SageMK:


He didn't set out to be a single parent.

He set out to be the best parent he can be to his children and as far as I can see, that hasn't changed at all. So?

Anyway, the joy of having a dad that's there for you no matter what is second to none. Every kid deserve that.

Some men will impregnate women and then run away.
They wouldn't even pay a dime to better their kids life but will spend on sex, alcohol, drugs and slúts...

Well sooner or later they'll realize that not being there to watch & support their kids as they grow will be their hell on earth. When they aged, everybody will desert them.

Please Dads out there make the effort.
Be loyal to your kids. Don't forsake them.

itsmeurLady:
Before i begin the Gist, lemme start by saying "Happy New Year to All NLanders! Wishing You All a Fruitfull and Productive 2019!"

I have joined Nl for quite a while now but i started taking it seriously when i got out of the Uni. Nl encouraged me through some posts to be serious and active with my LinkedIn account. From here, i got a special somebori @intelligentdude (not boyfriend ooo) that helped me profesionally create a CV for my jobhunting experience. Yes, Your Cv and cover letter goes a long way too. I never for once got rejected anywhere i submitted my CV + Cover letter but that's by the way. I Was active on the job/vacancies section here on NL and applied for jobs (excluding bank jobs tho). I also got past questions from here as well, some i bought, some i didn't buy . So i applied to a Graduate Trainee Job in an Oil firm as a Customer Relations Officer and after so much waiting,coupled with the Grace and Favour from God, i finally Got the job and i came here to say Thank You to NL and all the amazing people who continually post jobs on these platform, i am really greatful and also to the owner of NairaLand of course. May the Almighty God continually bless and increase all of you for impacting people's lives daily. Thank You Very Much! I also met a wonderful friend here on Nl, he has been a blessing to me as well. In other words, Nairaland is not totally useless like many think, it is what u make of it at the end of the day, Stay Focused and Positive!

You might be wondering why i am writing this and talking plenty but that's because you don't know how it feels to be jobless and you dont know what it means to be favoured out of many. Just like the story of the 10 lepers, i have come to say Thank You to this FORUM! For those who are still hoping to get employed someday, just hold on, you will share your testimony too. Continue applying and make sure you are doing it right, God's Grace will see you through some day. Dont Give Up, God is not done yet! it wasn't easy for me, there were days where i cried, some days i gave up, some days i felt depressed but i never lost faith and confidence in God. Against All Odds, i believed in myself and i believed in God.

Don't be idle if you don't have a job yet, get or learn a skill like tailoring, shoemaking etc and still be applying for jobs because one thing is to learn a skill and the other thing is to fund your business but just get a skill on standby and God will see you through.

Thank You Nairaland and Nairalanders!!!!!!!!!

Please I need someone to help redo my co and help.with LinkedIn profile. Any recommendations ?

temmyneyo:


Is that possible? Can I tell the VFS guys that I am not ready to submit my passport or how do I do that?

temmyneyo:


I work with ABinBev and I will also like to go Belgium for my Holiday, are you advising that I apply through French Embassy or through some other Schengen Countries?

luxy44:


What is it you don't understand?

A widower (the pastor) that decided to marry again?

Or an unmarried woman with 2 kids that found love?

How is Christianity practised?

checkedout:

Mynd44:
IVF.
Let people know so they can also get this kind of happiness instead of thinking it was a natural birth and them also waiting 20 years before doing the needful

MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.

praisefulmum:
Good morning mothers of great nations, please does anyone know any great fertility clinic in Netherlands especially The Hague, I will be there for 2 weeks and wanted to know if I could see a fertility specialist to rerun investigations. Please not just an Obstetrician or Gynaecologist but a hospital that also does ART(IVF/ IUI PROCEDURES). I need this info urgently as I would be there by weekend and I am finding it hard searching for one since there's a Dutch language barrier. CC:- fvine , sugah , seanbell , alwaystrue , loisemm , Ladyguinivere , sixx , twingirls , udoka2 ,inwangobio ,dreamsincbc , Arlington , psalm23 , prettymomma , Mumihaja , mamakendra , wonyi , Legendsmother , henmaris , agiboma , foe123 ,conyeama ,oleayo22 , ziondota , blendy77 and every other mother on this thread who can find information. Thank you.

CHYMZZY:
Too long to read..
Can somebody please consise or summerize this for me..

tensazangetsu:
That airport is a disgrace. What of the fact that you have to dish our 500 naira to use a trolley. Something that is free everywhere else in the world. This country should be sold to China and the money shared for everyone. Useless country.

onweprincess:
my husabdn noticed my depression and asked what the matter was and I told him that I dont know why his sister is always saying that she does not know who our child resemble is it because she knows about our ivf success? To my surprise my husband screemed did you tell her? and I said I tought she is aware since you two always talk about my pregnancy failure on phone so I told her during that time we had fracas over the girl you were charting with on phone, when she asked me how far? I said but please pardon me I tought she is your best among your relatives because of the way she hovers around you and you two always talk even in the mid night. as am typing now My husbabd is not at home she does not talk to me, he only tell the little girl when ever he is going out. had I know he did not tell her about the ivf I would nt have tell her
I happily told her because I thought we are all in same boat heading to getting pregnancy.

nkem79:
doctors in the house, please i need information on cheap IVF, i have searched online with no success. please help!!!