Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Just Lost My Job by sync(f): 2:35pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
It is well God will bless u with a better offer. Pls change your user name “Failure” so good things could come to you |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Hosts Dinner For Newly Elected Labour Party National Assembly Members by sync(f): 7:52am On Mar 09, 2023 |
The hall, the dinner setting looking shabby |
Family › Re: See The Simple Wedding That Got People Talking by sync(f): 1:34pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
The only people happy here are the groom and his friends |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Does The Bible Say About Homosexuality? by sync(f): 1:44pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Jokanem: What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?
The Bible condemns sexual activity that is not between a husband and wife, whether it is homosexual or heterosexual conduct. (1 Corinthians 6:18) This includes intercourse, handling another person’s genitals, and engaging in oral or anal sex. Please is MouthAction a sin? If yes can you please quote Bible verses to support your claim |
Crime › Re: I Was Scammed 100k Yesterday by sync(f): 4:03pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Sorry for your loss. May God restore all you have lost in ways you can’t even imagine |
Politics › Re: A Short Story For Election Hoodlums by sync(f): 11:13am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Omg this poster is very funny Got me laughing real hard |
Health › Re: Doctors In The House Please HELP!!! (viewer Discretion Photo) by sync(f): 11:23am On Feb 23, 2023 |
Two things 1. Go to federal medical center Jabi. Hospital is well equipped and has good doctors too 2. Go to God. Go to Dunamis Church Lugbe. Healing and Deliverance service is Tuesday at 9:30am |
Food › Re: Expensive Jollof Rice & Chicken I Just Bought (pics) by sync(f): 8:03pm On Feb 18, 2023 |
Next time listen to your wife |
Romance › Re: Zukiswa Joyi: I Made It Out Of Valentine's Day Still A Virgin & I'm 33 by sync(f): 10:24am On Feb 18, 2023 |
Rest sister, rest |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I’m In Desperate Need For A Job by sync(op): 3:42am On Feb 15, 2023 |
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Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 1:45pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
chemicalwasiu: Fake story 1. "She goes to the toilet 14-16 times a day"
3. "she eats 4 times a day" Is she working from home? I know you would say you meant weekends. Weldone ma It’s not fake bro It’s very true She doesn’t work from home but weekends she’s home all through |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 1:09pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
RZArecta: does she know your girlfriend ? If she doesn't, hire a girlfriend for like 2-5k to come and march her out. This girlfriend should come the first day and loudly shout WHO IS THIS and I DON'T WANT TO SEE HERE AGAIN. By the second time she comes, it's automatic marching. Take my advice and tell me thank you I’m a female, bro |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 11:20am On Feb 14, 2023 |
ib22003: It sounds like you're in a tough situation and it's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed and frustrated. Here's my advice:
Have an honest conversation: It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your friend about the situation. Explain to her that while you were happy to help her out initially, the current arrangement is putting a strain on you financially and emotionally. Let her know that you need her to start looking for a place of her own as soon as possible.
Offer help: If you can, offer to help her find a new place to stay or even assist her with the moving process. This can show her that you still care about her and want to support her, even though you need to set boundaries.
Be respectful: When asking her to leave, it's important to be respectful and avoid blaming or accusing her. Focus on the reasons why you need her to leave and how it's affecting you. Be empathetic and understanding of her situation, but also firm in your decision.
Seek support: Don't forget to take care of yourself as well. This can be a difficult and emotional situation, so it's important to reach out to family and friends for support.
Remember, setting boundaries is a healthy and necessary part of any relationship. With the right approach, it's possible to handle this situation in a way that protects both you and your friend's feelings and preserves your relationship. Thank you so much for this I’ll sure put this to use |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 7:55am On Feb 14, 2023 |
Angrygoat: U r a male. Idiot May God forgive you |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 6:18pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
sisisioge: Tell her your bf is looking at coming to stay with you for a contract job in Abuja for the month of April and ask her how far with her accommodation search. You really would love to have the privacy.
Also, stop stocking the house with food. Silly leeches like her are crazy to reason with. Hian! Thanks on your advice on the food part. Unfortunately I do not have a boyfriend at the moment n she knows that |
Properties › Re: Should I Confront Directly Or Report To The Landlord? by sync(f): 1:04pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Since your accommodation is temporary, I think you should just endure for the time being. Try to ignore, be patient. It will pass |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 10:28am On Feb 13, 2023 |
samwash: Before I talk identify yourself gender. I’m a female pls |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 10:27am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Isabi4lov: Are you a male or a female ? I’m a female |
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Family › How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by sync(op): 10:13am On Feb 13, 2023*. Modified: 2:46pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Dear Nairalanders, I’m in a dilemma and need your advice There’s this friend of mine who out of the blue contacted me last year October asking for a favor to come stay at my place a couple of days since she had an interview in Abuja. I allowed in her without hesitation since I thought it was just going to be a few days. Fortunately, she got the job.
When she got the job in October, she asked me to pls allow her stay for two months before getting her place. My people, it’s been five months already and she’s still not making any moves to get her own place.
The problem really is I am currently jobless. She doesn’t contribute anything to the house. I am responsible for our feeding, gas, electricity, everything! And I do not have money. The little money I have is from my generous elder sister who has been my helper since I lost my job. Weekends she sleeps all through while I clean the house. I also do all the cooking. She doesn’t cook.
I am a light sleeper so I get up at any slight movement. This lady gets up between 3 to 4 times every night to use the restroom thus keeping me awake all through the night. This really has a toll on me. During the day she goes to the restroom between 14 to 16 times. She doesn’t contribute to buy foodstuff but she eats 4 times a day
What have I gotten myself into. Please how do I politely ask her to leave without hurting her feelings and savaging the relationship I use to have with her. I am tired, depressed and jobless! |
Family › Re: How Many Kids Do You Still Wanna Have? by sync(f): 5:57pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
I had always wanted 3 but with my age now I don’t know sadly |
Politics › Re: Nassarawa Governor, Abdullahi Sule Praying Over The Corpse Of His Son by sync(f): 2:07pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
So sad but unfortunately all these does not matter anymore |
Romance › Re: What Happened To The Relationship You Were Building? by sync(f): 1:55pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
After 6 years of sacrifices and all efforts to support him grow, he dumped me |
Politics › Re: This Is The Tinubu They Said Can't Hold A Cup Of Tea - Twitter User Shares Video by sync(f): 10:15pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
Very funny. He’s doing too much now just to prove himself |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Course Did You Study And What Do You Do Currently? by sync(f): 2:17pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
Foreign trained Hospitality and Hotel Management Graduated with 2nd class upper but currently unemployed |
Romance › Re: Gay Couple: Nigerian Man Shares What He Saw After Relocating To The UK by sync(f): 10:49am On Jan 26, 2023 |
Who are you to judge |
Fashion › Re: Please, Is This Outfit I Got For My Birthday Too Short To Be Worn Outside? Pics by sync(f): 9:38pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
It’s too revealing my dear |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Best Do I Answer A Query? (Photo) by sync(f): 6:48pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Omor this kind query na wa o
Your manager de vex o |
Education › Re: New Naira Notes Scarcity, See What My Son's School Sent To Us by sync(f): 6:17pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Which kind school be this. See all the grammatical errors biko nu |
Fashion › Re: Please Is This Jeans For Female? by sync(f): 6:36pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
A guy does not need so much designs on jeans nah |
Romance › Re: Rate Your Relationship According To Your Phone Battery by sync(f): 6:34pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
My battery is at 72 percent but my relationship is actually at zero percent. I’m trusting God to provide a husband for me this year Amen |
Family › Re: Is Marriage An Achievement?? by sync(f): 6:31pm On Jan 17, 2023*. Modified: 9:30am On Feb 15, 2023 |
Marriage is a good thing It’s beautiful It’s one of the things I want to achieve this year, and so YES IT IS AN ACHIEVEMENT |