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Cutehector:
all I see is a scared girl who's afraid to love again..

Hecky baby, how did u jump here so soon, weren't we just chatting

Fact007:
I find is hard to be in true love again becuz years bck I dated one girl for 6yrs, 2nd girl for 5yrs and 3rd girl was 3yrs....since last 6yrs all the girls am dating are 3months or 6months and I can date 3 girls or more for 1yr but I love wat is called true love...

Diddyydiva:
The problem is the guy gave his love to a wrong person.

Unconditional love may not be returned and rare but saying I doesn't exist is a fallacy.

There's always a reason to love someone and that my friend is a condition

Unconditional without reason
Conditional with reason

There's always an attraction when you first meet someone and that attraction is a condition it's a reason where does unconditional come in?

I disagree on civil servants

Diddyydiva:
Now I know why you created this thread, you don't believe in love. You don't believe in loving someone unconditionally, You don't believe in loving someone to the extent of putting them first before you.

Unconditional love is aching for the person's smile like it is a lottery.

Giving all your best to someone without expecting back.

Unconditional love is when you are asked ' why do love him' and your reply will be ' I just love him for no reason.'

Unconditional love is when you love and accept someone with all his or her flaws .

Unconditional love is that love that holds our grannies together till death do them part.

I hardly love, but when I do I do it unconditionally. My lady there I one person out there who wants to love you unconditionally.

"Grannies"

Yes I believe in love
I have been in love
I have been outta love
I am currently in love
But I don't love unconditionally
That's when people say love is blind
I love with my heart but carry my head along
If you love unconditionally why do you leave when they cheat? Stay na shebi you love unconditionally
Why do you leave when they hit you? Aren't you lOving unconditionally?
Have you seen what people call love?
What's the craziest you've done for love?
The reason for the thread and the video isn't cos I don't believe in love I just witnessed someone almost commit suicide because he gave his 100% to a girl
There's nothing like unconditionally love let's not deceive ourselves there's just love it's us trying to give it different meanings that's what got us to where we are today
Love is love it doesn't come with a tag

Diddyydiva:
There is nothing like unconditional love




Actually there is sis

Oya what's unconditional love

When was the last time you loved someone unconditionally

Common mouth odor people break up and yet you still believe there's unconditional love common, there's love, live that will make you ask where was that person before love that would shake you and give you orgasmm without s*x but how unconditional is such love?

Without attaching emotions, can someone tell me what unconditional love means I'm waiting

Obviously most people use the word but don't know it's meaning

yorhmienerd:
You call ursef a rel. coucilor yet you believe the bolded

There's nothing like unconditional love, the sooner you know this the better, can you give your girlfriend you kidney even when you know you might not end up with her?

Dejiih001:
Love does happen naturally maybe because of maturity a fake relationship can easily be detected by me.

I no longer fall victim but the victimizer.

Coz of my experience.

heartbreaker

Diddyydiva:
I even think say having 25 or more Babes for Corner Na the break up plan



Op,


Gerrarahia mehn

see his mouth

dollyjoy:
Being independent is the best breakup plan. Most times, the "left" wails uncontrollably not because she/he deeply love the other party but because of those things that won't be enjoyed again while the affair last.

thank u, u nailed it

Diddyydiva:
On a more serious note, things I see these days makes me wonder if there is anything like ..........


Unconditional Love.


Op like seriously, Break up plan


Tf?

there's nothing like that

I don’t know why I started thinking about this, I just see so many failed relationships around me and it got me thinking, did any of them ever had a breakup plan? Were they ever prepared for something like this? Did they think it would last forever?


Have y’all noticed that the relationships which last these days are the ones which started almost a decade ago, or 8-7-5 years ago before the massive hype and invent of different social media? It’s like the more the world and technology evolves the harder it is to find true love anyway everyone needs to have a breakup plan.


I am not trying to discourage anyone from loving or being steadfast in their relationships but the way things are now, y’all need to have a breakup plan, y’all need to realize that happily ever after might not be for everyone, you might date him for just six months and he takes you to the alter, you might date him for 15 years and one day you wake up and he’s gone, PUFF! Married to another lady vice versa.


What should a breakup plan look like, it’s simple


1. Never be too dependent on a partner


2. Always have it in mind not all relationships lead to marriage


3. Before you take him/her to mama, be sure he/she is the one


4. Don’t live together until you’re married


5. Getting pregnant won’t make him stay or love you any harder


6. What are you future plans? Do they involve him or her?


7. When was the last time you were happy together?


These are perfect breakup plans, you take plans like these into every relationship, you add, subtract, multiply and divide and see if you’re relationship has gotten to the place where you begin to ask yourself these questions.


If you’re too dependent on a partner, your breakup plan will backfire


You have already started making wedding plans even when he/she doesn’t seem ready; your breakup plan is failing already.


How many potential fiancé/fiancée do you want to take home to mama?


Living together is one sure way to finish the sweetness before marriage.


Do you see him/her in your future, if no time to review your breakup plans


When was the last time he/she made you soulfully happy?


These might seem like guides to a happy/not so happy relationship but they are breakup guide, excuses to leave before it gets worse, always have it in mind that while you’re there making future plans, your partner might be dusting out his/her breakup manual.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOCigfuO3LA



Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/do-you-have-breakup-plan-when-youre.html

Curvinus:
Confidence can only come from previous experience, validations and in this case, attention from customers. The poor girl said it exactly the way it is, that her gorgeous colleague steals all the show cos she's been preselected due to her good looks, but the Bella lad didn't have the guts or do I say knowledge to tell her exactly the way it is, that life isn't fair and that not everyone is gifted with good genes or programmed to be successful.

This has nothing whatsoever to do with confidence or jealousy. It has everything to do with not being blessed with good looks, which I'm afraid is the major determinant of success in these days and time. Sad but true.

My advice to her would be to try and maximize her looks. For instance, she could wear heels to appear taller, get her hair done, nice perfume, nice outfit and nice manners. This would improve her her success a bit but not in anyway comparable to her colleague.

No matter how you dress up a pig it would still be one, beauty without good character is nothing you wouldn't even want to associate yourself with that kinda person it's all about how you relate to people not your physical appearance

I didn't get past the bombom

I can't read something like this and not cry

BuariCopyPaste:
I am not sure you operate any bank account else you would have known you can obtain your bank transaction details on mobile apps.

I am afraid of the caliber of NL members

kinggogo:
Hian, na dis wan b d new blogger wey go dey gv us headache now

Evrytym tlk2bella , as i no wan cum talk nko

EHMIR:
Lol,nairalanders are mean,i tell you.

See how dem dy attack op sev

And the thing just be like say them de pour water on top rock sef

AloyalNigerian:
...... Am i safe?, i mean i wanna remain anonymous.

yea

Bestlily:
Well,the adviser has said it all

thanks

PussySmasher:
You go just dey form story dey lie just to create small traffic on your blog.

indeed

let it keep paining you o

small traffic indeed

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Talk2Bella and her made up stories


They talk to you, you talk to them....and you bring it here for us to talk what again?


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to talk exactly what u just said

AloyalNigerian:
.....i gat issues i wanna share too.

tork2bella@gmail.com