys Never Learn, So They Keep Making The Same Mistakes
Over And Over Again,

Most guys take one of two approaches with women:

1) They try to buy her love, affection, and sex with dinners, gifts, and favors,

OR,

2) They try to convince her that they're a “nice guy” by being sweet, gentle, and attentive (in order to get love, affection, and sex, of course)

The problem with these basic approaches?

1) They don't work
2) They're expensive and time consuming
3) Women don't like them
4) THEY DON'T WORK!

So what's the answer?

I thought you'd never ask,

The answer, my friend, is to stop banging your head against the wall using strategies that DON'T WORK, stop punishing yourself emotionally, and instead start learning powerful, tested, GUARANTEED methods to meet more women and get more dates.

And here's how,

I'm going to give you a simple, 3-step formula for learning how to meet women. If you do these three things, you WILL meet more women, period.

Use these three steps to meet and date the women you want.

1) Start with the inner game FIRST

Success with women starts with what's inside of YOU… and the single most important thing you will ever do to help yourself become more successful with women is to build a “rock-solid” foundation of confidence and power inside of you.

When you develop this unshakable feeling of self-confidence you'll notice some very interesting things begin to happen in your life…

The women that you meet will all-of-a-sudden become VERY interested in getting know you… even to the point of pursuing you … just to find out what you're all about.

Unfortunately, this isn't something you can just “decide” to have.

It can take many years, and a lot of hard work… and it's all too easy to fall off track and have to start all over again. Believe me… I know.

If you REALLY want long-term, consistent success with women, this step is not optional.

You just gotta do it.

Fortunately through my own personal struggles I've developed some almost “magical” techniques for overcoming fear and boosting your self-confidence FAST.

I've figured out ways that ANY GUY can make powerful, lasting changes that women notice right away… no matter what your level of confidence is now… and it won't take you years or even weeks to do it.

When you get your inner game handled, you'll be AMAZED at how everything else just seems to fall into place.

But best of all, you'll never have to worry about being lonely or not having a woman in your life ever again.

2) Learn lots of TESTED techniques that WORK

Have you ever seen a woman on the street that you wanted to meet but you just didn't know what to do or say to get the conversation going?

Or have you ever been hanging out with a woman and just known you HAD to kiss her… but you didn't have any idea how to “make your move”?

The reality is that these situations happen ALL THE TIME… and all too often guys end up missing out on opportunities with women because they just don't know “what to do”.

I've found that the key to avoiding missed opportunities and awkward moments with women is to have at least one “default” thing to do in every situation… whether it is approaching a woman and starting up a conversation, getting a woman's phone number and email address, knowing what to say on the first phone call… and everything else up to “getting physical” and beyond.

For example, imagine if you had a way to approach a woman that got a positive response EVERY TIME… and for the rest of your life you could easily start up a conversation with any attractive women you chose…

Now, imagine if you had a way to absolutely GUARANTEE that a woman you were in a conversation with would give you her phone number… and… you knew exactly what to say when you called to guarantee a date with her…

Do you see where I'm going here?

When you have one proven way of handling each and every situation that you will find yourself in with a woman, you can literally throw “chance”, “fate”, and “luck” out the window and GUARANTEE that things will end up exactly how YOU want them to… every time.

I can't tell you how many opportunities I've blown with women in the past… it hurts just thinking about it.

The good news is that I've already gone through all of the “trial and error”… and I've developed a MASSIVE ARSENAL of techniques, methods, and shortcuts for every situation you will ever find yourself in with a woman.

The really great thing is that you can learn them FAST… and start using them as soon as you do.

I'll show you all of the “basics”… and then let you in on the more advanced material.

When you have an arsenal of powerful, tested techniques that work, you can take advantage of any opportunity with a woman that presents itself… and never worry about things not ending up “your way”.

And after you spend a day or two learning them, you'll spend the rest of your life using them to meet and date the women you want.

3) Meet masters and learn from them DIRECTLY

It turned out that the most important thing I did in my quest to become massively successful with women was to meet and learn from guys who were ACTUALLY DOING IT.

Let's face it… there are some guys out there who have an almost mystical ability to meet and attract women… and we all hate them , lol

Many of these guys actually have women come on to THEM… on a regular basis.

But the really shocking thing is that many of these guys AREN'T the best looking guys around.

And as far as money goes… well… some of them are BARELY getting by.

If you met them on the street, you'd think they were just “regular” guys… but for whatever reason, they just know exactly what to say and do to turn women on.

It's crucial that you meet as many of these guys as you can so you can learn what works in the real world.

The problem is that these guys aren't easy to find… and it's even harder to get them to “spill their guts” and find out just exactly what it is they do that makes them so successful.

But once again, this is absolutely VITAL to your success.

It wasn't easy… but I've managed to track down several guys who are among the BEST IN THE WORLD at attracting hot, sexy women.

And believe me, I took FULL advantage of the opportunity. I dug for the dirt… and asked the questions no one else had the nerve to ask… and got them to share every single one of their secret techniques and strategies for getting more women than any one guy possibly deserves.

You'll be floored by the simplicity and power of what these guys share… just ONE of these secrets could lead to that BIG BREAKTHROUGH that you've been waiting for.

There is nothing out there that can compare to actually hearing the “how to” from guys who are living the lives that most dream about.

If you're looking to accelerate your skills with women, it's a MUST that you learn from as many of these guys as possible. You
'll be amazed at just how quickly your game improves when you take this vital step.
I wish you all the best as you read and follow my instructions,your ideal Or suggestion is Highly welcome.
I Love you all from sweetlove.

what is a "date"?

Let me ask you something, what is a "date"?

What do you think that the purpose of a "date"
is?

Now, I call my material "Double Your Dating",
but what I DON'T mean is "take women out to dinner
twice as much as you used to".

The word "Dating" is simply a word that all of
us guys understand to mean as "romantic
interactions with women".

So I use it.

But if you want to have more romantic
interactions with women, that does NOT mean that
you need to "take women out on dates" in order to
do it.

Are you with me?

I mean, what do couples do a year after they
get together, ?

They stay home most of the time, do normal
things like go shopping, and generally behave like
they did before they met.

This whole "going out to dinner" ritual is
really an amazing concept.

It's awesome how powerful it is, and how guys
really believe that they need to do it (or similar
things) in order to get a woman's attention in a
romantic way.

Here's the bottom line:

If you want a woman to think of you as a
"lover", then BE ONE.

If you want her to think of you as a provider,
then just BE ONE.

What you haven't quite realized fully yet is
that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a
woman, all the "normal" rules go away.

If a woman feels that powerful emotional
ATTRACTION for you, then she'll do ANYTHING with
you, just to be in your presence and have your
attention.

If you have dialed up the ATTRACTION, then all
you need to say is "come over here".

No dates required.

Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 3
times a day, and chase her around, then it will be
EXPECTED that you continue this pattern, and
provide for her.

NOTE: If you're buying a woman dinner twice a
week, giving her flowers, calling her every day,
and basically "chasing" her, then you can be about
80% sure that there's another guy in the
picture, but guess what? He's the one who SHE
calls, and he's the one who says "Come over later,
I'm busy now", no dates required.

If you want to be a LOVER to a woman, then DO
IT.

You don't need to wait until the third time out
for coffee or tea.

You'll learn that ATTRACTION doesn't have a
timeline.

It happens VERY QUICKLY, if you know how to
trigger it, and you don't need a lot of "date
ideas" once you do.

And now that I've avoided your question for a
page or two, let me answer with this:

I often take women to do "regular" things with
me. I'll take them to the grocery store to shop
with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and
down to the bookstore to buy a book.

First, start BEING the LOVER immediately.

Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do
together, as long as she's with you.

Sexual Communication”,

And I'd Like To Teach You This Powerful Language So You Can Enjoy The Kind Of Success With Women That Most Men Only Dream About, ”


Dear Friend,

What if I were to tell you that there was a "secret" language that men and women used to communicate "sexual interest" to each other…

And what if I were to tell you that if you KNEW that language you would be able to start making women feel ATTRACTION for you INSTANTLY… but if you DIDN'T know that language (as most men don't), women would instantly "turn off" and never give you a second chance?

What if I further told you that I could teach you this "secret language" of SEXUAL COMMUNICATION, and it would INSTANTLY change your success level with women for the better?

As you know, truth is often stranger than fiction…

But after more than five Months of carefully studying guys In Madrid who are successful with women and dating (and going from clueless to very successful with women myself) I've figured something out that has gone UNDETECTED (or at least UNDISCLOSED) by almost every man that has ever lived.

Before I tell you what the secret is, and how it works, I want to share a very interesting story with you…

This is the story of how I came to discover "Sexual Communication" the HARD way.

About five Months ago, when I first started learning how to "meet women", I decided that it would be a good idea to read everything I could find about the topic.

So I went to bookstores, got on the internet, and bought all the books I could find on the subject. I also went to seminars, listened to audio tapes, and found just about every other source in existence to gather more information.

Here are a few examples of what I found:

"If a woman plays with her hair while she's talking to you, she's signaling that she's interested."

"If a woman sways her hips while she's walking, it means that she's signaling sexual availability."

"If a woman makes and keeps eye contact with you three times in a row, it means that she wants you to approach her and start a conversation."

I'm sure you've heard things like this yourself.

The problem is that the books didn't mention HOW TO GET A WOMAN TO DO THESE THINGS IN THE FIRST PLACE.

In other words, how do you get a woman to MAKE eye contact with you three times in a row? How do you get a woman to play with her hair while she's talking to you? This stuff sounded all well and good… except for the fact that women NEVER did these things around me!

Further, the books I was reading and other sources recommended things like:

"When a woman has a problem, she just wants a man to listen, not to try to fix it."

"If a woman gets upset with something or doesn't like something you've done, you should say “I'm Sorry.” That's how to fix it."

"Women like honest, sensitive men who can communicate their feelings."

And what happened when I did things like this?

Of course…

When I just "listened" to women's problems, they became "friends" and said things like "I really don't want to mess up our friendship, so let's just keep this as friends".

When I said "I'm sorry" to women, they looked at me as if to say "You should be."

When I was "honest" and "sensitive" and told women how I "felt" about them, they disappeared, and it seemed as if this was the WORST thing I could have done.

Before long, I came to realize the painful truth:

The "Relationship Experts" Don't Know What's Going On When It Comes To ATTRACTION

In short, not only was the advice that I found useless because it didn't teach HOW to make women feel attracted to me, even WORSE I was learning things that were clearly HURTING me and reducing my chances of success.

It didn't seem possible.

But it was.

I later found out that two of the biggest "relationship" experts had been married to EACH OTHER, and got DIVORCED… and that one of them was on her fourth or fifth husband.

The more I read and learned from the "experts", the more I couldn't help but realize two things:

Most of what I was learning just wasn't right, and it didn't work.


Most of the "experts" were NOT successful themselves at attracting women.
Now, I don't want to make it sound like there's NOTHING available to teach a guy how to be successful with women, and that nothing that anyone says works.

Some of the things I tried DID work. The problem was that:

The things that were "good" and that "worked" were few and far between.


I had to learn about 10 things that DIDN'T work to get to something that DID work.
In other words, it was a frustrating, confusing road to find the gems in the huge mountain of information.

There had to be a better way.

Well, the answer to my situation, it turned out, was an unusually simple and obvious one.

Hope You enjoyed It,

Have a Nice time,see you again

Sista:

@Sweetlove


It is always a pleasure to hear your wonderful words of poetry. i know you are trying to get to me with your poetry.

I must say, it's working

My Dear,what Can I say? You Made me Laugh and i am Happy you Are My friend.
I've met so many people as I've traveled through life's way,
but you've become more dear to me  with each passing day.

You always lift my spirit ike a touching work of art and bring much hope and joy
to my lonely heart.
You're like a precious lily, so wonderful and fair, filling each day of my life with beauty, warm and rare.

And I'll think of you this springtime where the gentle waters flow and every time I pass a meadow
where the springtime flowers grow

there's a special quality about you.  You have a magical way of reaching inside me
and filling my heart with hope and happiness. You make me feel like I can accomplish anything.
Thank you, friend.  I couldn't get by without you.

kinzolic:

sweetlove honestly speaking i think it'll be best if u start writing romantic books or more like a love doctor sort please do think about this seriously you're really good @ it.
13 romance topics all within 2 days haba please consider writing o

.

My Brother,Thanks for your concwern,I am Thinking about It Myself,I will go for it,since I Have the Inner Power to do it.

LanreDaMan:

Oh God,
this is an ancient Playa secret
How dare you put it out here
Please disregard the advise and be emotional
Girls love wimps (sorry caring men)
Please Administrator Clear this post

Have your Head re-examine

kinzolic:

sweetlove u sure say u no go dey write maybe poems,novels or something because u've posted like 3-4 topics all 2day n u dey read na wah o hope that book dey enter head o

My Brother I am written a Book soon,to be out title ( Worries of the Youth) That why i have been sending so many Thread in here to get My Brother and sisters Ideal,But Nairaland question de make One go Hang Himself,

Thanks for your concern,Have a Great Day!

kokoletz:

After d deed has b done u are running away ehn, but sha make I lef u exam dey important read well.

One Love Bros,Make I Read.I Hail you Have a Nice evening!!!!

The “Magic Moment”

It's magic because you'll see exciting changes happening in your life, but you won't believe it. At the moment it happens…

You suddenly find yourself awed by what's happening to you. You stop what you're doing. Feel a weight lift from your shoulders. And smile.

Why? Two reasons. First, any doubts or skepticism you had about achieving success with women disappear.

And second… for perhaps the very first time… you see an incredibly bright future unfolding before you.

Your magic moment might happen when you hear your phone ring… and you look down at the caller ID to discover that an attractive woman is calling YOU because she wants to get together…

Or maybe it will happen when you're hanging out with the boys… and they start grilling you for information… because they just aren't used to seeing you with so many attractive women in your life.

Or maybe you'll feel it when you are out running errands and see you a woman you want to meet… walk right up to her with ZERO hesitation, total confidence… and a knowing smile… and walk away with her phone number.

Several guys have told me they feel as if the world has become an exciting 3-D movie and they're the only ones wearing 3-D glasses. No one else can see the wonderful things that are taking place or the abundance of opportunities with women that lie before them…

Perhaps you'll find yourself in the middle of a wonderful evening with a woman you really truly care about… the type of woman you've been waiting your whole life to find… and you'll catch her staring at you with loving eyes that say YOU are the only man in the entire world for her. Maybe that's when you'll finally know…

I want you to experience your magic moment… and turn your life into the exciting adventure it is meant to be.

And now it's up to you to make it happen.

Don't let another day go by. Make the decision right now to create this new life for yourself… and don't let anything stop you from achieving your dreams.

It's time.

Your “Missing Link” To Dating Success…

I'm about to tell you something that you already know…

I think you ALREADY KNOW far more than the average guy about how to be successful with women.

In fact, you probably know more about this than most guys who are “naturally” good with women.

You already know the “tricks”… and what you need to do to be successful. But things just aren't working for you the way you wish they would…

And… I think that you KNOW that the problem isn't that you need more techniques.

You have that part of the “map” down.

I think you realize that the problem is something BIGGER.

Something more intense.

Something more personal… and more difficult to face.

I also think you know that if and when you DO tackle and defeat this problem… and get this “other side” handled once and for all… you WILL achieve the success with women---and in life---that you were born to have.

And I think you realize by now that this isn't going to happen by itself.

The problem isn't going to “solve” itself… the pieces aren't going to just “fall into place”… and you will NOT have the success with women you are looking for unless you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

The bad news is that this is never easy.

In fact… for most men it is next to impossible … and sadly… most go their entire lives without ever handling their issues and achieving the success they deserve.

I'll say it again:

MOST MEN GO THEIR ENTIRE LIVES WITHOUT HAVING THE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN THEY DESERVE.

Fortunately, it DOESN'T have to be this way for YOU.

Wanting To Get Help, But Not Being AbleTo ASK For It, And Not Knowing Where
To Turn,

Maybe the biggest "Inner Game" challenge of all is realizing that you NEED help, wanting to GET help, but just not being able to ask for it, and not knowing where to turn for it.

Men are proud. We don't want anyone else to know that we're out of control, hurting, or desperate. We don't want to ask for help. We don't even like the THOUGHT of asking for help.

Even more, this stuff that I'm talking about is complex. When you're having an Inner Game problem, the problem itself takes over your awareness, and sometimes makes it seem like the problem won't ever go away,

Well, there's good news here.

The good news is that I've been working on this set of problems MYSELF for a long time, many years, in fact.

And along my path I met an expert in the area of "Inner Game Psychology" that opened up a new world to me. In a minute, I'm going to tell you about him, and how I think his cutting-edge concepts and techniques can help you ELIMINATE your Inner Game challenges,

kokoletz:

Sweetlove so what u knw how to do best is open our yansh for d ladies to see abi.

Oboy Free me abeg,I Just de Read for My Exam Nowwwwwwwwwwwww

Other People Controlling You And Your Life?

Others know how to push your buttons, and you don't know how to stop it. Have you ever felt like someone else had a "remote control" for your life and emotions? Somehow, they just know how to "push your buttons", and get whatever they want from you? Get this: It's YOU that's giving them control. And if you're tired of this, then YOU need to learn how to TAKE BACK THE CONTROL of yourself and your life (And I want to teach you exactly how to do this, because taking control of your life will have an INSTANT impact on your success with women).

Feeling low self-esteem combined with resentment because others are "running the show" of your life. If you've experienced this situation where you feel like other people control your life, then you most likely ALSO felt some negative emotions about it. When you're out of control, you KNOW that something is wrong. And it makes you feel bad about yourself. This is a "negative spiral" that just gets worse and worse. The more you let others control you, the worse it gets. It MUST stop.

Allowing someone else to control you because you think it will get you what you want. This is a DEAL KILLER when it comes to success with women. Us guys LOVE to try to please women by letting them control us. The problem, of course, is that when a woman actually GETS control, that's when her ATTRACTION STOPS. If you want to solve this particular problem, then you must literally change the way you THINK, and change your emotional responses.

Irrational, Uncontrollable Fear?

Many of the situations that guys screw up with women fit into the category of "caused by fear". Here are some of the types of fear that us guys experience, along with how I think they mess us up with women:

Fear of rejection. Here's the situation: You see a woman you'd like to approach, and you start thinking about talking to her. All of a sudden, you feel your throat get dry and your heart pounding. But it makes no sense. There's no DANGER in the situation, but you're feeling FEAR. As you think about it, you realize that you're afraid of her REJECTING you. And that fear keeps you from starting a conversation.

Fear of embarrassment. As you're thinking of approaching that same woman, you look around at the other people in the situation, and you wonder "What would THEY think if I went over and talked to her, but she REJECTED me, "?

Fear of someone else hurting you. Maybe you keep thinking about talking to her, and you even come up with something clever to say, but the more you think about it, the more you start to wonder "What if she has a boyfriend? What if he's not here yet? What if he walks in and sees me talking to his girlfriend, and gets upset? What if he HURTS me?"

Fear of loss. Here's one for you: Have you ever met a great woman, then found yourself thinking about her all the time, and WONDERING if she might be with another guy? You become afraid of losing something that you don't even HAVE yet. So what did you do? Of course, you called her, emailed her, and tried to "secretly" know what she was doing at all times. And what happened? She got creeped out, and stopped seeing you.

So what do all of these have in common? FEAR, that's what. And guess what? If you address the FEAR directly, you can overcome ALL of these AT THE SAME TIME.