₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
This woman is right! According to Islam, a woman's money belongs to her. So the woman is right in determining that in her Islamic marriage, her money should belong to her. Unfortunately for her, the arrangement also determines that since she is her husband's property in marriage, he can decide whether she can work during the marriage or not. 😒

For non-Islamic marriages, however, these rules do not apply at all. 😒

Second time you make sense to me

TylerForbes:
​Every day online, you see the same exhausting debate: “What does a lady bring to the table?”
​Men are angry because they feel women are hypergamous, and women are defensive because they feel men are cheap. But if we are being completely honest, the men who aggressively scream "What do you bring to the table?" are usually guys who are still struggling in the trenches or just starting to see small money.
​
When you are broke or managing a startup lifestyle, you naturally look for a Co-Founder—a woman who will split bills 50/50, help you pay rent, and endure suffering with you. That is valid for that stage of life.
​But once a man breaks through and begins to build a real empire, his operational requirements completely change. A wealthy man doesn't need a woman to bring raw capital, business partnerships, or financial assets to his table. He already owns the table, the chairs, and the building the table is sitting in. He doesn’t need a co-founder. What he needs is a Sovereign Partner.
​
When you shift from building wealth to protecting a legacy, a woman’s value is no longer measured by production, but by preservation, discretion, and peace.

​Here is what a high-caliber woman actually brings to a wealthy man's table:
​
Peace (The Ultimate Asset)
The business world in Nigeria is a brutal, chaotic battlefield. A man handling high-stakes deals, regulatory stress, and constant market pressure cannot afford to return home to another battlefield of drama, unnecessary attitude, and emotional instability. A sovereign partner provides an environment of absolute peace. That peace is not passive; it is a critical infrastructure that resets a man’s nervous system, sharpens his decision-making, and prevents the burnout that destroys empires.

​Gatekeeping and Risk Management
Men who are focused on aggressive expansion often miss subtle social cues. A high-caliber woman possesses an incredible, highly accurate skill for people's hidden motives. She can spot a snake in your circle long before you do. She acts as a secondary security layer, vetting friends, business associates, and hangers-on. While a chaotic woman is a massive liability who leaks your secrets, a sovereign partner carries herself with a level of class and discretion that protects your brand.
​
The Culture of the Estate (Legacy)
An empire that dies with the creator is just a temporary business. To turn wealth into a generational dynasty, you need a woman who can govern the internal culture of the home. She ensures your children are not raised as soft, entitled rich kids who will squander your hard work, but as capable successors who understand power, discipline, and responsibility.
​
Stop looking at relationships through a poverty mindset of “Can she buy me a shirt?” or “Can she pay for her own food?”
​If you are a man of substance, you don't need her money; you need her character, her loyalty, her emotional maturity, and her peace. She isn't there to lay the bricks of your empire—she is there to ensure the foundation never cracks.
​Build your wealth first, become the player on the chessboard, and you will realize that the highest value a woman can bring to your life cannot be quantified in a bank statement.

I can't believe I just read some long line of Rubbish, using your startup analogy.
Would you employ someone who add no value to your startup, all in the name of I am made? Absolutely, No.
In any relationship, including employee- employer relationship, you need someone who brings value to your table. Not some dirty fingers to my table to eat.

As a man, I don't need her money. I need something greater than money from which include intellect, loyalty, submissiveness, among others. Because I need someone I can trust to help breed my next generation while I am busy making provision more readily available for them.
Yes, a woman must bring something to the table, beyond her look, shape, and VJ.

This one be terrorist ko?

Rubbish post, rubbish title.

Y'all taking them too serious, threat them like they are worth and watch them worship you

Moral of the story?

Roseodd:
Yes they said the percentage is not up to 300k
I want to do something I can make money and travel out 2028 latest

18 to 20% of 7 millions is around 1.4Millions, I don't know what you are expecting.

Personally I will put 50% that is 3.5 into T-Bills, 35% into stocks, 15% into cryptos.
Note: This is not an advice

Roseodd:
The percentage can't fund my life style

On top 7m

Roseodd:
Should I use my 7 million to buy mini bus or I should buy Treasury bill please
I need urgent advice please

T-Bills all the way

ifinger:
So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak

And, The moral of this epistle is?

Awọn Ọmọ Satani

He should apply for America Visa I want to see something

Cum4me:
Here they keep giving us estimated bills. Looting the hell out of innocent citizen. The government has promised to give prepaid miter for over 8 years now all the money they impose on prepaid miter are looted no promise was fulfilled. If every household has prepaid miter this extortion from will end. APC is a disgrace to democracy

If it's a private residence, just tell them to disconnect from the main source and go solar. With 3 to 4M you can have a 15kva solar setup.
Trust me, after disconnection they will still bring bill.

abidez:
A room and parlour selfcontain (mini flat)at ori-okuta,agric, ikorodu
Price:#500k per annum
Agency:#100k
Legal:#100k
Caution:#50k
Call:08033001168,07087754261

How did you arrived at 100k for Agency, another 100k for Legal?
By law, 10% for professional fees (Agents and Lawyer).
Iṣẹ oloriburuku leleyii.
Dey fear God abeg

Thug King, Orí Adé lẹ́wọ̀n. Ṣẹ̀kẹ̀-ṣẹ̀kẹ̀ lọwọ, Ṣẹ̀kẹ̀-ṣẹ̀kẹ̀ lẹ̀sẹ biti Ọbọ̀.
Ọba lọ roko Ọba ni.

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

She mean you are still poor for her liking

Hunger issue, remand the father in Mental Institution.

Kobojunkie:
A simple one actually! There are no measured benefits to virginity, only imagined ones. And this likely appears to both men and women. 🥱🥱

To you or to me?
How do you know what gives each of us benefits?

On what Authority are you presenting this?

What if the satisfaction is to satisfy my imagination?

Kobojunkie:
Fortunately, women have finally realized that many of these are mere religious delusions/traditions meant to keep them subdued and subjugated rather than offer them real-world benefits. I suggest you realize this and begin moving away from these same delusions for your own sake. 😒

What sense can we make from your response

Elders, where are thou?
Your Contribution is required

Let the elders contribute

Slizzords:
Good afternoon everyone, I know that nairaland is filled with a lot of reasonable and experienced people, am a young man and I need guidance please.

So am married with a 8 month old baby, and make about 1M naira monthly for the past 3years now , it's not been easy from a financial aspect because we live in lagos and I discover that as I write this, I don't have up to 3M naira to my name, I don't know how money disappears, please note that am not a lavish spender, I don't party or go clubbing.

Please how do I save more money, because God forbid something happens now I don't have any money to fall back on. No landed property or anything. Please I need help thanks.

Where do you reside?
Where do you work?
What car do you drive?
Those are the major ways money disappear in Lagos.
Your proximity to work, the car you drive, your residence location.

Lordhanzo:
evidence abi ? Hope you know people re wording with these bandits. And do some where caught

Any Lesson or Sense in your post

Obapluto:
oga stfu.. which report u want? It was fking clear

You are an epitome of Gullibility

ekineme:
Yen yen yen!, women and children, Ayotollah the SL, yet the same regime killed 100times more of their own citizen, yet non of you typed women and children. Tagiyah or what do u guys call it..

Any evidence beyond western report or you were their?

Declaration of Love,
I told her I love you.

Lordhanzo:
I mean. Why is the whole country silent after this revelation . Kwara states govt under Abdulrahman. Through the commissioner of police victor olaiya, has been the one sponsoring and arming bandits in kwara …. Just the way bello did in zamfara.



Tinubu and the dss can’t say. They re not aware.
Y is everyone quiet ? The Apc govt is sponsoring terrorism all over the country. Well meaning Nigerians have to speak up. Or it could be your relative getting beheaded in the bush someday.

Do you have evidence for your claim or just another Beer Parlour conclusion

keysha22:
I am of a sales representative and a secretary in a company at ologolo,lekki

Male or female.

Will prefer one who stays around the location

Send a mail to
kellydicta@yahoo.ca
With subject(, sales representative or secretary.

Application for the post above,
First Name: Tanigororo
Last Name: Banigororo
Gender: Make
Salary Expectations: ₦1,200,000/month
Work Hours: 40hrs/week

1Million Naira of Nigeria CBN issued Money
At least Na body I dey buy

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I recommend him for psychiatric evaluation

Mandate1:
was there no dialogue in existence ever since? When dialogue fails, what do you do? Iran will be unpredictable with a nuclear weapon.

Will you call that dialogue or bulldogging, how çan one country tell another country to give up it's defence capabilities or you will blow them up.
This is like somebody telling you to remove your house lock so they can come to loot your house, and rape your wife; Else they will come loot your house by force.
Will you accept this if you have self dignity

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