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mhisbliss:
yea i can ask a white guy out but not the nigerian cave men different people different mentality

Nah you got it wrong sweetie

You just haven't met a matured Nigerian man yet

mhisbliss:
you're too good to be true, so unbelievable my twin bro is looking for your kind someone who will go on her knees and ask him out

Which day was I even talking about a break up plan

Yes if I am earning higher

ItsQuinn:
please explain

When I like a guy, it doesn't matter if I want a long term relationship or a fling I go ahead and do the matured thing ask him out instead of having wet dreams upandan

mhisbliss:
shes got to be kidding me ask a nigerian guy out? Ill rather die single

I reject it for you

Can u ask a white guy out?

Laveda:
she definitely will.

See their mouth

ItsQuinn:
....experience is the best teacher, and Bella is yet to have the experience, don't worry she will learn in the nearest future

Well I wrote from experience

Asking a guy out is one of the simplest task, it depends on how it was carried out

Lovelynature:
ehm nwanyi oma, I want to talk to Bella on whatsapp.

Faulty phone dear

Sorry

Email me @ tork2bella@gmail.com

Thanks

ItsQuinn:
Yes it is

Wrong orientation love

OBTSubtle:
if you ask me out, you will become my sex slave.. Don't even think about it.. Wait for me..

Even if she has feelings for you genuinely?

ItsQuinn:
Lol .....a lady asking a guy out

So you're saying it's had and undoable?

sinaj:
Para?

Shebi Sombori cannot ask kwesion again

u cannor para for me na

ItsQuinn:
God forbid bad tin

what is the bad thing that god is forbidding?

sinaj:
How many av u asked out nd how did it end up?

CuteHector

Why do ladies feel shy to ask a guy out? You think its only men who deserve to ask ladies out, do you know there are some shy guys out there who might like you but don’t know how to approach it and here’s the shocker you might also like that person but you’re waiting for him to make the first move.


There’s no shame in asking a guy out, don’t play with your feelings, what’s the worse that can happen? He turns you down and so, how many guys have you turned down? Did they die? They moved on right so you do the same.


Do things that would entice him to you, don’t be the regular girls he sees out there, be classy, polite, nice, and do nice things for him also, take him out, buy him little presents, surprise him, spoil him, men do these things for us, we should reciprocate the gestures.


Before you embark on this mission, make sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend; I don’t want you wasting your time, alright? Make sure he doesn’t friendzone/sisterzone you, you need to break out of that shackle immediately because once he starts seeing you like a sister those feelings might be hard to reciprocate, find out things he likes, know his hangout spots, bump into him on occasions, open your mouth and tell him “Guy I like you, I don’t know where this might lead but I’d like to give it a trial if you’re willing to”


Don’t let anyone discourage you that it is the sole duty of a man to ask you out, it doesn’t make you cheap or lose, you just know what you want and how to get it, some men love women who have this kind of boldness, they appreciate you and see you as someone who won’t let them down because your feelings might be higher than theirs.


What are you waiting for? Take that bold step and be happy, and if it doesn’t work out don’t be discouraged you would definitely find the right someone someday.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IW7wymUJYA


Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/ladies-this-is-how-to-ask-nigerian-guy.html

Rock01:
I am greatly disappointed at you.

The feeling is mutual

He might be a nairalander he just removed his profile picture

freesinzu:
All of them don enter gbege be be dat
But being candid do u think he's really goin to try and kill his girlfriend for the reason stated

Read what he sent, I got it 4am been shaken ever since

freesinzu:
Thank god he has a pic

different corpers like a group picture

freesinzu:
pls report that mofo before he tries to do something stupid,

Dude created a new Facebook account to send me that message and on his profile picture he's a corper

freesinzu:
Give him an alternate girlfriend

This kinda love is obsession

He can't leave
She can't leave
This won't end well

this person is really serious, checked his profile and he's been talkin about it, this girl might be someone's sister, someone's daughter, how do you revert a persons mind from carrying out a planned thought

Someone sent this to me and asked me to keep his identity secret, how do you even begin to advise someone who's bent on murder, I haven't slept well since 4am I saw this message, I need help abeg before I reply him, don't want to say something that might piss him off or make him snap



Hello,

as I write this to you I am contemplating murder in my mind. I want to kill her. My relationship with her is that of complete disloyalty to me while I have being faithful most of the three years we've being dating.

She is flirting badly. I happen to meet some of the guys she is flirting with and I got to know that we are many she is doing it with all because I don't have money to give her anymore.


Now she flirts to my face telling me I can't do anything.

I have tried to leave the relationship but somehow it has being difficult for me to leave her. I will leave and find myself back with her again and she has refuse to leave also after several plea from me for her to break up with me.

I figure out in my mind that if she no longer exists anymore it will be easy for me to move on with my life.

so I am determine to kill her if that is the only option left since she has refuse to change her ways.

I have being researching and googling better ways to execute my plan on her and I am making progress.

please note that I wrote this to you to see if you advice will help me change my mind but if not I am ready to be called a killer as long as she is the person I murdered.


please keep my identity secret


Talk2Bella


When I got your email, it scared me in ways I can’t even imagine, I didn’t reply because I wanted to put myself in your shoes to know exactly how you feel, for you to even consider murdering someone and you’re planning it so perfectly.

What I see here is an obsessive kind of relationship, she can’t leave but keeps cheating/flirting on you, you can’t leave even though you have tried to cheat, do you see an obsessive pattern here? Both of you cling to each other for reasons best known to you and this might be destructive, is this the type of relationship you’re willing to murder someone over for?

When was the last time you were happy in this relationship? You say she cheats because you don’t give her money anymore, is that even supposed to be a reason to hurt someone who cares about you? She even does it to your face and with your friends, common! Is this the girl you want to spend the rest of your life in jail for? She’s not worth it.

You wanted my advice, this is it, although it might seem impossible and might hurt you but it’s very possible if you set your mind to it, LET HER GO! Everyone I spoke to about your case said the same thing, when I got your mail I had to seek advice from some other people and everyone said why would you want to waste your life because of a girl.

Please let her go, would you be able to bear the guilt of murder? What about your parents? What about her parents? Your parents would lose a son and her parents would lose a daughter, do you want that on your conscience? Do what’s best and let her go please, killing her will solve nothing, believe me, she would regret this, she would come to realize a bird at hand is worth more than ten in the bush, let her go, you would meet someone who would appreciate and love you for who you are.


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/i-am-bent-on-murdering-her.html

Cutehector:
u lack faith..

Cutehector:
lol its a blessing in disguise... trust me, some good spirit Nigerian will get u an ifone 7 ryt now

for this recession?

Cutehector:
u should get urself a phone Dat multi-tasks

heheheeheh

u just had to come here and tell the whole world I use a small chinko phone ba

Brightgem:
Ayah just change ur name from sexyrat and ur life will never be the same again. I am tired of hearing all this my heart was broken mara, go and heal urself of the heart break love urself and forgive that person, then u will be ready again.

heheheheeh

if someone breaks up with them they will start swearing and laying curses

not all relationships last forever, some don't even last minutes