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Guys let us stop wailing about HND/Bsc and put our destinies in our hands.The truth is we have to move pass this HND matter and there are so many organisations i believe that still take HND graduates,multinationals,at least i have five of my classmates working in MTN and they all have HNDs plus ICAn of course ,i finished from a polytechnic too ,if you ask me there's no pint in going there,after my HND i got a job as a full staff somewhere and in the process was studying for a Bsc,i moved to a bank as a contract staff and eventually became a full staff after four years ,not full staff with conditions o ,real full staff.Work your path yourself,leave other people and face your life,i am still looking for better jobs and all my colleagues who even has an HND are doing much better than me,stop complaining and move forward and imorove yourself |
you obviously have seen the AS thread,it is well with you ,i had a phone consult with Dr March and he said he has loads o patients from Nigeria,scars may not reform if you see the right person,i know it's no small money ,there was anoda dr that was recommeded in indis,though he's a C-lister ,incidentally i spoke to him years ago when an uncle wanted me to gp to india.The name i thinnk is Dr Vivek Marwa,Sir Ganga ram hospital,he sure would be affordable ,na our Naira dey mess things up really I have a schedule of the A,B and Clisters i could send to you if you want it,you can also do more reasearch ,seems a lot of ladies used regular drs and still got result,i even read of someone who used a doc in uch ,though i can't verify that.I think the starting point is to see someone in Nigeria first who will be realistic with you,incidentally when i spoke to Dr March he said he refers people for follow up at Premier,Dr Osinowo,if you feel up to it you may wanna try,my opinion though,but i personally won't allow anyone to touch my uterus,i can't afford Dr March too but in the mean time i will be watching,the truth is you may be lucky getting someone in Naija but it may think more than two or three.Another friend told me of somewhere in Egypt which i s really cheap.God will guide you Xtiana250: |
Hello dear, With ashermans please do not be in a hurry to do the surgery.I had three ivf cycles in a space of ten 10months,the first one I had no follicles,the second one the xfer was difficult, so I was almost sure d ivf had failed,immediately I was asked to do an hysteroscopy and it was discovered I had adhesions, incidentally I had done an hysteroscopy a year b4 where a false passage was created in the womb,so my last xfer went to a psuedo cavity.Anyway na me even sauy could this be ashermans?I have done a lot of research abt ashermans and I understand not all Gynaes or FS can fix it that sometimes they may cause more damage,there's an asherams support grp on yahoo, they have a list of top A's B's and C's Dr's that specialise in AS.I have read stories of pple who did not have periods for 10months and after sugery they had periods and even got preggo naturally.Adhesiolysis is blind surgery so it's a no no.Like somone said she has only one womb and she will not allow anyone mess it up.I had a phone consult with one of the surgeons highly recommended and am hoping to see him sometime soon.Am at a point where I won't leave my womb for anyone to touch abeg.Na only one womb I get.Be guided well please.The first hyst I did in Naija was done by an FS in Lagos, medical director and he messed it up.God will guide you on making the right decison.The ashermans may be moderate since you still have a day cycle.All the best Xtiana250: |
@ HD yes Dr Emeka does provide excellent service no doubt but it's ok to let people air their views,let's not take anything personal.I am currently doing a training on customer experience so people do have various experiences,i have also used an FS that everyone i know used him has gotten bfp and i still have not.(However i got a diagnosis i have never gotten from another FS with him )If it was before i would have said the FS is not good but IVf is a game of numbers,i just think people's expectation should be properly managed.If u are lucky to get a bfp at the first attempt good for you,if i use an herbalist for ivf and get bfp after my first attempt i probably will worship the herbalist I used Dr Emeka in 2013 and i still called him this year,he did not pick but he later returned my call and i was shocked when he called my full names on the phone and that really blew my mind away but not everyone has pleasant experience.Let people be free to make informed decision Let's just say sometimes patients and drs have their bad days ,i am a service specialist myself and there are times i want to slap my customer. There are IVF clinics i do not think i want to ever visit but people are getting results there so y not? |
Fortunately and unfortunately ttc is in itself crazy,the reality is that the cost of doing business in Nigeria is very high and like most business owners they just take advantage of people everyone wants to make money,some few years ago i wanted to use Dr Ashiru and i was told he was not a gynae,i still do not know how far this is true but another doctor told me you do not have to be a gynae to do IVF,Fertility specialist and gynae are two diffrent things completely,the reason why most gynaes do ivf in Nigeria is because it's quick money. I have used Emeka before and i do not know if he is a gynae a not even me with the little experience i have now with ivf i can decide to start.I have been treated in the past by someone who never went to study medicine at all and he does fibroid surgery for people ,of cos my sixth sense told me to run for my dear life. If you have been lucky to get pregnant through ivf in Nigeria,i say congratulations,some of us are not lucky yet,if you work for yourself and you can afford to go outside the shores of Nigeria,please do while i do not really have anything against any of them i just feel most of them are more interested in collecting your money than carrying your child.Why would a clinic for instance tell me to pay NGN5mm for several tries,i get the impression this FS don't even do their best to make it work the first time TTc is bad enough,if you are an agent on this platform tell your bosses to show some care to their patient,there are cheaper options,india,egypt and SA.My friend got her BFP in egypt after several attempts in Naija,ultimately it is God but agents should please pretend to care at the least.I want to leave my job but the only thing keeping me on the job is ivf money.Very soon Ivf will become so so cheap ,it's a matter of time And if you can adopt or use surrogate please do cos we are not getting younger and we just need to move on with our lives and stop putting our lives on gold. |
When did the job of a CFO become an entry level job.I know abt this posting and am aware Citibank's CFO just left tutusaint: |
Plus I have family friends all working in reputable organisations who stopped at two kids,there's a lady in my church who has four children,for a whole session her kids did not go to school cos no money for sch fees, the person who helped her pay the sch fees is a manager in a bank and she has only two kids,and she's said it clearly she's done,her last child is 7 already,my madam dt can't pay sch fees is pregnant again with the 5th unplanned as usual,my former MD had only two I wonder y pple with less means have a dozen,there is no free lunch anywhere be responsible abeg |
benedictnsi:With all due respect to the men folk a lot of men are becoming selfish and just irresponsible,so how do u expect the woman to care for six children.There are too many wives that have become bread winners even when the hubby has money.Men need to sit up and realise that what makes a man is not their 3rd leg,if there is no govt what will happen,very soon this will become a norm when the hubby sees that the govt has come to their aid he will come back home.What happened to the dignity of labour?Women will be killing themselves working and men will be watching African magic and even have the guts to ask for food?This is sad |
@ Lady Guinvere how are u,been trying to get in touch with u tried sending u a PM but not sure it's been delivered,noticed u talked abt PGD in previous posts.Have you heard of genesis genetics?They have der HQ in USA but a branch in SA now and they are reasonable depending on what you are testing for All the best |
Madam, Respect urself o and wear some sense,that pregnancy stunt na lie.He won't marry u, so move on u are still very young don't be decieved abeg too many men just talk nonsense how can u even entertain the thought of been a second wife at 25 smh he VICTORIA91: |
All the best in your search You are a virgin but we do not know if you have sexually molested a child Virgins know your type and if they have too they will fake virginity by all means Not a bad idea to marry a virgin but i have met a woman who married as a virgin and slept with more men as a married woman I went for a training on child sexual abuse in church and we were told that when people are in constant adultery its a sign they were sexually abused man and woman inclusive My stand has always been let him that stand take heed lest he falls.All the best in your quest for a virgin SeverusSnape: |
I work in one of the banks on Allen and our ears are so full of all this fraudulent dealings, when I nd to buy or sell usd I call one of them into my office we have been using him for years.Unfortunately there's so much defrauding going on around there.you are even lucky,a woman had bought $10000 from them and before she got to the banking hall the money was missing.If you nd to do business in Alade look for someone trustworthy if not it's a no no,most of the yoruba guys der have faked the hausa accent so you will think u are dealing with an hausa man.I do not think the hausa pple are guilty.I have even had to confront one of them before and pls don't do business with them at night abeg |
In the last 4weeks I have read at least one sexual abuse story every week. I think all men need to make a decision to protect the girl child,i can't imagine that man sticking whatever he calls it in his dota's mouth.We shld be more concerned about that innocent child cos if not properly rehabilitated ahes a potential prostitue,adultress just name it.I am yet to see or hear of someone who sleeps around who was not sexually harrased as a child,a lesbian was sexually abused and the cycle continues.Not only fathers are guilty,uncles are,neighbours are,aunties are,thankfully more women are getting empowered and knowledgeable that's y we are hearing all this.Every woman shld get a job o so that when you find yourself in this situation you don't need one yeye inlaw to tell you to keep it in house and then start worrying abt where ur nxt meal will come from,women also abuse o so it's not just the men.Let's all take the responsibility to watch over the kids around us |
Weldone girls ttc is all abt been proactive and taking laws into your hands o Not all abt the Dr's, u just have to be your own advocate My FS told me something I completely disagree with.Not that he means any harm but I think he has limited info on dat mata,so I googled people who have had similar issues and what they did.Keep asking questions,if your FS no get answer ask Dr google.I have read stories of peole who were told they will need a surrogate but out of curiosity they researched Dr's who could fix their womb and they eventually got preggo and naturally sef.Like a friend said there are people who know their job well.Seek them @mamacajay I don't know how to access mail on NL I clicked on d link and it took me to my Gmail but I can see any mail from you.Would appreciate if you can send a one liner from ur private email again abeg |
mamacajah:@mamacajah congrats I believe so much in alternative therapy pls pm me on dketubah@gmail.com abeg |
olubankemi:she used them this year,Egyptian Air goes there and I hear visa is on arrival, |
It's amazing how people call 1.8mm,5mm or even 2.3mm like money is picked on the streets ,i know not less than ten people who used other clinics and got BFP either after the first or second attempt and some spent less than 1mm.My friend got her bfp after just one attempt in Egypt and she said drugs were abt 100k(NGN) and procedure was about 14,000egyptian pounds,meanwhile she tried severally in Naija.Personally if i have 1.8mm i will go outside the shores of this country,i know it does not work abroad all the time too but i will rather spend 1.8mm somewhere outside the shores of Naija than Naija,while i do not discredit Naija clinics cos truthfully they have tried,they still need to urp their games.In doing ivf make we sharp up and not get bankrupt in the process abeg.If you are having repeated implantation failure and you have had fibroid surgery,or a miscarriage where an evacuation is done i think you should google uterine adhesions. |
famouschildren:Gestone is 690 per. Vial o ngo to H medex pharmacy, there are so many branches in abj,even for clinic na 1500 per vial |
God Forbid,no plane crash anymore in Naija TDonald: |
zizle87:Pls pm me |
YUNGLURD:Guys too shld stop putting women in d family way when they are not ready for d responsibilty,this is a matter thet ahld be collectively solved by both sex,women shld focus on maling der life better and men shld please Zip up abeg,and that includes serious relationships cos if u get belle nd d man no wan marry u no matter d love he has been professing u go turn single moda overnite |
nwachivis:Sincerely I blame the two of them for opening up to u,have u ever impregnated a girl before cos while am not justifying their abortions,don't forget that a woman can't impregnate herself,someone got her pregnant.The decision is urs but u guys shld cut some slack abeg,i have met virgins who still never get belle five years down the line, sometimes also infertility may be an issue with the man's sperm,sincerely I feel u shld let go cos it's obvious u will run away at the appearance of any challenge,people have aborted three times and have four children,people have married as virgins and still praying for children.I think a lot of men do not deserve to know the truth sincerely cos they just can't handle it.Don't think u are doing her a favour by marrying her,marriage is good but women are becoming to realise that if it does not work life will continue,the choice is yours,i think evry man shld know that once they are marrying a non virgin they shld prepare their minds, na man dey give woman belle what if the person that impregnated her insisted on d abortion and she just was confused,she did not know what to do.Make up ur mind oga,if u break up with her at least she now knows she won't tell the next guy say she did abortion.Let him who has not sinned throw the first stone people |
Naijasinglegirl:I am so tired of men and God and prophecies,am so tired,pray to God urself, let no man deceive u,God's prophecy edifies,it does not bring Fear it brings peace, even when I hear God abt somethings I keep it to myself,who send dem msg.Kenneth Hagin of blessed memory who all this men of God use as a mentor said he can count the no of times he has heard the voice of God,when God speaks to me it brings peace and assurance and it's always quiet.The bible say all of us are gods we are all men of God,let's stop listening to all dis permutation,gosh.God get work to do for heaven o chai |
U know I was reading my bible y'day and I noticed dat most of the miracles Jesus did had no condition,while I do not agree or disagree with what his pastor said I think I am so tired of Christians depending on pastors for instruction from God,the gospel is so simple and that's y we are missing it,i want to start living in d simplicity of the gospel,tired of all dis bondage pls,Jesus did not ask Zachheaus to return what he returned,na self righteousness dey worry am,my advice is go to God urself just like he talks to your pastor he will talk to u,make no man of God buga mi abeg.abi woman of God too,there is no big deal in returning certificate just be prepared to start all over,but Jesus did miracles for pple without even referring to der sin.That's the Jesus I choose to follow,talk to God urself nd know ur God urself that's what he desires enuf of all dis men becoming intermediaries |
@ op a lot of businesses are affected by the usd matter too,someone close to me is really affected too but what he did was to quickly diversify,the postponement of d elections also added to that most foreign coys are taking der money from naija,the easiest place to make money is in Naija,i like the decision u have made but at the same time u can't just decide to relocate cos a business is not working well,i work in bank nd evry year we are faced with the threat of who dey will sack at the end of d day we shld all have plan b,this same Canada u wan go too some pple wan come back to naija cos from d canada,God will guide u aright, |
There is God o,i used Emeka once he no be dupe o infact he is the only doc my husband really likes since we have been on this journey, I went back to see him and he said how much are u willing to pay,i always tell pple that Emeka is someone I can owe though I had a slight misunderstanding initially I guess it was a communication prob but in fairness to Dr Emeka,he's a gd man o not a dupe far from it,and if anyone wan tarnish his image I think it's too late cos his work speaks for him |
@my testimony thanks for the response are you based in lag |
Hello fruitful mums please o someone shared her bop story I cannot remember who it was but she said she was complaining of frequent trips to fertilaid and she had not seen the doc,pls am trying to reach her or anyone who lives in lag and is been treated at fertilaid Abuja,someone also said she used m2 tone and had a bop can the person Pls just chat me up on this forum ,for those who used m2 tone at what point of the cycle did u use it |
[quote author=IsiButtercup post=27057974]Unless things have changed, considering my kids are 3 years old. Back then, everything was done in the main hospital at George's. Maybe they started Olive afterwards.[/quote@god mercies George's also runs a fertility clinic my dad had a baby boy this year from George's at 52 though she got married late like age 49 |
I did not completely read this piece but I think I have a fair share of what the op is trying to say,unfortunately I completely disagree with you as this thinking rarely exists anymore,y do u think some babes will even sleep with a man to get a job if they can as well marry a rich man,yes when we were all in school we fantasised about getting married one day and having kids but the reality is the economy we leave in now makes the woman financially independent too and any woman who is still fantazing about marrying her night in shinning armour should please have a job cos woman your finances matter in the scheme of things o,infact the kind of men out there now no wan marry jobless babes o,so while you are out there dreaming plan your life,no man wants to marry a full time house wife anymore,can't even believe some people still think this way |
Sincerely if u pray hard nd tell God what u want u may not have ss at all Iknow of 2 families that are both as nd have 4 kids each none of d eight children is a sickler anoda option is ivf with PGD where they select the embryos dat are sickle cell free nd implant back ,pgd in uk is abt £5000 excluding d cost of Ivf or use donor eggs |

