Sista:

@Sweetlove



You might be all these things but you are lacking common sense. Why would you bring your woman around a whole bunch of white women?

No woman can ever accept her man being surrounded by a lot of women. If your woman was black, I can see the problem she had with all those White women, white women can not be trusted because their behavior is foreign to the black woman. A Black woman always knows if her man is messing around with another black woman but it is hard to tell with white women whata white womans motive is for being friends with your black man.

Because white people in general cause problems all over the world, it is difficult for a black woman with a handsome black to accept that he is only a friend with a white woman. What woman (your white female friends) would allow her self to always be around her male (male meaning you) freind and his girlfriend? That is not normal.

You have to tell the truth, what if the situation were reversed? what if it was your girlfirend with all those white male friends and she was always bringing you around them and was telling you they were only her friends?

Don't get me wrong, she should have left you if she did not trust you instead of sleeping with another man but the way people handle feelings of rejection is a mystery. Everyone does not handle the feeling of rejection the same way as you. Everybody is different and for that reason, the way that she handled her feelings of being rejected by you should not make her a bad woman.

Thank you wonderul woman,I really Understand what you mean,Maybe I Lack common senc Like you say,However I Just wanted her to Trust me,I am Just a Friend to those white Ladies,Because They Think I am an american,Basketballer and they all wanna be around me,expecially when I am so closed to the Beach,where we normally hang Out,I Just wanted My girl to Join us and have fun,with us.The white Ladies are Never Bother because they knew she was girl,But she never belive all that from me.

Thanks for your concern and replies.I Think is already Late,I Move On with My Life.

Big Kisses to you.

neelsel:

Guys who are like my beloved brothers. ,
Characteristics too many to mention.
So to be frank, God is still working on him,

@Neelsel
Do you mean,God is still working on your Man? Maybe I Might Just be the one for you,You never can tell?Even if i have never seen you Physically ,Loving you from the Heart is enough
What do you Think,

BIG

neelsel:

Yes I HAVE. Life is a learning experience, so after realising, "Hey, I don't love this guy" I DUMPED him.
The thing is, he wasn't broke (his family owned businesses on the islands), He wasn't jobless (he was a final year medical student) and he wasn't physically challenged(he was fine as I just was not into him.

what Type of a Guy do you Love?

Go for One,My Man,Cause If you want to go for the Two,U Might lose the 2. So Go for the wonderful woman,Remember Beautiful women,are trouble to a man.

Make a choice.

what would make you cry for your Lover? There is a Girl I Love so Much,That It takes Tears Out of My eyes before I Can tell her I Love You!

The Love is strong,That My Heart Beat me everyday,Her Love is a snow suddenly Falling from The sky,I am so so confused.

tell me what you make you Cry for your Lover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lovestinks:

Ashamed to say it but yes i ve, the love was 2 much it was killing me,he got 2 possesive,dominering,at a time it was scary, believe me it was, for example once i said i wanted a break he got real sick, his family had 2 come beg me, he use 2 cry alot and stuff , this kind of love is like fatal attraction, don't want anybody 2 kill me and kill him self NO SIR.i want a guy 2 love me but he should be in control of his emotions

You have a Piont and Emotions without control can Kill!

Hmmmmmmmmm , Is good to tell Lies to ladies,I Once Dated a Girl,before We call It quit,I Have never Lied to this girl, all My Life i was honest to her,But anything I say To her,every bit of my word ,she says I am Lying, She never believe My telling the truth,So I was Thinking because I am Goodloooking, and I Have so many white female friends,she feel I always cheated On her,of which I never did.So I ask One day,tell me what to do to please you? she says I should always be around her? I Told her In Europe? This can Not be because I Have lots to do,she insisted and and Said I can do That,Then she says that means I am always lying to her,even Thou I spend all the weekend with her, and I Even take her out to meet My white ladies friend(Just friends) she was Not satisfy,Until One day,I meet a Guy Banging her In Her bed room,I ask her what is the meaning of This,she says because i have too many girls friend and she don't trust me,so she has to have one or 2 guys also.

I was shock,As caring as I am?Loving,Kind,honest,Handsum,and Goodfearing

I was disappointed because i was honest to her,I wanted to beat her Up,If I do,I will go to 8months In Jail,because you don't beat a woman here.


so I called It quit,so I promise myself never to tell a woman the truth,No Matter what.

A Good Lie,is better that The Truth.

Have you ever dumped someone who loved you?
I want to know,

"Why did you choke on them when you couldn't dare to swallow?

what would make u cheat on ur partner ?

How many men really love thier wife, ?

Ok, if your not a man, go ask your husband/Boyfriend and input his answer and not yours. Thats the rule here.
I Have seen so many cases of Nigerian men who Beat Up Thier wife Like a Goat,and disgrace her in the Public places,is This Love?

Joan2:

We do not pray for such a thing to happen to anybody, but I would tell u that rape is kind of a unforigivable offence. The trauma the lady goes through is not one can begin to imagine. Some rape victim end up totally losing it, like not being able to love or trust anyone (male in particular) u no and so much other effect it has on them. I just do think rape cannot be forgiven. It's a personal opinion anyway!

Thanks Joans for ur Reply,Rape is a painful experience to go Through,what if the person say sorry to you,after the rape cant you still forgive!

There are so many cases of rape That happens to women all over the world,Will you ever forgive anyone that rape you?

What type of clothing dose a woman need to wear on a first meeting with a gentle man?

Sometimes I think I am being pursued by some ladies just because they want to try something they’ve never had before. Then they fall immediately in lust because of my side, but it never turns into love. Sometimes they bring along a friend, I guess for proof or something, anyway the friends almost always get involved. I’m tired of being told I’m loved by women who only want me for a couple of hours and then they’re gone. What can be done? Why do so many lady’s appear to be genuine at first, only to run away after, in all my years there have only been a half a dozen ladies who wanted to keep it up for more than an hour or so

Sorry This all happen In europe,Not In Nigeria.

Most Guys, have the problem of Not spending time with their Girlfriend,even if it is weekend Or working days!
so Ladies how do you get your bf to spend more time wit you?

A Friend of Mine meet a guy through the internet and always liked him. they talk about everything and mostly everything (politics, culture,,, and personal matters). He told him that he truly loves me my friend, and My friend cant believe him though he his afraid that they have no future, and my friend love him too, and always miss him all the time and just don't stop thinking about him. the Guy promised he would come and make an extra visit to my friend so that they can see other and him and he would proples to his parents.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

what makes a Guy wake up and decide He don't love you??

@lovestinks I Get your drift, How would U cope when your man never stop lying.Or is there a way for you to stop your man from lying.

Nigerian Girls/ Ladies are Not the Most beautiful In the world,Have you seen the Spanish's Ladies? (senoritas)
Below are the List of The country that has the Most beautiful in the world.

Spanish ladies,
Venezuela ladies,
Ethiopian Ladies.
Indian Ladies
American/Canadians.

Nigerian Ladies are fine but are far too back ward in term of beaut.

This is a very Hard question,As for me I Hate prostitution,and I Hate women who prostitute,I wonder how I will feel sleeping with Her,there is No way I can satisfy such a woman In bed,satisfaction comes first to me.

In Europe many of our brothers here marry to a prostitute,because 95% of our girls here are prostitute and Our Guys here have to choice than to marry them,this leave me single because i don't want to have one,since i am still in Europe,I Hope somedays I can find a Good girl at home.

If your GF likes another guy who would you blame him or your GF?

Hello all,People says that Love is Blind,and what make a Love go Blind?

Often it is said that love is blind, and again it is said true love never runs smoothly. Is it that love is blind to the truth, or is it that love seeks truth? That love is prepared to forgive a wrong, but if too blind will overlook evil? Is a conflict within love because of a lack of understanding?

Is Love really Blind?.

May The soul of J.T TOM WEST find perfect peace,This Guy would have been alive Now,if Nigerian Roads is Good,Nigeria Road are dead Traps,I Think the Government Killed Him.

If the Government repair the Roads,he would have stay alive and Use his Talent.

May God Give His Family the Heart to Bear the sudden Lose of Their son J.T TOM WEST.

Rest In perfect My Mi amigo,
Adios!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hola Coco29 and sista, I am following Up your replies,However there is still No real answer on when will a Man stop Lying.
Gracias Mi amigos.

HELLO EVERYBODY IN THE NAIRALAND FORUM,I AM NEW TO THE NAIRALAND,I WANT TO KNOW WHEN WILL A MAN STOP LYING,BECAUSE ALMOST EVERY MEN LIE TO HIS GIRL,EVEN WHEN YOU SWEAR TO LOVE YOUR GIRL WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND PROMISE NEVER TO LIE/ HURT HER AGAIN. B

PLEASE SOMEBODY TELL ME WHEN WILL A MAN STOP LYING.

There are too Many question to ask your Boyfriend, ask him he really want to spend the rest of his life with you? Does he think of you before his job, his buddies, his family? You'll want to understand where you fit in his list of life priorities,ask him How does he feel when he his with you? If he's truly the one, he should make you feel beautiful inside and out when you're together. If instead he makes you feel ugly, worthless, desperate, etc., then there's a problem! ask him if he shares the same same values with you?

also ask him if he has long term plan together with you?
Do you regularly talk about the future? If the relationship is meant to be, you should be openly discussing your finances, family, children, religion, etc. If these topics are not on the table, ask yourself why!

ask him if he love you for the right reasons?
Love is a great reason to get married, but is this the reason you want to stay together? Make sure your intentions are clear. If the relationship is more about money, or you're on the rebound, it's time to rethink your approach.


There are 1000 question to ask your Boyfriend,

Thou I am In spain,I Like to speak spanish, Chiness,and arabic.

A woman can propose to a Man if she Love The man Straight from the Heart,But I Think This is Common In europe with white Ladies Expecially In Madrid,where a Lady can Just walk up to you and Propose to you.
If your Girl propose to you,Ride On men The world is Yours.

Have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11