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spacks:
Excess love ( Jesus you love me too much oh) Don't know who sang it.. This song the burst my brain

spacks:
Excess love ( Jesus you love me too much oh) Don't know who sang it.. This song the burst my brain

dingbang:
Urm that demolished building doesn't look like the house in the first picture.


Meanwhile, first bank customers should click.the link on my signature for exciting information on the firstmobile app. Thanks.

AfroMighty:
Money plz seduce me and if I refuse rape me mercilessly...

1stolax:
Trow the fool in a jail cell

ExtraExtra:
Women are the backbone of the family, they make or mar the home, since they help bring life to the world suffice it to say they sum up what we call family, 99% of successful, longlasting home or family is the ability of the woman to hold the "forte".

My attention was drawn to this forum and this topic https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 and it is sad that most people drew conclusion on a one sided story though i wouldnt blame those involved because they judged based on what was said and the individual involved needed public validation for her wrong doing, a public display i dont approve of but since external persons and relations are already involved i'd like to clear some details.

"Dee" comes from a very well to do family while i dont so when we got married, i made her feel we are in this together, not one above the other but as partners in EVERYTHING. To be fair to her she brought up the business idea we did years ago, in other to put forth money to start up, i made sure i had equal money as her for it, goal was to own a property, build et al. Unfortunately my dad's ailing health deteriorated to the extent that he had to be flown out, when the profit came, i told her and she agreed, she decided we split it into two so she use hers for the initial plan. As the first born i went with my dad, back here she got the property and started building, when i came back the remaining money with me was used to complete it, what was left was used for my parents house. Being a trust worthy person i feel she is, i didnt bother to check documents cos i felt she would do the right thing by putting both our names which she kept in a bank.

Now, i work and own other businesses so i'm always in contact with alot of people from both genders so to her she feels i may have lost guard by cheating which is not true: i dont have password on my phones, i always make and receive calls right in front of her but she still think i'm hiding something and that was the genesis of the problem weeks ago, i rebuked her to cut it out immediately but she was out for blood, she insulted me like never before, when i didnt give her face, she extended her TOXIC words to my parents, my family, my background and my personality, that was when i lost it, if not for my cousin that was there i would have hit her, out of anger i told her to get the hell out of the house which of course i didnt mean, then she shocked me saying the house is ONLY in her name, i was numb and speechless, in other for me not to react in a brutal way i left the house, told her i would never step there again if she doesnt change it to my name ONLY. My cousin who was there when it happened told my people, they called me so i had to explain things, right now her family knows what happened and none is supporting her.

YES i said she should put my name only cos she belittled and betrayed me which tells me if it was in both our names she will raise shoulder and feel above me.YES i requested for transfer and i will go through with it, i cannot be away from my kids and still be in the same state, it doesnt make, when it is sucessful, i will get a place conducive amd comfortable for my kids, they will be with me. I told her recently not to bother with the name change anymore, she can have the house all to herself for all i care.

I wont divorce her because i dont believe in that, once i move with the kids she can come along if she wants but right now we are seperated. I wanted a partner, she displayed stupidity not smartness, what the future holds i dont know, she made her bed she should lay on it.

seunny4lif:

Your head is not straight
Russia aggression?
You need Medical checkup
Russia killed Libya, Iraq and almost kill Syria Abi?

Patrioticooduan:
America dey fear Russia too much.
When Russia speak, America shi.ts.
Lols!

Giddymoney:
Ronaldo and show off can never be separated

TroubleMaker47:
#POWER

Obinna Iyiegbu => Ghost
Cubana chief priest => Tommy
Rejoice Cubana => Rolla (RSK)
Guests => Primeras
?? => Hefe Lobo

#those that know know!

LaudableXX:
IVF costs about 2-5 million per cycle. Are you going to be the one to foot the bill for them? Just asking, o!

EmpresFIDEL:
please friends i really need your advice. I have been dating him for 5yrs now, we love each other so much . but our genotype is giving us serious issue, we are both As and we don't consider brake up as an option. the pressure on my boyfriend from family and friends is making him want to dissolve the relationship when he still love me deep down and I love him too.. we are just too confuse. I don't want to lose him.

dingbang:
How did you manage to put your name as the owner or the house without letting him know? You are a snitch

Letenwam:
A 53-year-old Nigerian woman became a mother for the first time, after she welcomed a baby girl after 20 years of marriage. Facebook user Ogundero Dainty Morenike who shared the story, said her aunt has christened the baby girl 'Victoria'. She wrote;

My very big aunt gave birth at 53 after 20 years of marriage.. This God is too much o.... She's named "Victoria". May God bless the waiting wombs in Jesus name. Amen. The problem with all these stories is that most times it is false.
One of my mum's friend just like this woman was without a child for over a decade. She is the man's second wife and the man's first wife


https://lailasnews.com/53-year-old-nigerian-woman-welcomes-a-baby-after-20-years-of-marriage/

Fraiser:
dont be deceived, all these guys hire cars in dubai and take pictures with them, am there I know what am saying

butterflylion:
Cc sarrki, peeps4u, Johnnyessence and his cronies

I said this earlier and you johnnyessence called me a liar.

Now call BBC liars too. Still trying to figure how you came to the conclusion that it was PDP that was sharing money.




PDP are so desperate. They know they have lost Ekiti

eagleeye3:
She left him. Not the other way round. Moreover, the lady is angry that the guy moved on with his life so fast.

Homeboiy:
labour party get level

which post are they holding in Nigeria

joshuakdboy:
Are. you Okay?

is it supposed to be a competition?

We knew and that was why we voted Goodluck out.

Accept it that Buhari is also a failure.

intruxive:
But not half as much as jonathans boko haram

Hanseel1:
Pay which alimony again now and for what exactly?

Paying child support and parting with 50% of his wealth isn't enough?.
What's wrong with the US Congress for God's sake, it's time to abolish these laws.
These laws were made when women didn't go to school, they weren't allowed to work and were full time housewives .

How can you be educated and be working just like a man and still be getting paid by a man? What kind of nonsense is this now?

And the sharing of properties part.. If we should investigate now, we'll find out that over 80% of women who took 50% of their husbands wealth during divorce didn't contribute anything to the acquiring of the wealth and properties.

The fact that some people are trying to enact these same laws in Africa makes one confused.
I support feminism and my wife is a feminist but this is bad. Early this year, Association of Kenyan lawyers said women should be entitled to 50% of their husbands properties, why? Can't women acquire their own properties?.


That's why I always say : it's not complex in Nigeria but at least it can be shared up-to 20% ..if you want to do registry marriage in a place like Nigeria, make sure the woman also has her own money and properties.

In the USA, I don't just understand the kind of hatred over men in that country. Funny enough, these laws are made my men.

They really need to be changed. Women don't stay at home to feed babies anymore, they do everything men do.

bezimo:
Someone that doesn't live in 9ja..how you want to accuse him should anything happen..that lady should better be careful..don't push anybody..if she has moved on..then so be it..That actress is not innocent. .she was married yet cheating..and that's not acceptable no matter how you paint it

Biggybambam2:
You know right now, Chima holds the ace.
He can take that video and file a complaint against her.

Jail or no jail, he is a citizen and if he files another complaint to ICE, Green Card or not, with the way Yankee is hot now with immigration, she will be hearing "Buy your Gala, buy your gala" at MMA.

Don't forget, she has shown she is the violent one in that video. She may end up losing the rights to her children.

The girls family should just lie low and not trigger him.

kolafolabi:
FFK still refers Goodluck Jonathan as President..

adisabarber:
In USA a man spent 30 years in prison even though he had witnesses to prove he was at a party in another state when the crime was committed.

yinkakani:
Everyone I see in there is dressed like a man. Wizkid dressed like a boy