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HarunaWest:
PM

Meaning please

chemicalwasiu:
Fake story
1. "She goes to the toilet 14-16 times a day"

3. "she eats 4 times a day"
Is she working from home?
I know you would say you meant weekends. Weldone ma

It’s not fake bro
It’s very true
She doesn’t work from home but weekends she’s home all through

RZArecta:
does she know your girlfriend ? If she doesn't, hire a girlfriend for like 2-5k to come and march her out. This girlfriend should come the first day and loudly shout WHO IS THIS and I DON'T WANT TO SEE HERE AGAIN. By the second time she comes, it's automatic marching. Take my advice and tell me thank you

I’m a female, bro

ib22003:
It sounds like you're in a tough situation and it's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed and frustrated. Here's my advice:

Have an honest conversation: It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your friend about the situation. Explain to her that while you were happy to help her out initially, the current arrangement is putting a strain on you financially and emotionally. Let her know that you need her to start looking for a place of her own as soon as possible.

Offer help: If you can, offer to help her find a new place to stay or even assist her with the moving process. This can show her that you still care about her and want to support her, even though you need to set boundaries.

Be respectful: When asking her to leave, it's important to be respectful and avoid blaming or accusing her. Focus on the reasons why you need her to leave and how it's affecting you. Be empathetic and understanding of her situation, but also firm in your decision.

Seek support: Don't forget to take care of yourself as well. This can be a difficult and emotional situation, so it's important to reach out to family and friends for support.

Remember, setting boundaries is a healthy and necessary part of any relationship. With the right approach, it's possible to handle this situation in a way that protects both you and your friend's feelings and preserves your relationship.

Thank you so much for this
I’ll sure put this to use

Angrygoat:
U r a male. Idiot

May God forgive you

sisisioge:
Tell her your bf is looking at coming to stay with you for a contract job in Abuja for the month of April and ask her how far with her accommodation search. You really would love to have the privacy.

Also, stop stocking the house with food. Silly leeches like her are crazy to reason with. Hian!

Thanks on your advice on the food part. Unfortunately I do not have a boyfriend at the moment n she knows that

Since your accommodation is temporary, I think you should just endure for the time being. Try to ignore, be patient. It will pass

samwash:
Before I talk identify yourself gender.

I’m a female pls

Isabi4lov:
Are you a male or a female ?

I’m a female

Dear Nairalanders,
I’m in a dilemma and need your advice
There’s this friend of mine who out of the blue contacted me last year October asking for a favor to come stay at my place a couple of days since she had an interview in Abuja. I allowed in her without hesitation since I thought it was just going to be a few days. Fortunately, she got the job.

When she got the job in October, she asked me to pls allow her stay for two months before getting her place. My people, it’s been five months already and she’s still not making any moves to get her own place.

The problem really is I am currently jobless. She doesn’t contribute anything to the house. I am responsible for our feeding, gas, electricity, everything! And I do not have money. The little money I have is from my generous elder sister who has been my helper since I lost my job. Weekends she sleeps all through while I clean the house. I also do all the cooking. She doesn’t cook.

I am a light sleeper so I get up at any slight movement. This lady gets up between 3 to 4 times every night to use the restroom thus keeping me awake all through the night. This really has a toll on me. During the day she goes to the restroom between 14 to 16 times. She doesn’t contribute to buy foodstuff but she eats 4 times a day

What have I gotten myself into. Please how do I politely ask her to leave without hurting her feelings and savaging the relationship I use to have with her. I am tired, depressed and jobless!

I had always wanted 3 but with my age now I don’t know sadly

So sad but unfortunately all these does not matter anymore

After 6 years of sacrifices and all efforts to support him grow, he dumped me

Very funny. He’s doing too much now just to prove himself

Foreign trained Hospitality and Hotel Management
Graduated with 2nd class upper but currently unemployed

Who are you to judge

It’s too revealing my dear

Omor this kind query na wa o

Your manager de vex o

Which kind school be this. See all the grammatical errors biko nu

A guy does not need so much designs on jeans nah

My battery is at 72 percent but my relationship is actually at zero percent. I’m trusting God to provide a husband for me this year
Amen

Marriage is a good thing
It’s beautiful
It’s one of the things I want to achieve this year, and so YES IT IS AN ACHIEVEMENT

See how you are taking a simple statement to mean interest in you. How are they related biko. Don’t go and disgrace yourself by asking her out

Rule number 2: Never admit to cheating. It ruins everything cos they never really forgive

Rule number one: Never make a sex tape

Sorry about this.
May God wipe your tears and crown your efforts with all your heart desires

Happy birthday beautiful princess
May God bless and keep you

Pray against every devouring spirit in your life

You met only one Russian
Just ONE Russian and you are writing all these. You need to broaden your knowledge to be honest

https://www.nairaland.com/infoleak
Read up!
It’s a scam

You will tell me from Day 1 what u really want. No time wasting anymore