₦airaland Forum

islamics:

Good Morning Sir.
E don do from my own end as no be argument of who be Bid'a or not make ne ship in something. I believe if you agree with the real definition of Bid'a then on your own you should know what is Bid'a or not.
I only gave you few cases of the Tijjaniyah stuff ne.
Make I give you simple example, if we sneeze, we are to say Alhamdulillah ko, if person decide to say Alhamdulillah Rabbil Al'amin, hoping for more reward then na bid'a.

islamics:
Sufism is more of a sect based on their belief (Aqeedah); they believe more in worship without backing with action. A sufi may have his house invaded and will not take action but will decide to pray.
Tijjaniyah as Bid'a na by virtue of the facts that they engage in some act which is not reported and they believe that it is more rewarding. Like saying reciting Salatul Fatih is more rewarding than reciting the entire Qur'an or believing that pilgrimage to Qaulaha (Senegal) is more rewarding than pilgrimage to Makkah and lots more.
P.S: Sorry my initial response was mistakenly wiped, I just have to summarize.

islamics:
Sir I have only defined Bid'a ne. The Prophet never built his house/Masjid with modern block; can we then say it is Bid'a?
What me is saying is that SM no be act of worship, you use am or you no use am doesn't count as an act of worship.
If I wake up today feeling energized and decide to pray fajr rakah as >2 then that is Bid'a cos fajr prayer na ibadah and I did it not the way it suppose to be.
My own is that Bid'a is use only in the context of Ibadah and not general life style. There are somethings that our predecessor did and it is not term Bid'a cos no be act of worship. Rather the notable one sef na when Caliph Umar allowed/ordained taraweeh in congregation and it wasn't like that b4.

Efficient1:

Newly Miniflat for Rent in Agungi Lekki

pozehnani:
See those men above justifying rape and in a previous post, when I said all men are potential rapist, they came for my head. SMH.


#saynotorape

islamics:
Bid'a has to do with an acts of worship. That is, Something that is not part of Islam but we do it as an act of worship seeking for reward.
Nobody does social media as an acts of worship nor as a means of getting rewarded. Rather there are stuff that you might do in SM that might earn you reward or vice versa.

UtuokeAlcoholic:
Sorry bro, it is a mistaken identity. I thought I was engaging a sensible person not knowing that it is a grossly dumb personality behind your moniker.

Incognito403:
Social network isn't bid'a. Stop displaying ignorance.

UtuokeAlcoholic:
I want to believe you know what bid'a is but I am disappointed.

Incognito403:
Shun bid'a. It's dangerous for your deen.

Godoverevery:
I was with some guys on Saturday hanging out....so there this dude who just travelled to Cyprus.

The gist is the guy left without informing her despite they lived together.....the guy reason was she sleeping around which will all knew but non of us told him due the fact he was kinda a simp.

The lady post a video on her status saying how she suffered with the guy bla bla and the guy left him...... playing the victim.

Funnily someone just asked why do Ladies always say they suffer with men almost every guy at the hang out have experience a lady telling him that statement.... why??

A lady is jobless ..... you the one feeding her, sheltering her infact you the one carrying her burden 90% yet she the one who was suffering with you.

Why do Ladies feel they are permitted to have nothing / be broke

Am asking this because I no 70% of guys experience this in Nigeria.....A lady who is totally dependent on you will have the gut to tell you she suffering with or suffered with you.

Sergioaguero:
I am 24 and she's 56, do you think the relationship will walk?�

SAMTOBIJU:
1.4Billion in a time like this. Are they feeding their staff breakfast, lunch and dinner ni? Am speechless

Prussian:
Bro, it is a revenue generating agency, not a restaurant. They are not doing cooking competition in the office. Are the staff not paid salaries or are they IDPs?

Oluromantic:

It all boils down to personality and upbringing. Some are trained especially Muslim women to believe from childhood that a man does not belong to them alone.

GogetterMD:
Ipodo. A drug shanty situated right there in the heart of Ikeja, a walking distance from the GRA.
I keep wondering why nothing has been done about that place for decades now

Monogamy:
Don't just pay them a visit, increase their welfare and equip them with latest weapons to fight the terrorists, bandits and miscreants..

Enough of photoshoot

enjoli5:
As i write this message, the only hopes left in me for life are frustration, given up on life, doing it the hardest and wicked ways and perhaps just putting everything to an end through suicide.

It's been six years of unemployment after my graduation on 6th June 2014 from the University of Ghana, Legon.

Well I know someone out there reading this, will probably say I am lazy and did not try alternatives(self-employment) but that is not the case my people.

I started searching for job during my National Service but I never found one. I spent another one year after service searching for job but found none. I then decided to enroll for a professional course in IT for a year with high hopes I will secure a job after but still, I found none. With my IT skills, I pulled together a few friends to start an IT company which we legally registered at the Registrar General Department and operated for 3 years.

My motivation for starting the company was to employ myself and in the nearest future provide jobs for other young Ghanaians should my company sustain but we failed brutally and the company has collapsed. It's been 5 months of job searching again after my company collapse.

I became so excited when I heard about the army officers enlistment for 2020, I said to myself 'this is my last chance' and this must happen this time around but I became much more frustrated upon realizing people above age 26 do not qualify to apply. You can imagine how old I am now after all these years of hustling.

Now I feel my world is fading away and I really do not have a life. I feel my world is behind me now and my fears for tomorrow are getting bigger and bigger each day.

So I ask a few questions

Is it my fault I am unemployed or someone’s fault?

Am I truly lazy not to have tried enough?

Will my children ever have a better life someday?

As I write this message, the only hopes left in me for life are frustration, given up on life, doing it the hardest and wicked ways and perhaps just putting everything to an end through suicide.

endi.solom @ gmail.com

Unemployed graduate

doggedfighter:
What did your mum say to her that led to that.

Everything is fair in a war.

Rogosa:
It happened in a heat of an argument and apparently, both of them don't really have "a good" relationship. And then, boom! She called her insane! How would you handle the situation as a man? Would you punish your wife for it or you let it go.

*Sent as received*

uni69:
I'm not after money, i just need someone to understand.

SweetCunt97:
He told me some secrets, i felt him open up to me though he collected himself but in that moment i felt like his confidant, a shoulder he could lean on. Never judged him and i simply love him. When u love someone, you wouldnt hurt them.

baralatie:
what kind of story do you think a man will narrate to a woman that will not bring problem

baralatie:
it brings the issue of trust and confidentiality.
most women who want to listen only listen to what can be used against you!
that a guy comes out clean will make the woman loose interest in the man very fast