₦airaland Forum

Reflect7:
SHUT UP. HE IS SAYING THE TRUTH. Oyinbo asss licker.

The British ruled for 80 years, exporting our resources, and at the end we did not have a single power plant or university or expressway or industry.

Kainji dam was our first power plant, commissioned by the Balewa administration in 1964.

Prior to that the British merely imported a few industrial generators to power the GRAs they were living in, while the rest of Nigeria used lanterns and candles.

Nigeria was a near total bush in 1960 at independence with mass illiteracy and malnutrition.

What did your 'perfect white man' do with the trillions he made from our exports in 80 years?

You are VERY LUCKY we gained independence in 1960 which led to mass education investment by the black govts.

Or else by now you would be hunting cockroaches and tapping palm wine in the bush like your illiterate grandpa did under colonial rule.

it's you that should shut up. I grew up reading about the fight for independence from colonial rule and all the glorification of the resistance movement. But became disappointed as I realised they just inherited the colonialist exploitative methods. 61 years of independence and you still want to blame white people, it is estimated that Abacha only, looted about 15 billion USD as of the 90s exchange. From 1960 till now about over 500 billion USD has been stolen from public Treasury in this country. Na oyibo do am? It's africans like you and I. Paul Biya has been president of Cameroon for over 30 years, Mugabe had to be forced out, more than half of those people who fought for independence ended up becoming despots and authoritarian. Abeg me I have mature pass that one. They said the palm oil seeds Malaysia got to start their own oil palm production was gotten from this country, can we compete with them today?

isaacola57:
if ur wife agrees to want to share the house expenses in to two cuz she feels she's also earning enough will u feel intimidated.. if so then that's all u are bringing to the table

It's about the wrong orientation that people have. There is nothing intimidating if a woman shares the bills, it's just a matter of ego. Some girls are brought up to think that because they have vaginas, a man should shoulder all their responsibilities and guys are brought up to think that as long as they make money, women are to serve and worship them and they can sleep with whoever they like. It's that reductionist approach that make it look like only sex and money it what brings men and women together. That's why rich men cheat without regard because they know they can afford it, or marry numerous wives, and women who make money treat their husbands like trash cos he can't afford them. What about someone else's feelings and emotions. If Bill Gates show this country and because he is a billionaire, he wants to play game, how many women will he carry? Shey even my mama wey don marry my Papa for over 30 years go follow am, granny, groundnut sellers and them all. He go carry everybody wife even Atiku and Dangote cos dem no get money reach am

cybertruss:
I don't know her party but my children most of the time tell me that she went for political meeting.

Oga boss, I learnt this right in secondary school, there was a girl I used to like very well, but she treated me as just a friend. I jokingly told a friend of mine that she was my babe come and see insult. Fast forward the next year I was in the Uni a friend introduced me to one babe, she liked me to the extent that there was a time I didn't call her for 2 days cos my phone had issues. Baba she called my friends to ask about me like say she wan craze. You can't beg someone to love you, and if the person you are with doesn't value you, know that someone somewhere will. I was raised in a Christian home, but I figured out that if I am being taken advantage of or taken for granted I will switch to protect myself. No dey do good boy for who no get sense, it's waste of time and effort. If a woman has seen you finish and just to leave am and dey with who values you simple. All those politicians will just flex and dump na their work be that.

GOFRONT:
Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage

Even though the man has his own fault, but what most people never agree to is that sexual activity starts and end with women. If a woman doesn't agree or give consent, sex will not happen or if it does it's rape. There are many girls who never have anything to do with married men unless they don't know or when they find out, they cut off all connections. My problem is that, the op will soon be a single mother and then will start looking for a "good man" to take care of her and her baby. If guys say they don't want to marry single mothers everybody wants to crucify them. You use your 20s to do rubbish then expect everybody to accept your baggage because now your eye don clear. She will still want to date someday, and if no body reason her, na to become bitter and start blaming men for her life's issues forgetting she had a part to play. You are having sex with a married man and common condom you na no fit buy. No be juju be that

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Married women toto dey sweet no be small .

You need to try it to understand

Abi ooo. But abeg the two of you shouldn't make the mistake of getting married. Useless set of imbeciles and cretins. If their husbands come and catch you red handed that's when you start hiding inside cupboard, or crying and begging. Abeg make una go bleep one hausa man wife for Kano, una go know say not all men tolerate rubbish

Meedon:
I pray your yet to be wife stay faithful to you when you marry her. Because all these girls and boys of this generation their eye too roll.

I have told her already, if cheats on me and I find out, I will divorce her. Do DNA on the kids, the ones that are mine I will take care of them. I didn't suffer in school, going to night class and mosquito chopping me only to take are of another man's child. I no fit abeg, anybody that wants to live a useless life should do it, but don't carry our issues and load on me.

My own is this, if you want to spend your whole life bleeping several people then please don't get married. I plan on getting married next year to my current babe and believe me, I second guess it almost everyday. Do you know the burden of taking care of a woman, from what she eats to what she wears and her family members to some extent are your responsibilities. All those guys sleeping with those married women, you think they will want to cater for them, or carry their issues? I will spend about a million or more for my wedding and settling down, then make person come dey bang babe wey I set? I have already warned my babe if she knows she doesn't love me or cannot stay faithful then let's call it off. Abeg, I no fit shout, if I call off the wedding now everybody will see me as irresponsible and wicked. If you don't have a wife, nobody can bleep your wife. But immediately you get wife and you take care of her with your hard labor, everybody eye go start to shine.

I have always said this, illiteracy plus superstitious beliefs is a very deadly combination. If you check the guy who left that nonsense there is one school dropout wey no gree learn handwork but wants to live the life of a superstar. Boys have become like animals, stealing ladies pants, killing them to harvest organs for juju and what not. This mindset of get rich or die try will make this country one of the dangerous places to live in . Haba, our ancestors will be terribly ashamed of our generation, that how one wanted to pluck his own mama's eye for money. Eh, if I am rich and my mother is not there to enjoy it what's the point?

Corporate2020:
And did I praise the Yahoo boys or your brain is working at half capacity?

It's your brain that is working on half capacity. When you said leave our yahoo boys for us, whats that, as per guardian angel wey you be.

gaventa:
You are one of the few nairalanders that actually has sense. No one is justifying fraud but if reverse were to be the case, would America release their own citizen to us? Day in day out, Chevron and Shell steals our money and plunge our people into abject poverty and noting is being done but intimidated Nigerians who also don differently would come out to criticize some people just because they are not enjoying the dividends of fraud. Let us handle our issues ourselves.

just please keep quiet, shifting blames doesn't do anybody any favours. Have you ever been to the bank and see an old man or middle aged woman crying because their life's savings have being wiped out. All these small small boys of 90s and 20s, no integrity at all. Even if you give them legitimate jobs they won't do, they all want to live the life of superstar celebrity. You just want sharp sharp money to bleep olosho and do paparazzi on social media. Chevron and She'll are licensed companies who are subject to regulations by the government, our politicians collect money and don't do the needful. Whether you hate White people or not, you want to live like them and buy what they produce

Corporate2020:
We knew they all all fraudsters. Useless criminals.

But, we won't release them to you. Our politicians that stole our money and are keeping them in your fraudulent banks, you have not reported them and given us back our money. So, leave our Yahoo boys until you return the money our politicians are keeping in your country. You useless white pigs using our money to feed your homosexuals and drug addicts citizens.

Thunder strike una Mama

make thunder strike your own mama. Shey yahoo boys target only oyibo abi? So the guys who have called my mother on 3 different occasions claiming to be from her bank so that make dem wipe all her salary na better people? If you can not hold politicans in your country responsible for corruption you want to blame somebody else. Idiot scammer, read the story again, they duped some people here in Nigeria through a Ponzi scheme

advanceDNA:
U sound like u are pained....that's what these women want...they are just pressing your buttons.....stop giving them the attentions....

I hear you. These babes just dey talk rubbish, I pity whoever falls for them

Says the gender that commits paternity fraud, or play victim all the time. If you want to explore your sexuality that's fine, but be ready to carry the consequences by yourself. I have a friend that has two baby mamas and 4 kids. I don't envy him because of the numerous issues he has to deal with everyday. He can't save, the these girls show him no mercy. So please, don't think that men go sleeping around don't have issues to contend with or suffer consequences. Being a single mother is not an easy feat, you won't wish that for your sister

kkins25:
what are you actually implying?

What I'm trying to say is that, from the girls comments, they are insinuating that they are out to revenge what men have being doing for centuries. So it's payback time, men deserve what ever terrible thing done to them by women.

isaacola57:
What are men doing that women are not doing these days.. Women fight war weightlifting boxing name it.. the world has changed men don't have anything special any more cuz women are doing just about everything

If you don't have anything special just shut up. In the labour market, how many women are there compared to men? Is there any woman in the top 5 richest people in the world? See if your father not there for your mother that's you, how women have being put through school by men or opened businesses for them. If a woman start making money person will not rest, how many house wifes are totally dependent on their husbands. Go and check the statistics, there are 70% women below the poverty line and 30℅ men below the poverty line in Nigeria. All this people from dysfunctional families, if your father was irresponsible, sorry. But most men carry the burdens of their families. Is marriage competition?

cococandy:
Somehow they think that. It’s such a weird cognitive disconnect. I don’t know how they manage to confuse themselves that way.

Since this is the type of mindset you girls have, then tell your parents not to collect one Kobo if someone wants to marry you. Don't expect gifts from men, or don't get married at all, stay single to flex with 30 guys if you wish. Society pressures men to get married and be the breadwinners, only to end up with someone who doesnt truly care about him. If you date a Nigerian girl for some time and have had sex with her, but you decide not to get married so as to save yourself the future wahala. Everybody will see you as wicked, why do you want men to marry you and take care of you when you hate them so much. What do you do for us, we hustle our lives by ourselves to take care of you girls and the kids. You marry us only if we are successful which most times happens without your support, then you want to show that you have dark mind?

BRATISLAVA:


I see their complaints about paternity fraud as pointless rabble-rousing. It is men who betray other men. And some of them complaining probably have a child somewhere that another man is taking care of.

We need to institute DNA tests on all the children of mens exes to know if he is guilty of family/paternity fraud himself, too. They keep hiding their evil tendencies to betray themselves because they don't get pregnant after trysts.

As a woman, if the man that is having sex with you is not taking care of you then you don't know your worth. I know modern women are told to explore their sexuality as men do, but forgetting that most men are not financially dependent on anyone. There is more to life than just sex, the older you get you will realise that. And if you want to copy the lack of self control of some men, you as a woman have more to lose. A 50 year old man and a 50 year old woman don't look the same. Our bodies are different whether you like it or not

Well there always a misconception that all men are cheats and so should not be pitied. Small small on this forum I have come to see the kind of mind that some girls have about men. Shey una want to compete with us on bullshit abi? If I can cheat, you will do the same, if put my hand inside fire, you too will do the same, abi? No worries, I no dey do good boy for any babe, since una wan show say una get mind. Let the games begin, if you girls think that whatever nonsense a man does is what you want to copy. By the time we are in our 50s, we will see whose life don bend.

We the new generation owe it to them to live right and enjoy the freedom that was denied of them

Omo, way wey some girls sabi grow fast eh.

How dem dey tap current? Abi woman body dey conduct electricity? She is not attracted to him that's the main thing, if she was, she will openly flirt with him and allowed him to keep on tapping current. Also these people in entertainment and arts operate on a different form of rules. Close contact is essential same as semi-nudity. Go and see male hairdressers, come see better tapping current

This their marriage na contract oooo. The husband did not keep to his end of the deal, so babe had to bounce. It's not by looking happy in pictures, it more how big is your heart? What kind of sacrifices are you willing to make? Where does it end? Sharp sharp marriage no be am, na babe wey you and her done dey for sometime, una sabi una self no bi today.

So many babes are going to end up like this, same as guys who languish in jails and prisons. To survive in the 21th century you need character and foresight. Nothing free will keeping on happening forever, at some point it will stop. You have to learn how to create value to whatever you do. Not just going around having multiple affairs, sex brings pregnancy, pregnancy brings children, and children are responsibities. If you have them, you must take care of them which will cost time, effort and money. If you live yeye life without plan, realty go shock you like film

True, relationship and family issues are the biggest problems black people face. And please it goes both ways, even girls spend a greater part of their time bashing guys. The gender war online is real. Mostly because relationship issues are generic and affects alot of people. Whether women are angels or not doesn't mean I won't marry. And I promise myself no matter what happens between I and any girl, I won't let myself become miserable and blame women for all my issues. And please interracial dating is not self hate or about inferiority, people are free to love who they please. Even among africans we still discriminate base on ethnicity and religion. How many igbo men will be willing to marry a Hausa girl. Even if he did, he still will face issues from both families. Woman na woman, either she likes you truthfully or not regardless of race.

Marriage is not an easy thing ooo, any girl that has hit the streets or adopted any alternative lifestyle no be wife material. Dont go into a relationship with the intention of changing that person except they themselves initiated the change. Guy na streets oooh, just have a party and enjoy. But marriage is a huge risk on your part. Not in this era when a woman can just walk out of a marriage at easy especially if she has gotten kids

Omo the way wey some girls provoke for wetin she talk eh, like say if them see her na to kill am.

Fountainofyouth:
Is this guy for real? The stupid girl insulted all Nigerian women instead of facing the ones that particularly insulted her brother, but you have a problem that I insulted her right back? Why the hell wont i take it personal? She insulted all Nigerian women, am I not a Nigerian woman? Your mother and sisters, are they not Nigerian women? Your fellow men here now decided to take it upon themselves to quote me saying rubbish, I dish it to them right back, yet I'm the one with a foul mouth? Why can't you preach to them for having foul mouth?

Dude, if you have nothing meaningful to say, just buzz off.

How many times have girls made baseless generalizations about men in this forum? From calling all Nigerian men useless, dead beat, lazy, insecure and all manner of names and labels. But I know I am not one and I don't bother although I know some guys deserve it. That you still call her stupid and tell me to buzz off twice proves my point. That you know how to insult people doesn't make you WWE champion, are saying you won't teach your kids manners? As a married woman you claim you are, if I insulted you by calling you a stupid in front of your husband will he just watch me walk away. You can pass across your message without being rude that's my point. If my secretary insults my clients do you think she won't get fired. Nobody wants to be gentle man or lady anymore, but rude boy or rude girl. That's just ghetto mentality, in a corporate setting many of you will not survive. No need to tell me to buzz off this time cos I will

So that she use his car to be forming big girl. See eh, if showing off is what you like without working for it, then you will enter this kind wahala one day

Fountainofyouth:
The funny thing about the stupid sister is, she's also wearing 250% density wigs on her bald head in most of her pictures, and also Nigerian, talk about hating yourself and where you come from

You made this comment, you started by calling her stupid. You created the insults you received. If you are indeed a married woman, then your husband should see your comments. Because of the anonymity online, people reveal their inner self. I know some guys enjoy bashing women online which is wrong, but to think that giving them back as it is hot doesn't make you any different from them. You are just like the athlete's sister, the same foul mouth, but yet you're complaining. You took it too personal

Fountainofyouth:
I don't give a hoot if you are trying to be logical, she did not make a point cos her whole point is very very stupid for her to stereotype all Nigerian women as the same, if you cannot see the stupidity in her comment and condemn it, don't mention me again.

If you can not exchange ideas online without being insolent, bitter and venomous then I guess she struck a cord. I have read your comments in so many other topics and you sound the same. I don't know who that guy is that hurt you so deeply you take it out on everyone. I apologize on his behalf, you are complaining about her so called stupid comments, ever since the start of this thread how many curse words have you used. Rudeness has become the latest weapon for so many babes now. Read my first line again, I admitted her choices of words were terrible, and I know not every woman is in that category. My mum has a PhD and she is a lecturer. And yes I have to be logical because you are not, you are too emotional and to insult somebody dey hungry you. I am waiting for the insult.

For one black woman who supports her man, heaven and earth will not hear word again. See finish will be the order of the day. Not minding that there are millions of housewifes who their man is 100℅ responsible for them financially. It's my own determination that I will never accept financial help from any woman not even my wife. My hustle game is top notch to avoid insult and see finish

Fountainofyouth:
You dont know what 250% density means, yet you say her own is not 250% density, as yourself if what you typed makes sense.

Even though some of her choices of words were terrible, you still have to understand her point. Interracial dating is not an easy thing, the girl will get bashing from white boys who will call her "nigga meat" and from black girls who feels he is a sell out. Mikel's wife was very hurt about the things said about her and her relationship with him. Mind you my babe is nigerian, but African women should stop thinking every successful black man must marry them. You love who you love, someone who supports you endlessly, regardless of race or colour. It's not when a guy is struggling nobody cares for him, then immediately he becomes successful he must come home and marry. A lot of guys who come back and marry end up getting divorced because for the girl it was just an economic opportunity not true feelings. Both guys and girls have wise up, nobody wants liability