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Flamemignon1:
You are comparing someone doing whatever they want with their body with someone causing harm to another human being,two different things,my body my choice, it's not in your place to dictate what I do with my body,this world will be a better place if we all learn to mind our business

Exactly, These People Are Just Senseless

Concentrating Resources On Nonsense, Taking Away People's Freedom

Speaking From The Sides Of Your Mouth ISee

It's Obviously Done On Most Items Shipped Here

Some People Will Now Go And Be Wasting Money

I Knew It From The Beginning

Jesse6:
If all of us come get company who go come be workers?

Ask The Man That Doesn't Think Before Talking

Salary Earners, Oya

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

You Are Getting Married To Her, Not Them, Do Everything Possible To Carry Home Your Wife Joor

Improvise, I Use It To Hold My Umbrella

Oh I'm Already Loving Frodd

Then Should The 21 Yrs Old Girl Be Rooting For Marriage?

People Have Been Guising Under Sit At Home Order To Carry Out Their Evil Thoughts

It Is Just In Their Blood, I 'd Rather Dash Them Money Than To Borrow Them Because I Don't Know How To Drag

Garri

Godsgift7837:
I for help you but I no trust any new users

How Many Old Users Have You Helped?

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

We Can Say Anything To Hurt You When In A Quarrel

Should I Also List Ten Reasons You Shouldn't?

At This Time, I Can't Watch This Show, Tinubu's Fault

I Keep Saying, Girls Are More Intelligent Than Boys

obynontop:
Not paying salary for three months and

Government Work?

OK, I know Where This Is Going

Taking A Life, In My Opinion Is A Sin That Doesn't Warrant Forgiveness

She Loved Your Monie

RepoMan007:
Why are the salary earners the hardest hit of all earners in the current wave of inflation ravaging Nigeria?

I Think Even You Should Know, Thier Income Is Fixed

This Is What I Said Too

orohbiro:

Are You Telling Us We Should Be Slaves Before We Have A Faithful Husband?
I Rather Remain Single

May My Helper Locate Me Today

If Only I Can Meet You In Person