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awakeuche:
text me ur email address... Weird how i am never able to send mails to anyone from their profile, is there a secret to doing it i am yet to discover...

tork2bella@gmail.com

snowbaby:
Been single for a while now, not because of lack of suitors, but because we dont level up intellectually, when i was younger, i will happily date the guys coming my way now, but now "kolewerk"

i remember when i use to wallow in misery because i was single and all my friends were engaged, then i told myself then that in this period of waiting for the right man, why dont you work on yourself to be the right woman.

i then registered for a professional exam , i went for enterpreneurship and vocational training, i started my own business, i read books and became more closer to God, and thank God i have found my purpose in life.

I dont get to meet lot of guys now because i get really busy with my business and the guys that i have been meeting lately,in their mid thirties ooo dont even know what they want out of life, And with what i have laid out for my life, i want a man with purpose that ll also help me fulfill my own purpose, so i just let them go.

I admire your efforts

awakeuche:
I'd like to mail you.

Yea sure why not

awakeuche:
For a bae like cc Talk2bella, i would most definitely settle down like mad...... For me sha if i dont build my own house, i aint getting hitched

I wish you the very best dear

kayo80:
Yea, I am sure there are many out there, but guys dey furk up sometimes, which makes most girls start coding and being careful who they approach. I am also guilty of furking up. One day back when I was in school, I took a cab with this beautiful brown skinned girl. I was all decked out in Sean John head to toe...I was still young and good looking at the time, so I was used to girls giving me the greenlight. This particular girl gave me all the green light in the world, but I was feeling too lazy and didn't make a move because I was actually going to meet one girl at the lecture hall I was going too (girl that was giving me tough time o! Imagine).

When we got down from the cab, I rushed off, walking fast towards the hall. This girl shouted out "Hi!" like three times till I turned around and she made a sign for me to wait. She caught up with me and introduced herself. She asked If I was going for ECN 111, and I said yes, and she said we should walk together. Men! I hadn't seen that kind of boldness before. We talked and laughed, and as we entered the hall and I sighted the big breasted girl I was tripping for, I just said bye to this girl and walked off without even collecting number or anything. Men! When I think of that day sometimes, I feel like going back to the past and smacking the 20 year old me in the head.

I am sure you would do better this time

And so

My heart just ached

Xiadnat:
Ha.....can you youtube this reply? I like your accent and gestures and stuff... No lesbo things ooo.

Awww thanks not like I mind the lesbo stuff tho
*jokes*

I don't know if I can youtube the replies from here but you can drop your comments too on YouTube and I would love it if you can like share and subscribe

Xiadnat:


Bella from talk2bella:

Was that you in the video? I thoroughly enjoyed it!!! HILARIOUS video. I think you need to youtube more often.


Twas like watching a comedy...being awhile since I heard authentic Nigerian accent.

All you said are truth sister...."stop all these feminism shitz....singling all single ladies soong from beyonce, even beyonce is married......eh" LOL.

Gawd.... Girlfriend, you can gist oo..... can I be your friend?

Loool
Thanks and yes it's me in the video
You can check out my other videos I hope they make you laugh harder
That's the goal
Make someone happy

Promoted number 2 to number one

Demigods666:
She is not weird.

She is just a slut maybe infected with HIV/AIDS due to reckless life and wants others to follow suite.

What else ekwensu

abbey621:
There's nothing wrong in a woman asking a man out but the way we men are designed, it's just not natural. Men naturally value more what they worked hard to get or achieve. It's true for money, education, jobs and even respect. This is why I wouldn't advocate a female being so bold as to ask a guy directly out rather the best method is to drop subtle hints. Make it a priority to know more about the guy, where does he like to hang out, what are his interests. Once you equip yourself with the necessary information all you have to do is show up, the more the guy sees you the better the familiarity and the higher chance of noticing your advances. It's done in advanced societies, at colleges and at the workplace, it's the modern way of going after what you want and it is perfectly safe!

I stated those in my video
Thanks for mentioning them

Rich culture

Vince77:
Wow wow wow..... I think you are the last of your kind.


Babes like u no dey exist for any other place for this naija. Na only u remain. U too make sense

Hehehehe
Thanks
Omo I no sure say na only me remain o
We de code ourselves

Rosella1:
Op thank you for this post
*Clearsthroat
My sugar blom-blom Lalasticlala peculair words are not enough to describe the basin of attraction I have towards you. Am sorry this is coming late, I was expressed without speech the Sunday we attended service together. S'il vous plaît ma sucre! Will you be my date to my convocation dinner?

Hehehehehehehee

This got me laughing so hard

glossyfinger:
Na me asked my husband out 12years ago, he is d type of future husband I want. I am very happy I did

Awwwwww

That's awesome

mhisbliss:
oh its your siggy, I'll be visiting, planning on setting mine up soon, who knows i might need some help

All the best of luck darling

mhisbliss:
you own a blog i guess

Yea

unclezuma:
E di num mma sha...ngwa bulu gawa zie!!!

Dalu

mhisbliss:
you're really a wierdo

This is not a hidden fact

unclezuma:
Op this your foundation sha....

Wetin I go do na

mhisbliss:
indeed, now i thought unicorns are extinct, aside cutehector have you asked an actual guy out? What did it culminate into, how long did it last, did you have sex?

Honey yes I have asked guys out

I have flirted with guys

I am a very sociable person most times its hard for them to turn me down, like I said it depends on how it was carried out

You need to understand someone before you go ahead and start exposing your feelings about them to them

"Matured minds"

Sometimes they understand I ain't serious and just want to flirt, there's no harm in having a good time, men love attention too you know and they also wanna be spoilt too it depends on how the approaching was done

Once we stop attaching much importance to sex we will stop getting hurt, you're not a virgin, you're notdeliberately celibate, you have sex with a guy and then you're feeling bad why? Enjoy it and move on and if it escalates to something strong have the best time of your life.

The writeup clearly stated how to ask Nigerian guys out not how to sleep with them

Activity77:
Nne I understood the angle your coming from... The op said before you ask a guy out, get infos about him, his hangout, friends, make sure he is single etc... You have to put all this into consideration before venturing.. Matured guys abounds and that one is of age is not maturity
... Personally I will have huge and uncompromised respect for any lady who asks a guy out.. Its not easy for ladies to do so...i have a friend who was asked out by a lady.. They are still together waxing stronger... Its all about the mindset both of you have not who did the job of asking out..

They read my post and didn't even understand because all I am seeing Is sexx sexx sexx and more sexx

I didn't say this is how to sleep with a guy or have a fling with him I meant actual dating and before you do that know the kind of person he is, if he's the kind of guy who deserves your love and all that and if he's someone you want to have a one night stand with or a lengthy fling issit not your body?

Lovelynature:
lol


Just wanted your phone number. You are quite beautiful and I appreciate your posts. You can email me your phone number when you are done repairing it

Alright thanks

mhisbliss:
am not shocked just thinks it's unusual and i thought you asked actual guys out and you really kicked it off with them, didn't know its cutehector

U think cutehector is not an actual guy?

Anyway I am writing from experience and being a good advocator of not allowing men do all the work

ItsQuinn:
If you want to solve that problem, you can just ask any guy to have sex with you, and no guy in this life will turn any lady down for sex.....but if it's about a relationship or a serious relationship, just forget it

Why do y'all attach much importance to sex?

mhisbliss:
who knows, he made that preposterous declaration in a sarcastic way, you know why? Because he knows its far fetched and the probability of him taking you seriously is zero, afterall you asked him out

E go shock you

mhisbliss:
strange, so how many guys have you asked out? And how has it been for you

Read my previous comment I answered that already

As for all men being the same, u said something about your twin brother looking for a girl like me, you saying if I ask him out he won't be matured enough to respond responsibly?

mhisbliss:
met all sorts they all look the same to me

Nah hun I don't think so

mhisbliss:
wao so some of the cave men are matured sounds expensive, ask them out so they'll start getting ideas, especially the useless ones who are quick to brand someone a gold digger, my dad is the only man i know who wouldn't tag me a gold digger

You haven't been meeting the right sorts have ya

ItsQuinn:
And if he says no? What's next? Ask another guy again and again and again? That's torture if you ask me

Like I said in the writeup move on, how many guys have you turned down? So a guy says no you want to force him?

Taiofil:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in a lady asking a guy out... It doesnt belittle the lady or make the guy disrespect you any less.

In this age and time any man who feels its not right for a lady to ask him out... Is so immature and not a serious minded man. Because it takes a matured woman to do such and only i mean only a matured man would appreciate the gesture.

God bless you