It is shameful to see people that this wicked policy is affecting and can't even have 3 square meals taking sides with this nonsense.

Gbaaaaaaaam. makes no sense with this CBN senseless policy. people in the rural area are already bearing the brunt.

PNomsule:
Do not compel a population of over 200million people to deposit their Old cash within a short notice. It will most definitely end in chaos. Na wa for Bubu reasoning fa

Same people that spew criticism will be here to give us update tomorrow.

[quote author=glasshouse post=119530777]I moved into a compound of 4 flats last year december . When I came in I noticed that all the flats are using estimated bill and we had our own different account number written on my gate .I then started paying #4500 per month for my flat .
Before I new it PHCN increased my own bill to #35k per month after #4500 for 3 months .
To cut the long story short I recently discovered that my neighbour used paint to clean his account number from his flat and has not being paying light bill into his account since January this year . Now PHCN



You ate the one paying your neighbors bill. Wise up

I see lots of comments and laugh. I will excuse that of the ladies but for the guys; you are all hypothetical lots. ����.

Make una go hutsle stop telling people how to live their lives when you'll will do worse.

NgwaManeatyou2:
Minority Muslims from South West are not up to 2.million.

It will end in tears.

Ah you don even count them.... wow, mathematician.

Lamba.

Nice one Easterners YOU ARE DOING WELL ����

WHAT MAD OJUKWU COULD NOT ACHEIVE YOU WANT TO CONTINUE������. KWANTINU.

YOU FOOLISHLY BLAME OTHER WHEN YOU ARE YOYR OWN SELF DISTRUCT����� "PROPANGANDA LEANERS"

WE WONDER WHY YOU ARE TOO SLOW IN BURNING ALL AT ONCE; IT WILL SAVE YOU THE EVERYDAY STRESS.

THE PEOOLE YOU PUT YOUR DEMONIC BLAME ON ARE DEVELOPING THEIR STATES AND WAY AHEAD OF YOU.

CANNIBALS.

Ageh give me his contact ooooo

pocohantas:
I got mine in a week.

Went to their office very well dressed. One officer saw me and said he has seen his wife. I said me kwa, I have seen my husband.

That was how he was carrying my file upandan.
“Capture my wife!”.

E ask for number, I give am.

Two days later I told him I want to take him for lunch. He said “haba, by 2pm? I would be working”. Of course I knew he would be working. I just wanted it to be on record that I offered. Though I knew his response before asking.

Immediately he called that my passport was out. I collected it and blocked him.

#CheersToChivalry.

I like your sense of judgement.

Boyooosa:
Either paid or genuine, this is the kind of response I appreciate when reacting to criticism and not all these quack media writers that form Voltron on public affairs.

The guy was detailed, got at the point and did not forget to make obvious the foul effort of the critic or probably, the opposition.

That's why I always think PDP needs to step up their media game, they have alot of quacks in their team

God punish u sir

Guy! You know boooooook choooooii

BRIGHT180:
Let Bako current age = x
five years ago Bako is x-5

Let Mother current age = y= 35yrs
Five years ago mom's age was 6times son's age
y-5 =6(x-5)
35-5= 6x-30
6x= 60
x=10
I) x = Bako current age= 10
From their current ages mom will ALWAYS be 25 years older than Bako, therefore b = a +25, a and b now variables a for bako age , b for mom's age.

ii) Mom's age for Bako at 5 ,a =5, b=?
b= 5+25 =30

iii) Bako age for mom at 50, b=50, a=?
50 =a +25
a= 50-25 = 25

iv) Mom's age for Bako at birth, a=0 b=?
b = 0+25 = 25

v) age difference= b-a = 25

Just in case your younger one ask for explanation

Did you say Wike is not richer than Peter Obi����;

Bros, go figure! e b fever dey do you, you must under estimate rivers state money and a very powerful Gov at that.

quote author=SenatePresdo post=113579325] Tinubu can't share 50 thousand dollars to every youth.

Peter left PDP because he couldn't indulge in the Dollar battle, not as if Wike is even Richer than he is, but it wasn't his thing.

Nigerian youths should come together and salvage this country, these elites doesn't care about us, they only care about their pockets. starting from the delegates, not to talk of the contestants.

Vote Peter Obi 2023![/quote]

Chairman, it doesn't seem like you most especially have control over your home; your brother is just avoiding more problems from your home even though he really does not want to tell you his mind but he is also pained by these developments and wish you had the balls to be a man.

If you stand your ground, watch how your brother will follow suit in his home. You think he is not pained by what your wife said about you and his wife?

Respectfully, YOU ALLOW THIS ISSUE FESTER, the division in your entire family is your fault.

Lastly, your wife careless about what happens to your family's unity. Ask yourself some deep questions;

1. Is she and her siblings divided?
2. Is she is good terms with her own siblings?
3. Is she comfortable that both families are the way they are

Omo, I don tire. Just sort urself out

Chairman, it doesn't seem like you most especially have control over your home; your brother is just avoiding more problems from your home even though he really does not want to tell you his mind but he is also pained by these developments and wish you had the balls to be a man.

If you stand your ground, watch how your brother will follow suit in his home. You think he is not pained by what your wife said about you and his wife?

Respectfully, YOU ARE ALLOW THIS ISSUE FESTER, the division in your entire family is your fault.

Lastly, your wife careless about what happens to your family's unity. Ask yourself some deep questions;

1. Is she and her siblings divided?
2. Is she is good terms with her own siblings?
3. Is she comfortable that both families are the way they are

Omo, I don tire. Just sort urself out

I hope patients are not shot on their way there.

Abeg! 08026404509

Young man, basically your problem is not the porn you watch but your mind.

Although it's a direct influence as consumed by your mind but; what you allow is what you will become slave to.

The cure & battle ground is YOUR MIND.

Every day we see things to make us just want to go commit crime,ritual,steal, fraud etc and make huge money as social media being a direct influence but have you done any of those (Don't get me wrong people do) but have you?

Be determined to let go of whatever is an unhealthy concern which in this care you have 2 but only see one.

They are both Porn & Masturbation.

My argument is that your can watch porn with an open mind and not be influenced to the point of masturbation addict. You have a weak mind and self control.

No offense pls.

The hard truth is; this Assembly regardless of popular opinion has fared better than the previous in bills beneficial to the masses.

I believe you Papi!

1. If you really want to get rid of her; Just do it by also letting her know the way forward. Just blocking her won't solve a thing. Be determined.

I did that too and I have never looked back.

2. If you still want to have her as fling; please define it and ensure to totally keep it a fling and never bring ur family matters to her attention or anything about your personal life. Let it stay that way.

It can be onerous to outrightly get her out of your space, heart, head as it may even take months. It requires self determination and realization of the greater deface this potends.

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* Lagos cleared.
* No fault.
* Parked since delivered never been used in Lagos.
* Car is parked in Ikoyi.

Owner just retired and want to relocate.

CALL: MR. PETER 08026404509

2009 upgraded to 2010 TOYOTA CAMRY UP FOR SALE DUE TO OWNERS RELOCATION.

08026404509

Good day,

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WORKS IN PERFECT CONDITION; NO ISSUE WHATSOEVER. SALE IS DUE TO RELOCATION.

Call: 08026404509.

I know a nurse who first doubt the existence of the virus especially in our shores; now she is clamouring for FG to make provision for kits to personnel/health workers.

Doubt it at ur own risk, an Indian man died few days ago in lekki - a close friend to my Indian client.

We doubt it in our own very domain but expatriates stay locked up and are so well informed more than we do.

That's not funny one bit; let's grow up na

WandaNara:
Coronavirus please when are you visiting the National Assembly & Aso Rock?

ArmaniUhuru:
Why Italians like to dey spread diseases sef. It was also an Italian that brought Ebola to Nigeria.

A Liberian sir/Ma. Get ur fact.

By all means run away from this system.

Your wife has total disrespect for you mum. Will she allow issue fester and unresolved between she and her mum? Or haven't she and her mum had any issue u know of? Or didnt her family invite guest/frds for the wedding?

I use to seek advise to mend issues in my home but I made a resolve to handle issues as soon as they arise and without 3rd parties.

E685:
My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.

Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.

Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.

Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.

Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.

This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.

And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.

So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it.

What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

If it was the other way round will your wife see reasons with you for not being interested in her family or making any effort to allow for peace

I won't tell you what to do as I believe every man should know how to handle their homes... I wish u well in this continued quagmire.

E685:
My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.

Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.

Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.

Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.

Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.

This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.

And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.

So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it.

What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.