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Crystal08:
Hey guys, I am looking for answers or solutions to my situation.
I am married to my Igbo husband for 6 years now and we are living abroad, I myself am of mixed blood, half amerindian and half African.
The problem is, my husband has a son with a woman many years ago, he now wants to pay her bride price to claim his son.
Will that action give her any rights or is it only for him to be able to get his child. This woman has been calling his phone unstoppable as if she is his wife, what am I missing here? I am his wife, and this matter is disrupting the peace in my home. We have 3 children together , a son and after two daughters.

Emekaphilip360:
How is she smart ?

Birdbyrde440:
Most of air defence systems are focused on protecting the Presidential seat of power and a few other notable institutions.
Can we intercept a drone missile targeting a city like Kaduna or Oyo or Rivers? I mean an air defence system capable of protecting key cities against sustained drone strikes?

airsaylongcome:
Did you abandon Koha implementation and support?

Fryx:
Don’t blame me.

It’s not that she doesn’t love me, but she can as well love the next guy as much as she love me. She is that romantic type and I am scared.

I need someone that can love like my mum. My mum is a very rare breed, she literally died for her man.

I need a woman like that.

I know it’s almost impossible. But I am comfortable being single. It doesn’t matter.

While the lady I am with is capable, I doubt she will. She has gone through disappointment with love and she has become very wise.

The way she treated guys that love her is way worst than a feminist.


I have been a victim before too, but mine was because I hurt her first. I let her be after the insult, but forgive her when she came back.

I forgave her because I love her. And because I compare how she treated me with how she treated others, and I can see a huge difference.

She very much respected and listen to me. She was also very scared of me but I have to come down to her level a little bit so that she can talk to me more freely.

But our relationship is kinda toxic till I decided to man up and stopped playing emotions with her.

She undoubtedly love me given all I have put her through, yet she still feels sparks whenever we are together. And she still care for me.

I have never caught her with another man that I don’t already know. But, I know she is very romantic and keeps guys that can feed her feelings close by. She calls them her fish.

She is also a virgin.

I don’t have the time to play feelings with her. And I am worried she is very much engulfed in feelings and advise her to just get serious with one of the guys she talks with. But she will get offended.

To be sincere, I hurt her feelings as much as I can, insisting that I am not a feeler and she must get used to it if she wants to be with me.


We rarely call each other except if we are fighting and trying to make up again. And a week rarely go without fighting.


But you know my concern?


She wants me to be the guy that marry her.

But, I am worried that she can never love me like I want. I usually don’t even consider her my babe, and I sometimes make it clear that we are not dating. Which usually got her angry.

Although towards the end of last year, I told her the reason I don’t usually consider her my woman is because she doesn’t encourage it. But if she learn to be more feminine, then I might start treating her better.

She changed.

She call me everyday ever since. And she really want me to marry her.


Given all these, and given what I desire in a woman, how do I test the level of her love for me?


I am really not in a rush for relationship. But the truth is she had done so much for me that I can’t help but love her. But I don’t trust her. I don’t trust any woman. And the more I see her trying to make our relationship work the more bad I feel for her.

She had tried, even for a woman.

But, I grew up at the mercy of women, being an orphan, and the scar just would not heal.


I think the proper question should be - How Do I Heal From My Trauma?

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Legendguy:
The rate at which girls involve in prostitution ( olosho, ashawo, hook up, sugar daddy, friends with benefit, girl friend sexual relationship) is at alarming rate.
I was passing through a road side and I saw girls calling my attention for a night.
I'm afraid of getting married because lots of girls are involved in this manace.
I'm just afraid of marrying girl with high body count higher than our ages combined

Can someone advise on how to navigate these girls and get a good and decent girl marry?

Mind you, I haven't spoiled or disvirgin any girl

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kingar:
what do you want me to say bro

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