₦airaland Forum

talented321:
Untimely death..
The mystery of life, no one till today can't come up with the pure purpose of this life..
Death can take you anywhere, be it church, mosque, street, inside ur own house..
We all are just waiting for our time..

stop saying untimely death. Quit reading the bible too much. Death has no time frame. It can come at anytime

Emeskhalifa:
How can one become NIMC agent?

you wan join the thieves abi

Cameraman f*ck the man up

GbemiTrabaye01:
Save some money and move to LAGOS!!! Move with a mindset of not going back to Abuja no matter what.

thanks but cant live in lagos

blackpanthar:
I hope your wife is UNDERSTANDING and RESPECTFUL despite your predicament, MOST WOMEN WOULD LEAVE.

Now, about your issue..... hmmm

If you are in ABUJA, why not attend DUNAMIS and go for proper deliverance.

MAD WOMAN AND SEERS are not GOD.

You may be tied to ABUJA because of a gross mistake you made years ago.

You also shouldn't have rushed into marriage when your finances are not settled.

Bro, you need a FRESH START and it is not about LOCATION but MINDSET.

Attend KOINONIA too whenever you can and be active. YOU WILL SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY.

These are the genuine places of help I know in ABUJA...

Asides all these, I hope you are prayerful, you give alms and do not abuse your wife..... BLESSINGS WILL SURELY LOCATE YOU THIS YEAR WHEREVER YOU ARE.

I am a Muslim and its against my faith visiting churches. Thanks though

Jeon:
I like Men that can die for love and marriage.
😁😁😁😁😁😁

can you do that?

HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

WantsandMore:
Aren't people scared the landlord can give quit notice after furnishings?

my thought too

Most women who are once respectful and submissive became something else the moment they are through with child birth. No respect again,nag at any slightest argument or issue and other negative attitudes. Why is it so?

I married my wife with the proceeds I got from POS

I hope this is not the case of OTILO

larryUG:
Baba, I spent close to a million for my baby stuff.
What you need to understand is that baby things are generally very costly. Secondly, escalation has taken a toll on the prices of things . It seems a lot of people have not taken into account the effect of the naira losing value in the economy
I gave my wife 350K initially but she bought wasnt substantial.
She added her money and i gave her additional.
BEd alone is 170k-200k depending on the quality. Breast pump (for when your baby my not have the mum around) is 50k in the market. just these 2 items have taken 220-250K out of your 400K. now talk about feeding bottles, diapers, clothes (there are several types your baby will need), Powder/soaps, baby oils, shoes, other stuff, wardrobe alone for kids na 120K. Haba

shut up. Babaolowo

Elidrisy20:
Why are you not eating pig?

because God forbids us from eating it

Skyfornia:
Honestly...400k a month with two kids and a wife..even expecting another baby? That money won't be anywhere enough to carter for 4 people. If your wife is not working, I suggest you look for fund and set up a business for her to argument your present income.

400k too small for family of 4? Are u kidding me?

AsomughaChuks05:
Senator Ifeanyi Ubah should shut up. Governor Chukwuma Soludo is right to label him a man of questionable character. This is a man whom billionaire Cosmas Maduka of Coscharis Group publicly accused of duping him and Ubah had no defence to clear himself. It is no secret that he also doesn't see eye to eye with Innoson whom he beefs probably because Innoson is a much better business man than he is. He is virtually at war with his Nnewi brethren who are disgusted by his shady character. If a character like Ubah is allowed to come close to the seat of power in Agu Awka, Anambra is gone because he will use the state as collateral to collect loans to revive his comatose tank farms in Lagos. A chronic debtor and crook will not be allowed near Anambra state treasury.

Mechiegi onu there. Why is it that any politician that decamps to APC automatically becomes an enemy of indigbo like Okorocha and his successor?

We need this law in Nigeria as a matter of urgency

[quote author=Double0h7 post=127656997]Damn! But why you gotta make the man out to be some villain? Did you not read the part where he has raised this child? When he was paying school fees and rent did he pocket his money? Small change comes from the deadbeat dad and this father becomes a villain according to you.

Your take is toxic and rather childish.

God knows i never liked that lady even b4 she became a minister

Is it right for a husband for demand for any money sent to his wife by her ex for the support of a child she got for him,ie the current husband's step child? Worthy to note that the child has been living with them for close to ten years the husband married the mother and has been paying the child school fees and feeding

badspirit:
Jesus is your one true lord and saviour.

This did not give clarification on what the writer wrote

Dont bet with what you cant afford to lose

FalseProphet1:
18 years. I bought my MTN Sim in 2005. Then the sim pack came in a disc plate. They were selling it 10k.

This I have seen.

same with mine. The disc and carton still intact. Though bought mine in 2003

AwokenVawulence:
Probably not , 1.everyone is born into sin and must first accept Jesus as his personal saviour before he can be saved.
2. If the child is male and uncircumcised he can't enter the kingdom of heaven

at ur age,you still believes all new born babies are born as sinners and so will go to hell if die as infant?

EbolaTinubu:
Ebola Tinubu is a disaster and a disgrace

Nothing seems to be working in this shithole

Are you OK? Everything you blames Tinubu. Is he the cause of your inability to feed?

misreal:
He died well.I wish to meet my end while preaching the gospel

Well you know where to go and do that.

DKM123:
Don't take loans from online loan apps, una no go hear. Una go collect finish come dey disturb us say dem dey drag una brutally. Dem force you collect am?

Una go dey do like say dem use loan swear for una. You borrow every where when it's not a matter of life and death. Stop living above your means and know your level. Taking loans you know you can't pay for is stealing by trick.


Go and pay your debts and stop being a nu!sance....

Keep quiet there. The fact that life never hit you hard to collect loans does not mean others can't when they don't have other means

frozen70:
Since she has the money to buy land in her place

I think you can still convince her to another land in the area you guys want to settle down

So that you can build and pack into the house to save rent

If she brings up the issue of the one she already have in her place

Tell her the city one is more important where you guys can know leave

She can as well sell that one to get the one in the city

But if she refuses, leave her alone

If you can save buy yours

message not clear

Tinubu would have said such if he had lost the election

Lonestar124:
Buy your own land and develop it, nobody knows tomorrow... only God knows!!

Most of cases am attending as a legal custodian of a recent range mostly on divorce and marriage separation... peace!!!

The high time we understand marriage is an contract and can be terminated at any given time, the better for us.. peace once again!!!

Thanks

Bluntguy:
Even before you started typing this you already knew what you should do, except you are a mumu man.

please what do you suggest

My wife suddenly presented a non-original transfer of ownership of land brought in her name and in their town claiming it was a surprise. Now as a married man or about to get married, what would be your reaction if such is presented to you? Would you start developing on the land or shun it?
Remember the land was brought in her name and in their town( we are from different state)