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Amanee:
Unnecessary epistle, I said what I said, you can go to hell for all I care

You will never be able to say that to my face if we met one on one. It's online so you could just type it. Enjoy

I am currently running my MSc program due to finish next year. My babe is a 300l student also graduating next year. I plan to move to South Africa to do my PhD and get a job as well. I have faced similar thoughts too, the girl I know already or some mystery girl in the future. I don't believe that you have to choose between career and love, you can have both. Men suffer themselves all to please done girl who had nothing to contribute when you were starting. I prefer marry a girl who was with me before I had a car, than the one who came after I worked my ass off. We have monetized love to the extent that we feel we don't deserve it if we have no material wealth. Happiness is now bought as if it were a drug. Shey una know say we go still fit die anytime and leave everything behind.

Amanee:
Go and make money bro

I hear you, shey na you dey pay my school fees for my MSc program. Shey na you dey tell my boss at work not to pay me my salary. Go and make money, go and make money, how much are you talking about here. 200k na money, 5 mil na money, 2 billion na still money. You bunch of lazy girls believe a man owes you the whole world just because you have a vagina or because e marry you. Then you want to transfer your all your family burdens on him, this one of the reason why white girls are taking black men away. They don't feel cos you marry them and so must inherit their family's financial problems. Tomorrow you claim no man can tell me what to do, not when he is doing what your father should do. He owns you

Amanee:
All I see here is lack of money, if you have money all these complaint of who finished the carton of indomie will not matter

Shey you be female, I don't blame you. You have no idea how difficult it is to feed plenty mouths who just consume without regards. He married one not the whole children in that family. That's how you like men to be stressed unnecessarily to please you people, until his BP begin to rise.

A young woman just died, full of prospects, she will Neve experienced marriage or seeing her own children, but some true at the top of the comments section are talking about masturbation

Why must you guys always play out your sexual fantasies, fetishism and obsession online. Do think because of the anonymity in online forum shields you from us knowing that you guys are just like little boys playing with their dicks like it was some toy. There is much more to life than just sex and orgasms. Think about your legacy and what you can contribute to the world at large cos even the phone your using is a product of someone's handwork. Read a bit of neuropsychology, then we can talk, you will find out yourself that you are no different from a drug addict

I know alot of people have shared their minds on this topic. I only commenting cos I have thought about it myself. If you get a girl pregnant you can never escape her, that child binds the both of you forever. But no matter how long you date a girl or have sex with her, as long as you have no living child together, you can break up with her or divorce her and you have no history (at least to the world). That's why I want only the woman I am married too, to have a child (or children) for me. Makes so much simpler and I hate complicated

I will be turning 30 by January, 1/5 of what I will want to accomplish in this life I feel I have not started. I dey calculate say patapata in the next 5 years i suppose don marry or born pikin, which ever comes first. But all these small small boys go dey drink sniper like zobo, or carry rope hang themselves. Wetin una dey hurry to die for, una no wan flex this life? We go all still finally die, but no be now, and no be say na you carry your hand take kill yourself. I wan reach old age, retire, dey sit in front of my mansion dey chill, my grandchildren running around disturbing me. Experience and enjoy the full package of life, nobody live knows what happens on the other side of death, but I'm not in a hurry to find out cos I know I eventually will. But not now. Get the hell out of your depression, what is wrong with you? No matter what it is, it's all in your head. If you're not happy, it's just you. It's doesn't mean everyone is unhappy like you. Why are you cheating yourself out of the wonders in life. I can't wait to travel to Jamaica, relaxing by the beach, sipping coconut juice. If you're depressed and you want to die, well enjoy, but some of us know that in the mist of all the BS, there are still things in life worthy to keep on living for.

The fact is this, we africans don't get married for just the sake of love and companionship. We get married to raise families strictly. Howard Webb (48) got married to his wife (42), tell me which African man will do this. Theresa May former PM of the UK is still married to her husband Philip despite being confirmed to be unable to conceive. We africans don't marry cos of emotional support, intimacy and connection, na just to born pikin. After the woman don born finish, no more love, na to start to call each other mama Tunde and papa Tunde

If you follo their mouth, you fit kill person. At least an educated and cultured woman would not have time for gossip or meddling in people's private affairs. Make una try they go school and read book. It's not just all about certificate and 'find work', education builds up your personality and gives you more control over your emotions, instincts and temperament

That's why I will never marry a woman who is not a graduate. I grew up in a face-me- i-face-you compound, and I can tell you that illiterate African women are somtin else. They gossip about sensitive issues about people that hardly know just because they are neighbors. And they have this nasty temper as if they are above the law. You either ignore them or engage them which most times ends up with incidences like this.

Benita27:
These pre-wedding photos are becoming annoying....must they join the bang-wagon?.

Is the groom not a clown?.

.... so many guys these days are bitchmade,they do all this silly shit to please the girl,then demand respect during torrential misunderstandings, it doesn't work that way.bae need to fear you alittle.

maybe you are not being a good girl

na so you go chop wetin go kill you