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Hi Bella, you said in your advert which I saw on Facebook that we could also vent on your page abi, well I got one for you.


So I have this co-worker, we are marketers for a pharm coy, I agree she’s beautiful and she uses her beauty to attract customers which in turn generate revenues for us, she’s not stingy with customers sha, when she has plenty she directs them to me so I can make small money.


I don’t care she’s beautiful, I don’t care she uses her beauty to get us customers, now she doesn’t even show up again, she won’t show up for days and when she comes back she’s made a lot of money, why’s she so selfish? I haven’t sold anything in days, it’s like she’s with my luck, if she doesn’t come I won’t sell market.


My customers barely come back and they keep asking after her, we have targets to meet and on the days she doesn’t show I look like a dog who’s been beat by the rain, should I just quit?



Talk2Bella.



All I see from your vent is just a lazy and jealous person, her beauty isn’t the only thing attracting customers to her, her character is also a great attribute.


All I can understand from this vent is you want to keep using her to meet up sales target and when she has other business to attend to, she should put that on hold because of you, common baby girl you’re better than this.


Next time when you’re around her, watch how she treats customers, follow her steps, be humble, tell her to teach you, be friendlier and open to conversations, don’t stand behind her and let her hustle for customers so she can give you your cuts, begin to take charge.


When you have humbled yourself and learnt all these, set out on your own, don’t go to the same places as she does, get your own clientele, hustle your own targets, surpass it, give others and myself the impression that you’re aren’t a leech who just uses others to satisfy a need.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/my-workmate-oppresses-me-with-her-beauty.html

AloyalNigerian:
how sure are you..? U dnt even knw if twas fried, boiled or steamed..... Na wa oooo

or even barbequed

Realhommie:
Make una free the bride joor....

But seriously i laff too oooooo.

U no see my own forehead

herbie27:
I would recommend she fast till eternity.

Hahahahaaha

Wicked

Mynd44

PapiNigga:
This should be the best photo taken @ the wedding i guess...


http://www.certifiednaija.com/2016/10/that-lovely-moment-blossom-chukwujekwu.html?m=1

There are some things makeup cannot cover

Like forehead and some kain cheek bones

If they can make heaven

My sins are very tiny

This kid killed this pic

herbie27:
She should join fasting and prayers.

Some women sha!.

She should fast for four more years ba

richommie:
Find ur guy one or two nah

U know how we roll na.


#YOLO

See his mouth

richommie:
Did u win?


#YOLO

currently balling with it

Gladiator1:
[b] Yes ooh! Didn't u see d one dat made fp recently where dey met in a bus in 2008 n got married this yr? 8 good years [/b[

na so

richommie:
Dat diamond ring? I buy dat tin 34m. . .why u do dis to me nah?
And no be say u Sabi gamble.


#YOLO

sorry

tukdi:
My dear bella, there is nothing that scammers cannot do o!

Jay542:
You didn't talk about the sex life

sex life in 9ja

people that have been doing for six years, haba

richommie:
Wait..u don throway ,the one Wey I give u?


#YOLO

I use am gamble

Gladiator1:
Just four years n she's already complaining. I know some that were engaged for a decade. Afterall, she pressurized him

10 YEARS

Tallesty1:
Salt no dey am sef

e never even done sef

richommie:
And u re among dem shey?


#YOLO

who dash me ring

makelove2m:
How i wish all this cheap girls in N/L will read this........ most of them were married on credit................. am serious

I thought it was about money till she wrote it wasn't

tukdi:
Babe you pressurised him to engage you!


You made him throw a big engagement party for you, SMH!


Babe you no try at all!


Babe you are really disturbing that innocent homeboy!

innocent boy kor

can someone really be pressurized? into marriage for that matter

richommie:
If u re tired of wearing it. Den throw it away nah.

Who hold u?


#YOLO

lie lie o, to some girls that engagement is like marriage, they aff come to stay

AngelAhnie:
Cooked up story.

but you read it

u see the way Amara casted out Lucifer from Castiel's body in Supernatural that's how i'd eject you outta my thread

makelove2m:
How i wish all this cheap girls in N/L will read this........ most of them were married on credit................. am serious

its not about whether a girl is cheap or not, its about the society placing a time stamp in the lives of the girl child

I have known my fiancé for six years now and we have been engaged for four years.


Two years into our relationships I started pressuring him, told him I needed to know where the relationship was headed to and he should come know my parents and siblings that two years was enough for him to know what he wanted in this relationship.


I pressured him so much, threatened him with breakup, my last relationship had ended badly and I didn’t want this one to just go down the drain, it wasn’t long after this he proposed, met my people, I met his, we threw a big party and finally moved in together.


It’s been four years after that day and he’s never uttered a word about marriage plans, not a single word, I have been patient enough, wearing this ring with pride, I finally got engaged with the hope that I’d be wedded in a few months or maybe a year and its four years later, please how do I breach the marriage subject to him.





P.S money isn’t the problem



Talk2Bella.



He wasn’t ready for any commitment and you pressurized him, in your little mind where did you think this was going to end? He wasn’t ready to let you go at the moment hence he quickly proposed so he could keep you and now he doesn’t know what to do with you.


Is communication lacking in your relationship? If no why haven’t you been able to ask him why for the past four years he hasn’t made plans for the wedding, or is he expecting you to wear that ring forever?


Wake up and smell the bacon, its either he doesn’t want to marry you or there’s something important holding him back, why don’t you be the dutiful fiancée and find out what it is, instead of jumping into conclusion, wearing that ring forever or just being agitated about a wedding that might never take place.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/i-have-been-wearing-his-engagement-ring.html

Naija girls Don finish ba

#TeamForeignMen

OBTSubtle:
we'll say sorry and it'll be over because biological clock is a member of the gang

If only we were in the 60's

OBTSubtle:
We will keep cheating..

There's really nothing you people can do about it..

And we will be devicing new means to catch you people

judeefcc:
finer than your own watched your video

Hahahahahaha let nairalanderz be the judge

judeefcc:
[size=20pt] rubbish [/size] be like say i dey read madman diary

see his mouth

mhiztee15:
All these processes just to stalk your bf I will rather convert all the energy towards been a better woman

smh bf wey go cheat go cheat jare

its just for humor sake

OBTSubtle:



The funny thing is that.. He'll always cover his tracks..

see them